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writes: I'm separate from my wife sunday after 21 years she is 10 years youger than me and it happen when I lost my business and then the prob started we alwayys fighting over money and a monster and law I love her still and she is my whole world how do I just walk a way she don't want to see me talk to me thxAndre
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reader, rocc  +, writes (8 April 2011):
Money comes and goes. There are always ups and downs with regards to money in every house.You need more mental support to earn it back and in the right way tha you wont lose. If you talk to your wife and both of you take a good descision it would be great. If she split up because of money she might come back. You need to talk to her.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (6 April 2011):
 You love your wife, so whats the point of walking away, you'll miss her very much and it won't solve your problems.I thought the wedding vows say "for better or worse, in sickness or in health". I don't think they say, "run away because things are a bit hard and you can't be bothered to stay."Money can be earned, get a job, start another business, family can be ignored.. leaving a woman you love to sit alone and cry over your problems, mmmmm... not sensible.You love her, fight as hard as you can to keep her. It will break your heart when she finds a man who loves her more than you do.Letters are the best way to go.. write to her, tell her how your feeling, tell her how much you love her. No matter what happens, you will have tried your best and you she will have evidence of how much you really care.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Write her a letter and ask that she read it, before you get divorced. Tell her that you still love her and tell her how you intend to fix things. Apologize to her, there is no doubt she has been hurt.
Conflict will always be born from money and if/when it does, the most you can do is apologize, make it up to everyone who has been hurt and look for ways to ensure arguments never occur again. Debates perhaps, discussions regarding a difference in opinions, ones that can be calmly engaged in, just never let it escalate into more aggressive things.
I hope that helps.
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