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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Me and my ex's friend like each other but what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay im 15, about 4 months ago I split up with one of my girlfriends because I didn't see her enough. Recently I ran into a lot of luck with quite afew different girls about 4 telling me they liked me, but I went out with my friends and some other girls and I instantly took a ... (146 words)

Would it help my depressed boyfriend if I give him space?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted a question before about my LDR boyfriend who dumped me because he became depressed and didnt want love anymore because love is so exhausting to him now and he doesnt want it. He doesnt love me or have any feelings towards me but asked to be my friend. Im trying to c... (250 words)

My brother told me to leave my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 24 yrs old dating a guy of 26. My brother told me to leave my boyfriend. Because my boyfriend talked bad things about my brother. My boyfriend is too jelous and gossips other people. I told him to leave that life. He agree. I love him. My brother told me to leave him. What ... (91 words)

Confused after threesome!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my first threesome two nights ago and now I'm very confused and slightly embarrassed and annoyed. My best male friend who is bi-sexual,J.B. and I have been flirting innocently for a very long time. We went on holidays along with some other friends this past weekend and... (478 words)

My boyfriend has been emailing a girl I never knew about

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im going out with my boyfriend for two years. At the beginning we established we were at opposite ends of the spectrum. I was a virgin and he had sex before with a good few women. I always wanted to wait til I was married. I guess i had a cinderella fantasy in my mind. At least ... (432 words)

Have any guys stayed with a girl that they dated in their teens?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any guys out there who met a girl at 15/16/17/18 and are still with them? maybe married to them, engaged, still dating and how old are you guys know? I keep hearing so much stuff about how when guys meet a girl at 18 or younger they never stay with them forever kin... (75 words)

Leaving my alcoholic boyfriend is very hard for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I finally left my adorable alcholic boyfriend. I am mourning because I love him with all my heart but I cannot compete with his other love and the non stop cycle of binges. He knows he has a problem, we talk about it alot, it unavoidable. However I have now come to a ... (374 words)

How can I lose weight on my limited food options and budget?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am aware this is not a diet or healthy eating site but I need help. I quite literally have no money anymore (don't ask long story), I cant afford to buy my own food and drink so I have to eat whats available at home. Which isn't much, we have special k, noodles, uhmm...... (188 words)

I had melanoma on my penis and had to have it amputated. Ladies how would you deal with this if it happened to your partner?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Last year I was diagnosed with melanoma on my penis. To save my life, I had to have my penis amputated. So far I've recovered well. I've seen tons of trolls on sites claiming to be 18 and having penile cancer (virtually unheard of in young men) but I did NOT have penile cancer. ... (138 words)

Should I go see a prostitute?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age - Recently while i was overseas I had sex (twice) with a prostitute, in an adult venue. She had the looks, body and personality of a porn star. It as the best sex I ever had (and the most expensive!) As I am single and having to 'pay for sex' is my only way of having physical ... (106 words)

I'm 13 and dating a 20 year old, my friends are telling me to be cautious. Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody.. I want some advice I am dating a 20 year old and I am 13... He is very sweet but I'm still scared because all my friends are telling me to be careful. He said " no matter how long u want to wait to loose ur virginity I will wait".. Please tell me what to... (108 words)

I have feelings for him, he doesn't feel the same. How can I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age - How can I get over someone who doesn't love me like I love them?... (14 words)

I really miss her! Should I contact her or should I wait a while longer and not ruin the work I've done to get over her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

19 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I’m taking a break from my closest friend because I fell in love with her. Taking a break was my idea and she wants to help me through this anyway she can and didn't suggest anything like a break to me. She sees me as a brother so I know that there is no chance of us being ... (1581 words)

We're married and in love but our sex life is nonexistent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - O.K, So my husband and I have been married for 2 years, we were separated for 3 months however now that we are back together my sex drive is much higher, however before the separation we were not sexually active and now we still are not. While the separation he was with 6 women ... (132 words)

My fiance says she's a virgin but I'm not sure if she's telling the truth

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need your advice. I am a 31 yr old guy. I am a virgin and about about to get engaged to a girl. She is 24. Before getting engaged to her, I want to know if she is a virgin or not. She told me she does not have any boyfriends but the way she talks to her friends make me ... (89 words)

My friend says he wants to date me...now it's weird hanging around with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my friends told me he was starting to like like me, and now i find it weird to hang out around him. what should i do?... (28 words)

Girlfriend of 5 years wants a break to figure out what she wants....I'm confused!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am confused on the whole situation and am just looking for some advice. Basically, my gf wants to take a break for a little bit, mainly to figure out what she wants, and if the opportunity arises, she might date. We've been together for 5+ years, we are both 23. She is... (912 words)

My wife had a promiscuous past before we married...and now she is frigid, and it's driving me crazy!! What to do??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my problem...my wife has a "colorful" past. I never asked or pretended to be interested in knowing. But she came up to me and told me. I felt somewhat "let down" but never I repeat never held it against her or treated her differently. I followed the advice many people ... (249 words)

Should I remain friends with an ex who cheated on me while we were dating?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My Open Question: Why would he do all of that and want to be friends afterwards? During our relationship, my ex boyfriend had a one night stand at a party cos he was having problems getting it up and he thought he'd try elsewhere. he was also sleeping with another g... (310 words)

Do I try again to work it out with my husband, or focus on the new great guy I am dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my situation is... I was married for four years. not all of them happy but the person I married I was basically in love with since i was 16 years old. Now that I am 24 things in our lives are obviously different than they use to be. We have a son who is four. Basica... (516 words)

Why do I love the foreplay but dislike the sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi helpful aunts, I am 24 and have been married for 18 months. Since we got married, the most days we have stayed without sex is 4 days and that's when he travels or I do. It happens almost daily. I was a virgin when I got married and it was painful every time so I never ... (146 words)

What am I supposed to do, if his sexual dysfunction remains a mystery?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) age - What should I do, if my husband doesn't know, why he has no sexual desire for me? Also, why he is always losing his erection ,when we have finally sex.He says sex is wiped out from his mind... Where I'm confused, that he went to the doctor,and he said ,he is healthy, his pro... (136 words)

She is very quiet when she has an orgasm, is this because I am not very good?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i was just wondering. I have been with my partner 7 years. And well she is so quiet when she cums. Is this normal or am i just not giving her good enough ones? I always please her before penertration as she says she cant cum through this method no matter how long we go for.... (58 words)

Does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for I can't stop thinking about him .. Hes even giving me butterflys and I get really nervous when I see him .. I haven't felt like this before , not even with my exs, having him around gives me the beat feeling , even if ... (260 words)

Signs of a Rebound Relationship?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if my ex gf in a rebound relationship. We were together a year and 3 weeks after she was in another relationship... Here r some weird signs I've noticed... 1. She never talks about her new bf to her friends, but talks about me nearly everytime t... (224 words)

Girlfriend thinks something that isn't true and is really upset about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi I went with my girlfriend to a falentine ball in february. while we were there a friend asked me to dance. So I asked her is this ok. and she said yes. when i came back se was really upset at me. she said she saw me kiss the girl . and so in this all her friends think the ... (207 words)

It takes so little to get me horny!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is not so much a help issue, but more of a why. I keep getting horny and turned on over the slitest of things. I only have to think of porn or sex, or even less than that and i'm in the mood. I was with someone for 5 years, and i had no sex drive, what so ever. I would... (201 words)

Pieces of skin growing underneath clitoris!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. For the past couple of months starting around December time I have noticed that underneath my clitoris/near the uthereal there are these 3 pieces of skin growing. And at the end of them they are white but the rest of it is skin colour. I have no idea what they are and I am ... (155 words)

Boyfriend states he's single without consulting me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend said he was single without consulting me the other day after we had a small bicker on Facebook because I'm on vacation for 3 weeks. He's been depressed lately and someone was obviously flirting with him but he scolded me for suggesting that. So a friend asked what ... (269 words)

I've hurt her and regret it now!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it right for me to say goodbye to her? About two weeks ago, I have sent out a goodbye letter to a girl whom I love because I was mentally exhausted after everything occurred between her and me. Btw here is the link for the goodbye letter: http://www.dearc... (145 words)

Why doesn't my friend talk about her new boyfriend? She doesn't seem happy and I want to help.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to help my best friend (a real friend, not just me pretending). Basically she's got this new boyfriend, but she never speaks about him. I've asked our other mates about this and they have all said the same...I find it a bit weird!! She got with this new guy not very long ... (239 words)

In love with the ex and want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to try keep this simple. Im in love with my ex. He is perfect for me in so many ways and I want him back. He broke up with me because he has depression right now, he says love is way to exhausting and requires attention and he has none to give therefore he does n... (359 words)

I cheated on my BF, because although he's a great guy, the sex is awful. Is it my fault?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I've cheated on my boyfriend and i feel really guilty. he is a great guy. he knows what i like, he treaats me to things all of the time, and he loves me and i love him. but when we have sex, he is awful. he just cant please me. he always comes not long after he just prods it... (141 words)

Partner wants to get married but I'm afraid of taking that step

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner wants to get married and I am afraid of taking that step because I’m so worried about the emotional and financial consequences of being married to someone who is divorced with 2 daughters and loads of responsibilities as far as that is concerned. I get along well ... (384 words)

I want to build on my friendship with her, how do I do this despite the problems in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i really really really like this girl a lot!!! she knew that i liked her and since then she changed her attitude towards me. She didnt talk to me as much, she hesitated to sit next to me in class and lots of other things, i basically didnt get her attention. The reason i a... (193 words)

Should I take the initiative with a woman I like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - There's a woman I like and we have gone out together a couple of times. I make a point of keeping in touch with this woman through e-mail and phone calls. She seems responsive to me and even encourages me to stay in touch, and she seems happy to meet and go out. However, ... (198 words)

Have I lost my virginity? And are birth control pills effective?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i get to know whether i have lost my virginity??/is there any symptoms??? 3 days ago me and my boyfriend was engaged sexually and few drops of blood came out from me. im not sure whether i was really went through an intercourse? as the penis was not so in...and also i ... (79 words)

How do I stop him doing this without hurting his ego?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I love the guy I'm seeing, he's funny, charming and just lovely. But I have a problem, when it comes to 'getting to it' he is like really forceful, like when he plays with my breasts he squeezes them really tightly and if I'm honest it hurts me and it's really p... (121 words)

For the girls: What is the best approach for a guy who wants to dance with you in a club?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. i really need some tips about how to get a girl dancing with you in a club? that would be cool if all the girls in DEARCUPID would answer this question since i guess they would know better what works with them :D im kinda a good looking guy, i get many complime... (155 words)

Is it normal to talk to a guy everyday that you just met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just met this guy two weeks ago via an online dating site and he seems like a good catch. We share a lot of the same interests and characteristics, and we plan on meeting for the first time this week. Hence the question above, we communicate everyday on the phone it seems ... (178 words)

Questions about going to the movies with my friends and my crush.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I think I like this guy but I'm not too sure because we don't have any classes together so we don't talk often at school. The first time I really talked to him was about 3 weeks ago when we went bowling with a few friends. We exchanged phone numbers and texted everyday since ... (347 words)

Messy breakup is making me question myself, what is happening to me and how can I make it stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend with the intention letting her roam about for a while before I went off to college, to let her see if she really loved me enough to stay with me despite the fact that I was away. (As an ulterior motive though, there was another girl that was a ... (475 words)

Is it good or bad that my friends are so protective of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy my friends have recently become very protective of me because i was used by this guy which really upset me. The other day the guy who used me came and talked to me and they were very quick to be stop him, one of them was being nasty to him which wasnt nice the other just ... (84 words)

Is he just trying to get back at me by trying to sleep with my little sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i was here some weeks ago about having problems with my bf because i cheated on him with a girl we used to have threesomes with..i know cheating is bad in every sense of the word and i deeply regret what i did and i apologized so many times but he just won't mind me or even ... (260 words)

Do I masturbate too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is once a day too much to masturbate for a 15 year old girl? ... (14 words)

Need help undestanding her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so i got a really random as questions. When she broke up with me it was hell because i couldn't see where i went wrong and my friends and her friends couldn't either. I found out later it was because i was Clingy. I understand and took that as a learning experience. So ... (733 words)

What is the difference between love, lust and attraction? And why do teenage girls seem to prefer the fast boys most?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know the differences between love, lust and atraction between two people. And why is it that so many teenage girls seem to be atracted to the fast boys (boys who move fast to try to get the girl interested in them, and then move fast on to other girls, very quickly)... (79 words)

I feel like the world's worst mother. I feel as if I'm losing my sons. How can I address this situation and make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My marriage fell apart 8 months ago and I couldn't afford to take care of my 4 kids alone, so my husband has our 3 sons. Our 2 daughters are with me living with my parents. I'm not handling it very well, because I miss my boys and the guilt is doing me in. My middle sons are... (118 words)

I'm 16 and I want to ask about the contraceptive pill. I have no idea what to say to the Doctor. Can anybody advise me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm going to the doctors tomorrow to get myself on the contraceptive pill. Thing is I'm going alone. My cousin had agreed to come with me, but is not now going to come with me. I'm really nervous. What exactly will the Doctor want to know and what questions will... (80 words)

She's married, I'm single. But there is an attraction. Should I make a move? Do you think she gets a thrill out of talking to me? What should I do?.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age - I have been attracted to a woman who I work with for several months. I believe (through mutual eye contact mainly) that she feels a similar attraction toward me. We had never had a conversation other than to say the usual 'hellos' and ' hi!s'. I have always thought she was ... (709 words)

He wants me to do a strip tease for him. I feel so self conscious about it. How can I please him and deal with my feelings about my body issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are going away for a weekend, and he wants me to dress up, and give him a strip tease. I've dressed up for him before, but it makes me feel self conscious, but not overly so, because I pick outfits that cover up the bits I'm mostly self conscious about. ... (181 words)

Can I really trust him? Does he have a sneaky side? I found a message on his phone that has seriously upset me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i realy need someone's advice. i have been dating my bf for 2 years known him for 3. we were best friends before we start dating, and when we did, i felt as though i was the one who was more into the ralationship for about a year. after the first year he was realy attached and ... (467 words)

I don't know how they guessed that I'm dating my supervisor. Things are stirring up. Should I get a new job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm pretty sure I'm in a huge pickle here. I don't know what to do. Crazy thing I just recently started dating my supervisor, we keep it professional, work stays at work and our play time stays at home. Anyways, he is the best guy I've ever dated. I've been frie... (166 words)

Everyone I know is married and some with kids, where did I go wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My sisters (1 older than me and 1 younger) are both married, one with children, one of my friends has been married 3 times and has 4 children, another is married with 5 children. It seems that the women of my age I meet in business are also all married. They are all very ... (196 words)

Ideas to make my sex life more fun and enjoyable for both of us....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and after that we have been having sex everytime we have a chance but this las time my boyfriend asked me what would I like him to do do for me or that we should try something neew, and that he really would like me to come or ... (143 words)

Lack of Commitment...Do I call it a day or is there another solution?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been together with my boyfriend/partner for 6 years. We have tried living together - I say tried - because he only ever had the minimal amount of clothing/belongings there. He never changed his postal address and kept most of his stuff at his home (his mum's house). W... (157 words)

I know our relationship is more important than sex, but I cant help feeling so horny! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 16 months, and I love her. A lot. She is my first girlfriend. She meens the world to me, we have helped eachother through tons of things including the death of a close friend in a car accident. But the sexualism has always been the ... (459 words)

I cannot have an orgasm with boyfriend, should I break up with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I hope I can get some advise on this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. The relationship is fine but I have never once had an orgasm with him, I can by myself but not with him. The sex is just awful and always leaves me frustrated. No matter what I... (191 words)

Found my friend again, what do I do about my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this person ten years ago. within the two years of the start of our relationship (friendship), he declared his love for me and has been doing so until now. we both have had relationships with different people within the ten years, we have lost contactwith each other and ... (135 words)

Could 2 virgins get an STD?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I had a quick question. If two virgins have sex with each other for the first time and they have oral sex and all these other sexual stuff, is there any way you can get an STD? Me and my bf are both virgins and have never done anything sexual. If i give him oral ... (73 words)

I like my co-worker an anonymous note about my feelings for him. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So... There's this guy I work with that I always thought was cute and friendly. He started on the job before me so once I got to know him a little better, I got up my courage and asked him if he wanted to hang out sometimes. He turned me down (and of course I think its because ... (203 words)

When I ask him whats wrong, he says nothing! Whats up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, some background first. I liked him, he told me he liked me. I kinda went beserk, and we stopped talking for a while. Then now, we're talking again. So earlier, I guess he tried to reconnect with me by hugging me and saying we haven't in a while. Then on fb, we were chat... (143 words)

Does he like me, he talked about another chick

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for ten years, we used to like each other a lot until we both left for boarding school. Him and I finally come back from boarding school and are now at high school together finishing our senior year. We are neighbors. I have been hanging out with... (195 words)

I feel useless!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Everytime my boyfriend is sad or depressed like....I feel bad or even useless when I ask him if he wants to tlk about it and he says no or i ask if i can help and he says "no". Of course i respect him,i dont try to pry into his buisness nor do i persuade him to talk to me more ... (130 words)

I'm scared that I've lost it all in my marriage!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Everybody I am in a delima, I am married and have two beautiful chidren. I am financially sucessful and give my family all they need and want (may even spoil them too much). My relationship with my wife for 8 years has always been up and down and puncuated by messy argu... (245 words)

My buddy has not been a good boyfriend to the girl that I like

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have a recent dilemma with one of my good friends. She has been a friend of mine for about a year now and we have grown rather close within that time frame. I am a good friend of hers, and I am starting to develop feelings for her as time goes on. I would like to take ... (192 words)

Is it bad to play with myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - is it bad to "play with myself"?... (7 words)

He's single again! Should I go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok ..so the guy that i really like is single again...i dont know if he has feeling for me or what..but i still really like him...should i try to get with him or should i let him ask me first?... (40 words)

How do we chat on webcam?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I chat with my boyfriend on my webcame instead of talking over the phone?... (16 words)

I cant stop thinking about my family friend

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok there is this guy i can't stop thinking about. He is a family friend. We were out at a bar friday night with my family and ended up at a mutual friends house after, someone we didn't know asked if i was his wife and i said no, as he was saying yes. people are telling me the ... (210 words)

We went on vacation together but he didn't post any photos of me!

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, would like some clarity pls.i went on vacation with my boyfreind,had a lovely time together,but im quite disturbed by the fact that he posted all the photos of our vacation,and he dint include any of me or of him,i also saw other vacations he took with his exes bt none ... (132 words)

Husband's Old Secret Destorys Marraige and Friendship Both

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19 April 2011 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for over 20 years. It was important to him that I get along with his friends when we first met. I managed, including one female whom was friendly, but pushy and boisterous... she was not married at the time I met my hubby but eventually she ... (393 words)

How do I get this girl's attention?

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19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i really like this girl (hs freshmen) and im a (junior hs). We talked for a couple of weeks but nothing serious really happened. and i realize that im older than her but idk if thats really a problem. But after i asked her on a double date and she couldnt go it got ... (187 words)

We break up and and ex dates girl complete opposite of me! Will he get bored?

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19 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - my ex is dating someone the complete opps of me when we were in a relationship he said he hated blondes, girls who smoked and wears make up esp tan. yet after he broke up with me that is excTLY WHAT HE WENT FOR my question is they been going out since oct of last year will the... (66 words)

Should I confess my feelings to my stepbrother?

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really appreciate some advice To cut a long story short I am in love with my stepbrother and I really do not know if I can tell him. Each others parents are not married which makes things easier and my stepbrother and I are both single adults so there are no issues ab... (262 words)

I'm sexting guys that aren't my boyfriend..but I don't want to

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so i am in a relationship with a wonderful guy, and i am sooo happy with him, happier than ive ever been. but i on facebook, i always seem to add guys that are attractive, and they always talk to me, and this one guy sent me a message on yahoo and was telling me all of the ... (165 words)

How do I keep him wrapped around mu finger?

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Aunt/Uncle Agonies, Okay, so I was in love with this one guy, but I've pretty much given up. :( I think I like someone new....but am too shy to do anything. How do I get his attention and keep him wrapped around my finger? Th... (144 words)

How can I fix all of this hurt?

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I got out of a relationship for 1 and a half years about 1 month ago. i'm now in a relationship with my friend ive liked since i was in 7th grade. it is hard to not think of the boy in my long relationship though i know i am over it. help on what i should to do or what i can do ... (70 words)

Is it unusual that I'm 18 and have never had sex?

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it really that unusual that I'm nearly 18, living in London (UK capital) and have never had sex or done anything close - never even kissed anyone? It doesn't bother me and I don't feel any pressure to do so; nor am I physically repulsive. I just wonder because up until... (179 words)

I'm so embarrassed that she saw my reaction to her in a bikini

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19 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I went on holiday last week with my family and another family we are close too. Any way cut to the chase, there's this girl in the other family my age who I have always kinda liked. So we were gonna go swimming so I waited for her while she got changed. When she met me she ... (160 words)

How can I come across as more approachable?

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19 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never really had a relationship and recently asked a close guy friend what he thought night be the problem. Anyway after a while of him being really polite he said that sometimes when I'm on my own I have a look that is kinda distant and makes me look quote "untouchable". ... (85 words)

What should I take my girlfriend to do to surprise her?

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19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this question isn't important compared to some issues people have on here, but what should I surprise my girlfriend with? She is gone right now on a week long trip and I really want to surprise her with something when she returns, preferably something to do for a ... (151 words)

My friend can't seem to accept that I've come out of my shell

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19 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - So I have had a couple of confidence problems in the past but in the last year I've really come out of my shell and I'm being a lot more confident. However I have a friend who can't seem to accept this, she was always the more assertive one and now I've got more confident she ... (145 words)

How do I break free of the feelings of anger/resentment I have?

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19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here's my dilemma: I'm 16 and gay, and currently having major problems regarding a guy I like. This guy, we'll call him "D" for simplicity's sake, has been the object of my affection for quite a while now (upwards of 6 months), but it's starting to become clear to me ... (260 words)

College: "An expiration date" to our relationship? and a "new beginning?"

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19 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Background: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 month. I'm 18 a senior and she's 16 a junior, we're both in high school. Our first couple months together were a blast; we would hang with each other almost everyday. She was perfect in every way and I accepted her ... (620 words)