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writes: dear cupid,soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as he is not really in a place to date right now.i was afraid that revealing my feelings for him would kind of ruin the friendship (i've had that happen more times than i can even count), but thankfully, it didn't. we still text each other all the time, and usually, our conversations last for about two hours.there's just one little problem. it seems like this guy is literally horny all the time. every time we talk, we always end up talking about sexii stuff and what we would do if we were face-to-face. then, he'll say, "i just came," or something to that effect, and the conversation always ends there.i can't deny that i kind of like talking to him this way...because let's face it, everybody needs to let go of a little bit of sexual tension every now and again...and honestly, most of the stuff taht we talk about is stuff that i would gladly do with him if i got the chance. plus, it's funn to talk to him when he's horny, because i think it's funny to tease him and get him all worked-up and such (i'm sure some of you other ladies on here who have dealt with horny guys will probably agree with me about that).at the same time, there are days when i want to track him down and stuff him in a freezing-cold shower. i mean, contrary to what it may sound like, i am most certainly NOT horny all the time the way that he seems to be. there are days when i want to carry on an actual conversation with him...meaning that i want to talk about stuff pertaining to more than just sex. the problem is, i don't know how to go about telling him that. i mean, i don't want to hurt his feelings or anything, and i definitely don't want to mess up the friendship. he's an amazing guy, and i want him in my life...but i want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner." how can i get him to see that?
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