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writes:So there was this guy i really liked.I thought he felt the same.we were friends and in class he would come sit by me he would flirt with me.And then one day at school he wanted me to ask out my friend for him.I was so sad and i still am.She said no.But im pretty sure she'll change her answer.But i could of swore he liked me.I mean from how we were hanging out.from him flirting constantly with me. I'm not trying to sound conceited but i am way prettier than the girl he asked out.maybe he thought i didn't like him.Because i asked him to hook me up with one of his friends.But i was only joking to get him jealous.So maybe he figured i didn't like him.But now if i ask him out or tell him how i feel I'll look stupid.Should i tell him how i feel?and should i continue to hang out with him?I feel like he just wanted to play with my emotions.and flirt with me just for the moments we were together. I don;t know im so hurt and confused what should i do ?
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Firstly, I hope you've learned a lesson where playing games are concerned - you tried to make this guy jealous by asking him to hook you up with his friend. How was he supposed to see through this? He probably assumed you didn't like him and liked his friend, as you've said.Secondly, if your friend said she doesn't want to go out with him, then you still have a chance with him as he's single.You can tell him how you feel about him, it'll clear the air even if you do risk him being annoyed about lying that you like his friend. Maybe he does like you, but I guess the only way you'll know for sure is if you tell him and find out what his response is.One last thing: just because you're prettier than the other girl doesn't automatically mean he'll prefer you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): To be honest, I wouldnt even pursue this. Games were arguably played by both people (you and him) and that is a bad way to start off any friendship, let alone a possible relationship because it immediately brings trust and communication issues.
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reader, cas  +, writes (6 April 2011):
Hey there!It happened to me as well,when i was that age. I sensed that he does care about you, only that he felt the same way you do now, the time you done that to him. I think he is doing the same to you now. It's just immaturity and game playing, what men are good at. I think u should ask him one day when you guys are just hanging out, if he really likes your friend,if he said yes,which i doubt then brush your feelings for him off,be strong and move on but stay friends if you can cos i sense you guys have a good thing going on. If he says no then in a joke ask him why don't the two of you hook up, with a sexy smile. Hope it works out!All the best of luck girlfriend !!! :)
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