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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Please help me to move on...

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - When i was 17 i got pregnent with a baby girl. At first her father and i were still together. But sooner or later he started to stray from me. He started talking to other girls. Once we broke up he dated and had sex with another girl. I fought to be with him. When our baby was ... (140 words

High sex drive, need Help.

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - So yeah, I have a high sex drive and my girlfriend doesn't. I see her 3-4 days a week (every two days). We have been together for a year and a half. We usually make love every time we see each other, but when we don't I get really moody, upset and I think that im not good ... (78 words

I don't mind being friends but I don't want to lose contact with him...

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 weeks of dating he said he needed space and wanted to enjoy being single but over text messaging, that he still loved me and he would always be there for me. He said he loves me more then anyone else. I just rolled my eyes and didnt ... (199 words

What's on his mind?

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks and we hung out only twice. The past couple days he have been txting me and at the end of the day, asks me if I wanna talk on the phone later at night. But I haven't heard from him allday yesterday. Is he waiting for me to make the ... (129 words

She keeps walking in on me masturbating!

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Need help? My sister walked in on me masterbating last month, now she keeps doing it. And i've been super carefull, but its like she knows i'm doing it and my bedroom door flys open, she's even walked in on me twice wheni've been in the shower. What should i do?? ... (51 words

How can I let him see it's time we both grew up, we're both adults!?

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years now and we've been rocky for a while. It's always been his dream to travel overseas to teach English to children, which is why he is getting his degree. This is not because he loves children or teaching mind you, but to ... (847 words

How can I overcome these feelings and hold my head up high and carry on with my life?

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok so this is a little complicated but I will explain best I can. Lately i'm questioning if I can be friends with this girl and guy that i live with. We met as she was friends with a friend of a guy I was seeing. While seeing him she would sometimes be around, and on o... (566 words

What can I do to let my husband know I really care about him?

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I dont know what to think about this. My husband got a new job and has been doing this for a month now. His schedule was nice 6.5 hrs a day 6 days a week which is a little over full time. Its exhausting work and he is not supplied with the proper tools to perform his duties. ... (1372 words

How do I get him back without coming off needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I recently broke up, it was due to a lot of nagging about the relationship on my part! I wasn't happy but now I think that things could really work after this short break! How do I get him back without coming off needy? Or without asking him directly?... (56 words

I'm lonely and want to connect with others.

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I woud like to be able to trust people again. I find it hard as i've been betrayed and rejected by so called friends. People tell me i'm hard to get to know, but I feel no one has made the effort because it takes a while for me to open up. I lack confidence and self esteem and ... (174 words

How to control my intense sexual thoughts?

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29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I'm a little conservative type of a person and i have high ambitions in my life. But intense sexual thoughts and unrealistic fantasies distracting from working towards achieving my goals I think sex outside marriage is morally wrong and I've decided to save myself for marri... (109 words

Should I break up with my boyfriend and see if this other boy is maybe a better fit for me?

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29 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi there aunts My question has a long backstory, so I apologize for that in advance. I just got back from a school trip to New York City, and while there I wasn't able to talk to my boyfriend of almost a year. He sent texts, but I couldn't reply to any of them. While awa... (392 words

I miss him like crazy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for over a year with a guy who I was deeply in love with. I knew he was the one for me and we talked about some day getting married and stuff like that. But jealously that was getting built up inside of me and I lied to him. For 6 months I made him and ... (281 words

Why did he lie so much... I thought he was a friend?

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - really need help-so down. ok ive been friends with a guy for 2 years we were close friends and we worked together. he was in a bad way when he started and i helped and supported him emotionally and financially for the last 2 years. during that time hes become very arrogant an... (240 words

Should I just go on the cruise and behave myself?

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29 April 2011 (F age - Having been a cruise last year and made a complete fool of myself chasing a man half my age I KNOW I was wrong. This year I decided to book a completely different company for the itinary I wanted however last week I got a letter saying the company had cancelled it as it was ... (325 words

Wife's ex-boyfriend calls her. Should I intervene?

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29 April 2011 (M age 51-59 - My wife's ex-boyfriend (one she dated for three months twenty years ago!) sought her out on Facebook. She wanted to catch up with him and she also felt badly for dumping him back when and wanted to apologize to him. They exchanged about a dozen e-mails reminiscing about th... (564 words

My friend/girl of my dreams is heart broken, but single now... should I make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - So, apparently the object of my affection has officially cut all ties to the dude she was casually seeing and now she's single, We've become pretty good friends over the course of the few months I've known her, a fact that belies that I've always wanted to be more than friends ... (142 words

Worried about my weight

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I suppose this isnt really a relationship question, but i'm really hoping you guys will help me with this.. Im going on a trip soon with some friends, I am a size 12 jeans and I HATE how my body looks, We are going to spain so the climate will be pretty hot there, a... (189 words

How should I confront my husband about his texting in bed when he thinks I am asleep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - How should i confront my husband about him texting when he thinks i am asleep? My husband is sending a 'hi' msg on his bbm to his coworker at 12:30 am, while he thinks i am sleeping with our babies. what should you make of it?... (46 words

Why must everyone I know that is in a relationship with someone constantly remind me of how single I am?

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29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Why must everyone I know that is in a relationship with someone constantly remind me of how single I am. Am I not miserable enough already. I swear that I'm being punished by god for some unknown future transgression. I'm in my mid 20's and never once has a woman ever been ... (383 words

Could gay/bisexual guys possibly fancy effeminate ones?

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - First things first, I'm an 18yo gay male, and have been wondering quite a few things for a while. A description of self: I'm gay, and I've been out of the closet since the prehistoric. I act, think, and talk like a femme, and somewhat dress, but not over the extremes like wea... (276 words

Wife is just using me, she no longer loves me and is in love with a female friend!

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29 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi there about 18months ago my wife told me she had feelings for her female friend. I took this on the chin and we carried on about a year later she told me she loves this woman but no longer loves me or fancyss me. We no longer have sex she contributes nothing to the upkeep of ... (99 words

Why is first love so hard to get over?

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29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Why is first love so hard to get over? It's been 15 months since my girlfriend dumped but I still find it tough getting over here. Every night, I see here appearing in my dreams. any help from you guys in this regard would truly be appreciated. Thank you!... (53 words

I am seeing both my boyfriend AND my ex husband and don't want to give up either one!

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29 April 2011 (F age - Please help I have been in a dilemma for many years. I was married for 25 years but somehow I felt my husband did not love me. To make story short, I got really closed to a colleague and his love for me felt so strong. In parallel my husband was getting further and further. ... (439 words

Why do men prefer to break up in a text rather than in person?

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I would like to know y men cannot break up face to face... y is it that they find it easier to. Txt it... my bf broke up with me yesterday cuz he has insecurity issues beleives ima cheat on him and gets really sad and upset just him thinking bout it. Cuz I have done it n the ... (203 words

I feel like people see me as a joke and its very upsetting to me!

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I keep feeling sad and upset over my past. It feels like a ton have bricks has landed on me and i'm being confronted with it and trying to come to terms with it everything. People have always branded me thick and stupid, throughout my life. It started when i was 3 and my dad... (442 words

I think my husband's female friend is just waiting on the sidelines for him!

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29 April 2011 (F age - My husband has a female friend that he has had for fifteen years the same amount of time that he has known me. We all used to work in the same company and my husband (he was single then) used to make a fool of himself over this woman always taking her for lunch etc although she ... (499 words

Should I hang around until he can secure a divorce without losing too much of his assets?

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey! I hope I can get some help here. I have been in a relationship with a man for over one year. The problem is that he is married to someone else. Ok! He left his country and went to the UK on a six months visa. (That was some 15 years ago). We all know that when people... (367 words

Boyfriend thinks he can watch all the porn he wants after our baby is born!

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend likes porn. He watches it every chance he gets and I've told him I hate that he watches so much of it but he starts getting into the statistics that all guys watch a ton of porn and blah blah. It really irritates me. And I am already self conscious about my body ... (166 words

I'm unclear of his feelings can someone help please!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with, the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me.. lately we have been talkIng heaps, just random stuff and flirting... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though they aren't really , what's this ... (233 words

It bothers me knowing that others had sex with my boyfriend but he was my 1st everything!

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am just wondering if I am the only one that thinks this way and if I should just get over feeling this way or if it is something thats ok to worry about. I was a virgin when my boyfriend and I had sex. I didn't know it would bother me knowing he wasn't a virgin and that he's ... (118 words

Help!!! I love my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, my problem is a universal one. i think i am in love with my best friend. about one and a half years ago was when we became real friends. before that we only knew each other and were on a hi-hello basis. he was going through a break-up and used to call me ... (215 words

Can sperm go through an unbroken hymen?

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - hello everyone can virgin get pregnant if a sperm gets near her vagina? have there been any facts because many people say virgin can get pregnant even if her hyman is not broken but nobody has actually given any examples..... what i mean is she is a virgin and her hymen is... (96 words

Should I buy? Or rent?

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - hi all need some advice ive saved 25,000 pounds and wants to know whats better renting or buying a one bedroom place any advice will be great . my family says get a mortgage and my mates says rent help ... (46 words

More memory...

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Guyz, My brother don't allow me to download my favorite online game in our family computer because i have not my own personal computer and/or laptop and because our computer don't have enough memory. please teach me something that can support or give more memory in our computer ... (134 words

Friend's remark has really hurt me! I don't think luck has anything to do with how I have survived!

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29 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi Readers, I would really appreciate what people think of what my supposed friend has said to me just recently. To cut to the chase I have been trying to beat the Domestic Violence Cycle for around 20 years now and finally enough strength with my Psychologist, St... (539 words

How do I draw this man closer to me and away from his work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 22 yrs old girl. I met a guy online who is 39 years old.After we spoke for online for sometime, he asked me for an Open relationship. At that point of time , i has no clue what does that mean. So i just agreed to be friendly with him. I did meet him , as he was... (504 words

We were dating, but now she just wants to be friends but do everything we did before!

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - {Moderator note: we don't publish questions written in ALL CAPS} I need advice. I met a girl and she was very nice and funny... but at the time she was in jail when she got out she broke up with her and we began dating.. we were dating for almost 4 months and she lost her... (94 words

Am I being too naive to be upset about my Gf's attitude to sleeping her way to the top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

29 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - So I have been seeing this girl for a couple months and we got to talking recently about our work and job history. she is a decently successful actress in commercials and some background TV spots. now here's the thing: she was a model first, and she said she slept around with ... (168 words

Does it ever work out when a couple is forced to marry? (Not arranged marriage)

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Is there anyone out there who has been forced (not arranged) to marry someone you do not love or are not attracted to, when you already loved someone else? Has your marriage to this person really truly honestly worked not out of obligation, emotional blackmail, brainwashing or ... (208 words

Should I break up with this guy to keep my friend?

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29 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - 0k. My friend was dating this guy who is 2yearz older than me and my friend, there was no problem at that time. Until the guy dumped my friend because she was cheating with a guy i never heard of. Then after 1 year, the guy told me that he had feelings for me from the first day ... (190 words

I don't know how to feel, I have had proof that b/f lied and cheated

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have being dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and everything was well untill when i found out last year that when i was away to another country for a month he started flirting with another girl.When i got back he was totally changed and deep inside i knew there was something ... (255 words

I really can't figure out from her behavior if she loves me or not?

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29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now but we broke up once because of the long distance, it happened 2 or 3 weeks ago... But we got back together after 1 day no contact, she said we'll be together in 1 condition if I won't go out with another girls, I've never done ... (407 words

Married woman won't leave my boyfriend alone!

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - What do I do? This women wont back off and leave my boyfriend alone she is a married women but seems to have some interest in my boyfriend in particular like a crush or something. She is always drawing pictures for him, she comments on everything he post on facebook sometimes ... (442 words

He's scared about things progressing so he has backed off!

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29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I am a gay male in my mid-20's. Just by way of background I recently got out of a 4 year relationship in which I was living with my ex for most of that time. About 8 or 9 months ago I met a guy and we became friends. I didn't even know he was gay until a month or so later. We ... (402 words

I'm an escourt, falling for client and he wants me to not use condoms! Is he just playing me?

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am an escort;started to have feeling for one of the clients....and he apparently feels the same; He wanted to start seeing me without the agency but I refused as did not want to risk the good relationship as I have with the agency especialyy that i this particular case they ... (205 words

I found out my fiance was promiscuous and now I don't want to marry her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

29 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - dear cupid should i go through with the wedding my fiancee just told me she was promiscuous when younger.i find that to be a turn off i wish she had being honest at the begining like i was i told her i was a virgin by choice and religious beliefs.now i dont how to let her down ... (58 words

Unplanned pregnancy, I don't want college b/f to deal with it. Should I go away, leave a note and say I'll explain later?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am 17(and yes I graduated and I'm turning 18 in two weeks)and I have had the same boyfriend since I was a freshman and we have know each other since I was a baby because his family and my family were friends. He is also 3 years older than me and in collage but does not ... (310 words

My boyfriend impregnanted another girl

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend impregnanted another girl he dated for 3 months.but he is telling me that he loves me he want to marry me.but however last year i got pregnant and he told me to abort because he was not ready to became a father because he is curently studying so he is getting half ... (144 words

Boyfriend broke up with me and I've lost my best friend!

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just realised last night that I've lost my best friend. My boyfriend was my best friend and a month ago he dumped me, the reason for this was because he had become incredibly depressed and had no strength to keep up a relationship because its so exhausting, he even said he ... (319 words

I really like her though I've never met, but I don't know what to do when we do meet!

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi there. I have two questions, I really need help on this. My friend introduced me to a girl and unfortunately I have not met her, yet. We have been texting each other a lot and we have become friends. But heres the problem, I really like her, really really like her even... (123 words

My girlfriend feels sad knowing she will be "wife number 2"

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29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I am 23 years old, and have been dating my girlfreind for 8 months, we are truly in love. when i was 20 i got married, but it only lasted 3 weeks, then got divorced. my girlfreind and i have spoken about our future and how we want to marry and be together, but me being ... (97 words

My boyfriend has changed and I don't know what is going on

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi people! Recently i've moved Out of the Town (5 miles difference) from my boyfriend and I told him I want to stay close with him and he agreed with it. But..... Every time I ask him if we should hang out, he's always busy and something is wrong but he won't tell me. H... (153 words

1st time pregnancy questions

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi. Hadnt been here in a while so it kind of feels odd to be doing this after so long. Well i got married last year and i'm now pregnant for the first time ever. I wanna ask all the moms out there a few questions. First how do i deal with the nausea? I'm not throwing up at all ... (148 words

Isn't it usually the girlfriend who doesn't want sex?

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We just moved into an apartment together. We both signed the one year lease. While I still love my boyfriend, I'm having a few issues regarding sex. I love sex and while I would love to go a lot more, I'd ... (389 words

Do I just want to date this guy because I am lonely?

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I haven't been in a serious relationship for almost a year now and I'm lonely. There is a guy that is really interested in me and I'm sorta interested in him but I'm worried that I'm only considering dating him because I'm lonely and wanting to be in a relationship again. ... (124 words

I'm dating my sister's ex and hiding it from her

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - so my sister was with this guy for a year. She cheated on him and he broke up with her. She moved on, as did he. I always liked this guy while they were together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me2. A year AFTER they broke up, (she was with a new guy) him and I ... (213 words

My breasts are significantly different in size, HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My right breast is much larger than my left and it IS noticable unless i wear a baggy or loose fitting top. I know it is normal for one to be larger than the other but in my case it's just awful. I'm 5'2" My right is busting out of my 34 D bras while my left just barely fills ... (279 words

How can you marry someone when they can't be a team?

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29 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - i've been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. she moved to a different state to be with me. to me, i see us as a family now. she has a son that i've taken on as my own. so to me, when things happen, we should look to each other for support, like families do. but the ... (322 words

Am I the only one who thinks the justice system protects sexual offenders?

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29 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - I am a 39 yr old woman, who has been in state care and also sexually abused, physically abused and mentally abused. I recently took one of my abusers to court and he got off. Since then my health has spiralled out of control, i have a personality disorder, social phobia and ... (188 words

Any advice on how she likes to be kissed?

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29 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for about a month now, seen her only 3 times, but I've known her for about a year now. We've dated before, about some 10 months ago, went out 3 or 4 times. I'm no expert in relationships (never had one) and/or dating. and I need some pointers he... (208 words

How can I best help my best friend recover from this depressing breakup?

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29 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - My best friend is suffering through a terrible heartbreak, im trying to help her out because she is suffering so much in pain. My friend and her ex, as a couple were my best friends. My friend is soooooo sweet and she is the one to always work things out, she is a junior in h... (348 words

This boy or that boy?

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29 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so I liked this boy, and then we almost got together, but I sorta screwed it up, and he got a gf, and then stopped talkin to me, and we use to be BESTEST of freinds, and him stop talkin to me hurt me badly. Now after months of not being my friend anymore, and just starrin ... (132 words

Does his defensiveness mean something?

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29 April 2011 (F - What would you make of this?...My husband and I are driving in the car, he says: "I'm going out of town on Monday I have a meeting and I put in for two nights so I can do this other thing while I'm there and kill two birds with one stone." To which I casually said, "Oh, okay.... (243 words

Is this the kind of person I should try to stay with?

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Need some advice how to move on.. my bf of 2 yrs broke up with me today after not speakn with him for a month.. I had givn him time to try to get over my past of me cheating on my ex....and he now decided it wuz something he couldn't deal with..cuz evry chance he would get he ... (159 words

I think if this guy was closer my g/f would be with him, not me

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, and i really like her alot. We say we love eachother daily, but i really dont even know what love is. She does alot of shit that bothers me and i can't tell if im over reacting or if im angry for a decent reason. If she's ... (451 words

I want to study in scotland to be with my boyfriend, but so many concerns. I need some advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am in a LDR with my boyfriend who is back in Scotland, where is was born. He is 31 and I am 18. I want to go to Scotland to study at University, and also to start a life with him. But i am not sure what criteria i have to meet to do this. And i need to get some advice befo... (314 words

Crush for long time comes down to nothing

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29 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've had a crush on a guy for a very long time and it's come down to nothing. I basically just wasted three years of my life and I'm mad about it. He led me on and now I'm forced to suffer. What I really want to know is how do I get back at him? What do I do? He's very intell... (136 words

He stood up for me when other guys were harassing me. Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey! Okay, I'm a little stumped as to what's going on in the head of this guy I like. I've been into him since 7th grade, 2 years ago, but he really hasn't talked to me until now. In the past, then and again he would add something to a conversation I was having with one of his ... (160 words

Why would he end things over such a stupid thing?

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29 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - omg i really need help here. I'm going crazy. ok i"m just gonna straightforward tell you what happened. 10 months ago i met this guy and we became good friends. After a while i realized that i sort of have feelings for him. he is 7 years older than me though. 6 months ago he ... (208 words

Rebounds? Commitment issues?

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29 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend was dumped by a guy bcuz the guy felt she was cheating on him with me and another guy. I was trying to steal her from him...but we only talked as friends. The other guy was trying the same thing but I beat him. she started liking me right after he dumped her. I ... (233 words

How to get to know this stranger?

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - How can i get to know this guy better. He is a security man who is always stood outside an office which i have to drive past a good number of times every evening, as my job is driving around doing collections. He always watche s me pass by and i always look at him. It is a bit ... (91 words

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29 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hullo there, I am a married woman with a 2 year old son who doesn't know what to do next. The thing is I cheated on my husband two times and I was caught out by my husband. I truly love him and badly need him in my life. He was angry at first, but then bought me flowers and ... (405 words

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