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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for four months, and two months into our relationship my old love became single. i haven persued it, although i know i have outragous feelings still for my old love as well as my current. my current boyfriend is amazing, he is stuck it out through a extremely hard time in my life and is extremely thoughtful and done so much for me. although i know my feelings for the old love are still a little stronger. we never actually had a relationship but we never were able to follow through with a relationship we both wanted. he is amazing. there both extremely smart, and cute, and everything to me. but idk if i should put my current boyfriend in the friend zone a persue someone my heart is telling me to follow, or lissen to my head and stick it out with the current. helpppp! Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 I would say don't be with either of them. It's obvious that you are not over your ex but I have strong beliefs that you should not go back to an ex unless neither one of you wanted to break up in the first place. For example if you two moved away and didn't want to hold each other back. People break up for a reason and that reason should be kept in mind because it is unlikely to change.
As for your current bf you need to figure out if you are staying with him just to be with someone or if you are over you ex and want to be with this new. Your young and relationships are not set in stone (they never really are). You may need some time to be free and see what you actually want.
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