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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 6 months and we are very close. we have discussed sex and contraception and all that and we both feel ready and comfortable enough with each other to have sex. but he hasa very large penis ad i'm scared it is going to hurt. he worries that he is going to hurt me too, so i know if i get uncomfortable he will stop with out question. but is there anything we can do to minimise the pain? thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, yesno  +, writes (6 April 2011):
Are you a virgin? If you are, wait. Not for any wacky religious reason but to be sure this is what you want. Sex is a huge step, especially for women. If he's worthy, he'll wait too. If you do go ahead. Use lubricated condoms and get lubricant. I know that purchasing that kind of thing can be awkward, but it is essential. Then you direct him. Have him take it slow. Believe me, he'll appreciate the guidance.Good luck
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (6 April 2011):
plenty of foreplay to get you wet. if that's not enough lube. that's all you need to worry about.
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