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Should I stay with my boyfriend... or not?

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Question - (31 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *B 21 writes:

Am I wanting to stay with my him(bf)? Every time that I he gets close to me. It just doesn't feel right. I don't even let him kiss, hug etc. No more. Sometimes I will let him kiss me b4 he go to work. Cause usaly that what would a couple would do before leaving each other. But not on the lips. Like I said just a little kiss. But it has gone so far that I don't even do that nomore. So I am asking. What dose all of that mean? And is it to were I don't want to be with him nomore?

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A female reader, just a female New Zealand +, writes (31 January 2011):

just a female agony aunti think only you can know if your ready to leave him or not. are you trying to rekindle a flame that went out long ago? trying to hold onto something that has died? thats what is sounds like to me. i think maybe your love for him has died and its time to move on with your life.

that kind of thing happens you think your in love and then a couple weeks later you find your self going through the formalities just because you think you should.

it could be you just need some time and space fromeachother though? maybe its gotten to a point when you just want some space.

im sure hes realised that you dont feel the way you once dis and it would be easier on both of you if you took a break and sorted out what you want out of your relationship.

hope this has helped.

xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011):

If he is just a boyfriend, and you won't even kiss him goodbye when he goes to work, why are you still with him? He is just a boyfriend after all there is no commitment.

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