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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do women wish there was a world without men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Fellow Peers Once Again. I Am Dimario. And... a complicated individual. i am easily hurt when it comes to relationship matters. well i was watching television and It was this feminist show and how she said how the world was bad because of men, and i called and asked my ... (153 words)

I take her back and she's at it again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay my girlfriend and i have been with psychotherapy for 2 years! however a year ago she got talking to some male friends and decided that i was boring and said she hated me! just as i was beginning to get my life back on track she asks for me back! me being me i take her ... (102 words)

Where are my sex lessons? He's makes excuses. What's up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I briefly dated this guy last year and he told me this semester that I was horrible at sex and hooking up in general. I got really insecure and I know this is completely ridiculous but I asked him if he would give me "sex lessons" and he said yes. however, its been like a ... (291 words)

Inexperienced girl asking what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! ok this is embarrassing but I have no sex experience whatsoever not at all neither a guy or a girl the thing is this girl I know and flirted with will come to visit again, she says she really likes me and I'm worried things will go far and I will have no clue what t... (115 words)

LDR bf becoming invisible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i and my bf r in a long distance relationship And the cheapest way to connect is messenger We were chatting alot, like 7 or 8 hours a day in week-ends and summer vacation but now, he's coming invisible and dnt talk to me so i tried to send him messages on fb and he ... (166 words)

Husband overrides my decision about what his son did. I'm sick of this happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really like to know if I am asking to much. Recently my stepson was bragging about all the pranks he was doing over at his mothers house and how he had started a prank war.. I told him I am not a fan of Pranks and I told him I did not want him to bring that in... (257 words)

Should I tell my parents I can hear them having sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I still live at home and my parents are in their 60's. I keep hearing them having sex and it's getting quite annoying and loud. Do you think I should say anything to them?... (40 words)

My boyfriend's relationship with his mother makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a yr and three months now. I've been living with him and his mom and its like a relationship I've never seen before! So here I go... His mom has been married on and off been divorced three times so its really just been them two ther... (142 words)

She's straight and I can't stop my feeling from showing. How do I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant get over my friend who is not interested in me. she a beautiful girl (she says she isn't but she is) shes bit of a tom boy she very sweet and caring. We are very good friends and I've been in love for her for a very long time and even tho i plucked up the courage to ... (185 words)

I love him. Do you think he is pulling away from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my guy have been talking on and off since last September. We finally started to date in Jan after we got really close. He told me he was thinking he was falling in love with me after a month which I felt the same way. So not too soon after that things between me and ... (310 words)

How can you tell if your number has been blocked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi How do i know whether my number has been blocked. Whenever i call even at midnight, i always get busy signal. I haven't yet tried from other phone, since it was an international call.... (39 words)

I want off "friend" status. Should I try or just end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I have a really confusing situation here, every help appreciated. I'm 27 she's 19. I've met this girl 2 years ago and we were dating for a year and a half. 6 months ago she moved temporarily to another city (some 40km away) and soon after she moved she started acting f... (267 words)

26 and no dating. Is online dating good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 and quite shy. I don't really have any friends where I live and go on holidays on my own(whick i enjoy). I've not had a boyfriend since I was at school and I'm still a virgin. I would quite like a boyfriend, is online dating good?... (54 words)

Can anyone tell me exactly what went wrong here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Me and my bf of 2 years were arguing about stupid stuff today in my apartment and in the middle of an argument he said he was better than his father and i got angry, since his father was really a good man and my bf is an cheater (he cheated on me twice). I told h... (193 words)

Is "help in the kitchen" a code for being fondled?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Hello, I am a 31 year old married woman with the following question. When I ask my husband to help me in the kitchen, he usually interprets that to mean that I will continue to do all of the work while he stands behind me and prods me in the rump/upper thighs area. Do all men ... (72 words)

How can I instigate meeting up with him when not drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for around a month, he saw me on a night out with a mutual friend then added me on Facebook the next day and we really got on when chatting...Which lead to alot of texting. We then met each other when drunk on a night out a few days later and ... (207 words)

Was this really a mutual breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - just broke up with a guy I dated for about 6 weeks bc he wasn't attentive enough. I began pulling by canceling our weekend plans and turning down his request to spend time together on Thursday. Although he could tell I was upset, he still acted like we were a couple... So when ... (448 words)

My ex and I are trying to be friends, but I can't help but wonder what will happen when I leave town and we must say goodbye?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I'm struggling to keep my mind off my ex. We were only together for 4 1/2 months, but the relationship was highly significant to me. I loved her very much. After the break up I decided that I didn't want to risk losing her entirely, so at her request, we're t... (297 words)

Mending a broken heart? Is there a quick way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over a broken heart? whats the easiest and quickest way? i was with my boyfriend for two years and i am finding it really difficult to just forget about him. I finished him, i didn't want to but he drove me to it and he couldn't care less that I ended it. Please ... (63 words)

I still love him but accept his flirting and his lies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. I met him when I was 16 (I'm going to be 18 soon) by my friends. I have a group of friends and we're 10 in that group. I was the last one he met. Some of my friends had a crush on him and they were trying to flirt with him and he was f... (1033 words)

If you've been friends for a long time, is there NO chance that he or she could ever fall for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had something on my mind for a long time and I could use some wisdom in this situation. I would never try to steal, or break up someone's relationship... but, what I WOULD like to know is this: Suppose that you've been friends with someone for a long time (eg, sev... (163 words)

I am not too keen on kids and don't want my step child living with us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age - Hi there and thank you for reading this in advance. I am going to be very honest here so here goes. I am 45 and married to a man who has a child with another woman. Before we were married my husband rarely saw the child because the mother would not let him out of her sight. Now ... (285 words)

What exactly is good sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know you're good at sex. What exactly is good sex? ... (13 words)

He calls me his closest and best friend in his entire life, but insists on commiting to his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for more than a year and I know that he's really into me. We have a lot in common, and the chemistry between us is just mind-blowing (that is what he says!). He told me really nice things, he bought me expensive things, he introduced me to his family and frie... (352 words)

I just want to know if he likes me or if he thinks of me as his sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy for sometime now. We are in different class now and we rarely got to see each other. When i saw him outside or at school hallway he always seem so busy that he ignores me but after that he will come to me and say hey i seen you alot today and chat. When he is w... (132 words)

He's a lovely man but I keep wanting to break up with him, sometimes on a daily basis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for almost a year and love him with my whole heart but he drives me mad with his habits and personality and I keep wanting to break up with him on a weekly, sometimes daily basis. He has so many good points and is fantastic in the bedroom but I am... (953 words)

He lives nearby, he calls and texts everyday...Why can't we just hang out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about a month ago. We live 15-20 mins apart, but we haven't hung out since we met. He texts me and calls me everyday, and he works here in my town. I just don't get why we can't hang out. I mean, whats stopping him? I'm starting to feel like he doesn't really l... (78 words)

He asked me to a wedding as his "plus one" but I'm not interested in him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello agony aunts! This guy and I have been friends our whole lives. I had the biggest crush on him in jr high, but I was young and immature and never told him. Then he dated one of my close friends in high school. I got over him and we drifted apart in the 2 yrs they dated. ... (224 words)

I cheated on my wife...shoud I tell her or not?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some help. Especially from people that have been in my situation. It was my birthday last week. My wife and I went out with a couple of co-workers. We had a good time. She had to go home early, because she had to work the next day. So she went home, picked up ... (483 words)

I'm feeling unsettled about boyfrend's porn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy of 35 for 18 months who is lovely and kind and caring and we get on really well. However it really is bugging me that when we first met I found he had a huge collection of porn and I mean huge. He has downloaded years and years of free porn off the ... (212 words)

Is it my past baggage or is something up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for the past eight months. Initially, we were casual. He dated other people. I dated other people, but throughout it all, we were honest about who we were seeing, even talk about pro's and con's of other people we were seeing, so in all, we developed a ... (641 words)

Any advice on how to make my GF comfortable enough to let me touch her feet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months. We are very comfortable around eachother but the only problem is she doesnt like me touching her feet. She wont even take off her socks. What i want to ask is do you have any advice on how to make her comfortbale enou... (76 words)

Why do guys do this or is it just my guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - why do guys do this or is it just my guy? So im in a LDR and have been for 3 years, I Love him and we have met in real (incase anyone thinks we havent) and we get along much much better in real but anyways... Hes not much of a sentimental guy...I tell him sweet things al... (783 words)

She broke up with me because I was a jerk but I want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - well briefly, we've been in a relationship for 10 months, we met online, we were moving pretty quickly, she always said i was her everything, she loved me madly, she had nightmares about me leaving her for someone better... Recently i started being a jerk, dont ask me why, i s... (377 words)

Does some guys always go after beauty and sex even when they have a girl who loves them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf be cheated on me and when i told him i am done with him, he claims every man will cheat if they are presented with an opportunity. I can swear not all women will cheat even if they find that opportunity. Does some guys always go after beauty and sex even when h... (120 words)

Insecure 18 year old seeking much needed advice....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, before I begin, I want to make it perfectly clear that there's a pretty recognizable age difference in my relationship (in order to get the most understanding/accurate feedback): I JUST turned 18 and my boyfriend turned 26 in February. I met him when I was 16 turning ... (528 words)

Would I have to be stupid to go back to Jamaica again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just came back from several months there, and I had the time of my life. I arranged a place to stay for cheap but wound up visiting a friend that I'd made beforehand and, long story short, his parents invited me to stay there for the duration of my trip! No joke! Well, bef... (628 words)

I would love to see if this could work with the father of my child, but now I have an opportunity to explore this relationship with my friend of 8 years! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a 1 yr old with a guy who i have not been with since i was 8 months pregnant. he has treated me the worst i have ever been treated. about 2 weeks ago he seen me hanging out with a guy friend of 8 yrs and now all the sudden wants to marry me. he is saying things i didnt ... (209 words)

Has the removal of my implant stopped my periods altogether

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i had my implant removed over 3weeks ago now and still havent had a period the nurse told me that it would arrive 10 days (latest) after it was removed. so 3 weeks on iam worried and thought i might be pregnant as iam currently not using any contraceptive because me and my p... (132 words)

I'm confused if we are even together anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf/ex and I dated for three months broke up then 5 days later he was telling me that he made a mistake, calling me baby and baby girl again, kissing me, saying he wants to marry me and i did nothing to stop it and i feel bad that i let it go on this long. Well i got on faceb... (247 words)

It is hard for me to open up fully to this new relationship because I am still not totally over my ex and my ex-life.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

1 April 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I am recently through a divorce that had become rather bitter at the end. Despite that, I have tried so many times to salvage a friendship with my ex and even reconcile because I truly did love her, despite the fact I know we were not a good fit in the end. We also have a ... (273 words)

How can I trust her if I don’t believe her? Do you think she physically cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Could I ever trust my partner again ! My partner convinced me that she wasn’t seeing anyone behind my back when she ended things but I believed otherwise. My gut instinct was screaming at me and I was just sensing things weren’t right. She said that she no longer was in lo... (1020 words)

My girlfriend is inactive during sex and only feels pain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - we have wait for one week together,she make a sex at the first time with me during this one week.when i touch her Brest,kiss her neck and lip she feel good( happiness). but when i make a sex she is in active, she told me that she doesn't feel any thing except pain. my quest... (82 words)

Is it not normal for a girl to masturbate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Before you say anything, yes i'm quite aware that i'm a girl, but i mean, from what people say (not online or anything, like in 'reality') it seems as thought girls don't. But i do... At least once a week, usually once a day... But from what i've been hearing, people t... (83 words)

What should I write in a text message to get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - It has been over six months since my girlfriend left and now I am missing her a lot. It was her decision saying that she needed space and I had to accept that. Can someone tell me that how to win back my girlfriend who lives in different city? What words should I write in email ... (75 words)

I'm going to what people call "party land" ..should I be worrying so much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this website is to do with relationships, but i really want some advice! I'm going on holiday with few my best friends this year to the place everyone calls "Party land". It's just tanning and playing on the beach during the day and partying and getting drunk at night!! ... (279 words)

My classmate likes my crush too, and I cant stand seeing them together! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I like this Guy (lets say A) for the longest time and I plan to tell him eventually, but only to get over him because I know he wont reciprocate. And even if he would, he would be the most hesitant in showing any signs. So I really don't have much hope. I've really tried to... (455 words)

Long term relationship issues.......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am 16 years old and i recently dumped my boyfriend because i had given up on waiting for him to call me or meet up with me and never seem to tell me the reason why. but when i have a problem that i am upset about he encourages me to talk to him about. i went out with him ... (238 words)

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I still a virgin? I have a sex with my lesbian partner, she finger me. I am worried on what I should answer on my employer if they are asking me if I'm still virgin? I'm totally lost I don't know what to do....... (45 words)

I don't want a relationship with him, but I still want to maintain our friendship. How do I manage this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody. I'm a 14 year old girl and I met a very sweet, caring guy on the internet. He's told he likes me, he even used the "L" word. The problem is, he's 22. I do like him but the age gap is too much for me to handle. In addition, he lives about 1000 miles away (sex ... (171 words)

For 3 years we have been getting together and then he dumps me each time, but I still love him despite the way he treats me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hii.. i'm actually very depressed. i was in my 7th class that is in 2008 when i liked a guy. by fault my feelings got revealed to his best friend!! he said he would surely help me and he did it! that guy came and proposed me in 2009.. i.e after 7 months!! i was really happy ... (176 words)

I love her and she loves me, but our families are causing problems. How do I convince her to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all., You will be appreciated if any one can help me to solve my problem. I am basically from a low class family from a small village. I dont even know how should I behave with a girl. I lost my mom and dad in 1997 and 2003 simultaniously and living under my sister c... (440 words)

Allowing him to have his cake and eat it and heading for heartache...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I keep getting myself in a situation and it is driving me bonkers! I met a really handsome chap a year ago but I felt that he saw it as just a casual relationship so I ended it. Yet we keep getting together! I have had a boyfriend since but it did not work out. We have... (743 words)

I think I am with him because I pity him, and I cant seem to walk away! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationshp for 3 and a half years with my boyfriend, who used to be over friendly with other girls and at times very abusive towards me. He always wanted to break up and when I finally agreed to a break up and had moved on, he came back, saying he had realized ... (128 words)

I have fallen for my priest! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hullo out there i just need some advice or an ear on this, i have met this wonderful priest who is like my friend, counsellor and my pillar of strenght. he has helped me so much when i had lost my job he supported me and gave me a reason to go on and he prayed with me a... (399 words)

My husband cheated while I was pregnant. His family knew too. How can I get over his betrayal of my trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 2 years now, and we have a one year old daughter. Before we got married my husband cheated on me, I didnt know, but his family did. No one told me I found out when I was 3 months pregnant, it still hurts and I cant get over it. Help! ... (55 words)

How can he love me one week, and the next week all his feelings for me are gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had a few fights lately and last week he said he wasn't happy anymore in the relationship.. We tried to sort it out but he got more and more distant. 2 days ago he said he didn't want to break up but that he needed space. Yesterday we sat down and talked and ... (160 words)

Why is he wanting things to progress when he thinks he doesn't love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and hes perfect in every way hes caring coinsiderate and a gentleman and has few faults. a week or so ago i told him i loved him and could see myself being with him forever. he got very emotional and said he didnt love me... (217 words)

Why is this guy treating my daughter this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a question about my daughter. She is 19, attractive, bubbly, fun loving, normal 19 year old. Likes to be out with her friends and doing her own thing has had 2 lovely boyfriends. She is currently with a guy who is older than her, 7 year to be exact. This has never bo... (341 words)

Why doesn't she express feelings to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - we have never met and we are talking on the phone everyday.we are both married and we both have kids and also we live in diferent countries.we are discusing several things of our life and i am starting expresing feelings about her but she is not.what is it all?... (49 words)

He doesn't want to date me anymore because his family won't accept me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i had relationship with one guy about 6month, he used to call me, pick me from my working place, bt today he used to said that our relation will nt b accepted by my family so we need to do break up, he said me that i have to take decision either i'll be with him untill he ... (154 words)

I don't want to hurt my mom by carrying on this relationship, but I would be so hurt if I had to leave him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am living in qatar,with my mom and its just the 2 of us now, and i met a guy, we are from different race, and different religion, its been only few months since we know each other around 4 months, but then we know we love each other, so we decided to tell my mom, but she is ... (127 words)

I don't know what she sees in this new guy, he is a tool! How do I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4906 days ago

1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So two nights ago i was at the gym talking to a friend i met at my ex's party and we were going on and on. Then i told him to tell my ex that im sorry for what i have done and that all i wanted was for her to be happy. He told me that he doesn't talk to her anymore and he ... (288 words)

Does he possibly have feelings for me & if so, can a relationship between a single mom & a virgin college guy work out?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 23 yr old mom of a 5 month old girl. Theres a guy at work who is literally 355 days younger than me. Hes in college for engineering. It seems we have a really close bond, weve worked together almost 2 yrs, we drive the same route home together on the nights we close ... (236 words)

Should I just cancel the dinner with my ex, or is it fine if I see my ex with my bf's acknowledgement? OR would it be really strange if I brought my bf to the dinner as well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a relationship, but my ex wants to meet with me, and I don't know if I should. The relationship with my ex didn't last very long, just a few months. Our break up was pretty mutual, and we agreed to remain friends, and we talked and hung out. All together, ... (625 words)

Friends with benefits question.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I had to break up (my family forced it) So now we are just hanging out as friends. But the other day it turned into more (oral) and we've become friends with benefits. We've also sexted a few times. I still have feelings for him ... (250 words)

My girlfriend just openly admitted she doesn't want to be around me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help. Please, I'm so lost. I love my girlfriend so much it hurts. But I'm at my wits end. We've been through so much together, including her cheating and us working through it, to us breaking up and her moving out, and then deciding to try to stay together an... (452 words)

How do I fill the void my partner cannot satisfy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

1 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship of 11 years. He is my best friend. But recently it feels like exactly that. He is emotionally handicapped and I need something he is unable to give. How do I fill that void?... (39 words)

Delayed ejaculations causing problems in my sex life...

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1 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All, I have a strange problem, I am 26 year old male, im in good shape, i never smoke, never drink and work out regularly. I was seeing a girl for 2 years before we broke up and moved on our separate ways. I stayed single for a year and met this amazing girl throug... (347 words)

What is your opinion on all of this? I don't know whether to go back or not

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so my first boyfriend whom i only went out with for 3 months and we were very much in love...this was last year we broke up in june. he is now 'back on the scene' as some people may say. nearly all my friends and family dislike him because of how upset and depressed i was after ... (235 words)

What is the problem? why does my boyfriend object? I put a pleasant picture of us together, on facebook.

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i put a picture of my boyfriend and i together on facebook nothing bad or unapropriate just a casual picture. then he got mad so i took it off he said the next time i put a picture of him on facebook, to ask him first. so i put the picture back on there. and he said ... (81 words)

Interested in my ex's classmate - is this wrong?

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1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey y'all, So i tried remaining friends with my ex girlfriend. It has been for the most part smooth. But now I have a big problem. I am heavily attracted to one of her friends/classmates and this girl seems to have somewhat of an interest in me. Now my ex gf says its soci... (114 words)

How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable??

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Advice pleease!! How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable?? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2yrs and I have taken on the role of the "pursuer" he has completely distanced himself, he's disengaged, disinterested, doesn't make much effort and refuses to ... (189 words)

Why did this happen to me? I am the opposite of a jerk!

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1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I am one of you. A dear cupid reader and writer. Maybe some of you might recognize me. Today I am not able to hold myself together. Now it the end of my controls. I am the guy who has been betrayed by the 1st love of my life with whom I devoted my every breath. ... (279 words)

Ex wants to be together but is swamped with school and work, and never follows through on our plans....what should I do?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Am i being mean? My bf and i broke up because he never had time for me... well he used to but then he lost his job and started school and got depressed..so he never wanted to hang out..and once we would hang out hed be super happy..but gettin to that point was like pulling... (423 words)

What is a sure unmistakable sign that a guy is no longer interested in a relationship with me?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age - I just need to know if i should move on What is a sure sign to say that a guy is not interested in you? But he makes you think that you and he have a relationship?... (37 words)

Tried to get my GF to "change" for me, but I'm still not attracted to her and there's no sexual tension

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1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my GF for 3 years now, but our relationship is missing sexual tension. I'll try to be as honest as possible. You will judge my behavior as selfish, and I will not object, but know that when I'm changing my GF to my tastes, I'm trying to save the relationship by ... (942 words)

Is he just projecting his insecurities onto me so he can feel better about himself?

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1 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - A guy I was dating told me he didn't want to date me anymore because I still live at home (I'm 28) but I work full time and I pay my parents rent, and I am in school part time to be a nurse. I already have my Bachelor Degree in elementary education, but didn't get a job in that ... (264 words)

Will my guy be turned off when he sees the acne on my back?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have serious backne and i am afraid my guy might get turned off during sex when he sees it.. do men hate backne? what should i do, i feel frustrated.... (32 words)

My "Crush" has me head over heels but hasn't made a move yet!!! why?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I like a guy that might not be meant for me. he's six years older than i am! i'm currently 17 and he is 23. I will turn 18 in November and he will turn 24 in October. I really like him and we've been knowing each other for 3 years. I don't want to make a move on ... (168 words)

Do you think there is hope for a 2nd try to make our relationship stronger with acceptance and trust and understanding?

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1 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - 7 months ago I had an affair, I got caught up with another woman thinking that she "was the one" during the affair I was verbally abusive and blaming my wife for everything. The reason for the affair was because we both stopped tending to each other needs and was staying at my ... (451 words)

My longtime boyfriend is now married to someone else, I'm happy in my own life, yet he tries to pursue a friendship with me only to hurt me...

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy at college when I was 19, we were each others first relationship and we continued to date on-off for 4 years. It became apparent after about a year that his cultural/religious background would not allow us to remain together and that he would go on to get married ... (352 words)

Our first fight, so maybe I'm a bit paranoid

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple months ago my boyfriend broke up with me because he had some issues. He just recently got divorced and he said that he needs to work on things and then be ready for a relationship. We never lost contact (he lives in another city) by phone, mail or messenger and a month ... (228 words)

I get the feeling once in a while he is not being faithful to me and I am finding myself hating him and not trusting him...

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Might sound that I am overreacting but am in desparate need of opinions. The other day my boyfriend ordered himself a drink, I then asked him what it was, ans he said it was it cointreau and lemonade and it was one of his favourite drinks. It wasn't the drink that bothered me... (184 words)

My boyfriend who was arrested for domestic violence against me says he is changing. Can I believe him?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had my boyfriend arrested for domestic violence after he pushed me while he was drunk. We have a no contact order until his court date at the end of April. We also have a 2 year old son. Although he is not supposed to contact me or our son, he posts things on Facebook that... (146 words)

How do I deal with the lingering trust issues from when my bf cheated?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3/4 years, on and off. I'm pretty sure were in love and have been living together for the last year. Thing is we argue all the time because of the past! I'm so upset by it, frustrated with how he claims that it's all my fault and I'm mise... (245 words)

I'm gay and only seem to be attracted to my straight friends! Why??

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1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. My name is Phillip and I'm gay and at the university. I don't have a problem with being gay or anything. I've accepted that a long time ago, but my family doesn't know. The issue I have is that I keep becoming attracted to male friends that I've meet within the last couple ... (236 words)

Boyfriend stopped getting me little presents...am I right to be upset about this?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. At the start of the relationship he was so lovey dovey, would send me cute msgs and all those things, but now it seems like he thinks he doesn't need to do all that stuff anymore. I've confronted it to him... (341 words)

Meeting a guy from Facebook... How do I remain calm?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's a guy ive been talking to through facebook, and we've been talking for several months now... We text/chat/call each other all the time, and have soooo much in common, and we seem to click very well. I really like him, and I think I love him too, because he swore to... (236 words)

Husband does things that make me think he has interest in other girls!

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid: I got married to my husband last year january. He traveled abroad and spent eight months before he came home. Being him a young man, late twenties, he is still struggling to get us a house but for the time being, I am at my dad's and pregnant so is he at his family ... (135 words)

I get turned on too easily and sometimes say things I don't mean to men

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have a question... It's kind of an awkward question, so I'll just get to the chase. Since I am maturing both mentally and bodily, I have also been experiencing sexuality. Yes, I'm still a virgin and so on, but I feel I get turned on too easily. Dang hormones... (150 words)

Separated from my wife in order to sort things out...what should I do now?

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1 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OK ive submitted many questions and appreciate all the advice. Now i just want to tell the whole story from start to finish and see what you think i should do. i'll do my best to be unbiased and tell the whole story and not just my side. ok I married who i thought was the woman ... (1020 words)

I am having weak orgasms lately...Is it me or the MDMA I took?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Even when I masturbate they are weak but there almost no orgasm for me during sex.we've tried all positions and now I'm at a point where I started faking my orgasms so my bf won't get sad because all he cares about is giving me pleasure and he is just perfect in bed and no one ... (107 words)

I can't get over my friend who is not interested in me

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant get over my friend who is not interested in me she a beautiful girl (she says she isn't but she is) shes bit of a tom boy she very sweet and caring and we are very good friends and I've been in love for her for a very long time and even tho i plucked up the courage t... (193 words)

Getting married...and afraid of leaving home.

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I may sound rather childish but I can't help feelign this way. I'm getting married and have lived at home all my life - with mom and dad - and now will be moving in with my husband after the wedding. I have mixed feelings about this considering I have never moved... (795 words)

Is setting up a webcam on a porn account cheating? Am I overreacting?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 2 years had an account with a webcam live porn site late last year and i freaked out about it saying its like cheating so he told me he wouldnt use it anymore. I told him I dont mind him looking at regular porn and that i just dont like that he can comm... (125 words)

I hate the penis, but dreamt I liked it on a woman...What does this mean?

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1 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I edited it, please post. I saw a question about a woman who dreamt she was a hermaphrodite, and it reminded me i had a similar dream last night. IN REALITY I'm an 18 year old gay girl and My 17 year old step sister recently tried to set me up with one of her openly bi fr... (681 words)