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How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?

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Question - (31 January 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2011)
A female Nigeria age 36-40, *rancheska writes:

How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i want oral for complete satisfaction

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A female reader, IrishGal  Ireland +, writes (24 February 2011):

If he is not comfortable with it then that is it, if it where the other way aorund and ou wernt comfortable giving head then you wouldnt like if he tried to ''persuade'' you otherwise. You must respect his boundaries.

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A female reader, francheska Nigeria +, writes (1 February 2011):

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francheska agony auntThanx All, ur ideas are self encompassing,am gonna try them all in one way or d oda on.Am grateful!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (31 January 2011):

Honeypie agony auntMaybe suggest you do him while he does you? Straight up 69 might work.

Though if it is something he really doesn't want to do why try and "make" him?

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (31 January 2011):

Illithid agony auntIf he won't give you oral, you shouldn't give him oral. Fair is fair.

But besides that, perhaps you should shower with him and get hot and bothered while getting squeeky clean, so he can't complain about odor or hygiene. If you're bushy, consider trimming it down. If he still refuses just because he's uncomfortable, then he's getting "uncomfortable" confused with "selfish" and he may not be compatible with you.

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A female reader, Blonde68 United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2011):

Blonde68 agony aunt

Has he actually said why he doesnt feel comfortable about doing it? Like someone else has already asked... do you shave? Do you consider having a strong odour down there (and I mean that in the nicest possible way) because some women, despite showering daily, still have a strong smell or taste down there.

BrownWolf is spot on... cream, chocolate and strawsberries are brillant during foreplay, and he may be keen to try that.

However, you really can't force him... its no different to a woman going down on a man and not swallowing... its not everyones cup of tea.

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A female reader, No watered down advice here! United States +, writes (31 January 2011):

No watered down advice here! agony auntYou can lead a horse to water BUT...You can't make him drink! He's not into it! You need a sex toy that's call an Electric Tongue! It's GREAT!

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (31 January 2011):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Are you shaved? or waxed? And then cover it in whip cream :) Chocolate or strawberry.

Some guys have a thing with hair.

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