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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok heres my situation. I met this guy online about 2 months ago. We met after talking for a month. And hit it off. Since then weve seen each other one time. Because everytime we set something up to met he backs out at the last minute saying hes tired etc... He tells me all the time that he likes me alot but doesnt want to change. In the beginning we text' night and day. After the second time of hanging out the next day he didnt call or text. He said he thought we were getting to close to fast. I feel like I have to give him an ultimatum now. Either you want to try and see where it goes or you dont. Im so confused, I like this guy but im not going to wait around until he figures his stuff out. And now its gotten to the point to where he barely texts or calls. Do I give up? HELP!
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reader, xanthic +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Don't even bother wasting more time on him, he's just not into you. People can have legitimate reasons for suddenly being a little distant, i.e. something came up in their family or at work, but even in those situations it takes a minimal amount of effort to send someone a text just to let them know what's going on. Even his excuses for canceling on you are pretty lame.
It seems more likely he's too much of a coward to directly tell you what's going on with him. These things happen, for all you know it has nothing to do with you or something you did. With that in mind, try not to dwell on it. Brush it off and move on, hopefully you'll find someone that's mature and knows what he wants.
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