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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've started to have feelings for a close friend, but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Recently, I've begun to have strong feelings for a really close female friend that I've known for years - I'd go as far as to say that she's one of my best friends. But now that I feel more strongly about her, it's going to make things more difficult. To begin with, sh... (114 words)

Confusing family tree, is this wrong?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I swear it seems like everyone in my hometown are related SOMEHOW...here is another dilemma I am having. my cousin had kids with a woman who's aunts son is dating my sister. is that wrong? the cousin (who had kids with the woman) is our 1st cousin so the kids they had are our... (81 words)

How much is too much for masturbation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - [mod note: two questions combined] im a 15 year old boy... i have been masturbating a lot lately.. like 3-4 times a day...when is masturbating a bit too much?? after i am done having sex or even done masturbating i can't seem to go another round... i usually takes me about 1... (77 words)

I'm confused, am I bi or gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - 3 years ago when i was 13 i discoverd i liked men and now im 15 i still like men but im not sure about girls anymore, im really confused right now so can i just have some advice please?... (40 words)

Are men aware of what porn does to their sex drive?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - With all this so easy to reach pornstuff these days and especially men of all age groups spending lots of time on pornsites, I wonder what happens to their sex drive and joy of having sex with there partners. It makes me sad to read from so many young women how little sex is ... (150 words)

Is it wrong of me not to be happy that my married lover had a baby with his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My lover just had another baby with his wife. I am very sad and disappointed about this. Is this normal? I love the guy so much and he loves me too. We have been together for two years and has been married for three years. I have always respected his marriage, wife and kid to ... (97 words)

What do you think of this guy? How do we go back to having original, striking conversations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been on four dates with this one guy. He is a gentleman, makes me laugh uncontrollably and I am attracted to him. On our first date,we had a nice conversation,about the concentration camps in Germany, other political matters etc over dinner. I found... (701 words)

I like him but I'm scared to tell him. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help Please! Okay i have a friend he is really sweet i flirt with him some but he doesnt see it. I really like him and he's really cool. I have been thinking about seeing if he likes me but dont what to do or how to do it. I really like him but i am scared if anybody ... (93 words)

I like my own parts. Is this wrong? I am confused about my sexuality.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have always liked men and wanted relationships with men, never crushed on a girl (im a girl) but i can watch girl porn and get turned on by bodies and guy porn too and same thing happens. i know its a fantasy and thats ok. but the problem is: i like my own body, ... (529 words)

I would be just friends, but I think my feelings for her will get in the way. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Her friends and family felt neglected and told her that she was spending too much time with me, even though she gave everyone an equal amount of time. She said her friends and family are more important than a boyfriend so she pushed me away. I agree with her but we were best ... (189 words)

I am upset with my cousin for not telling me she was pregnant before we had unprotected sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is so wrong. i have been seeing my cousin for the past seventeen years, although we have both moved on and got married to our loved ones, ever chance we get like in family gatherings we still have sex. my wife is now not in town, i was with my cousin over the weekend, we ... (154 words)

He tells white lies. We argue. I don't know how to solve this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in desperate need of some relationship advice. This is going to be really hard to put into words, but i'll try my best :)... I have been with my partner for a year now, he is one year older then me (18). We get on so well, i love spending time with him, and he tells m... (710 words)

Am I crazy if I want something with him still?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend who ive known for a few years. We met last year in college and we ended up dating for only a few weeks last year. I came back from a trip and he told me that he still had feeling for his ex. We agreed to be friends, and i wasnt to sure if that was actually ... (249 words)

Trying to rekindle. We are giving homemade gifts. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are going away for the weekend to try and rekindle the relationship. We would like to exchange a small token of our love for each other. However, we don't have a lot of extra money so we decided to do homemade gifts. Any ideas?... (48 words)

I am uncomfortable with BF's drug use. Need advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been back with my ex for 4 months were living together and im totally in love. i broke up with him 2 years ago coz of drugs and hes having a bit of trouble trying to forget how much hurt he went through but he only told me yesterday that he cheated on me 3 times after he ... (156 words)

Son is dating an older woman with children. How can I make him come to his senses?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I've been pretty confused about something lately and just can't seem to get my mind off of it. I'm really having a hard time figuring out why my son who is 22 y/o is dating this older woman who's 33 and has 2 kids (twins). I feel like he's wasting his youth and wonder ... (150 words)

I want to go back on the dating site, but my ex is there. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site, we dated for a long time, he told me he loved me everyday and I loved him a lot. But he lied to me, cheated and dumped me.. He really hurt me.. Am ready to move on and I ... (136 words)

He asked me about my monthly. Do you think he only wants me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a long distance relationship for years and we agreed to meet this September but it worries me now that he might just see me for physical reasons and not really love me for who I am. Is it not offensive when an online bf will ask, "what is your expected monthly... (103 words)

Help ! I want him back! Please help decode post breakup conversation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I actually was the one who initiated the breakup, although you couldn't tell from this convo lol, and he said he agreed we weren't right for each other and that he was glad it was mutual and amicable. So this is about 2 weeks later. We work together. I did something I shou... (1007 words)

What does he mean by saying, "I don't want to hurt you?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this stranger not too long ago. We exchanged numbers and texted and called each other every day for a month then finally went out on a date. Everything went really well, and we set up some more dates. At the end of our second date he told me to text him when I was free ... (137 words)

We hardly ever have sex anymore. I'd like this other man on the side. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm 42 yrs old and my husband is 52. i'm happily married and do not want to leave or lose my husband, but we hardly ever have sex. well a month ago i went on a little vacation and i met another man and yes, we did it 1 time, and it felt sooo good and so right. he lives 4 states ... (95 words)

Should I say, "Oh, I thought this was your number" as an excuse to ring him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ahhh, cupid i need help!, ok well basically (this is the back story to my actual question)i was talking to this guy in the year above me at school and he really does seem to like me, well the first time we met it was raining an we both decided to hide under our mutual friends ... (769 words)

I messed up big time with my ex girlfriend. How can I make things right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been 3 months since my break up with my ex, i believed she didn't love me, i believe she was dating around guys, and had sex with this one guy i had my suspicions with. So during the last 3 months i took up drinking and smoking (not heavily but when i drink i get drunk, ... (350 words)

I'm too young to be in a relationship with no spark, but I'm afraid to leave. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody I need some help. Me and my now ex had been together for almost two years. And recently we had been on and off. I hadn't been happy with him for awhile, at the beginning he used to make me feel special, listened to, and wanted. And now the spark has died, ... (270 words)

He tells me I should understand him. He promises not to leave. I don't know what to think. Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy proposed to me, but before i answered, i asked him if he had a girl friend. He told me that it doesn't depend on the girl friend one has but someone's choice, and that I am his choice. He said he had had many experience with women so therefore decided to go for a young ... (179 words)

She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Why is my ex girlfriend so cold? She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. She says she needs a month...does that mean she wasn't telling me the truth about loving me? I don't see how people could just switch their feelings like that. ... (64 words)

I don't know if I should keep this LDR or not. I feel he is the one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We love each other so much. Both of our parents also agree with our relationship. Otherwise,sometimes I feel that it's too hard for me to keep go on with this relationship ( I've been with my ... (275 words)

Reasons BF gave me for breaking up with me are preposterous. I am heartbroken.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has recently broken up with me. We were in a relationship for more than 4 years, this being the 5th year. (Additional Info:- He was my first ever boyfriend and he said I was his first too. At the beginning we had a wonderful relation but slowly things did get anno... (1338 words)

How do I take this to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys not a big problem but advice is needed please. I just want to know how do I go from one goodbye kiss on the lips to actually making out/getting off with my girlfriend?... (37 words)

I want to stop playing games and seriously get her attention. How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i really, really, like this girl which i was sort of friends with...when she found out about it...she lost her respect for me completely...she hasnt been talking to me much as compared to other guys such as my own friends, she said she doesnt really like me when asked by my ... (245 words)

Should I just forget him, or do you think my hoping won't be in vain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been a year and a half since my ex and I broke up, and I'm still not over him. He was my first everything, first real boyfriend, first guy I had sex with, first love. The only reason we broke up was because he moved away to a different country. We tried long distance for ... (196 words)

We got back together. I think he's cheating but he says no. What can I do?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i think my bfs cheating on me we broke up about 2 weeks ago but got back together bout a week go but ever since hes been acting weird. he does not text me no more and only phones when hes in work and then i dont hear of him till the next day. when i text him he never texts ... (324 words)

Passion returns after 25 years. We're both married. How do I handle it?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Do I say something? I'm 40 years old. I'm divorced. I have 2 awesome kids, and despite being single, I am relatively happy. When I was young and dumb (15) I fell for the 'love of my life' hard. I was consumed with her. I had seriously intense feelings of 'love' for h... (312 words)

Thirteen and oversexed. Should I ask my brother to buy me a toy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and I want to have sex but I am obviously to young and I get horny a lot and I don't know what to do I finger myself sometimes and I use a small toy or a hair brush it is kind is satisfying but I want a vibrator but I don't want to ask my mum and definitely not my dad ... (117 words)

He talks to me online plenty, but not much at school anymore. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, There's a guy in school who I am really good friends with, we used to talk quite often and were good friends, we still are good friends, but recently he hasn't been talking to me as much as he used to in school. He still talks to me loads on MSN and Facebook, but i just d... (135 words)

How do I handle his "sexting" when I see him next.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A friend of mine and I have a complicated relationship. It is complicated in the fact that I have had on and off feelings for him, but as of recently, been keeping it platonic. And he is a massive flirt who will flirt with most girls in my year and the year below (we are both ... (370 words)

I feel as though I've been cheated on and just don't know what to do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for a year and our relationship, sex life was great or so I thought. I recently went out of town with some girlfriends and left a book of sexy pictures of myself out for him to enjoy while I was gone. When I came home I went on the computer ... (164 words)

She'll want sex. How can I show her she is worth more than that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay um, where to start... well i've known this girl for about 6 years (we'll call her Chloe) and i've liked her for a good while now. i'd love to have a relationship with her; the problem is she has a reputation for sleeping around and i'm still a virgin, so i can't exactly ... (137 words)

Can one really fall in love at 15?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! Apparently, this time I wanted to consult the experts if it is normal to start falling in love at the tender age of 15? One of my good friends, Jen, said that she had this......for a boy.......I personally find it weird and my mom and grandma said that it is not healthy ... (77 words)

What advice can I give to my friend that is having an affair with a married woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - A friend needs advice and I am unsure how to help him. He's having a relationship with a married woman and wants to get out but doesn't know how to end it. She loves him, but I have told him that these types of relationships hardly work. He feels guilty about the relationship ... (65 words)

Married, in my thirties, and still having crushes. Afraid I will act on them Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married, in my thirties and generally a very good, level headed and kind person. The issue is, I have crushes. ALL the time. I don't act on them at all, but it makes me feel really guilty and worried that maybe if given the right circumstances, maybe I would act on ... (69 words)

What can I do to get back at him for all the pain he has caused me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am going to make a long story short, so if u want more info just ask. My ex and i dated for three months and then he dumped me, he told me while we were split up that he still loved me, that he fucked up, he wants another chance, and was kissing me again. Well my friend... (146 words)

I regret telling him. How do I put things right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been at 6th form since last September, and a guy who went to the same school as me goes there. We never spoke at spoke, but over the past 8 months, we've bonded so well, to the point that we both trust each other so much. We have a lot in common - our ... (247 words)

Tossing BF's pregnant friend and son out isn't an option. Need advice on my relationship with BF.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. (Me-26, Him-29) The problem is his best friend, who happens to be female. Over the years, she's lived with my boyfriend off and on as she's trying to get on her feet. She has a son from a previous relationship and through ... (298 words)

I had sex with my GF and my sister heard. What do I do if she mentions it to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - im 15 and have recently had sex with my girlfriend. people started to know and it got to my sisters friend. her friend told my sister and now she knows. im really paranoid that it will come up in conversation. im really close to my sister but now i feel awkward around her. what ... (59 words)

Sex was good in our marriage, but husband has no interest for the past 3 years. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) age - What can be the cause when a man does not want any sex with his wife? Is this possible,that he doesn't know why? What can you do,if he says he loves you,but he never wants sex, ever, for years. He never looks at me naked, or touches me. I asked many times,if its me, but he s... (105 words)

I can't stop loving him, and he can't stop confusing me. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy, who i love since year 9. Well, he has a girlfriend which is my friend, but not close. I know it's wrong but i don't flirt or do anything. Except eye-contacts. When i first met him, i just felt like he's different from the others. Yeap, he is different. I kinda ... (251 words)

My jealousy is ruining our relationship. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now and recently have known how jealous i can get the jealousy is changing who i am and i hate it and dont know what to do about it it's also changing how i feel about my bf i keep telling myself he doesnt love me and when he ... (75 words)

How do I tell my husband's girlfriend's husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I go about informing my husband's girlfriend's husband that she is having an affair? ... (18 words)

I threw myself at him, Did he lose respect for me? Is there a chance of turning this around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - dated this guy I work w/ for a while, it was steady, intense and consistent. Then I pulled away bc he wasn't spending enough time w/ me. I had hoped he would try to work it out w/ me, but he didn't..he just let me go. I mean, canceled our weekend date, declined his offer to see ... (1053 words)

Is he still attracted to me, or is it really nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It may be a tad long but i just came on here for some advice or insight please! Anything that will help make sense!? Here goes, call me stupid or naive since i know you don't know the guy or me, but if you can make out these actions.. Great! I asked this question about a... (332 words)

He has lied to make himself seem cooler. Should I forgive these kinds of lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok let's see... Well a couple months ago I met an awesome person online. Like I've seriously never met anyone like him before... it started out casually talking and over a few weeks we talked more then decided to call each other a couple. Thing is he had a girlfriend at the ... (287 words)

She doesn't meet my criteria for a life partner. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I've been doing a lot of thinking. I am unsure about how much I love her because when we're away from each other I sometimes miss her, but more often than not end up thinking of all the bad things a... (345 words)

Contraception and pregnancy. How far should one plan for the unplanned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When you have sex there is no guarantee you will not get pregnant, because even when you do use contraception you can use it the wrong way, and no contraception can claim to be 100 percent safe either. I do trust in the contraception I use, and that I wont fall pregnant, but at ... (218 words)

How does a tit wank work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologise in advance as i don't know a nicer way to word it and i don't want this to seem inappropriate but how would a tit wank work? Like how would you sit? Does it even work anyway? Especially seeing as my boyfriend is quite a bit taller than me would it work? Any... (75 words)

Any advice for menstrual irregularities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having bad menstrual irregularities, i used to be sexually active two years ago, i would take the morning after pill very regularly, however i totally went off sex, and last year my period was reasonably regular, this year however, i have had my period once in three ... (55 words)

He walks all over me. I want him to respect me. How do I do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have low self esteem. My boyfriend senses this so he feels that things are super "safe" with me because I will never leave him. So sometimes he enjoys driving me up the wall and rarely apologizes anymore. Most days he's sweet but sometimes I over-worry and exac... (246 words)

He'll never be anything more than a liar. We had 2 weeks planned. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been in long distance relationship for almost two years now. We see each other every weekend, and yesterday he arrived here and is going to stay with me for 3 weeks (we did this before, in August last year and it was great). My family is going abroad t... (432 words)

I know now that childcare is not what I want to do. Need help with career choice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, a quick question, how do you know what you want to do in life if you have no ambitions and no idea on a career path? I had to quit college because i became pregnant, yes it was planned but it happened sooner then planned. The college course i was doing, i do not want... (168 words)

GF is a workalcoholic. We are to be married in 3 months. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I dont know who else to turn to. Its really getting to the point where I dont know what to do. sorry if its long, but yeah. My Fiancee and I are getting married in about 3 months. For the last year, she has been doing freelance work to save up some money for the wedding. ... (320 words)

My sister is a squatter. How can my parents get her to leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister got pregnant and my parents let her stay at home. now that the child is 1 year old now they want her to leave and get a house of her own. they have constantly told her to go cause all she does is causes hassle and fights with everyone. She pays for nothing. Currently ... (107 words)

5 Months. Is it time to have a serious conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy 5 months ago, we've been dating ever since. He is older than me but that's not an issue, the time we spend together is amazing. I'm starting to have feelings for him and I'm a little scared because I really don't know if he is looking to have something serious, ... (150 words)

How can I encourage him to talk to me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not a popular girl, but usually my friends think I'm cute, a good listener and a hard worker. anyway, I'm an ordinary teenager. I'm not an English native speaker, so I'm studying in an English school for foreigners in an english speaking country. so, recently, there is... (186 words)

Why isn't this guy making any moves? Is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a 14 year old girl and i have a crush on this guy in my class.Well i thought he liked me back so i started staring at him alot to get him to make the first move.Well He started looking at me the way i looked at him and i felt he had a crush on me too.But then its going ... (184 words)

He says he loves me but cannot marry me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a traditional orthodox indian girl who was never in a relationship before, now from past 2 year i met a guy and both were truely in love. i have not revealed this with anyone nor he. now his parents are forcing him to get married then i raised the question of marrying me. ... (109 words)

I love him more than I realized, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i hav a crush wit ma friend n also ma classmate,he told me he feels the same but i dont believe him,i know he has someone but i cant control my feelings.i love him more than i realised.what can i do?... (41 words)

43 and trying to start over

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, im 43, divorced, 3 kids and in a relationship for 8 months now, my question is, should i be expecting long term plans and commitment??? should i be included in vacations with his family and kids after a year, or it is normal for us to be having separate vacation... (176 words)

He lied about his age, should I see him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

11 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Ok I got know this guy over the phone, we talk everyday and text. recently went on a date with him and found out he lied about his age. Turns out he is 9 yrs older tha me, there were a few other little things that I didnt really like, but these would be minor compared to him ... (117 words)

Does he like me?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy that i really like and i'm not sure if he likes me. He is one of my older brothers friends, and only one year then me. At the skating rink he asked my brother if he could ask me to couples skate with him. I thought it was sweet. The whole night he kept messing ... (106 words)

Is he really is having his cake and eating it by living rent free at his mums and at mine?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me I'm very confused about my relationship of 15 months. He has two kids from his prev relationship of 8 years. We don't live together but he is at my place every night. For majority of the time we get along good and I really love him, he says he loves me too. ... (1148 words)

He is avoiding telling his mum that we are getting engaged, is he having second thoughts?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were supposed to tell his mum that we were getting engaged and then at the last minute wanted to tell her another day, this then made me wonder if he even wanted to be engaged at all?... (41 words)

Is my ex starting to care about me again?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age - i was with my bf for 15 years. we had an ugly break up. he ended up getting a restraining order against me. i missed him so much i recently started texting him and emailing him. hes reading everything and listening. i found this our because hes talking to me now. is my ex ... (60 words)

Just had a baby and not feeling too great about my body, and now I find out my boyfriend is watching porn! What should I do?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just had a baby so am not really comfy with my body at the minute, but I've just recently found out that my boyfriend and my babies dad has been watching porn on the internet and Im not sure how to feel or what I should do about it?... (50 words)

Is it possible to get the relationship back? I'm ready to marry her now but she wants space!

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have dated a girl for about 6 years. Ive always loved her and she has been awesome in the realtionshiop. We went to different schools and for the past 3 years Ive worked in London and she lives in Texas and has a great job there. Ive alwyas been honest with her and havent ... (217 words)

How do you say "How are you?" in Chinese and German?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - what is "how are you" in chinese and german... (9 words)

Should I move on because knowing that she is happy, I should be happy for her?

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl I dated back in high school (two years ago) is happy with another guy. I broke up with her because I "knew" I wouldnt amount to anything, and though I'd always be a nobody... To this day (two years and four months later) not a day goes by where I dont miss her. ... (129 words)

Pregnant by my ex who has another girlfriend, and I'm only 14! Should I keep it or give it up for adoption?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so, i was with my ex for a year and 2 months, he currently has a new gf because hes 'trying to get over me' we had sex a couple weeks ago (yea i know im such a horrible person letting him cheat on her like that, blah blah blah) but the condom broke and we didnt notice, so he ... (87 words)

Why would he even ask if I want to have sex with other men?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. We have always been happy and very much in love. My boyfriend is very protective which makes me feel special enough for him to care how other boys act around me. He has always told me he would hate to see me with someone else. ... (122 words)

He heard lies from someone else about me and now calls me a prostitute! To make it worse, I am pregnant with his baby and he wants to take it away from me.....

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi friends , I am a 24yrs old university graduate, and 6 months pregnant, but the father of my baby has left me, he broke up with me over the phone and called me all sort of names. he even calls me a prostitute,..the relationship was a very smooth one. We started the ... (306 words)

Whatever happened to love conquers all?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all I'm recently feeling vexed over a guy! He's been courting me for a few months and even though initially I wasn't interested, I was finally beginning to be touched by his words. And for a moment, I really considered his friend's advise on dating him. On Saturday, h... (166 words)

Was it my penis size that did not satisfy her sexually?

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend. i had sex for first time but she was not so much satisfied. my penis size is 5.5" is it normal? and i ejaculate early. so natural ways to stop my early ejaculation?... (39 words)

Will he try something if he comes to my house?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met him about two months ago - and I've been told by several people that he's a bit of a man slut, if you know what I mean...he talks to me when he's drunk asking for sex and calls me mean when I say no. I've told him I haven't 'done anything' and he thought I was weird but ... (105 words)

Fallen for my doctor - if I tell him how I feel, what would be the consequences?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been this doctor’s patient for about 10 months now.i see him every 2 month. i’m in my early 20's. For all these months, I never showed my feelings to him. I never even asked him about his personal life other than medical-related questions(I actually should have asked, but ... (355 words)

Does anyone else ever feel this way? Are there any good people out there left in the world?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to vent. Does anyone else ever feel like the world is just full of corrupt, crooked, lying people who care about nothing else but money or power or even BOTH? I'm in my late twenties. To think that five years ago I actually looked at the world like it was some k... (715 words)

How long should a guy last during sex?

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - how much time, under normal circumstances,c an a guy last when having sex in the first round?... (17 words)

Is there something wrong with me or is this natural?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, Okay, well one day i was masturbating and i decided to stick my fingers up there (nothing unusual) but it really hurt. I don't understand why because i do it all the time. Also I'm not a virgin and was having sex with my boyfriend and his penis wouldn't go up either ... (75 words)

Obsessing that my boyfriend may cheat

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I find myself obsessing over whether my boyfriend is having sex with anyone else. We've been together 5 months and I have no specific evidence at all. In fact, he tells me what he is doing whenever I ask and he picks up the phone whenever I call (even 2 in the morning). Still ... (123 words)

He wants a break when I don't believe in them, how do I act if he tries to contact me?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me for a 'break' today. In my mind there is no such thing as a break but I didn't really feel like expressing that, or anything else to him at the time. He said he had a lot of stuff to deal with and that he needs to straighten out his life. He said he... (186 words)

I thought having a baby would bring us closer but he has left and now he has a new girlfriend!

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were having problems, I thought having a baby would bring us closer together, instead we broke up and he is with a new girl. Our baby is only 3 months and I'm struggling to raise a baby on my own as well as deal with a broken heart. He hardly sees the.baby but when ... (90 words)

This is more than just a crush on my best friend......what should I do?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in love with my best friend and don't know what to do because i can't tell him and i don't know if he feels the same way though whenever we're together lately it feels like something is there and our friend thinks so too. whenever he touches my hand or anywhere else ... (255 words)

Should I just ignore him and hope he will want to be with me again or should I try and break my ex and his new GF's relationship??

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't get over my ex. He has a New girlfriend and says he is happy but I want him back, I'm still in love with him, we have a baby together and just want to be a family. Do I just ignore him and hope he will want to be with me again or do I be a bitch and try and break them ... (81 words)

I cannot forget my crushes and feel like a lost girl

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there... Last december I went on vacation to mexico with my parents. I had a pretty good life back then, I was really happy and never thought I would ever have the problems I have now.... So when I got there, there was a Mexican animator who seemed to be into me... He ha... (386 words)

Tough love..tell me your thoughts

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know if I'm looking for advice but maybe would just like to hear other peoples thoughts. I'm 26 years old and my girlfriend left me a week ago. Her and I had been dating for a year. We met through her father who I work with; he invited me over one night and her and I ... (1564 words)

Am I sending the wrong message?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 33 years old woman and always dress up even on Sundays when I want to go out to have a cup of coffee, I m not originally from the USA. I see here women go out with pajama to be honest at the beginning I was amazed how they can go to university with pajama and flip flops. I ... (242 words)

He wont give his opinion but then complains when I make decisions without him

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand this. I ask my boyfriend for his opinion on something and he acts neutral about it. Then when I make a choice and it was the "wrong" one, he then has an opinion and tells me then he is mad that I made the wrong choice. This has happened alot lately. but the ... (201 words)

Where do I go from here?

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am stuck, I do not know where to go from here. I am a 17 year old bisexual male who is in love with the cutest boy of all time, and I think he loves me to. My only problem is that I do not know how to pursue a relationship, or if I should at this point. Anyway, I will start ... (991 words)

He cheated and came back to give me a STD, should I tell the other girl?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been dating this guy for 10 months and I fell in Love with him because he took my virginity and I couldn't dream of being with no one else. Recently he cheated and Came Back and Gave me an Std ... and Left me For a Girl I Know. I was So upset and she ... (126 words)

I miss my ex! Should I contact him again?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So this guy and I broke up 6 months ago I still haven't gotten over him sadly...i miss him. The break up was really bad it was mostly my fault..but I really want to talk to him. He deleted me off Facebook back when we split. Is adding him again like now a bad idea? Should I ... (74 words)

Do long distance relationships ever work?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy but we are both afraid of becoming too close due to our distance. do long distance relationships ever really work? in this case both people would be as devoted as possible.... (36 words)

I really like her a lot, and want to know how to get her attention!

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've found this girl and she really makes me feel... I cant really explain the feeling =/. I guess "alive" would be the word. After a bad breakup with my ex a couple of months ago i thought it'd be impossible to find another girl to make me feel this way. I was wrong. ... (355 words)

Obsessed with beauty way too much...When will I be happy?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old girl and a girl who can never be happy. .. I was a girl who got bullied since I was K2.. all the way until I was 15 years old. I used to be a girl where no one will say hi to me because I look "anti-social".. I was tan,geeky and had alot of pimples. When I ... (605 words)

How can a boy like a girl and suddenly change their mind?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - how can a boy like a girl and suddenly cnage their mind for no reason?... (15 words)

Ignored.

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so recently I confronted my boyfriend about that I thought he was cheating but.. that's not the problem anymore because I trust him now. Although, one thing I've noticed since is.. he's staring to ignore me.. today we was going out and eat and when we walked from his ... (141 words)

I desperately want to see my long lost love, but my family will disapprove!

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i went to stay with family for a holiday where i met my cousin for the first time we were both 17. it was like love at first sight i tried to resist but i couldn't hold out. straight after i felt scared incase anyone found out. now 27 years later we are back in touch and my e... (167 words)

Am I the only female out there who feels a million decades older than I actually am due to a partner's inattention?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now, and throughout that time I've always made an effort to keep myself looking good, groomed and special just for him. He's never been a style horse but he used to at least shave, put on a nice shirt and some spray. He now only... (303 words)

Do I continue trying to move on or do I call him and let him know my feelings?

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm looking for some advise on what to do... heres my situation it's really long so please bare with me... I had been in a 2 year relationship with someone I thought was my soul mate. Things got complicated and I felt trapped (Had moved in together etc). One ni... (1615 words)

Does he still care about me or is he just scared of commiting himself to a family?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, we have a baby together, he just started seeing someone else in the last month. But things between us never seem to be finished. Lately I have been sending him pics of myself, with him encouraging more of them. He has told me he wants to sleep ... (148 words)

Exit Only

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is always trying to put things where they don't belong. I don't like THAT KIND of sex, but I feel bad for refusing him. Why does he like it so much? Can't he read the sign "exit only"???... (43 words)

How do I disappear with my little one so he can't find us?

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11 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - hi everyone i need some help and some of you might think i'm a cow. but here it goes i have a 3 week old baby that the dad only saw 3 times since her birth. to me i think he is a dick he can't see her beacuse its messing with his new relationship which started shortly ... (140 words)

Has anyone here has been lied to by an online love?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please guys I dont want any negative comments, Okay, I have known this guy for about 6 years online, and we developed feelings for each other, I love him, and he loves me. Problem is I lied about my identity (name and race, but, he has seen me on webcam, so he does know wh... (252 words)

I told her I had rights, but she said they went out the window when I dumped her 10 months ago!

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - okay story is right i was with a girl 6 years right but i wasn't into her anymore so like i broke up with her and then she told me she was pregant but like i was seening a new bird at the time. so i told her to forget it if she thinks i was going to get back with her well anyw... (188 words)

I get more pleasure out of dry humping then sex!

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this strange? I would rather keep my clothes on and dry hump, then have sex. I feel nothing with sex, but dry humping really gets me in the mood and safe to say, turns me on Is this strange?... (45 words)

Was I wrong to contact his mother? I haven't heard from her since.

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - was i wrong for contacting his mum? in a LDR and ive met his mother and mailed her on facebook a couple of times. my boyfriend has recently got a severe case of depression and last night I have never been so terrified, i made myself physically sick over it and crie... (326 words)

If he wanted me he would initiate it, right? Or is he just scared?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I dated a guy for a 3 months and everything was amazing. He introduced me to his parents, friends... and then he started getting distant so I asked him waht was going on... He said he likes being with me, but he didn't think he could give me anything serious right now and if ... (244 words)

Sleeping with a girl who is "involved". I want more. Please help.

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11 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a great girl a few months ago and have recently started sleeping with her. The problem is she is in a long distance relationship with a guy in another country. We spend a lot of time together but I get the feeling I'm more into her than she is me. I mean she hasn't me... (248 words)

What he just telling me what I wanted to hear? How do I fix this?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Kinda a long story so please bear with me. I was engaged to my Fiancé "M" for almost a year. We have been dating for 3 years and living together almost that long as we dated a long time ago. He is 27 and I am 25. Him and I had many many things wrong with our ... (814 words)

Not sure what to do about lecturer who is jealous when I get male attention.

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and my teacher started being ... (464 words)

He wants to see me again, but I don't know if I can trust him. What should I do?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy have been best friends since freshman year in high school. (We have graduated now) We were also friends with benefits the entire time of our friendship. We always talked about dating, but when we would get close to dating he would always go off and date ... (204 words)

Depressed husband and unsatisfied wife. Please help.

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I have been married for almost 8 years now and it feels like a vicious cycle. my husband is on meds for adhd and clinical depression and still won't get help. my patience and epathy are almost wearing out. I have developed panic disorder due to this. I do not know ... (160 words)

Am I tricking myself into thinking I'm still pregnant, or did the abortion fail?

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11 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - in september when i was 2 months pregnant, i was more or less forced into having an abortion. ever since then i have still been having symptoms and every since the abortion i have regretted it and hated myself for it. i know its stupid, but i feel like im still pregnant. e... (208 words)