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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My college lecturer acts jealous when guys show an interest in me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and my teacher started being ... (455 words)

My parents think I am fat, should I just lose weight to shut them up?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I hope anyone out there can help me. Ok so i am 20 years old and am at University therefore i no longer live with my parents. I go to the gym almost every single day and work out, and swim, though in the last week i have slacked off coz of work. I eat a lo... (561 words)

I'm upset at how much people have walked all over me in the past!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't quite no what's wrong with me but within the last week, i haven't been my usual self. I feel sad and low for no apparent reason. Everything, is going well in my life, and i'm achieveing things, like quitting smoking, getting into shape, ect. I couldn't do more to be ... (181 words)

What gives him the impression that I'm perfect?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Several weeks ago, I registered in a dating site that's fairly popular among college students, graduates and working class professionals (bet 18-30 years old). I figured I give it a try considering I haven't had success finding a suitable mate lately. To make a long story ... (229 words)

How do I convince her to go out with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there helpers!! I want me and her to be close. I have been dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years and it has been 2 months since the mourning. I am ready to be in a relation now again and I am starting my 1st job in USA tomorrow. I am very happy and excited. I have a quick but... (224 words)

My friend is talking to me alot while his girlfriend is gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I'm new to dearcupid but you seem very helpful, so I've decided to ask my question. Basically I have a friend who is a boy and he has a girlfriend. His girlfriend has gone on holiday and he misses her loads, he is talking to me loads via text at the moment. Well he ... (127 words)

Are we friends? Or is he playing me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for seven months now. We, supposedly, are just friends. He suggested that we do not date anyone else, a monogamous relationship, but we are just friends. We do love each other. We use to go to Church and his friends functions together until they ... (168 words)

Why did her feelings change so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi ladies. i screwed up a second date by coming on to strong and i also was a little drunk when on the date. she dumped me a few days later. i waited two weeks then called to apologize and explain my actions. she basically said ok to starting over but this time as friends and ... (146 words)

Does my psychic's reading mean that there is no chance of a reconciliation with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a psychic/medium today as ive always been interested in that kind of thing. Well anyways my boyfriend broke up with me last week due to his state of mind and when it came to the womans cards she pulled out the one which symbolised him and then the 2 cards after it t... (127 words)

No interest in sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age - I am a woman 62 years old;I've had 4 children;for 3 years I have no interest in sex and the little that we do it it hurts real bad;it's as if there's no room inside for him and it hurts lots after too. Things are not too good with us but it's not because of this.I just wonder ... (140 words)

Should I just stop talking to him and not wish him a happy birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, many of you know some of the story since I have asked a couple of questions regarding to this. anyway, I met a guy online (I'm gay btw) like 2 months ago. i'm 19 and he's about to turn 24 this week. everything seemed fine at the beginning, we went out to eat/ movies, and I ... (750 words)

My boyfriend is giving me the cold shoulder

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are...well were planning to get married. Then about 3 months ago things started to change he went from call 2 or 3 times a day to 1 if I'm lucky he takes forever to respond to my texts and just seems so ughh all the time...he recently joined the army and is ... (130 words)

Whom do men really have on their minds the next time they have sex after watching porn? Their partner or the hot chick from the last porn they watched ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) age 51-59 - My husband used to watch porn quite a lot, wich I found out by accident. I was shocked and confronted him later after I couln't keep those tremendous hurt feelings to myselfe anymore. After a while he was able to cut his visits to the pornsites shorter. He claimes that wat... (225 words)

My boyfriend is booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer, and I'm NOT happy about it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Urgh. I’ve been with my boyfriend a year and a half, and am having huge issues with him booking a holiday with ‘the lads’ to Ibiza this summer. I can sense your eyes rolling, and I’m sorry :( I’m 24 and he’s 32, so far our relationships been great minus a few normal bumps in ... (527 words)

Taking The Initiative With A Woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - There's a woman I like and we have gone out together a couple of times. I make a point of keeping in touch with this woman through e-mail and phone calls. She seems responsive to me and even encourages me to stay in touch, and she seems happy to meet and go out. However, ... (199 words)

Would you date an escort?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you date a girl who was or is an escort? but she is really loving, smart, honest and does everything for you. It's just her job and she's only doing it a few years to save up some money and invest in something good. (house, car etc) ... (48 words)

He cheated NOT me! So why is he acting this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my ex have been broken up for three weeks he left me because he said i was crazy but i am not the reason he says i am crazy is because he cheated on me twice previously so i would ask him where he was going and what time he would be back which shouldn't of been a ... (177 words)

I am married but have no sex life because of my wife!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am married in long distance relationship, my wife come last year on my country to us get married .I know that she loves me, I don't have any doubt about it. her family in USA doesn't know that we got married here in my country Colombia. The problem is I am too much in love ... (667 words)

I'm not ready for such a serious relationship but I don't want to lose her

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. She had many personal problems and I really wanted to be there to help her out. Due to this the relationship took a turn for the very serious. After about a 8 months her personal problems were resolved, but the ... (149 words)

How can I get him back and seduce him without using sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We work together. At first he was more into me than vise versa, but I fell in live with him. After hanging out sporadically for a few months, we began to date intensely and steadily, which lasted 5 weeks. I can be jealous, insecure and a little clingy, so I pulled away from him ... (309 words)

When is it okay to ask someone to hang out if you've only met them once?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really just curious, when would you all consider it okay to ask someone to hang out if you've only met them once, and whether that be friendship or a dating relationship.... (32 words)

He used to be so great, now he's verbally abusive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 7 yrs, married 1. He use to b so caring and loving and generous. Now he is verbally abusive and use to hit me but that stopped. We never have fun or talk or even laugh anymore unless its at each other:( he won't communicate with me at all. I ... (283 words)

Do you think girls who go with guys to a strip club are trashy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys, do you think it's trashy for a girl to accompany a group of guys to the strip club? I think it's a certain type of girl who is willing to go along on this "adventure," and I dont't think she's the type you wanna bring home to mom/MAKE the mom of your own children one... (110 words)

What if you feel he's meant for you, but has a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not 100% sure how I feel, but just suppose... just SUPPOSE that you meet someone, get to know him, and realize that he's meant for you. Suppose he means a lot to you, no one will ever mean as much to you, and you've been searching for someone just like him, all your ... (336 words)

I've fallen out of love with my husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fallen out of love with my husband of 15 years. We have three beautiful and kind children and a lovely home. Several years ago, for about 3 years straight, my husband was in a very dark place due to some investments gone bad. I tried to reach him, help him, support ... (169 words)

My ex likes me quiet, but bugs me until I scream. How can I get his attention more? I still like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - The other day i was messing with one of my ex's because i still like him. Well he asked me if i still like him and i was afraid what he would say if i say yes so i told him i dont know, and he kept bugging me about it so i told him no. But now i am regretting it. I want him... (107 words)

How can I convince her to try something different from the "same old same old"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been together for nine years and have had a good sex life. But the thing is that I have to satisfy myself with the same sexual positions every time. My partner doesn't want to try new positions even after having a good sex drive. She wants to have sex in the same ... (85 words)

I still have his jacket...should I give it back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago- but we've had this back and forth thing where he'll call me every 2-3 months (drunk and sober) saying that he misses me, that i scare the shit out of him. There's an age difference between us I'm 25 and He's 22. He is dating som... (249 words)

Wife is away, does husband want to play?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone please tell me why a married man has made it a point to tell me that his wife is out of town on business for a few days? Is this an innocent statement or is there a reason he is saying this to me?... (46 words)

For the first time I'm scared! How do you build the bridge between sex and foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok people, after years of being used and played with from girls it seems like ive finally found the girl of my dreams. we're together now and it couldnt work out any better than it is. and im like reeeeeeeeally in love with her, the feelings i have for her are unbelievable, i ... (173 words)

I want to call him every night, and he said he would like that, but would he really??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so my boyfriend said that he loves me and that he said he sees us having a relationship in the future - we have only been going out for 7 months but he is the most loveliest guy I have ever met. He is always saying to me that I am the most beautiful girl there is out there ... (370 words)

Am I too old fashioned about sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - It seems everyone is having sex these days. I'm only fifteen but I believe in 'no sex before marriage', I don't know why I believe in this because none of my family do. Everyone at school says I should try having sex with someone, I'm not at all bothered by peer pressure ... (108 words)

I gave him oral, and now our relationship is too sexual. But how can I tell him to take it slow, while stay the model girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating a guy for a bit more than a month, but due to our history, it feels longer, and it's influencing my behaviour. --- Basically, most of my friends are guys, and I was therefore always surrounded by a bunch of guys wherever I went. Some of those guys would devel... (418 words)

Does my b/f take me forgranted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we are serious with each other, we have discussed the future and he said to me that he can see us togeather in the future. Okay, so my main concern is, He is at uni and is always busy with work then he works ... (730 words)

How do girls masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i'm 14 years old and like to masturbate but recently i want to try something different to my usual technique of 'humping' my chair. i don't want to use toys or finger myself. what else can i do? ... (39 words)

I saw my ex girlfriend today and now I am very sad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear All, I am 22yrs old single male. Its been almost one year since I graduated from university and now a few weeks back I finally found a good job. I had an year long affair with a girl during university and then we broke up after i found that that she was seeing another ... (215 words)

How can I get enough protein on a vegetarian diet?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a strict vegetarian (been brought up this way) so I don't eat fish, eggs or anything animal based. Anyways I really really need protein in my diet! But I can't think of what foods to have as I'm really limited for choice... I can have dairy but I know you get protein mainly ... (60 words)

Is there a way to ask her out when I'm so shy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I'm too shy to ask a girl on a date, I'm not really scared of her saying no I'm just too shy to ask her but I really want to be with her. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to be able to pluck up the courage to ask her and I don't really want to ask through my friends, ... (120 words)

How can I stop thinking of my friend romantically?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, soooo I'm attracted to my friend. Really attracted. I think about her all the time. She's gorgeous, funny, smart. I need some advice on how to NOT think about her as much as I do. I asked her out the other day to sushi and she said yes, we talked for hours had a grea... (92 words)

Should I be worried about his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my husband's sister's friend came to live with her for three weeks. Currently, me and my husband too are in his parent's house because I am due to deliver next month and will be staying there till I give birth. I don't want to be sad but I think my husband and the sister's ... (83 words)

Were his words sincere? OR was it a ploy to pantyville?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen for a man (who lived in shared accomodation) for no longer than 6 months. (He has left now) However he had a gf but he consistently flirted with me, in the process I fell for him but now that hes moved out, Ive completed ridden him of all contacts. He's 'off-lim... (288 words)

My dad is having an affair, how should I handle this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Sorry 4 the length. I had to explain in detail. I am so confused. I got an anonymous call with a hidden i.d a woman informed me that my father has a mistress and is willing to marry her. He is 58 years n has been married to my mum for 30 years with 7 kids. The wo... (228 words)

Why do women lose their power when they fall in love?

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18 April 2011 (F) age - Why woman always becoming so powerful,when she gets dumped,or living alone,but when they fall in love ,they lose their power? Also usually man ,even married, are very attracted to this free and powerful energy,so many times ,they live their destroyed lady for a divorcee. I see ... (183 words)

I'm not sure what do about my current relationship or this other guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think about my situation with the guy I am dating and his friend?. I'll call the guy I am dating C, and i'll call his friend J. J winks at me a lot, and I knew him before C, as I saw him in a bar once and he kept looking at me then. On Saturday, I was out with C, ... (493 words)

She seems untouchable but approachable, how can this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The question sums this up. Theres this gorgeous girl i always see about at my college, we don't know each other though. But when i see her and we look at each other, there is a connection there. So we know of each other, im just not sure what sort of person she is.. When... (182 words)

We're friends with benefits but does he want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im friends with benefits with my ex boyfriend. We broke up years ago we were both really young, but now we're 16. We were fwbs before but then one of my friends asked me out, I was totally surprised as I thought he was gay. So I said yes and broke things up with "O", my fwb, ... (299 words)

I want to stop masturbating because I don't feel good afterwards

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i haven't had a girlfriend before or had sex and i just keep masterbating. the other day i masterbated twice before 7am which is just crazy. what should I do to stop masterbating. i want to stop because i don't feel good after i have finished i just want to stop. How ... (69 words)

It has been seven years and I still think about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I keep dreaming of a certain guy I used to see at church 7 years ago. We never dated but we used to act when we saw one another. I left church because always I was dreaming of him but he never came to me by then. Its been 7 years and I'm now married but still I keep on dreaming ... (167 words)

How do girls want to be approached by guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - this is mainly aimed at girls i like this girl and i thought that she liked me but the other day when we were talking i just got the impression that she didn't like me. she is currently going out with my "friend" who isn't a good friend or boyfriend to her and i kept focus... (164 words)

Her immaturity is driving us apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Key facts: -She is 18 years old -Maturity level of a child -Defence mechanism: complaining and irrationality When I first met her, I believed that beneath her immature perceptions of humanity there would be a deep philosophical dimension but there was no... (355 words)

1/2 way through masturbating I start to pee?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Halfway through masturbating I started to pee, is this just cause I needed to go to the bathroom or is it normal of What please help.... (27 words)

Found a condom in my BF's wallet...but we don't use condoms!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been togther for 3 years and i found a comdom in his wallet we don't use comdoms i ask him about it and he said he was going to use it on me i don't beleve him what sould i do... (46 words)

I'm shy, how do I know if he likes me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for.I'm rather shy and so is he a bit ..So I was wondering, how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure!!!! , I was wondering if anyone can help me out ?What does it mean when a guy says "there's your boyfriend " ... (195 words)

Why did she get so affronted by my suggestive email?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age - Hello, I have a strange situation to ask about. Today, a few hours after my wife and I had had some very satisfactory intimate relations, I sent a suggestive e-mail talking about that in a rather oblique way. I used an e-mail subject line of "confidential-read w... (139 words)

Does he like me? I don't understand why he talks to me the way he does

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy i like and he always makes the first move, he texts me first or calls me first and whenever he is closer to my place he would call me to meet up with him.. but what i dont get about him is the way he talks, he calls me his bff..like "my bff,how are you doin... (85 words)

What if she is genuine and it is just the way she is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay.. here is my question following up to my previous one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-she-avoiding-having-me-meet-her.html My girlfriend and I had been together for 7 months now and she had recently left to the UK for work experience and will be there for a y... (1594 words)

Why does he continue to pay for ex's child meanwhile we can't have a family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband was previously married and has been divorced for 4 years. He was married to a woman who had 2 children of her own and they had 1 child together. The children’s father also lives nearby and they see him or go to stay with him, although I’m not sure whether he pays ... (199 words)

How can I be friends with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 years old, i have a crush on a 14 years old boy he is annoyed with me does not like to see my face also i have to make a normal friendship with him how do i start ?... (42 words)

I acted oblivious to his presence and his reaction made me more confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked a question a while ago about this guy at the gym and i took the advice from people to act uninterested and see how he reacts. Well i tried this and now i am more sure of him liking me what do you think!? But he still wont make a move! why i don't know!? I have seen go... (321 words)

Am I being too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so i met this girl a few times.. at a party and at a bar.. little chit chats here and there. nothing special. one night i saw her again at a bar so i went up to her being nice and just started a chat. then i sat down and she came up and started to talking to me telling me she l... (291 words)

Can a counsellor really help save our marriage? Will she still maintain she wants an open marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am in the depths of despair and hopelessness right now and I could really use some feedback from others who have been here. I have found out my wife of 16 years is cheating on me. To give some background, I was her first lover (and first boyfriend too), so she lac... (877 words)

We broke up because he said we had lost the 'connection' but he is still talking to me and wanting to be in my life! Does he still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do about my ex boyfriend? am so confused:(? My ex boyfriend and broke up nearly 2months ago, he wasn't just my bf when we were together, he was my special friend as well and we did everything together and now I miss him so much, we talk cos he says am a rea... (250 words)

I don't think I know how to masturbate! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey people, i've tried by myself and with my bf but i still can't get there. i dunno what to do i figured i start masturbating but its still doesn't work(touching my clit and fingering myself) but nothing and when my boyfriend fingers me it feels a lot better than when i do i... (157 words)

How can I get him to see that I really love him and I have no interest in any other man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age - Hi i hope you will be able to give me some advise. I have been with my bf for just over a year now. He went through quite a nasty break up with his wife of 25years, she came home one day and told him that by the end of the month he must move out as she and her lover had deci... (340 words)

Does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've met this guy who I really like and he seems to like me quite obviously. We've kissed but that's it. The thing is I'm really unsure as to whether he actually likes me or just wants to sleep with me. The day before we kissed for the first time, I overheard him saying to ... (174 words)

How can I break up and afford to live on my own? he wants a threesome. He's over protective.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently my partner and I broke up, but we still live together, he goes through my phone and expects me to have a threesome with him and one of my friends (who's a girl) He has been treating me a little child lately...xo. Here's more info I have started to enjoy another ma... (148 words)

She's never happy with me.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 4 months, but have known each other for years before that. I love her and she says she loves me, and everything was sooo perfect at first. But now it seems like all I do is piss her off. Over stupid ****. All she does is ... (208 words)

Should we have a threesome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am happily married for 12 years and sex is great.me and my husband fantasies lately of getting a man in and the thought arouse both of us but I am unsure.we have been kinky before but never had intercourse with someone else.we also are more open.there is a finansial strain ... (116 words)

Trapped in a loveless marriage..........

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

18 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi-i need advice, please help!I have been with the same girl for 10 years, married for 2. It was a mistake, we are friends nothing more. 18 months ago I tried to leave, she was devistated. We had 'goodbye' sex and she fell pregnant. I agreed to stay. The 9 months waiting for ... (328 words)

How can I accomplish being 'cool' at this party when I have no self-esteem or confidence? And all this without making a fool of myself...

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am at a new school this year and I really want to be well liked. I am a loser, I am really shy and not at all attractive. I have heard from 'friends' that there are parties during the weekend and one friend offered to take me to one this weekend. I have never been invit... (112 words)

He won't respond to my text messages, he doesn't pick up his phone and I haven't seen him in 3 days because of World of Warcraft!!!

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend just started playing world of warcraft with his brother. They used to played it, but my bf quit because uni started and there physically was not enough time. He told me he used to stay up til 5am playing WoW during the summer and would just play all day. Well, ... (188 words)

I love her but she hurt me so I don't know what to do now....

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for two years now. Recently we got into a huge argument. As a result of the argument I went over her house to talk to her. I told her that I wanted to forget about everything and get try to make it work between us. She agreed, but a min later she ... (191 words)

I want to be his but unfortunately, he already has someone. How do I deal with it?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 23 and about six months ago, I met an insanely hot and gentle-spirited 29 year old doctor... with a 38 year old girlfriend. His girlfriend doesn't want more kids as she had three from her previous marriage (her eldest is my age with her youngest being 17). She and this ... (607 words)

First time sex stories...?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What was your first time having sex like, and how old were you when you did it? Did it hurt? How long did he last? (I'm asking because I just had my first time and want to see what others were like :) ) ... (47 words)

Penis size insecurity...help me out here!!

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people out there I'm a 16 year old guy and i have a little problem that i need advice on. So this not easy for me to talk about but going to any way. Well the problem is i have a very small penis of only 4in when erect and 1 to 2 inches when flaccid. I know everybody says ... (142 words)

Unrequited love since Kindergarten....she represents everything positive in this world that I could love!! How do I approach her with this??

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is one for the books. I've known this girl since Kindergarten. She was literally the first person I noticed when I walked into the classroom the first day. It was pretty much love at first site. I've had a crush on her ever since and she's known about it since we were in ... (410 words)

Is my boyfriend lying to me? Can you use Facebook chat on your phone?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you use the chatting part of facebook on your phone? My boyfriend has his wall hidden from me, i guess. i cant see it, just his photos. i asked him about it and he said it has something to do with the facebook app he has on his iphone. However, if i get on facebook... (100 words)

He told me he enjoys staring at sexy girls, is this normal or is he doing this because he is bored of us? Or is he just trying to make me jealous?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 motnhs.i and my bf love each other like hell.recently my bf has gone to a new place to travel and to give exams with his friends.yesterday night he told that he enjoyed roaming at the malls and the girls of that place were ... (158 words)

If he is not interested in me, why does he make such efforts with me?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just turned 30 and am very attracted to a man who is 46. I am in the US from a different country originally and am still closeted. This guy knows that I like him and we spend all our time together - we laugh, joke and discuss history and culture. He encourages me pr... (273 words)

Tips for keeping a relationship casual. Anyone?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old guy, virgin, and never had a serious relationship before, never been in love. I'm just looking for any advice or points of view. I started dating this girl a few weeks ago. I have no experience in relationships, but don't want to plunge in too quickly i... (217 words)

I don't find masturbation pleasureable! Is this normal?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fifteen now and just like any other girl am curious about my body. I have tried fingering myself but don't find it very pleasurable is this normal? Also how deep in is the (cherry)? Will it hurt to break it? Please give some advice, tips, thoughts, knowledge, thanks! (:... (51 words)

Why would he just stop talking to me? Is it me or the distance?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer i went on a road trip to Montana with two of my friends. Long story short, i met a boy while i was there. I've never felt something so real in my life, he made me the happiest i had been in a while. We kept in touch for six months straight until my next visit which ... (274 words)

Falling for my sister's best friend, what should I do?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My younger sister recently moved in with her life long friend "Katie", they are both 19. Katie has a 1 yr old son from her ex bf, whom is an a**. They dated all through out high school but he always played mind games with her. I have always looked at Katie liek another little ... (233 words)

Is she flirting or just playful?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have become kinda close to a coworker of mine lately. I cant tell if she likes me or just enjoys my personality. She loves to tease me playfully, laughs at all my jokes and things like that. Its hard to distinguish though. She has come out of her shell to me more and more ... (84 words)

Should I try and pursue more than friendship with this girl?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone. I'm just a little curious to know if I would be wasting my time with this girl. Last night I met a girl for the first time, and I've never been good at telling when people are interested or not, this girl was very beautiful and very quiet, but she went out of ... (205 words)

Is it normal to think about the date even though I was not attracted to her?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Had a first date the other day. I didnt feel nervous talking to her, but im not sure whether thats because i might have not been interested in her, or whether the conversation was just too full on (we were talking about being materialistic and shopping and spending money on ... (280 words)

I want him to spend more time with me and have more sex, but he says I am just spoiled! What should I do?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my african boyfriend say im spoiled and want everything my way cause i asked him to spend more time with me and have sex. we dont live together, he visits every two weeks and have sex 1 time a month, what should i do im pissed?... (46 words)

Should I just ask him where I stand?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright ive known my bestfriend for 5yrs. he joined the army last june and im really proud of him. we've always been straight forward and honest with each other. about two months before he told me he was going to join i had confessed to him that i was inlove with him a couple ... (268 words)

Is it a waste of time to make things work with my older guy?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm in love with this guy 8 years older than me, we were gonna have sex last saturday but my mom wouldn't let me go out.. the thing is that im 16 and he's 24. I haven't told anyone but a few friends my status with this guy, I've given him head, we've hooked up, and mostly ... (127 words)

Did she reject me? Should I quit talking to her?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So this girl and I (she's a freshmen in highschool and im a junior in highschool) have been talking for a couple of weeks and I thought things were going pretty good. And then we stopped talking for a couple of days cause we both thought each other was mad at each other fo... (239 words)

I don't want to go out to have drinks/dinner alone on my birthday and end up looking like a total loser to everyone else!

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all.. I'll be turning 22 in a few days and I'm not sure what to do. I've been in a pretty low place in my life lately. I don't socialize at all, I barely talk to anyone except for my bf who lives 3hrs away. I was hoping to be able to spend my birthday with him, but he... (191 words)

Why is love the only thing he's quit??

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is love the only thing my ex has ditched?? Ive been in a LDR for almost 3 years now and recently he broke up with me. He became depressed about life and what hes doing and became emotionless altogether. I used to talk to him everyday online (and yes I have met him b... (259 words)

I want no more part of this "love triangle", but I know it will be a problem because we work together....

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well here goes.... I'm a 29 year old male and last July I got involved with a woman that I work with who is 35 years old with 3 children. She initially approached me and asked me for my number after she started working there for a month or so. She was also up front that sh... (414 words)

If you were in my place, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunties and Uncles :) I was just wondering, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for? Guy 1: met him at a party last week, he is the same age as me (17), we had a lot of fun together just kissing but he is a virgin. I know relationships ar... (348 words)

Who do I pick when I want a child so badly?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, I don't know what to do, obviously. So my question is, who do I pick? There is a really nice girl that says she loves me, and there is a girl I like a lot that also says she loves me, me and her have been dating for 4 months (on and off) and we both end up dating other ... (201 words)

What is wrong with me that I can't find one single guy on this planet who thinks I'm worthy of being his girlfriend?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused, I don't know what to do. I'm 24 years old and I've gone from one half-relationship to the next, but never had ONE proper boyfriend, i.e. someone I was officially with. I find it very humiliating as it is, but to make it worse, there's this guy I had some kind ... (251 words)

How can I get with my old friend? I am starting horse riding lessons again just to see her!

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to go back to horse-riding lessons, even though I don't need them anymore in a vain hope to meet up with an old friend, and perhaps see if I ever get anywhere with her. Any tips?... (38 words)

I lied about NOT being virgin to GF. Should I tell her the truth?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so im deeply in love with this girl for 6months (me 19, she 21) Just in early march we came to the subject of our 'first time' agewise. I felt insecure and said 18, and she said 20. Cool thought that was that... Then late march she asked how many times and with how many, ... (298 words)

Dilemma. I want to get back with my ex, but his GF has to leave. I also want to be with my married lover, but he has to leave his wife.

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I Have a lot to say so here goes. I have a big problem with men. my ex broke up with me 6 months ago because i cheated on him with the guy i,m living with now. but this guy i,m with now well we don,t really get along. so anyway my ex is let his ex girlfriend move in right after ... (189 words)

Should I say yes to falling in love with my best friend ?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was in 7th grade, I laid my eyes on the most adorable guy in school, we didn't talk until 8th grade. Soon we became the best of friends, he would walk me home everyday after school, we were just little youngsters and at our 8th grade graduation we told each other how we ... (161 words)

Why don't guys ask me out?

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I get told by many people that im beautiful looking and they seem shocked when I say I'm single. The problem is guys never seem to approach or ask me out, even at bars. I feel really self conscious about it because I always have my hair , makeup, done perfect and wear nice ... (159 words)

Once a week is all I get. It's not enough. Help!

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18 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - help, i love my boyfriend by lately only seeing him twice a week and its only for about 2 hours each time. he has a baby with someone else and i understand he has her weekends so i dont see him, and then works all week and then gym after work so is hard for him to fit in seeing ... (327 words)

I love one girl but I'm made for the other. What do I do?

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18 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - so basically, im currently going out with this girl, i really like her and she likes me. im pretty sure i love her and i see her everyday at school and stuff. my friends dont particularly like her but thats not really bothering me. and there is also this girl that i know, i ... (184 words)