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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does the 3 day rule still apply?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Does the 3 day rule still apply? I know it is kind of old fashioned but i'm just wondering if men in particular still go by the 3 day rule? Does it still apply with texting, chatting online, phoning and everything? I have a wonderful guy and i don't want to seem annoying, ... (100 words)

If he doesn't want a relationship then why is he jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy friend we are exclusive but not together we took a break for a week with non contact but when we came back into contact he says that i was becoming to jealous and didnt trust him thats why he took a break but when i told him that i was talking to another guy he ... (93 words)

Am I asking too much from him? I feel sad and confused and unloved.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age - Hi, I'm hoping you can give me some advice or even help me get my heart and brain around me and my partner... It will be 2 years this month for our relationship, we should still be in our honeymoon stage wouldn't you think.. I feel unworthy,ugly, not attractive i guess my list ... (495 words)

Would it be ok to give my ex some self help books?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I know I am going to get a lot of negative comments about this, but I would like a suggestion nevertheless: I am just out of this thank god short relationship with a guy who clearly falls in the commitment phobe category, lots of push and pull, putting obstacles in the ... (287 words)

My ex interferes with my new relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a bit of a problem and dont no how to get rid of it. I have this new boyfriend not been together for long. But my ex who i split up with a year ago is so interfering. I split up with him because he cheated so many times and just put me through loads of stress. ... (225 words)

Husband is impotent and no idea why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) age - What would you do, if your husband , suddenly becomes impotent , but you don't know why? My husband got impotent ,pretty suddenly ,after he lost his erection middle of intercourse a few years ago . Since than , he can;t get a normal erection. He also has no desire for sex a... (136 words)

Condom or No Condom, Which feels better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey guys, is your amount of pleasure decreased at all by use of a condom? Or do you get the same amount of pleasure either way? Have you ever done it with a woman who used a female condom? What is your best description of the physical sensation when you do not use a condom, for ... (88 words)

Despite my better judgment I fell for her and now I'm hurting

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So confuse, i need to express myself and hear an advice or something, is my first time telling this. two years ago when i was twenty. I met this girl 5 years older than me at my job. We click, i liked her friendship.But she was interested in experiencing with a girl,so she to... (513 words)

Do men ever do this during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men ever like to press the head of their penis against their partner's clitoris, and rub it up and dawn hard?... (22 words)

Boyfriend says my past makes me unclean

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really down. I have been with a guy for about 2 years now... He is a sweet guy that cares for me and goes out of this way to get me what I want. The problem is hes 2 years younger.. people say age is just a number and I know that. But I have had a boyfriend before him ... (196 words)

I don't want to be biracial!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 year old boy named Cherno. I am a mulatto. I was born in Sweden, my mom is Swedish and my dad is Nigerian (African).I lived in Sweden before moving to Canada. It is not easy being of two races, but I always identify myself with white. I wanna be white, not black at ... (297 words)

Can you get pregnant from humping with underware on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - can you get pregnant by humping with only the females underwear on? no sex, just that. he didnt cum right on me or anything but he did have a little "pre" cum. idk what thats actually called. ... (40 words)

Stick it out with the current boyfriend or go after ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for four months, and two months into our relationship my old love became single. i haven persued it, although i know i have outragous feelings still for my old love as well as my current. my current boyfriend is amazing, he is stuck it out ... (153 words)

Why would he do this? and How do I move forward after he lied to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend so much. I just recently moved in with him(his idea). We have been looking at condos together, we talk about getting married and having children one day. He asked me to start managing his property so we can get more property and start working on building our ... (789 words)

Do I break up with ogling boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote a while ago regarding my boy friend ogling other women. I did not see him for 10 days, I asked him for a short break. We do not live together. I have told him many times that his ogling other women is upsetting me and he has to either help me or leave me. He d... (448 words)

Paranoid and scared about boyfriend cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have only been exclusive for a short while. Three months. I am 17 and he is 20. I can't help but feel insecure about the relationship lately. I do love him dearly and he tells me he loves me. I do believe him. I can't stop thinking he will/is cheating... (208 words)

Romantic easy breakfast for girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Now, I know this question would probably be more suitable in some food forum but... I hope you guys are there for me ;-) This Saturday, my girl and I have six months day, and it's a bit of a milestone, since none of us has ever had a sweetheart before. I sleeping at her place ... (126 words)

Hes coming on to strong and this isnt what I want

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 16 year old girl and I went to a party two weeks ago and really hit off with this absolutely lovely and beautiful guy. We have been texting constantly and have been out a few times for long chats. The thing is that he wants a relationship and all the trimmings, and I in ... (131 words)

I'm ready but do I want to lose it just yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok ill try and keep this short. Im a Male of 16 years of age and still in secondary school. In year 7 - 8 I went out with a girl who i really like and to be honest i havent liked anyone as much as i have liked her. I recently found out that she likes me again and well we have ... (265 words)

The ex didn't invite me to his birthday party and I feel hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he do that? or am I overreacting? I rang my ex boyfriend today and he asked if i would sell him my old phone (i got a new one). i told him i'd let him know. he says he wants to get rid of his phone cos is betraying him like he betrayed me. he cheated on me, lied... (154 words)

I'm not sure I should be using the medicine doctor gave me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, need some advice, I'm starting to feel really down and depressed. Last year my doctor changed my contraceptive pill to Yasmin, saying that for my age (I'm 18) that it would suit me better. For the last year I have suffered from thrush twice, maybe even three... (247 words)

He says I shouldn't talk about the past and should just trust him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, My BF and I have been dating exclusively for 3 months (dating 4). Should he be in love with me by now if we're seeing each other 3-4 times a week? I'm concerned he's not over his long-term partner which was followed by a painful unrequited love. He says he's rea... (108 words)

What my girlfriend really wants? I'm so confused now... Please help!!l!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help me! I can't understand my girlfriend now, i can't explain it so please let me copy and paste our conversation. Is she testing me or what does she want really?? If she wanna go then why doesn't she break up with me? Why she want me to start the break up first? Did ... (1361 words)

Husband "stalks" his sisters and neices, shouldn't I be disturbed by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Husband "stalks" his sisters, neices. I find his behaviour creepy, embarrassing and weird. Brief background, no they are not overly close. They have been in and out of each others lives every few years or so. We are all in our late 30's (with exception of neices (early ... (195 words)

How do I convince my friend to forget about this guy and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my good friends , let's call her Kalyn has liked this guy, James , she barely knows for two years. They used to talk as good friends but once out of elementry and into high school they stopped talking. She's liked him ever since they stopped talking , I kind of feel bad ... (143 words)

How do I come accross as nice guy even when her boyfriend is around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well my friends and i are going to the cinema tomorrow and the girl i like is going as well and i want to show her that i can be a nice guy because i think she has a little thing for me but her boyfriend who is coming with us treats her like rubbish and i want to show her that ... (96 words)

Any advice on what I could tell her to furthermore explain to her that she doesn't need a boyfriend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For this I am going to call my friend.. Kate. Kate is a very pretty girl , smart , athletic ,and loves to party! The only problem she has is boys. She usually comes to me for advice on them , because I am usually the one to listen, But I've ran out of advice to give. She always ... (188 words)

I saw my ex girlfriend cheating. Should I get involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this girl I used to be best friends with, lets call her Sydney, but when this new girl came along, lets call her Amber, all of a sudden Sydney was leaving no time for me and always hanging out with Amber. Amber and I didn't like each other, and that was clear to ... (207 words)

Didn't hear from her for months. Do you think she still cares?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this gal ages ago about October last year online we have been talking a lot until few months ago i emailed her no reply for some weeks. i got a reply today does she still love me and why has she replied so late to my email??? please help please thank you ... (54 words)

I want to lose my virginity before my next birthday, but there's still no one special in my life.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is rare nowadays, I know, but I am still a virgin at 31 years old. I've had opportunities to have sex before, but I didn't act on them because I promised I wouldn't have sex with just anyone. I don't regret that promise, but here I am, at 31 and the sexual tension has ... (814 words)

How to I get her attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i like a girl and this girl kind of dislikes me i dont know why...she in fact knows that i like her and she plays dirty being more interactive with other guys especially when i am around (hugging, flirting etc etc). She also doesnt talk to me much as much as she does with my ... (100 words)

Do I stay with my GF who I'm comfortable with, or pursue the new girl I can't stop thinking about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. So, I've been dating the same girl for two years now. Things are mostly good, except we fight a lot, have different personalities, and dont really have many similar interests (i.e. she gets pissed off when I spend a day watching sports). We are seniors in college and I'm ... (331 words)

Should I meet my ex coworker? We are both married and I am unsure of her intentions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I worked with a woman a few years ago, and our relationship at the office got very intense. We worked together all the time, and this woman, who was my superior, had my office moved next to hers so we could be closer to each other. We are both married to different people and ... (316 words)

I lied. How can I pretend to be good in bed with no experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've told all my group of friends that i'm not a virgin and they all think i'm good in bed, i've never said i am but for some reason i let off that i am. The thing is theres this one guy in my group of friends who i really like and he likes me, but i'm not letting things go ... (156 words)

How can I trust and love my new partner after what I've been through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid hi im jst startin a new relationship and a year and half ago i fleed domestic violence also lost my 4 children through it. my new partner is the most loving person and caring but i think im pushing him away because im scared because of my last relationship please ... (67 words)

GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but she said that she was a "slut" ... (176 words)

I am worried about wearing a revealing swimsuit. I need some advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going to be going on a trip with my school year (about 200) and im going to have to wear a swimming costume, very tight diving suits and lots of revealing clothing that comes with the activities. my problem is that i'm about 12 stone, 5'5, and i have lots of pubic hair (and ... (103 words)

My BF's political views are self destructive. I will be leaving and I am worried about what he will do when I'm gone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I think my boyfriend is delusional and lost. We're both 16 and he's confusing me so much. We come from different backgrounds. I live a comfortable middle class suburban life and go to private school. He goes to a rough school (People have been killed/stabbed in that school ... (440 words)

Do you have any advice for someone who is separated from their loved one because of work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am very concerned about how much time I crave to be with my partner. Her job as an international guide makes it difficult for us to have any time to see each other. She is always overseas, out with friends or at the office. She is pressed for time so feels I'm adding press... (379 words)

Questions about intercourse and condoms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey guys, when you have sex and are using a condom, do you get more pleasure out of putting it on yourself, or would you prefer she was the one who put it on? Also, when having intercourse, do you ever feel the head of your penis touching her cervix? Do you ever get in that ... (72 words)

He's with someone new but still calling. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Question: My boyfriend, now my ex-boyfriend said during our relationship that i "scare the sh*t out of him." He said that he's not ready to settle down. But neither am i. I'm a nice girl, sweet, smart, and I've got my stuff together (good job, etc). We broke up and he'll ca... (197 words)

Is the fake cigarette anything like the real thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I just tried one of those fake cigarettes that help you stop smoking but is it anything like the real thing?... (21 words)

Don't want my ex to know he is the father. Is it right not to tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm pregnant with my ex's baby. He doesn't know yet and I'm debating about him ever knowing. I left him because he hurt my pets and was very mean to my son (who is 2). He would call my son names, say that he would grow up gay and things like that. I don't want him t... (115 words)

I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ... (48 words)

I worry that one day he'll wake up and realize that it's her he wants.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in this 3 year relationship with this AMAZING guy. He and I have recently just came back from a 4 month trip in Europe. We have big plans for the future together. We are currently starting a business together, so life has been really stressful since we've come back to the ... (311 words)

Girlfriend has broken my heart. I don't know how I am going to cope. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me 3 days before we took a trip to Texas to meet my family. We get back and she continues to go out every night (shes 21 Im 30). She comes home 3 nights ago wasted and refused to tell me where she was at. Then she proc... (226 words)

I think my friend is moving in on the boy I like. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive met this really sweet, nice, cute boy and well we've been talking too each other for months and we told each other our feelings for each other. I told my friend all about it and she was just happy for me, but my friend and the boy i liked have been texting and phoning ... (104 words)

Men what is the right number of times to call?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Men how often would you like for a woman, or your partner, to call you in a day or a week where you would not get aggravated when you two don't live in the same house. Thanks... (37 words)

I always get bored. It's happening again. Why and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and i think of myself as a mature adult, i want to have that long term commitment with someone but my problem i have is that i become bored in a relationship very quickly. I am usually loud and very out going, and i enjoy the chase, as much as i say i don't... (273 words)

My parents argue all the time. I don't know what to do about it. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello there. I'm so sorry to bring up this sad story to you. Ok the story is: my mom and dad can't handle each other. They just can't stay together and talk in the same room without arguing on somethings, fighting with words, rising their voices not caring about who s watching ... (215 words)

How do I start my life over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my life as not been a good ride since 1999 when my father died, and 2006 my son died of sudden death, and 2009 my brother also died. due to having 4 children taken away from me and put into care as i was emotional. is there anyway i can start a new life not remembering the ... (64 words)

Just friends or just games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

6 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I recently met a man online, he seemed nice, and would contact me everyday and also added me on a well known social network. We became close over the weeks. Both of us agreed that we were not ready to meet up just yet as we are both cautious after meeting online. He is in ... (153 words)

Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them? I am very in love with my girlfriend and we have been together since the beginning of 2010. A few months prior when we were "dating" I put myself in a very bad situation. We all were out drinking and one of ... (200 words)

Stepmom instigated Dad and older brother to beat up my BF.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me + my bf(15) have been dating 4, 5 months (the only thing we do is kiss cus we decided 2 wait.) my step-mom hates me so last nite we were sitting their watching t.v. (my step mom was home the whole time) so she told my dad + big bro he was "on top of me" so they came in + ... (112 words)

Should I marry her while I still have this desire to be with men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a lovely girlfriend. We've been together for a few years. I want to married her and start a family soon, but there is a problem. Back when I was in my twenties, I made a very bad decision that landed me in prison for almost a decade. While I was there I was sexually ... (248 words)

He is not the same since he started drinking. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - He use to be so nice and sweet but he has been drinking and now i don't know who he is. He has just changed and its scaring me. What should i do? I think i might love him but i don't know him anymore.:( Please help me!!... (48 words)

Men, do you like to kiss the vulva during foreplay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Are there any men here that like to kiss the vulva during foreplay? If yes, you get a lot of pleasure out of it? When you do, do you give short quick pecks, or longer ones?... (36 words)

He likes me only as a friend, has a g/f but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this boy at school we've been friends for ages but a couple of months ago I started to like him more than a friend. I spoke to my girls about it and they said that I should tell him because if I didnt I would regret it incase he felt the same way. Well I followed ... (168 words)

Can a man truly love two women at once

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Question- can a man truly love 2 women at the same time? A little history- I am married so is he. We work for the same company but live in different states. We have fallen in love which is crazy I know. We have never been physical but have hung out together in meetings... (317 words)

Thinking of my ex with someone makes me feel blah, how do I move on from this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently felt like I've gotten over my ex, it's been almost a year since he broke up with me. He's not in my life but we have mutual friends on Facebook and to be brief: I kind of got the impression that a girl likes him... it sounds so immature haha but yeh anyway for s... (129 words)

My husband isolates me and treats me poorly. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband does not want me to work. He wants me to stay in the house. He does not want me to have any friends. He does not even want me to have any money. When i complain of something or when a problem arises he blames all on me. He tries all he can to make himself right. He n... (126 words)

Why does my ex still have bills and accounts together if she's broken up with her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok agony aunts, so the girl I've been dating for 5 months now, I just found out that she has her ex's phone still under her contract, and that they still have money in a bank account together, yet according to her they've been broken up for over a year now.. Now I'm assuming if ... (138 words)

Sexual encounter btw an 18 yr and 25 yr? legal yes but is it ok?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Thoughts on a recent high school graduate having sex with a 25 yo? Or a college sophomore dating a 26 yo? I know its legal but is it appropriate?... (29 words)

Why does he keep on ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I REALLY need your help. I have recently joined a youth club where we do a lot of drama and dance, that really helps with my confidence. Its been going great and I've got on well with some of the boys there. The problem is I got a text from one of the boys... (204 words)

I went psycho on him and he changed his phone number

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - about two months ago i meet this guy i really liked him and still do. i was in a bad relationship before i met him and i was still kind of scared. he asked me to be his girlfriends right away and i said yes. we were talking and everything was going good. but then i started ... (178 words)

He says girls leave him because hes too nice. Is that my cue to walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I am a african american female and I just started talking to a white/Caucasian male he's really nice and sweet but he tells me that girls leave him cause they say he's too nice should that be my cue to walk away now? We've only been talking for a day and he already ... (174 words)

I cant stop crying over what I did

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im have just turned 15, 5 days after my abortion. I did not want to get rid of my baby, but i did what everyone was telling me was best. The baby daddy already had a baby on the way so he told me that i was allowed to keep it, but it would be better for everyone if i got rid. ... (169 words)

Why is he bothering?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

6 April 2011 (F)

age - Some time ago I mentioned that I had met this young man on a cruise ship who was a singer-MUCH younger than em and I told you he kept eyeing me up and everytime I saw him his eyes were on me-well a few months down the line he is still e mailing me and today said he has another ... (193 words)

I want a threesome my wife doesnt, but she's already been in one!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

6 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Here's the problem: I want to have a threesome. My wife does not, though she has had them in her past (before me). She also has a far more extensive sexual past than I have. I'd love to add more partners in the future, but I am willing to forgo additional sexual experimentation ... (259 words)

I cant get over her and I don't know what to do about it

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why? Ive dated this girl for 5 years now and I love her. We broke up for a few months about a year ago now, and I started hanging out with a girl that I met at school. We became really good friends and I decided to ask her out, well she turned me down lol, but its all good ... (124 words)

I don't know if he has any intentions of us ever being a proper family?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why doesnt he want companionship? I have a relationship if you can call it a relationship with a guy who is 42. We have 2 children together and i have known hin many yrs now. We no longer live together but continue to have this relationship. He lives with his mother. We did ... (262 words)

Do men become immune to small fights?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - **Sorry to re-post my question but I didn't receive any answers :(** Is it normal for men to become 'immune' to small fights and arguments? My fiance just doesn't seem to care about talking things out, but would rather sweep it under the rug and not really talk about it. His ... (109 words)

Is the spouse the last to know?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - No one at work seems to take any interest in my husband socialy. After refinacing, the bank wants me to take total control over financing. His job takes him away from work a lot. Howver, I am beginging to feel that he is not metanlly well. Am I over reacting or is the spouse ... (60 words)

I don't want to act like a crazy person but I'd like to know what he's thinking

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who is separated from his wife. He's got his own place, etc. He claimed he wanted me as a friend, yet came after me as a girlfriend. We have been talking to each other every day minus once or twice a month for 6 months. I felt the relationship was... (561 words)

Boyfriend acted differently, am I thinking too much?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, so last night me and my boyfriend were texting as usual, then he told me he was going to a festival in france so he told me the present he was getting for me was going to have to wait. i was a bit annoyed but i was just glad he was going out to have a good time and... (296 words)

He doesn't see me alone. Does he feel safer with the kids around?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would a male friend, who I've been seeing/talking to for 6 months want to meet you for lunch with your two kids, but not during the week when it could just be the two of you without the kids? It started off very intimate and he persude me. Now, he just wants to meet me... (162 words)

Is it worth being in the job if I'm unhappy?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 and I've been working as a lawyer for about 4 years now. I don't really know why I went to law school but it seemed like the right thing to do, you know, get paid well, have a high status job and make my parents proud. My mum loves to be able to tell her friends that... (353 words)

I'm 15 and always feel sad

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I'm 15 years old. I always feel so sad with no reason. My parents are not married. And I'm staying in my dad's house right now which I really don't like. I don't have any choice 'cause my mom can give our basic needs everyday so she said I should go with my dad and finish ... (145 words)

I am desperately unhappy because I cant measure up to my boyfriend's ex and I just want to get out of this relationship so that I do not have to be compared to her...

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so so jealous of my partners ex. I dont know where to start but it just seems like she was better in every way. She was very good looking, she had a kid, guys were always hitting on her. She is now doing a great job that pays well and she is married to this gorgeous gu... (231 words)

Will I be able to tolerate a brazilian wax?

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6 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - This is a pretty weird question for those women who wax their "areas"... I am terrified of waxing but I've developed this habit of plucking out my bikini line with tweezers.. I had an ingrown hair once and from then on I just started...I feel almost no pain when I do it, I've ... (98 words)

Applied for the same job, I got it and my BF didn't...and I lied to him that I didn't make it too!!

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf and myself applied for a job in the same place and we both have the same qualification, although i personally think he is more knowledgable than me. Long shory short, i got the job and he didnt. He was very upset that he didnt get the job, and i didnt k... (182 words)

First guy I've met in town, should I move on now or give it a chance?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have moved to a new town. I meet a guy who seemed charming. We never went on a proper date.. Just out for drinks. I'm not keen on him as of yet, as I don't know the guy. But last friday he said he wasn't going out, then i bumped into him out in town, i didnt know what to ... (132 words)

I think my Dad is cheating

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a random question, I'm 26 and worried my dad is cheating on my mom? My dad travels away for business every week. I have been living away from home for 9 years. I just moved home and noticed a big distance between my parents. My dad will mock my mum and not... (208 words)

Forbidden Love and I don't know how to handle it

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other, as we both stay in different cities but in the same country. Our story is a very clichèd tale but unfortunately with a twist. We hit it off very ... (235 words)

Too scared to tell her

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - There was a new girl in my class this year, I noticed her on the first day. She's really beautiful, I started to like her a bit, but I hadn't talked to her much. A week ago I was waiting after school for a ride home. My mum was late so I was there long after everyone else. S... (131 words)

My partners arranging dates and I've found out, what do I do now?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has just made a stupid mistake that has exposed him. My boyfriend was just visiting me and he asked to use my computer. It was very unfortunate that he forgot to log off his facebook account and now i have access to his messages. I always read his mails everytime ... (135 words)

Bizarrely Friends With Benefits

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, fellow DearCupid users! Okay, my situation is a little complicated...I met this guy online, and crazy as it sounds we really hit it off straight out the gate - our first conversation over IM went on for 7 straight hours - so we arranged to meet up. Long story short... (320 words)

Why has my fiance just joined a dating site????

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have been dating a wonderful girl for just over a year now. we don't live together but see each other most weekends. she is always excited to see me and tells me she misses me when I am not there. we have a healthy emailing relationship and there is no issue of need... (250 words)

Been cheating on wife with 3 girlfriends and 40 hookers

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married 10 years to my wife who I love but she is very difficult to live with. I don't know if I am a nympho or what, but when she is not around I can masturbate up to 4 times a day. Also, when i have been away for work on many occasions, I have met three di... (178 words)

How do I just walk away from my wife?

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6 April 2011 (M) age - I'm separate from my wife sunday after 21 years she is 10 years youger than me and it happen when I lost my business and then the prob started we alwayys fighting over money and a monster and law I love her still and she is my whole world how do I just walk a way she don't want ... (70 words)

Torn between my boyfriend of 4 years and another guy

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am torn between my boyfriend of 4 years and another guy. i used to be really happy with my boyfriend but he doesn't really talk to me and he rarely texts me. When we started dating he always wanted to see me and talk to me but not so much anymore, but i know he still lo... (235 words)

How can you mend a broken heart?Does any one know

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there was this guy i really liked.I thought he felt the same.we were friends and in class he would come sit by me he would flirt with me.And then one day at school he wanted me to ask out my friend for him.I was so sad and i still am.She said no.But im pretty sure she'll ... (191 words)

Is this guy a player or am I just suspicious?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help on this one, guys opinions too please. Im not 100% sure but I think I have guy who is a bit of a player or a flirt. He is older than me by 7 years. Met him over a social network site (you know the one). We live in the same place but I didnt know him as ... (481 words)

Online dating..he led me on and then just disappeared

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help solve this puzzle: 1. Girls notices guy on dating website 2. Girl approaches guy 3. Guy responds positively and begins to chat 4. Guy disappears without responding for 2 weeks then gets back in touch full of apologies. 5. Girls waits a few days t... (271 words)

When should I kiss my g/f?

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - please help i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months, we live quite far away from eachother and i dont get to see her often, the first time i was with her i was too shy to kiss her, she then said "i got a hug today but not a kiss", so i sent "next time, i promise", ... (111 words)

Who answers the questions on this site?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age - Hi Andew Not really sure how I got here virtually!!! Must be on a cloud? who is it that actually answers these questions people have? other users or do you have a staff of lisc. social workers, Ph.d's ect...who purse this site and chime in when they feel like it...or...what? ... (61 words)

How do you enter the dating world?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age - Okay..I am 48 and widowed. I have only had one partner in all my life..how, how, how do you re-enter the dating areana in this day and age when you have never even dated? i met him at 15 and that was it..until now. ... (44 words)

Boyfriend's job takes too much out of him for sex!

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a professional MMA fighter. We have been dating for 6 months now and we are so in love. But, recently we have been having a lot of problems. We fight all the time and we DO NOT have sex anymore. It's been about 2 months since we have been intimate. He has ... (251 words)

I have not PHYSICALLY cheated....

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently had a long relationship (2yrs) with a woman, who is still technically married, and only recently seperated. I have duriing this relationship met her 3 times, I live in the UK and she in Texas. I know inside she is all I have ever wanted. But I am needy and intensely ... (402 words)

How can I show support when I get a cold shoulder?

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner is lukewarm...Wont sleep with me and is always tired and moody...I want to show support but when it is given I feel a cold shoulder... Please Help, Sadly Confused... (34 words)

I can't get off with a partner

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant cum or ograsim during sex. I have had multiple partners (sexually) and i have never been able to get off. I have no problem getting myself off but when it comes to having sex or fooling around i just dont get off. I have no problems been turned on and i do become quite ... (130 words)

Married a month and haven't had sex yet

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i got married a month ago me and my partner dint have sexual contact yet..we do foreplay..but before inserting the penis he is loosing his temperement... how to get into mood and stagnant in that and how to keep penis erect for long time.. ... (44 words)

No friends, can't study and depressed about my grades

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so much dipressed ,i don't have any friends ,and i don't like to talk with my family member's lso becoz they aren't so friendly,and with whom i lime to talk,i am nt allowed to talk with them bcoz of this i am unable able to do my studies ,n because of this my marks has ... (61 words)

Boyfriend is very good to me but I worry all the time about him cheating

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. so here it goes. I met my boyfriend about 1 month ago after I left a really bad relationship(my ex cheated on me and lied to me for almost a year) but I kinda got over it. I had a long time where I had no attractions to people. but when I met this guy we got really c... (245 words)

I just want to move on with my life and enjoy the rest of my pregnancy and get along with my ex but I don't know how...HELP!

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 years old and i am 22 weeks pregnant. My baby's father and i were together for 3 years but broke up before i found out i was pregnant. When i told him everything was fine but then a couple weeks later out of no where he would tell me that he didn't want to be with me that ... (408 words)

Bf broke up with me but texts me everyday...did he really mean what he said, or is he trying to let me off easily?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We've only been together for a week, he told me he cheated on his ex before but he is not like that anymore (explained to me why he told me that so that if later I found out how he was before I would think he had been lying to me). He said he is serious wanting to be wi... (393 words)

Is that me just being overly jealous?? Or is my wife the one in the wrong by constantly talking about her ex boyfriends' even though it makes me mad??

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife constantly talks about her ex's, not in great detail about stuff they did but she constantly brings them up at times and it's pretty annoying... She thinks that I'm overreacting and that I'm a "baby" because she thinks its harmless when she talks about them and as if ... (200 words)

I'm afraid his large penis is going to hurt

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 6 months and we are very close. we have discussed sex and contraception and all that and we both feel ready and comfortable enough with each other to have sex. but he hasa very large penis ad i'm scared it is going to hurt. he ... (90 words)

I don't think he's interested in me. Should I call off the date?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for a little under two months. The first couple dates we went on we made out and it was super hot. He suggested we wait a couple weeks to have sex... i told him we should wait 3 months. He reluctantly agreed. Since then, we've been hanging ... (368 words)

Girlfriend accuses me of not being excited enough about getting married

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I've been living with my girlfriend for a few years now. We have a stable relationship - some up and downs, of course, but nothing big, I guess. We're both around 26-29 y old. For some time she's been talking about getting married and how this is her life dream a... (325 words)

Are there any ways to see if a guy is gay or bisexual?

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - As I'm getting older I see that I am either gay or bi and I wanna talk to a guy for once but there are problems. Right now no one knows about me being gay but me I'm not ready to tell anyone because I not sure about myself but I dont want anyone to know. Their are guys at ... (305 words)

I like this guy and I don''t want to

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'll keep it simple. I've liked this guy for quite some time. And I don't want to. I've dated other guys, and tried to keep my distance. We work together, we disliked each other at first but the more we started joking and playing around, I fell for the guy. I'm too ... (215 words)

What are the duties of a mistress?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! So heres the thing, my boyfriend wants me to be mistress, I've never done that. We're both new to this idea but he is ready for anything. Please help me by suggesting what I should do as a mistress? I would appreciate it! Btw, he said he wants his dick to get beat... (60 words)

My girlfriend told me she had a threesome. Now I want to know with whom!

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend while being blunt tells me that before meeting me that she previously had a threesome. Should she tell me with who? She brought it up and now I feel like it is a curiousity that will not go away. Should she tell with who or should I let it go? It was with a m... (69 words)

Is it me or am I just not choosing the right one?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice. I recently started conversating with this man I met online and he was in the army at the time. Everything was good until he came home. The first night he came home it was love at first sight. We had sex and the emotion involved was so intense I got ... (179 words)

I usually date skinny girls, my girlfriend is bigger. I'm worried I won't be attracted once she's naked!

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is a rather simplistic question. I am 16 dating a girl a month younger than me; just to provide you with an age. I usually only date girls who are pretty skinny but I recently fell in love and am dating my best friend who is a little bit bigger than my average ... (134 words)

She found pictures of girls I was attracted to on my computer, have I ruined everything?

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6 April 2011 (M)

- I've been in a stable relationship for over 2 years now. We've had arguments before but this one feels so much different. This time I feel terrible and I could really do with some advice. My girlfriend found pictures of women that i knew, that I used to have an attraction to... (401 words)

How to please him?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some good positions or things to do to make the guy feel good sexually? ... (16 words)

He can't keep up with me sexually, should he get his testosterone checked?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - how do I ask my man to go to the doctors and get his testosterone level checked? I feel like this is the problem he is having sexually he is only 28 but he is really having a hard time. We are still fairly young I am 23 and like I said he is 28, I am actually jealous of friends ... (232 words)

How do I repay him for all he's done for me?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, right now i am sick. i have the flu and i've never been this sick before in my life. my bf is being soo sweet, like he's here everyday checking on me, and bringing me my school assignments. he makes me feel like a princess even when i physically feel like crap. the only ... (185 words)

Seducing my aunt?

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright, excuse the misleading title. She's not my aunt by blood, so we are only related through marriage. She always acts so kind toward me and I get extra long hugs at family gatherings a couple times a year. She seemingly favors me over my other siblings even though I'm the ... (339 words)

My G/f is unbelievably controlling/manipulative/insecure and I'm wondering if I can do anything to make her a little more secure...

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that my girlfriend of almost 1 and a half years is controlling/manipulative/insecure/etc...and that 99.9% of me knows that I'll inevitably break up with her, but I am the kind of person that wants to have no regrets and exhaust all measures before throwing in the towel. ... (879 words)

We've dated and kissed, but he doesn't talk to me anymore!

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ive liked this boy for 2 years and he said he liked me too ,weve been out loads and weve kissed and done other stuff apart from sex, we were close and he always talked to me, his friends make fun of me and we dont talk no more, he still asks my friends stuff about me and ... (86 words)

Is there any such thing as "I don't know why I love you but I love you"..??

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 9 months told me yesterday that he doesn't know why he loves me but he loves me. Is there any such statement and does such exist. I can tell him 3 reasons why I love him but he can't? When I asked him what he menat. He said "It means I dont like you for your bea... (261 words)

I ended it, but I'm struggling to move on.

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - does anyone have some really great, earth-shattering advice for moving on? i feel stuck. i know i'm not supposed to be with my ex and i'm the one that ended the relationship, but it was because i felt i had no choice. but i literally can't seem to get over it. i can't eat, i ... (94 words)

How to not be too needy or clingy and push a guy away?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - ok this question is for guys, there is a guy who is interested in me and wants to spend time with me. i want to be with him and spend time with him too. i'm just wondering, what do guys consider to be too needy or too clingy, that might push a guy away? for example how many ... (105 words)

Is the attraction towards this younger man because of the fact that I am lonely and he is the only guy that is giving me attention in many, many years?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age - I met a guy online about a year ago and we have seen each other 3X in the past year. He lives about a 2hour flight away from me but we have only managed to see each other a few times. I wouldn't say we are dating but we text almost everyday and chat on the phone once a wee... (253 words)

Girlfriend stopped contact after I told her I was moving home!

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I ran away from my home two years ago. During most of that time, my girlfriend helped me to overcome my sadness. Six months ago, she returned to her town, and I was living by myself, alone, without friends. In the last three months, the relationship with my parents hav... (514 words)

She's keeps asking me when I'm going to propose to her, but she tells other people she wishes she was with this other guy who she's cheating on me with!!

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I just wanted to get some advice I don't think my gf is phisicly cheating on me but..... When got together she was seeing this other guy at the same time. 2 years on and she is still in daily contact via txt and face book with this guy. to save you all a novel. She always h... (362 words)

I earn more money than my B/f. Is this going to affect our relationship long term and will he resent me for it one day?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half and we have a very good relationship. I studied at university for 6 years while he started working right out of high school. At the moment I earn more than him and I think things will stay like that for a ... (200 words)

The classic in love with my best friend story.

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Seeing the mature responses by people on this website. I have decided to ask everyone here for a solution. What I am about to ask you is not the plot of a movie but it is merely the misery that I have been going through for the past 6 months. My name is Kyle and I am a 19 ye... (543 words)

Is it normal for men to become immune to small fights?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for men to become 'immune' to small fights and arguments? My fiance just doesn't seem to care about talking things out, but would rather sweep it under the rug and not really talk about it. His view is that I get upset and angry every week so it's hard for him to ... (96 words)

I love her, but I cannot have the future I want with her. Any advice?

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have strange sexual tastes which my girlfriend of almost 7 years fulfills. (I'm 70%-30% roughly bi to the straight side and I like to cross dress and satisfy guys sometimes). Problem is my girlfriend is married and has kids (26 and 28). She's coming up to 46 and is 17 years... (1101 words)

I'm taking to a divorce lawyer Thursday, but I really wish I could work things out with my wife

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so me and my wife are sperated, and have been for 2 weeks. i've already begun to evaluate our assets and im talking with a lawyer on thursday. my head is telling me this is the best thing for me, but my heart desperately wants her back. the reason i think this is the best rout... (135 words)

Can this impossible love happen? Is it true you should set them free if it is meant to be?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well here it goes ... I have been seeing this man for 4 years .. We never talked about our relationship other than 95% non verbal negotiations and 5 % verbal negotiations. he has been honest so far even though he screws up almost but never hides anything ...vice versa ... ... (231 words)

How much do appearances matter?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met this guy whose family was from my hometown originally but he was born and raised in this country. He obviously likes me a lot and we had a lot to talk as his major is similar to mine. We've met twice but nothing was awkward and he seems like a very honest guy. To ... (234 words)

Do I need to cut my hair to increase my luck meeting girls?

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6 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been single for nearly a year now and I want to get out there again but I don't want anything too serious as I have a very bad track record of relationships, therefore I am severely put off for the time being. I have told my friend that I want to start meeting new peop... (153 words)

A boy was staring at me at a party...It probably meant nothing...Am I overthinking this?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this boy a few days ago through a friend. I went to his house after school with my friend, and throughout the night I kept finding him looking at me. When I caught him looking he wouldn't look away, just smile a little and carry on, direct eye contact. I'm not one real... (209 words)

Is it true that you're a slut if you have big labias?

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im officially freeking out. Im in a LDR and ive been with my bf in real but we obv spend more time online together. Well i dont remember what happened but my bf turned round to me and was like im gonna make up somethin about u then and tell some people and i was like ok then... (259 words)

I'm just not comfortable with myself being gay

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6 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - All my life I have liked boys but sometimes I get a funny feeling not in my tummy or heart its that sexual feeling when I'm around this one girl friend. I don't think lesbians/gays/bisexuals are bad people! But personally I don't want to be. It has nothing to do with not being ... (102 words)