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writes:Ok, Im straight always have and never thought of the same sex in any matter but im and open minded person about gay lesbians different cultures and all and i have alote of friends and family that are gay or bi bt i wouldnt never thought it would be me on the other foot. Well i have a friend that came back in my life that was there when, i was lonly and depressed from friends and females and relationships that didnt work out and i was sick of love! We first met when we were in our mid teens but now we linked back up hung out everyday im in my 20s and hes in mid 20s...but he very quiet and just like me but im more open (talk to other people and jus a koo guy). Well we hung everyday we always had deep convos whether sober or drunk lol about girls past xs and hwo they did us wrong and yes gay conversations have came up and it jus shoots as a general convo. I just got out of a long and crazy relationship and i been single of 3 yrs goin on four and we became friends a year n a half ago. He been there more then other friends again have been there hes been in my corner at all times no matter, like a true friend shloud be, and hes open minded. Also i started relizing that i liked him and then grew into as i wanted to try somthing with him and just him but it took me a while to relize that he has voided that alone feeling i had and thats what came about.. I have said i wanted to do somthing with a doode and told him and he was talking me through witch made me really wanna do it with him. It was jus a try thing nothin more, becasue i love the ladies lol but i told him i had a dream about him and me and he replied as "thats all we did" lol and laughed about it witch was koo but he did replie as well you know thats not my thing and all that and i was like ok thats cool., But the hard thing is like we kind of argue like a couple i mean not to much like i show i have an intrest in him and he acts normal, nothing changes, i feel he knows that i want to do somthing but wont show it til i make the move? so im wondering should i, i mean either way i know i wnt loose him wether we do it or not bt i do want to now jus to say i tried it...bt if not its koo...so somebody help me out?
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reader, II_Seraphim_II +, writes (31 January 2011):
This is a hard one. One thing I've noticed about guys is that they tend to take the whole topic of homosexuality serious. There is a chance that were you to make a move it could completely destroy your relationship.
On the other hand, your friend seems like he may be interested, and if he is not, he seems like the type of person who wouldn't freak out and break off your friendship, but instead would just politely say that he isnt interested in you. It would be awkward for a bit then everything would get back to normal.
So basically this is your choice. There is a slight chance it could ruin your relationship, but if you feel pretty strongly about this, I say go for it. I would rather know than live in regret for never trying.
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