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writes:There was this girl I used to be best friends with, lets call her Sydney, but when this new girl came along, lets call her Amber, all of a sudden Sydney was leaving no time for me and always hanging out with Amber. Amber and I didn't like each other, and that was clear to everyone, except Sydney. We always tried to compete to win her over but unfortunately Amber won her over. Sydney and I are no longer friends at all. The other day I saw Amber kissing a boy I saw Sydney kissing at the movies just last week. Sydney and him were holding hands and everything, so it pretty much seemed like they were together, so to see her "best friend" doing that to her would seem odd ..I asked my boyfriend/best friend what I should do, if I should tell her or not, and he said being in my position it's tough to say how anyone would react.. I am not sure if I should tell Sydney because i'm afraid she might think i'm just trying to win her over by making up a lie or trying to stab Amber in the back ... What do i do ??
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reader, BriBri  +, writes (7 April 2011):
If you hink its the right thing.And btw i wouldn't cause that would start a whole lot of drama that i don't think you would want to get into.
Hope i helped.:))
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reader, The Realist +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Don't say anything because in the end everyone will just turn on you for bringing this up and you end up taking all the blame. Trust in the fact that their game won't last forever and they will be caught without your help.
Even if they have proof that what you are saying is true they will still turn on you. One of them won't suddenly be your friend because of all the drama that was caused.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Stay out of it. These types of situations are always best left alone. You're right that if you say anything, it will be viewed as a lie.
Some lessons people have to learn the hard way. You just have to let that happen.
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