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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What would you think of this age difference?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please be as brutally honest as your thoughts might be. If you saw an 18yr old girl walking down the street holding hands with a grey haired 49yr old man what would you think? Thank you for your time xxx... (41 words)

Am I making him wait too long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the deal, i just started dating this guy officially on March 26. He's 22 and I'm 19. He's had sex five times while i am still a virgin. As of late he's been bringing up sex more and more often. I'm not waiting until marriage, but i am waiting until the moment that ... (241 words)

I want a child now. He's asked me to wait. Do you think he does not love me enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid. I have sitution here with my boyfriend. We're not married but we live together for 4 years. He told me he want to marry me one day and have kids. He is 31 years old and I'm 23. I want to have kids now. I mean I love him.I do everything for him. I'm ready for ... (165 words)

He left the country and is out of contact. Why is he being so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am desperate. He left to other country for 2 weeks to his ex, cause they have child together. I dont understand the way he told me, it caused me pain. He just sent sms before as a reply to msg that he goes for holidays and that no regrets. Now after 1 week of no contact I ... (80 words)

Why is she doing this? I have no clue why she is blocking me and rejecting me as a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So what has randomly happened is one of my best friends suddenly blanking me and ignoring me for no reason at all? she blocked me on msn and deleted me on facebook. i was so upset and i didnt know what was going on so i asked her about it through text and she said she didn... (362 words)

He's giving me excuses for not calling. Why is my boyfriend being so distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Marvellous People, My boyfriend of 2 years has completely changed towards me these days. The least thing that i say or do provokes him very much, to the extent of him not calling me for days, because we are in a long distant relationship. Whenever i try calling him ... (100 words)

Am I relating to my teacher appropriately or am I being too personal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a question regarding my teacher. No I'm not going to go on about the fact that I fancy him, cause yeah I do, but that's part of life. I'd never try anything. Anyway, I often do duty out in the playground and every Tuesday and Friday, my biology teacher d... (164 words)

She told me God was telling her things wouldn't work out!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend n I have been going out for about 4 months now. Everything was going great, we both were happy n life couldn’t have been much better. About 2 weeks ago she told me "she thinks she loves me" n that "I am perfect for her." She was crazy about me n wanted to see me ... (344 words)

He's in the army and being reposted. I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so confused right now. Basically i have been seeing this amazing guy for the last 3 months. Everything has been going really well, but there has always been this problems from the start. Basically he is in the army and is getting re-posted to another base that is a ... (186 words)

How can you resolve long standing, extended family based conflicts in a marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) age - How can you resolve long standing, extended family based conflicts in a marriage? Me and my husband married more than 25 years ago, and we still have the same conflicts, about his family , what we used to have at the beginning. Very ''classic'', his family hated me from th... (282 words)

Deep feelings for a married man and no longer love my own husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This is my first time on this forum so here goes. I have deep feelings for a married man. I am married. We both have young children. I see him often as our children socialize together. I have had these feelings for him for over a year now and I kept thinking they would go aw... (676 words)

Missing him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend, we have been together for months now and I really like him but I miss my ex. he hates me because of multiple reasons. But him hating me is making me sick to my stomach. I act like nothing is wrong with me but we havent talked in about two months now and I tr... (115 words)

I didn't ask her out and now she's gone... how do I connect again and tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the length of this question in advance guys. Alright, so there was this girl who lived in the room next to me in residence at university and about 2 weeks ago she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but she seemed to be over it from what I gathered. ... (254 words)

I've been feeling anxious and I've been thinking about my ex all day. Why am I feeling like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had a bit of a low day today. I've been feeling anxious and thinking about my ex girlfriend all day. I know we all have highs and lows, but I really hate days like this and i'm trying to pinpoint where this comes from. I don't even know if I'm missing my ex or whether I ... (106 words)

Any suggestions on what this could be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had doggy style sex for the first time Friday night, that day I had walked 12 miles at our local park plus put in a 1hr 1/2 work out that morning. Saturday I was starving at work, so I tried to eat a bite of something to keep me from passing out but my first ... (162 words)

I want a boyfriend thats a gentleman but where are they?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! This might not be the most unusual question, but help would be greatly appreciated! Alrighty, so I'm a freshman in Highschool, and I don't find any of the guys in my whole school..attractive. They're always screaming down the halls, throwing things, acting like monkeys,... (213 words)

He's giving me mixed signals, do I have a chance with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so theres this guy that i met like 6 months ago and i recently started to have feelings for him but i don't know if he likes me back. Sometimes he seems like he likes me a lot and sometimes he seems like he doesn't care at all. My friends always tell me that it seems ... (260 words)

I don't know who the father is

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I am pregnant (8weeks), and there is a possible of 3 people who could be the father. I went to a party and had sex with a mate. The next morning I, again had sex with another bloke (random this time). The next day me and my bf had unprotected sex and he didnt pull out in ... (75 words)

My best friend is acting so weird!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to help my best friend. Basically she's got this new boyfriend, but she never speaks about him. I've asked our other mates about this and they have all said the same...I find it a bit weird!! She got with this new guy not very long after splitting from a longterm... (194 words)

I cheated and he wants me to leave her for him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend and have been going with her for 16months. however, in the 14th month i cheated on her, with another man. it turns out he was bi, and weirdly, we got on to the topic of penis. we kissed and i had sex with him. it was odd but felt right. we had sex 2 more ... (177 words)

I really like her, but I think I did something wrong

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So this girl and I (she's a freshmen in highschool and im a junior in highschool) have been talking for a couple of weeks and I thought things were going pretty good. And then we stopped talking for a couple of days cause we both thought each other was mad at each other for ... (197 words)

After 14 years, she would rather be engaged than married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age - My (common-law) wife and I have been together 14 years. Although I gave her an engaement ring 12 years ago, we never actually got married. We used to say we got along too well to be married, and had the attitude that if it wasn't broken, why fix it. Over 14 years we had less ... (656 words)

She wants to change her "status" to "engaged" from "married" (after 14 years)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

Does this mean he has a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - If a teenage boy (about 14) flirts with you and teases you, does it mean that he has a crush on you?... (22 words)

I want to meet new girls, but where?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 16 and I've had a few girlfriends in the past but I'm still a bit awkward around girls. I have loads of female friends but I'm not attracted to any of them and I feel like I've used up all the girls in my town (it's not that big). Basically I need your advice on where ... (81 words)

Family first? Or the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, ok I need some help I'm in a really sticky situation right now! So here it goes, I've been with this. Guy for nearly a year now we work together everyday and always have eachothers company, however we broke up for a month because he feels he can't trust me at all ... (190 words)

Do I deserve to be alone because I'm picky with men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please pardon my anxiety filled letter. But I am desperatly seeking some honest perspective on this. Anyone taking the time to read or reply, I greatly appreciate it. I'm just 22 years old, never dated, and already feel like I'm one of those individuals that deserve to be by... (567 words)

I have a bit of skin that hangs off my vagina...is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a string-like bit of skin that hangs off of my vagina. it is between my urethra and vagina openings. right behind my urethra. it's not my labia. it's just over 1cm long and about 1.55mm diameter. what is this? is it normal? thanks. x... (46 words)

I am the Real 40 Year-Old Virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 41 year-old virgin, suffering from social anxiety and isolation disorders and I feel like less of a man and human being because of my total lack of intimacy. How can one regain their sense of self dignity and live a more fulfilling life?... (48 words)

I admitted my feelings for my friend while he was getting over a break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've told my best friend that I was gay and that I have feelings for him. At that time, he had just broken up with his gf and was working to get back with her. His reactions were positive but sounded like he was confused. He told me that he was 95% straight and the other 5 was ... (220 words)

My ex still keeps in contact with me though he's supposed to get married to the woman he left me for...how should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age - I have tried for almost a yr. now to move on and stop loving my ex who left me for someone else. Although, he didn't become romantically involved with her till after ending it with me she was in the picture before hand. I have not spoken to or made contact in anyway with him ... (512 words)

I just can't keep my tears at bay...what can I do to control myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Can anyone help me control my emoutions? My dad always shouts at me and stuff, and I end up crying. (I am a VERY emotional person, whether it is laughing or crying.) I don't want to let him know he has hurt me and won. But I just can't keep my tears at bay. What can I do to ... (61 words)

She wants to gain my attention by making me jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am absolutely in love with a girl for a year now, we used to be kind of friends before....she knew this and i didnt get her attention alot after this... she is generally very nice, but for some reason wants to gain my attention by making me jealous, but she now knows th... (207 words)

Is the change menopause, or has she fallen out of love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age - The past few weeks, I have been getting a sinking feeling that my wife of 14 years is going to leave our relationship. The first 13 and a half years were amazing, hardly any arguing and a closeness that other couples would admire, and sometimes envy. Late last year we had a... (410 words)

I told him I hope he "suffers on his deathbed"...now I'm afraid of karma

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is 30 yrs older than me and I have come to realize he played 5 yrs of my life by manipulating me, sexually used me...the 5 yrs relationship I feel is based with lies. I thought it was real relationship since he is so charming, gives me emotional support and some... (278 words)

What is the point of "adding" friends and contacts if you don't communicate with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really don't understand social interaction - or I'm sceptic about it. I have a blackberry, and I do have contacts on blackberry messenger. However I know If I don't message, then the others wouldn't. They'll only message if they need something. Especially if THEY ask for ... (126 words)

I'm beginning to wonder if I'm a little obsessed or if I will ever get over her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So my ex and I broke up back in November. She was under the impression that I was sleeping with someone else. She then broke up with me. I tried pretty much everything I could think of to get her back. I sent her emails, texts, flowers. Probably went a bit overboard. Anyw... (236 words)

Does this mean he would cheat on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend has stayed the night with me for 5 nights in a row. he leaves in the morning to go to work and everything then comes back when he gets off work he goes to his house then comes to mine. so i was bored and checked my myspace and seen his status and it said:... (96 words)

My friend drinks about 10 shots of vodka every night...is this an addiction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My female friend drinks about 10 shots of vodka every night..sometimes more. She does this in about a three hour span when she gets home from work. After that she appears to be very drunk. She slurrs words, hallucinates and becomes a little verbally abusive and belligerant. I ... (168 words)

Should I show my boobs to my online boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am of 18old .i have a small doubt can i be romantic with my boyfriend? when we generally talk each other in video chat,at that time he asked me to show my boobs(chest without bra and anthing like that) i want to know can i show him what he has asked or reject his requ... (60 words)

Was I wrong to make the move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have known this guy through my sister because he was her professor and he is also our club advisor. I am pretty sure that he likes my sister, but i'm not sure whether he has feeling for me or not because sometimes his behaviors are confusing ( and we always flirt). For ... (981 words)

Was she just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, i really would love someones commenst or opinion on this matter, see what people think, just over a year ago i met a girl online, well she saw my ad on a site and contacted me, and we exchanged e mails and letters and such until we met on msn and cam, and we really got ... (713 words)

There's no love anymore, how do I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have been in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half now. He doesn't let me hang out with my friends, I'm only allowed to see them like once every 2 weeks if that. And he constantly makes me text him or call him like ... (418 words)

Can chemistry grow with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I have been 'seeing' this lovely guy. He is caring, considerate, kind and all the things you could wish for in a guy. He calls and texts everyday. The only problem is I feel no chemistry with him. I should do as he is so lovely. I enjoy his company and we have kissed t... (95 words)

How do I make him stop talking about who he had sex with previously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm having this problem with my boyfriend that he talk about his previous life(girlfriends and such) around me which bothers me a lot 'cause it always include something that he stole his friend's 'girls' and such.. and that he used to be pretty open about things. ... (134 words)

I am in love with my sisters friend who is 6 years my senior

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - please I need your help. Last year i met a girl who is my sister's friend and i became very fond of her. I love her so much and i want to be my girlfriend forever. But there are some major setbacks i am having The first one is i am older than her by 6 years.Secondly ther... (93 words)

Retroactive Jealousy is driving me insane. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help in dealing with Retroactive Jealousy. I’ll keep this as short as I can. Kevin (my bf) was in love with me since school. I didn’t feel the same way and turned him down. A couple of yrs later, I fell for him and tried to approach him. He wanted to give me a taste ... (742 words)

Should I tell her how I feel or not? Help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - For a few months now I've been attracted to one of my friends, but the only problem is that she's dating the one person I truly hate. Several people of told me I should tell her and a few have told me to ignore the feelings and just move on, find someone else they said. She's ... (112 words)

I just found out I have both types of herpes...should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I got a blood test for herpes and have both types even though 3 years ago when I got tested it just said i have type 1, and the doctor did a culture of the sore i had genitally. but, i always thought i had both types, and i guess i didn't until this year when i got tested ... (290 words)

Do you think I did the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke-up with my boyfriend 6 months back...Its not break-up he started ignoring me and it was online....so I decided to move on....I'm 15 and he is 26.... After few months I met one guy online... He is 24....he is nice guy...He helped me to forget him..but I'm not completely ... (267 words)

He broke up with me because he was depressed. How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant think straight....my ex bf is beginning to consume my every thought. He broke up with me because he is depressed, he managed to go to a stage where he had no feelings whatsoever but one day realised that the number one problem was that he is incredibly behind in school... (229 words)

I feel horrible about masturbation. Is it wrong to do every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i'm 18 years old and i masturbate often. It ranges from 2 times a day every day to 3. I can't help but feel that i'm destroying my life every time i masturbate. I've been trying to reduce the amount of time i masturbate and to no avail, nothing. When i started, i was 13 and ... (91 words)

Any advice on who to pick or what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently single, and I have to decide between two wonderful individuals. The first is my ex and the second is the young lady I broke up with (for other reasons). I love them both and I really cant decide who I want to be with. Any advice on who to pick or what to do?... (57 words)

He's hot and then cold. Has he lost interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think he's lost interest. He hasn't talked to me, and when I tried talking to him, he didn't say much. I don't know what to do. One minute he's completely attracted to me and likes me, wants to hang out, and the next, I'm nothing? I know that once a guy makes up his min... (88 words)

Is it normal for me to want real cock

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I started out with my gf sticking her finger in my ass well she had a dildo and she said if I could take her dildo all the way in my ass I could fuck her in her ass(she said this jokingly) so I brought her the dildo and told her to do it. I took it all the way and my gf was ... (147 words)

How can you tell if a boy is shy or just protecting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Today my crush and I were waiting outside and everyone else had gone in and we were alone and he looked really freaked out and nervous and ran inside. Does he like me or just not want to be with me? Another thing. How can you tell if a boy is protecting his feelings or is s... (60 words)

I don't wish to continue in this triangle, will he leave his family to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , I have had a relationship for three years with a married man who still lives with his wife and has a disabled son age 25 . The Man I have been seeing has had two affairs in the past that his wife became aware of and tolerated . I really thought we may have a future ,... (107 words)

After everything, should I get back with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) age 41-50 - About a year and a half ago my girlfriend of 2 years at the time began to develop on eating disorder. She works as an actress so had slot of pressure on her to look a certain. At first I told her she didn't need to and tried to stop her. It seemed to work but then things ... (299 words)

I asked him if he loves me, he said no

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. We've been having frequent fights lately and two nights ago we had a big fight. We then attempted to sort it out but because we were in a group, we sort of just brushed it off and went about as we both had different views. ... (821 words)

Does anyone have any clue what might be putting guys off or if I'm doing anything majorly wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This Is probably a question that gets asked alot but I figured it wouldn't hurt asking. I've never had a proper boyfriend in my life and when I talk to people about it they tend to say things like you havnt met the right guy yet. But lately I've been wondering if it's somethin... (219 words)

Does she just want a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - she call and text me everyday she seems to be happy around me, when i ignore her she'll upset, she like it when i call her sweetheart, we hold hand, cuddle, she knows that i like her very much (obviously) but when i tried to talk about it more she said she's afraid of another ... (99 words)

Dating for six weeks, but he hasn't made any moves on me...at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating this guy for about six weeks. We get on really well,I love his company and mentally we really connect. However, in these six weeks he hasn't made any moves on me...at all! Apart from a quick kiss on the lips there hasn't been any physical contact. Last nigh... (183 words)

How can I deal with a lying boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm having serious trust issues with my boyfriend. It kills me that I cant trust him so I've been going to any lengths to prove to myself that I can trust him. He promises me that he doesn't talk to anybody else on msn tells me I'm all he needs same with tagged which is ... (695 words)

Is he just being nice or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - sooo , ive met this guy who I'm starting to fall for. Being rather shy, when it comes to dating guys, I fear rejection. This guy seems rather shy too!! .. So I was wondering, how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or not , I was wonde... (240 words)

How do you know whether you likej someone or just like being in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you tell the difference between whether you like someone, or you like the idea of being in a relationship with them? theres this girl who ive only met 1-2 times over the past mth and we havent even been dating, and at first i wasnt sure i liked her but because weve only ... (147 words)

How do I tell my GF that I don't want the orgy that she's looking forward to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - my girlfriend really wants an orgy with 2 of her friends and their bf's + 2 other of my friends. everyone wants to do it, and we know that everyone will have a go of each other. but, i really dont want to do it. im not ashamed of my manhood, but i love my gf. i dont want to ... (102 words)

I don't even know why my boyfriend is still with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy!! so me and my bf have been together for like 8 months now.But it doesn't even feel like were together.he text just probably 5 times a day , hardly talk on the phone.I have no idea what he is doing, whom he is with etc.He never tells me anything.He doesn't even wanna tell ... (146 words)

In a loving relationship, until I found out about his facebook inboxes..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 yrs old and i'm in a relationship with a guy who i adore and love. We have been together for almost 2 years now and i never want to lose him. I used to be kind of a slut, i dated a tonne of guys and cheated on almost all of them. They were never very long relationships ... (306 words)

Love don't live here anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 9yrs.We have 4 boys, but i know i dont love him in that way anymore. He says he still loves me, but yet he cheated on me? I know he stays for income reasons, he has none. Is it wrong and selfish that i want him to move out? How do i ... (73 words)

No communication or sex, should I break up with him?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating this guy for four months now. We are lucky to see each other twice a week. Most of the time it is only once a week, and half the time when we do see each other its only for a few hours. When we are together we are both happy and we get along really w... (253 words)

Masturbatio & Sex Duration worries/troubles

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 27 year old virgin I do watch porn quite a bit too. What I have noticed is that when I masturbate, it takes a few strokes/seconds before I climax, and it is possible for me to do this 4/5 times an hour. Is this normal? If I ever have sex, I am scared that I will be ... (103 words)

Not sure how to act in my bosses house

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I'm doing this boot camp thing this week because my boss/instructor wants me to do it. and he has pulled out all the stops to enable me to do it as well, so much so that i am now staying with him and his girlfriend this week at their house. this in itself is not a p... (213 words)

He messed up our relationship, but he's not maing the effort to get me back!

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hmm okay so this recent tuesday i was suppose 2 see my boyfriend and he never showed up cause he was in Jail and i never thought the reason would be this: so he told me he found a phone of a girl co-worker and it was those new high tech phones and he found it in the b... (384 words)

I have a high sexdrive and my partner doesn't seem to understand my needs.

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17 April 2011 (M)

- me and my girlfriend of 3 years have not had what u call a perfect sex life. its been good 1 second next its cold for a few days. she dont moan when we have sex. she just lays there and looks at the roof. she just wants to lay on her back, no other postions. someti... (277 words)

I don't like how my partner is treating our child..

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17 April 2011 (M)

- hi all, im 29 years old, got a little girl who i love more than anyone (14 months old) sometimes this is the problem with me and my girlfriend of 3 years. i dont look at her in the same way anymore. not because i dont fancy her or something, its just, shes really... (215 words)

I've messed up badly, but now I want the guy I can't have..

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for almost four years now. My husband stopped having sex with me since the first few months of our marriage. Since then, we have sex once or twice (a year), literally. We have a twenty month old (apparently we're both very fertile - as I got pregnant from only ... (536 words)

I love him but enough is enough!

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear frends! i'm writting from a difficult moment in my life, and the fact is that i don't know what to do!! here is the case, my boyfriend and i live in different cities that are 6 hours apart! i have been with him for more than three years and lets say i had many problems ... (270 words)

Imagining sex with my ex-grilfriend while masturbating

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I always masturbate while imagining sex with my ex-girlfriend who dumped me 3 months ago. When I was in relationship with her, we did sex on phone only and never did in real. My question is my behavior is normal ? And how should I be able to get rid of it? Any suggestion ... (82 words)

She's moved on awfully quickly

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok been 11 days now since break up Iam going back home tomorrow been away for 5 days to stay with family I spoke to girlfriends mother yesterday and she running around totally fine why is she doing this Iam devastated so basically I want her back but I think she has moved on ... (68 words)

I'm still having guilt over an affair even though my husband had one too

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17 April 2011 (F)

age - I need advise how do i get over the guilt of an affair that i had 10 years ago. I worked with my husband in a family business for 12 years. My husband and his family are Italains. I am not. So you can see already there were quite a few differences with us.Working in the family ... (544 words)

Why did I tell him I forgive you?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basicly I dont know why Im still upset about it. well this guy i was with, we were constantly on and off he had a foul temper, he kept telling me over and over "I want you" and I kept giving him Achance and I dont even know what way it was suppossed to mean. buti really f... (203 words)

How does a tall guy dance with a short girl?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - People say that guys like short girls because they think that they are super cute (I'm 5'2" btw) and fun. I don't not disagree but i was wondering what do you think? Also how does a tall guy say around 6 ft dance (grind) with someone my height?... (48 words)

Found number for escort from bf, should I trust him?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I know his last relationship before me was like three or four years ago. Anyway I found out last year he had a list of phone numbers of escorts in the area. I freak out but didn't confront him. Asked him late... (210 words)

I hate the way I look and hate every pretty girl I see

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17 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I'm an ugly 22 year old female; sure, I'm smart, kind, talented, all those good "inside" things, but I'm ugly outside and there's no questioning, I've got comments my whole life and I can see it in the mirror anyway... and not much can be done, and anyway, I hate being fake, I ... (634 words)

I broke up with him because I didn't want to be someone that I'm not!

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, i was with this guy for 13 months and i'm completely in love with him. i broke up with him yesterday because he just wasn't the same as he used to be. he used to not get as mad as easily, now he loses his temper on little things and blows up on me for it. we used to be ... (316 words)

Why does he keep bringing up my friend?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im shy .....hes shy i like him and we talk but he keeps bringing up my best friend why?... (20 words)

Should I be experiencing life and dating and not in a LDR?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long-distance relationship. He lives in Boston. I live in California. We met online in a chatroom. We have known each other and have been talking for the past three years, but have only dated for the past 2 years. I faked my identity the fir... (339 words)

I told my g/f if she cant show she cares, I have to leave her

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for years now. In the last handful of months, she's gotten extremely depressed and irritable. All she wants to do is sleep. She's taking her anger and frustration out on me. She's not spending any quality time with me. I feel like I've become a ... (557 words)

What does it mean when a guy asks you out late at night?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy asks you out around 10pm what does that really mean? Why so late?... (16 words)

My ex cheated on me and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I'm a mess right now! Help!!

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was cheated on by my ex and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I know it's a cliche. Anyway, I found out she was doing all this behind my back after about 5 months last year in Dec, which means she started this in Sept. Now it's been 4 months since th... (391 words)

My boyfriend is awful at oral sex!! How do I tell him this without hurting him??

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2years. i truely love him.but he's awful at oral sex. I don't know how to tell him this without hurting him. What should I do?... (36 words)

My neighbour is the perfect girl -- what do I do?

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, so i just moved into a new place and right next door is a perfect woman for me. She's beautiful smart and can cook (what else does a man wants right?) She just got out of a relationship and I want to be the next and final guy she will be with...I know that it's bad to ... (119 words)

Should I be concerned if I will lose my best friend?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - is it okay if my best friend has another best friend??? cuz sometimes i wounder if she will take my place or something like that. should i be concern about this.... (32 words)

I don't know if he's changed his mind or what?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so it's sort of a long story but i'll try to shorten it a bit. Let's see i just met this guy a month ago and he is really nice and he's cool and everything and finished his 3 yrs in the marines and wants to take me out on a date, but i told him i would let him know. The ... (208 words)

Why doesn't he end it with me?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone. . Can you give me some advise please? My boyfriend of five years is very down and i want to help however it seems i am the onlY person that he gets nasty and up tight with. If i was down he wouldn give two hoots but yet its a massive drama with him. . . ... (238 words)

My marriage is on a downward spiral.

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My marriage is on a downward spiral. I just want him to love me like he used to. I know he is capable. But I am not sure with my life at an all time low how to get his time and love. I need him so much, my mom is dieing and i feel alone and scared. How can i reach a man who ... (112 words)

Ex never talks about her new boyfriend to her friends!?!

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - One of my ex's friends told me that my ex never talks about her boyfriend to anyone... even my ex's best friend has said this... her new bf apparently makes no effort to engage with her friend... but weirder still she talks about me a lot :S bringing me up in conversation... ... (93 words)

Should I ask this teacher for help after what's happened in the past?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so... i have a teacher he's 43 and we used to flirt on all the time we had a confusing relationship one minute we were nice, next not but since about a year ago he removed me from his lessons in the meeting he said i was out his lessons and because being angry i said wic... (221 words)

Is he flirting? Or just being nice? Or trying to get my attention? I'm confused by it all.

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently, at work, met this guy who I'm starting to fall for. Being rather shy, when it comes to dating guys, I fear rejection. This guy seems rather shy too!! .. So I was wondering, how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or not , I was w... (221 words)

Is this guy just playing games with me?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - About one and a half years ago a male co-worker Ive been having a crush on for a long time, and I got together. After a few weeks he started to call me at 2 in the morning after he got home from the bar, and I told him not to treat me that way. He didn't get it, so I finally ... (343 words)

Do I want a man???

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I work hard to be a sexy looking woman, and can pass as one. I do this to turn men on and plan a night of being a man's bed toy, but I just don't do it. I have been kissed and it felt good being in a dress with a man holding me. I just never let him have me in bed, why? ... (64 words)

Help! I feel so lost. What can I do? My boy friend refuses to let me end our relationship.

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, I'm 17 and at the beginning it was great. He treated me great and I was so happy. He still takes me out etc, but it's just not the same. You see, my bf seems to have an idea in his head that I am going to leave him for someone else... (489 words)

Is it wrong if my boy friend is 8 months younger than me?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and my boyfriend is 8 months younger than me people keep saying that its wrong because im older insted of the guy is it?... (26 words)

Part 1, past history and where it starts to fall apart...

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17 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - part 1 i dont know where to begin. i just so confused and hope i did the right thing so this may be a few parts. history: dating a guy 8yrs younger than me for about 2 1/2 yrs, met him at work was going thru divorce and hit off as fwb then went a little more than that. h... (690 words)

Do I ask him out or just drop enough hints so that he knows he won't be shot down?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a guy and I know he likes me back, but we aren't going out. Basically the guy is super shy and well, kinda unmanly, so he assumes the feelings aren't mutual and I'm guessing he wouldn't even think about asking me out until he was 110% certain I'd say yes. All my fr... (166 words)

Want him to think I'm a virgin

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - {Moderator note: two questions combined} Okay i just wanna know , i lost my virginity about two year ago since then i havent had sex ,it was against my religion and culture to do that .Im due to get marrid in 2 months will i be tight i know i wont be a virgin ever again , ... (107 words)

I don't know if he's nervous or intimidated?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have been with my boyfriend for a few months now. he is a senior and i am a sophmore. this is pretty commom around where i live and people are fine with it. A lot of girls, however, are surprised i guess you could say, or jealous. Now, he asked me to prom and i said yes. ... (132 words)

When I said I wanted to end the 'benefits' part, I didn't mean I didn't want to be friends!

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently decided that I did not want to be friends with benefits with this guy I've known for 5 years. The last time we saw each other we got into a little argument Here is what I said, after the argument: I am sorry about the other day, and how I acted...I just don't wan... (206 words)

How, if at all, should I ask her about my fantasy?

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17 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, first of all I'm a 19 year old lad who is in a relationship with a 27 year old woman. We've had our up and downs but every things going well. I have had a sexual fantasy for some years now of being fucked up the arse by a girl with a strap-on. I'm not gay or ... (128 words)

How do I help my friend whose girlfriend isn't treating him very well?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is a boy and I love him to pieces, in a non-romantic way. My best friend's girlfriend has messed him around pretty badly, and recently she broke up with him (for the second time). When she broke up with him, all of his friends (including me) stopped talking ... (153 words)

He says he's not ready to date. He wants to see how I treat him?

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17 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay if you text a guy and he texts first and he dosnt reply and he's like avoiding you what do I do? he says he's not ready to date me yet he wants to see how I treat him during the week idk...some one please help me with advise... (50 words)