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I'm just not comfortable with myself being gay

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Question - (6 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

All my life I have liked boys but sometimes I get a funny feeling not in my tummy or heart its that sexual feeling when I'm around this one girl friend. I don't think lesbians/gays/bisexuals are bad people! But personally I don't want to be. It has nothing to do with not being comfertable with my self I am pretty much. I just no I'm not comfertable with my self being gay.

So I'm asking am I? I've had 2 boyfriends and my last one I liked very very much and was sexualy attracted to him. I just want to know

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

Couldn't agree more with the previous answer.

I would add too that lots of 13-15 year olds of either sex often experiment with same sex partners and end up feeling and living "straight" lives.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

Hey there,

Just because you think women are attractive and are occasionally aroused by one doesn't mean you're a lesbian. I think your feelings are normal and actually pretty common. We had an almost identitical question posed earlier this week: www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-had-thoughts-about-girls--am.html

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