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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a very punctual person and my BF is just the opposite. His attitude irritates the hell out of me!!

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13 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a very punctual person. My boyfriend isn't. He sleeps in, he's late, etc etc. So when he doesn't reply to my requests to hang out, or doesn't keep his word about helping me out with math homework, I get very stressed out, only to find out that he's been "resting" or playi... (204 words)

Should I give him a chance and see if he wants to go steady? Or is he just a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've had a relationship with Dick (not his real name) for 3 years when we broke up about a year ago. The reason of the breakup was becouse he didn't want to have a serious/mature relationship with me. He had bad experiences on his past relationships wich makes hi... (291 words)

Boyfriend wants a lover without the headaches

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age - suspect partner is cheating he says hes not put all the signs are there i am older than him and we have lived together for 12 yrs. then he moved to his own place and i have my own place but we were still seeing each other as a couple til last year when everything about him ... (89 words)

I may be falling for him, but I am confused, help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - basically i dumbd my boyfriend and 3 weeks later he wanted to meet up with me and he begs to accept him and appolises for not treating me right. i felt weird when i saw him like i wasnt sure that me and him were right. there were moments wer he felt aroused and i didnt feel as ... (181 words)

My best friend has two boyfriends and leads a double life....and I feel like I'm responsible for it

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is absolutely killing me. I know, I know, I am out of my mind to be posting someone else's business on here but I am kind of involved and just plain worried. I'm 16, and my best friend is 18. She's just like me, we're so alike and we can relate each other to everything. We ... (482 words)

Swedish and Nigerian, good mix??

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey I am a 16 year old guy. I am mixed, my mother is Swedish and my father is Nigerian. I myself was born in Sweden, I wanted to ask you guys if this is a cool mix? Because for some reason I only favor one of the two, which is Swedish, since I grew up there for a short while ... (104 words)

Want a baby but not through her having intercourse, thoughts??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My wife of 8 yrs. and I (in a lesbian relationship) have been inseminating and our donor is my own 23 yr old nephew. He produces a sperm sample in a sterile cup and gives it to me to inseminate my wife with it. So far she hasn't gotten pregnant yet. We hope it will work... ... (716 words)

I really need help with this problem. My Ob doctor is no help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay , so I am having trouble with knowing who my unborn babys father is. And I talked to my Ob doctor and she did not help at all. My story ; Well me and my boyfriend broke up for 4 months , I had sex with my guy friend Sept. 10th 2010 ( he pulled out ). Then around Sept. ... (200 words)

Husband is successful and has left me behind, I'm thinking of leaving him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i met my husband when i was 19 goin on 20 had my first child an got married at age 21,we started off with barely any money an no home, I am 31 now with 3 children he now runs a successful business owns an expenisive car an money he doesnt know what to do with in the bank,we ... (179 words)

Can I get pregnant from giving a hand job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If cum gets on my pelvis area or above my clit while giving a handjob, how likely is it that I could get pregnant? Like can it drip down to my vagina and go up, or does it have to be inserted?... (42 words)

My b/f cannot orgasm during sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months and we're blissfully happy together; we're in love. There's just one problem. My wonderful guy cannot orgasm when we have sex. It's something he has never done even with previous girlfriends, so I am at least assured that the ... (144 words)

I can't trust my b/f, he doesn't trust me...so now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been going out over a year at first it was great and now its all starting to go down hill. I can't trust him because he would always hang out with another girl and do things for her and I find out and when I confront him about it he gets mad and lies ... (102 words)

Am I jumping to conclusions or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I know this might sound like in jumping to conclusion and all that usual stuff but I'm really confused. I've known this guy for ages and we are friends, it was always a thing of will they won't they and it looked promising until a couple of months ago. At a girls night I ... (179 words)

Despite his words, boyfriend leaves me feeling sad and neglected

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in this relationship for almost 4 months now. During the first 3 months everything was great, he was very attentive to my needs, never really misses my calls, gives me sweet messages all the time during the day, etc, you know the drill. But recently he starts acting ... (329 words)

If a girl thats with a male counterpart is exchanging looks with me, should I..?

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so more than often I'll see a girl starring at me when there with a male counterpart ( and I don't know the status of their relationship) I'll stare back and we'll exchange dirty looks or just looks for sake of argument and catch each other starring.. now I've never acted ... (147 words)

What is this that we have between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age - I met this guy who is 10 years younger than I. We have a good relationship. I consider him a friend and he often asked my advice on decisions he's thinking abt making. We have been intimate. But the last few times we have been together. We did not have sex, we kidded and ... (208 words)

Can I be subtle and trigger more from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I like this guy, well, man. He's a few years older than me and we work together. We are only to be professional around each other as that is what is required of our posts. He is higher than me at work. On my third day of working with him I asked him a questi... (406 words)

I don't see my boyfriend as much and I'm horny all the time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know whats wrong with me, i dont know if it beacuse i dont do much or work much but im horny all the time. i masturbate about 5 or 6 times a day but straight after feel horny again. i use to see my bf most day and use to have sex about 4-6 times a week, but know only see ... (110 words)

Masturbation after sex life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Does everybody keep masturbating after they have a healthy sex relationship?... (11 words)

Does he have to dump me because he's depressed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So Ive been in a LDR for almost 3 years now. He dumped me last night...he's been experiencing some rather harsh depression lately and lost all feeling and emotion, not a care in the world. Hes seeing a doctor on monday but last night he came to the conclusion that ... (209 words)

I think there's something going on between my boyfriend and his cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this post is lengthy, there's just a lot of details I have to add so I don't sound like a paranoid freak. I don't know if I'm just being silly but I think there's something going on between my boyfriend and his cousin(at least I think she's his cousin, she's related ... (402 words)

Boyfriend wants me to scream like a whore! How am I supposed to act like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend asked me today to scream like a whore? both of us are freaks i like to do his fantasies , so does he . this is why i want to know what he means ? he also said "i wanna fuck you like a slut" what does that means ? what should i do in reverse ?. like how should ... (91 words)

What to expect at a 12 week doctors appointment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am about 12 weeks pregnant and going to the drs for my first appointment. i am supposed to get an ultra sound. what sould i expect? is there any tests or exams? any questions they will ask me? how do they do an ultra sound? please tell me what to expect. ... (56 words)

After he opens up he becomes distant. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am dating a guy for the past 1 year, we are kind of on and off. Most of time i goes slient when he feels that he opened up too much to me or he feels attached to me. Yesterday he opened up and we had a great time, today again he started behaving aloof. Its j... (176 words)

Need to study but friend keeps on distracting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiyaaaa Right my old primary school friend recently got in touch with me and I'm extremely happy and we call each other and all that. Now I'm my Easter break revising my butt off for AS and she wants me to go out with her for an hour or something but I know it's gonna ... (170 words)

Husband's emotional affair may turn physical. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 15 years has been masturbating to a picture of someone he met out of state. I found the text message of her in a bikini and discovered that he has been writing to her for over a year. He told her that he imagines that it is her he has sex with instead of me and he ... (144 words)

What guy wants a girl with no personality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i was in a long term relationship for 7 months until it got too much and we split, we split as i had enough of him making me do things like not letting me go out or sometimes even speak to boys, he also stopped me going out with my friends as much, now i've realised that i ... (102 words)

She told me she wants to spend prom with friends. We had plans. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks now. we have been talking for over a year though. pretty much everyday... recently, she totally changed. she doesn't talk to me anymore.... she treats me like shit... won't show public displays of affection... everything ... (204 words)

Is it a bad sign if a guy stop talking to you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When a guy stops talking to you, is that a bad sign? I've been seeing this guy and i thought things were going pretty good. Suddenly he didn't talk to me for a few days. I just shot him a quick text, he responded, but it wasn't really anything, just like "Hey" I think I'm re... (89 words)

Is he just being nice because I am his friend's sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend (lets call her bribri) told my brothers friend (lets call him Char) that i like him....and i do, but i didnt want him to know......I dont know him very well....my brother and i go to different skools. When he found out he started to tickle me, poke me, pull my hair ... (136 words)

How to make a graceful, regret-free exit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

13 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I'm leaving the small town I grew up in a few months from now. I've done a lot of things I regret in this town, and they've been on my mind a lot lately. I want to move to the city with a clean slate. Any advice on how to psych myself into just leaving my past behind?... (63 words)

How do I overcome my shyness about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I love sex; sweet, romantic, dirty, kinky, I like it all, especially with my current boyfriend, who treats me like a queen and never disappoints me in bed. You'd think that wouldn't be a problem, but I'm shy, so it's always him who initiates things. I'm an "anytime, ... (153 words)

LDR boyfriend's inconsistency is really bothering me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m really confused regarding this guy with whom I’ve been in a long-distance relationship for more than four months now. The problem is that he seems to be really distant these days. We hardly talk the way we used to. Well, he told me that he’s not worth me, and that I’m too ... (213 words)

Do kids turn out good or bad based on genes?

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13 April 2011 (F) age - Do kids turn out good ,or bad ,based on their parents genes,or how they were raised? In my family , there is a strange situation, our kids got most things, what kids needs. Not perfect, but very stable, and loving environment. But the most horrendous family tragedy, you can ... (154 words)

I cannot continue to lead a double life with boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

- Help... I am in despair. I have been seeing a married man for a year who has been going through emotional abuse due to his wife having affairs and her having control of his life. He just cannot seem to walk away. We have chatted for 3 years before that where he maintained he ... (241 words)

How can I let go of what's happened in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing someone for about 10 months. About 7 months or so into the relationship, while I was away for about a month, he told me that he spoke with his ex-girlfriend (used to be long distance) and was upset that she was seeing someone new. This totally caught me by ... (587 words)

Do girls like crossdressers?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This question is for the girls. How do you feel about a guy who likes to crossdress. Would you date a crossdresser? Would you be involved helping him achieve a feminine lifestyle and look?... (34 words)

We've broken up, but I would regret not wishing him a happy birthday. Should I send him a card?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have a bit of a situation. I finished my relationship with my ex, about a month and a few weeks ago. To tell you the truth, I didn’t finished things because I stopped loving him but because his actions showed no love for me. I was with him for about a year, I tried ... (235 words)

Thinking about paying an man for sex because I've given up. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 30 year old female virgin never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone I feel like a freak and that I will never find someone. I'm shy and worry no guys will like me cos I'm not very out going. I'm considering just paying someone to have sex with me so I dont have ... (76 words)

Questions about ejaculation.

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13 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - When I give my partner blowjobs and handjobs and I make him come, the force of the ejaculation is not that great (compared to my previous- and only other- partner). Its not really a dribble but it certainly does not go very far. My partner has, early on in the relationship... (146 words)

My wife had sex with her coactor for a film

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

13 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - hey...me and my wife are married for 5 years..she is into film industry from the past two years...shes done a lot of adult films and though i dont like her getting intimate i really dont object cause i dont want to create a rift..till now i was okay because it only involved ... (179 words)

I'm scared of getting hurt by my LDR girlfriend...

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ok this is in regards to long distance love/romace/relationship What im about to say may sound crazy but il make it short, bout a year ago i met a girl online we stayd contact for ever a year and fell in love however i pushed her way because i was afraid of gettin heart b... (287 words)

I wonder what he means by a close relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy that i like in school and we're friends. So he told one of my girlfriends that he liked another girl because they knew each other for 10 years and they are really close plus he is not sure that she likes him. but then he also said that he wants to have a close ... (113 words)

Am I overreacting for not wanting my girlfriend to spend so much time with her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 2 years suddenly decided she wants to be close friends with her ex. They had lunch together last month and she keeps inviting him to her house to work on art projects. The thing is that she has gone back to this boyfriend 3 times in the past. I have told her ... (149 words)

Based on her behavior, so you think she loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 22 years old and cute. there is a girl who is 2 years older than i am. anytime i sit discussing with her she loves just tickling, touching me in my face, ears, cheeks and sometimes kisses me nervously. she tells me most of her secrets on relationship issues. but we ... (75 words)

Do guys respect virgins or non experienced girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true that guys actually respect girls who have never had sex or if they haven't done much with a guy? I don't want to sound rude, but i don't believe this. I hear guys talk and surely if some girls are rude about the girls who are virgins, then why would guys be any ... (108 words)

Long distance relationship .. ex wanting to be friends with me till we meet and have a real relationship !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello .. ok i've been in a long distance relationship .. i'm from tunisia and he's from uk .. it was good most of the time. he was planning to visit me on dec but we broke up before that .. so we haven't met ! after new year we talked and we were back .. but i was feeling a ... (265 words)

He doesn't talk about his feelings. How do I know if he's ready for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im confused about how my bf feels. He doesnt like to talk about things like sex and used to think people were silly who did stuff but now a year and a bit on we've done everything except and the other day he even got on top of me and we were 'rubbing up and down' with both of ... (73 words)

Going to strip club with husband and friends made me sick to my stomach

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am sick to my stomach my mind has been racing. My best friend and her husband like going to strip clubs. Well she has been asking me to go to the strip club and bring my husband. So I finally accepted and asked my husband if he would like to go. So he said yes of course what ... (240 words)

Part II - Is love enough even after he has moved out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I made an original question post on 11/23/2010 trying to decide if I should ask my live in boyfriend of 6 months to leave and if I should end things. Since then, he did move out, but we came to an agreement of things that we both need to work on/accomplish in order for us to ... (661 words)

B/f, friends, vacation and clubbing! Not feeling good about this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, My boyfriend will be going on a vacation with 10 guy friends for a week. He told me that they will be clubbing for one night in the midst of their vacation. I don't like the idea of him clubbing but he told me that he is sort of obligated to go as everyone will... (178 words)

Why didn't he just ask for my phone number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - helllo everyone. fridaynight me and my friends went to a bar, had a few drinks, met new guys. so the one guy asks for my phone and puts his number on my phone. why do guys do this? why not just ask for my number? ... (52 words)

Mistress wants to move to within a mile of my house

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with a woman for 6 months.. She was living 300 miles away from me. I wanted to break it off but was not sure how. Well she wanted to go back to school so I convinced her to move back with her parents 1200 miles away. I also told her it would give me ... (204 words)

How can I figure out what kind of a relationship she wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have one of my best friend, who is really sexy and horny virgin girl and never had any boy friend even close relationship with any guy. She loves to be intimate but keep boundary. Also as per I know she is crazy about sex, love to browse XXX(adult content) sites. I am con... (130 words)

I realized too late how much I love her but now she wants space!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I had dated a girl for about 8 and half years. I am now 27 and we met our senior year in high school. She was my first love and best friend. Our relationship has always been fantastic. We get along so well its amazing. We both went to different colleges but we made it work ... (534 words)

Ex filed restraining order against me but is now in contact again. Does that mean he dropped the order?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age - i was in a relationship for 15 years, lived with my boyfriend. he ended it. it was a bad breakup. he ended up getting a restraining order against me. now he is talking to me and acknowledging emails and texts. i don't know if he dropped the order. does this mean he is having ... (58 words)

Advances from young lady got my married heart fluttering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a bit of a sticky situation! I am married to a wonderful lady, we have 1 child whom I adore with all my heart. Over the last few years our love life has kind of dwindled away, there is no excitement any more, I know she loves me, but I don't think that she is IN love ... (221 words)

How do I figure out whether I really can't trust him or if I'm just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem regarding my relationship- hope you can help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years,unfortunately we are in a long distance relationship. The problem is that even though we speak on the phone every night, keep in touch regularly during t... (193 words)

What kind of a man am I seeing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So,I am meeting this guy half a year. We re meeting once in 10 - 14 days. I am wondering what kind of man he is, (he is over 40) when he does something wrong to me, like I got sexually tr. desease, but very easy one, I told him, its from him, he promised we go together to ... (213 words)

I asked him if he were 100% sure. He won't answer. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently broke up with my boyfriend - he says he gets to a certain stage in a relationship and cant carry on cos the love is not strong enough. He would like us to be friends cos I have "been a diamond" to him, but wants me to heal. I want him back, so I asked if he is... (84 words)

Is he just a rebound guy and given his history, will he cheat on me too??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I got out Of a relationship 3 weeks ago and have started having feelings for this other guy. Two problems: first, I'm not sure if I really like him or if he's a rebound crush. Secondly he told me that he has cheated on two of his previous girlfriends and I'm scared he'll cheat ... (78 words)

Why do guys get clingy after sex?? I just want to have fun and not be tied down.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I need some advice. I am 18 and nearing the end of my first year of college. I am very independent and am not looking for a relationship. I just want to have fun and not be tied down. I figure now is the time to get the party girl out of my system! Anyway, this weekend I ... (163 words)

A bj with a hooker while on a break and dirty talk with a girl while we were broken up. Why is she mad at me when we weren't even together when this was happening??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hey all. Im in a LDr relationship with my gf. and we both love each other. theres no doubt about that. weve been going for a year and a bit, and weve had a couple of rocky patches. lately ive been thinking about these rocky patches and I wonder if some of the "things" i did are ... (367 words)

What are my chances with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - my ex of 4weeks sent me this message by text after i sent her a text asking her how she was doing. hi hope you well. im dating someone now thats why i dont want to be in contact with you to much. sorry.i just think with everything thats happened it would not be fair on the ... (87 words)

My BF's mom wants to throw us out because she's mad at us and at the family!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long story, so thanks for reading. Okay I have been with my BF for about 3 years now. We live together in a trailer with our dog. I'm in college and stuff, so it's cheep and convenient for us. The trailer was bought by my BF's grandma before she died. My BF's mom... (959 words)

Do genuine relationships develop from internet dating or is it just a game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I joined an internet dating site. Some people said it’s worth a go, a lot of people warned me off, and told me there are a lot of users and losers out there. I met a guy, he was nice (although he seemed to have dated a lot of women via internet – maybe he just like meeting ... (244 words)

Where do I stand with my ex? She's confusing me. What is she doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up and 3 weeks later she had another bf. The other day I was at the club and she was there with her bf. I noticed she spent no time with him at all...he was stood on the sidelines like a wallflower with his friend. She was dancing and having a good ti... (282 words)

Was this the right answer to "you're special." Does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

13 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We chated for 4 weeks already. i ask this question "how many contacts have u had"(bb). she said "100+". she ask me back "how many did u have? i bet more than me" than i said "more little. cuz only the special one can be my contact." then she replied "so am i special enough?xD" ... (80 words)

My boyfriend is still friends with a girl that loves him as well as me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am concerned about my boyfriend. He is friends with a girl he slept with once a number of years ago and she has confessed to him that she is in love with him but he continues o chat with her on a regular basis. I have just found out about her and that he has been talking ... (165 words)

What else can I say, that is genuine, but not harsh, to say no to his unwanted attention?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week i met a guy. my friends gave my number to him, because he asked for it. But i don't want him to think i'm interested, because he keeps flirting and i'm not doing it back, hoping he will get the idea. I don't want to say the same thing most girls say, 'i have a boyfri... (110 words)

What are the good things about being single?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I realised yesterday that I've mentioned to one of my friends three times in the past few months that I miss being in a relationship. I was a bit shocked at myself because I don't want to turn into one of those people who feel as if they need to be in a relationship to be ... (97 words)

My boyfriend has cut me off... what do I do?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years (both in our 30s) and it has been rocky, but we both stuck into because we do care a lot about each other (I think- he has said he loves me but his actions dont say the same thing?), and we both wanted the same thing ... (393 words)

My past still bothers me. What can I do about it?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - as a kid i was molested or was touched by my sisters bf's son... a month later his dad hits on me ... and another guy touched me while i was in my teens..things like this kept happening to me... so that's how i started dressing like a boy i still do n i cant see myself bein... (185 words)

Boyfriend refers to me as "someone" he doesn't make me feel special

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for the last 3 years. He is Danish with Master degree. a year ago, he started to refer to me as someone. I wanted to go home, he said do not go, I want someone to hold on to. For the last year he has been referring to me as someone, or h... (179 words)

Hurt from the past still haunts my relationship. He won't talk about it.

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am so confused with the guy i have been with for 5 years, i love him so much. Part of me wants to let him go so i can be happy, i haven't been happy for awhile now from the way he treated me. 3 years ago he used to run around on me with all these other girls while i wa... (151 words)

I love my Mom, but how do I regain her trust? She's discovered I've lost my virginity.

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I really need your help. Basically my Mum listened in to a conversation with my sister yesterday and found out: i've lost my virginity to my boyfriend, i was hoping to have him stayover secretly when they went away, that she doen't know half the stuff i get up to, ... (318 words)

What can I do? He's so jealous and questions me for ages if I do go out with friends.

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - basically me and my boyfriend have been together for two years and a couple of months. I love him with all my heart and we've known each other for years. but he is so jealous of everything! He doesn't like my friends he doesn't like me going out and he says that i shouldn't ... (193 words)

40 year old girl friend wants her 60 yr boyfriend to arrange her affair with her new lover.

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13 April 2011 (M)

age - My 41 year old girlfriend wants me to arrange her affair with another person .She wants me to hide my relationship with her I am 60.Separated. I have a college going son.(Late marriage)For the past 3/4 years , I have a rather intimate relationship with a 41 year old widow wo... (784 words)

I left my alcoholic ex so why do I feel so badly?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Its been 2 and a half years he drink endlessy, accused me of being with other men, disrespects me,and make me feel worthless when he questions my love for him. I love him and only him with my whole heart, mind, and soul. The drinking brings about a change in our relationship ... (81 words)

My boyfriend doesn't get to know me

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that my boyfriend isn't *that* interested in me as an individual. My boyfriend doesn't know when my birthday is. He doesn't ask, so I never get a chance to tell. What I'm surprised is he doesn't seem to realize that "miraculously", I am getting older by a year, every... (309 words)

Why is my ex hiding and lying about the girl he cheated on me with?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years had a great relationship.One day he started acting funny so i questioned if everything was okay. He looked at me and said stop being silly everythings fine. the next day he said we need to talk and he told me he was a miserable person and needed ... (239 words)

I'm too tight for my boyfriend to finger

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im a virgin. i want to my boyfriend to finger me but im so tight. he doesnt want to hurt me. help. :) thanks ... (24 words)

Should I run away from home and marry the boy I love?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi; i am 25 and dating a guy from past 1 yr , he is a diabetic type-1 from his childhood and fully insulin dependent twice a day. i want to marry him but my parents are refusing because of his diabetis and also because of intercaste marriage as we are of different caste. i... (137 words)

Bored with being bored with my marriage!

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Iv'e been with my husband for nearly 12 years. we met aged 19 and within two months we were engaged, within eight months we were living together, two years after that we were married. We now have two beautiful sons who are 6 and 2 years. I love my husband he works hard , and my ... (205 words)

My boyfriend called me a bad person

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently called me a "bad person" and pointed out the many wrong things I do. I admitted the wrong but I felt the use of the word "bad person" was very harsh. I asked him to leave if he wished to, but he said he wanted to be with me and nobody else. I do feel very ... (81 words)

Boyfriend being dramatic and a baby so I broke up with him

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13 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend on Saturday because he was being really dramatic and was pissed that I wasn't going to pick him up at the airport because I had class (I haven't seen him for three months since he lives in another state by choice). I had offered to see him today ... (408 words)

I don't want my fears to ruin this relationship

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with someone that i really care about and I am so afraid that I will ruin it again. When having sex with him (or anyone else in my past) I get terrible flashbacks of an abusive relationship I was in. There are certain positions that cause me to freeze, to feel paralyzed, ... (228 words)

Desperate to be touched again

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13 April 2011 (M) age - Looking for a reality check here, particularly from people in longstanding relationships. I’ll try to keep it as short as I can, but I suppose a certain amont of background is necessary. I’m 49, been married for 25 years. The last time I was physically touched by someone ... (453 words)

11 year friendship ending because I wouldn't loan her money

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend... or at least had a friend for 11 years, who has decided to stop calling me and only sending text messages. We used to talk on the phone every day, pretty much twice a day. She started this behavior when I declined to lend her money the last time. Whenever ... (654 words)

Suspicions were correct, boyfriend married,and I don't want to fall in depression because of it

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13 April 2011 (F) age - Hello, I have just found out that my so-called boyfriend that loves me (or says he does) was lying to me the whole time. I have asked him several times, was he married and he replied that he was not and that he was very happy with me. I have to admit, I did have a premonition ... (188 words)

Masturbation every night. Should I get help?

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 16 and I masturbate every night. I was wondering if this is common or should I get some help? Please help... (23 words)

Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ... (18 words)

What's wrong in telling your spouse how much u love them?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - is it true that men don't often tell their wifes or girlfriends how much they love them? if yes i wanna know why..and why does a girl have to do it?... (31 words)

Turns out the girl I like is my friend's sister and its just awkward

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone! It's been months since I last sought the help of my favorite group of agony aunts. But here I am, imploring you for aid once more (clearly, I'm a mess :]) This is going to sound odd. Be prepared. I'm good friends with a fellow freshman by the name of "Ale... (290 words)

What is with this guy and his avoidance of me online?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First off, I want to apologize in advance for this question because i know how ridiculous this is going to sound, but it's driving me insane not knowing the reason behind his thinking. So here goes..... Lately I've been noticing that this guy has been avoiding me, actual... (390 words)

Longing for him and he is overseas

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy and he wants to be together and i want to be with him only thing is he a marine and is overseas and i really miss him.. i need some advice on how to deal with the distance?... (43 words)

Rare to have sex and g/f won't let me do anything unusual

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my gf have hardly had sex. we have been together 3 years now. when we do have sex. she will only let me go down on her and a little intercorse. she wont ever go down on me and wont do anal. can u help please?... (48 words)

Crushing on my games teacher

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello. im 14/15 years of age and have a huge crush on a gsmes teacher at my school. its bin going on for a couple of months now and its tearing me apart as i feel like i love him i smile whenever he walks past run over to say hello try to make our convos go on and on.i e... (345 words)

I'm 24, a virgin, sick of it but push everyone away because I'm scared!

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm tired of being like this. I'm 24 and a virgin. Now that in itself I do not have a problem with, but more the fact that it points to other issues, like how I find it incredibly hard to let a guy get close to me. I push everyone away because I'm just too damn scared. I want ... (352 words)

I'm not happy about boyfriend's secretiveness about me!

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i've been seeing a man for over 8 months now and he says he loves me and i do love him too. we're both in our mid forties and although I live with my son in my own house, he lives with his mother in a small spare room. The trouble is, for me, is that he hasn't told him ... (233 words)

Girlfriend wants sex 3-4 times a day. I'm exhausted!

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, my girlfriend is way too horny. I love her but damn, 3-4x a day is just way too much. She always wants more, I know this should be a good thing but it has gotten to the point where i feel exhausted everyday from too much sex. Is there any way I can satisfy her without ... (63 words)

I've simply lost touch with myself..

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi im a 28 year old n ima tell u everything as detailed as possible..i have been in texas for six yrs now im from kansas city born and raised.. Ima sum things up quick.. Great fam till I was twelve n mom n dad split because of mee th abuse.. Dad left and ignored me.. Mom let ... (771 words)

I doubt if I'll ever see him again if I don't make a move!

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so there is this guy in one of my classes and I think we could be great friends (or possibly more). We've talked a few times and I loved every minute of it but I'm just WAY too shy to ask him to hang out with me outside of class or to even initiate a conversation. The ... (136 words)

She likes skinny guys and I'm a big guy. How can I convince her I wouldnt be violent in a relationship?

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13 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - For a while i've liked this girl. A girl who likes these skinny, effeminate guys. I'm a 6'4 and 17st rugby player. I don't fit her criteria of a 'type'. We've been friends for a good few years but how can I get her to understand that just because i'm a big, tough guy it doesn't ... (123 words)

What do the men look for in a woman? Do they only want sex?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Question for guys Its a pretty simple one but you see i am finding it hard to find a guy who wants me for me . Only want me for sex really im not nasty at all or ugly... Broad question for you all What do guys look for in a woman ?... (57 words)

Do men's sex drives decrease after 40?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men's sex drives decrease after 40?... (7 words)

At what age is a woman no longer attractive?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!... (30 words)

Why is my boyfriend's family so hateful to me?

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13 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really wasn't sure how to title this question. Me and my boyfriend have been together two and a half years now and are very happy. Although through out the time we have been together a lot of people have tried coming between us. We have always come out the other side s... (213 words)