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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've recently felt like I've gotten over my ex, it's been almost a year since he broke up with me.He's not in my life but we have mutual friends on Facebook and to be brief: I kind of got the impression that a girl likes him... it sounds so immature haha but yeh anyway for some reason it annoys me thinking of him with another girl, not because I want to be with him [I really don't] but maybe just knowing someone likes him when I know he's not that great a guy. Am I just being bitter? How do I stop caring whether or not he's with someone or not? I know it shouldn't bother me as I don't like/love him anymore but, meh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): You should start dating other guys, and give them a chance, talk alot with them so so can grow close to one guy in particular. Then that guy will occupy you mind :-)and you will realise, you don't care about your ex anymore and have no interest what so ever.Even just joing clubs or different social groups will distract you from your ex also make new friends so you are not constantly mixing with your mutual friends, im not saying drop them altoghter, but they might remind you of him and the way things were. It also dosent help if your trying to forget about him and his name pops into convo, you get to hear what he is doing, who he is with and that just makes it harder to move on.Best of Luck!
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