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writes:I really like this boy at school we've been friends for ages but a couple of months ago I started to like him more than a friend. I spoke to my girls about it and they said that I should tell him because if I didnt I would regret it incase he felt the same way. Well I followed this advice because I thought it was really helpful but when I told him he very nicely told me that he didn't feel the same way but still wanted to be friends. I agreed because I still wanted to be friends but I still really liked him! Then he got a girlfriend and all I want to do is cry :( what should I do he's basically in all my lessons and I see him all the time. I don't want to tell anyone incase they think I'm really pathetic but the truth is I think I love him and can't vet him out of my mind..... Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! So cute. You never know what the future holds, your to young to hold yourself for one guy, specially if he only wants your friendship, but on the other hand, if you really like him why not? And, from your history, it seems you've liked him since you were young. I liked the same girl from grade 2 to grade 12!! I adored her, and she never would give me the time of day, and I'm not a bad looking fellow. Finally, She agreed to go on a double date with me and one of my friends and one of her friends in grade 10. I was sooo happy, and the date was fun!.. but we realised on that date, although, she had always thought I was cute as well, and may have even been crushing on me.. we just weren't compatible. She was a good girl.. with good morals.. I was a party boy.. with average morals. haha. not all things are meant to be i suppose
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 I think it's one of those things where you won't be able to move on unless you end the friendship. It's too hard when more-than-friends feelings are involved with friends, you can never heal, and you settle for second best knowing that there will never be reciprocal feelings. Don't do that to yourself. start hanging out more with your girlfriends and maybe scope out the other options at your school.
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reader, BriBri +, writes (6 April 2011):
i agree with your friends.i been threw the same thing.you need to talk to him and see how he feels about you that is the only thing you can do to get it off your mind.
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reader, BriBri +, writes (6 April 2011):
I have been through the same thing and i agree with your friends you should tell him and see what he feels about you.I done it!:)
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