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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He is very romantic around me except when his friends are around. How do I deal with the mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Any advice please? I have been seeing this guy for the last 4 weeks. He is really really shy when we go out and his friends are there. He said he feels he will be judged by them. I know he has a lot going on at home. On occasions he goes funny when we are texting and will... (166 words)

How do I tell my cousin I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok If i tell him i love me how do i know it wont ruin everything? i love my cousin. yes he is blood but he is always there for me and whenever hes around i just smile. when we were little he kissed me but he dosent remember. i still love him how do i tell him?... (58 words)

How do I trust this moody man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How to trust him???? I love him soooooo much but his mood keeps on fluctuating although he is very loving but angry at d same time. i want to make him happy. i want to guess his nature we mostly talk on text and meet each other after 15 days i dono how to handle him????... (57 words)

I have a really embarrassing problem. Should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys, i just wanted to know, is it normal for me to 'jizz' every time i snog my girlfriend i want to tell her that it happens but im scared in case its a turn off, or makes things weird between us, or makes her go away from me shall i tell her or not ? and is this norma... (70 words)

He's my ex and wants to have sex. I want to do it, or at least say that he asked me, out of spite. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So why did this boy "J" text me yesterday asking me if we still can have sex. When he has just broken up with me and is now going with another girl... a part of me wants to just have sex with him just to try and get back at her by telling her.... but then I'm not over him yet. ... (160 words)

How do I get him to notice / talk to me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I Am really in love with this guy in the year above me (im year nine) and every time i see him i feel strange and do stupid stuff... but we have never really talked i know we are into a lot of the same things because of the times we have talked. we have a few similar friends ... (99 words)

Who should apologize. We talked about her on FB, but she only found out about it by stealing a password.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been best friends with this girl I work with. Lat's call her "E". She tells me everything even the fact that she's seeing a guy when she is very much married. She has another very close friend whom she just recently introduced to me. Let's call her "S". S belongs to ... (572 words)

Should I try to make her see that he is no good, or should I let her make he own mistakes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - DearCupid.org, Okay, so my best friend keeps telling me over and over again that she thinks this one guy in our school is really hot. I don't think he's ugly but the problem is that he's a really big pervert. When I tried telling her this, she just pushed it away and says 'T... (206 words)

I like a girl that doesn’t like me. How do I get her attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i really like this girl...who says to my friends that she doesnt really like me. We were kind of friends until she found out that i like her...after that she hasnt been interacting with me that much, compared to my friends. She has been playing dirty lately, she tries her best... (141 words)

He's doesn't treat me or my son very well and I am stuck here. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My 9 year old son and I moved to another country to be with my partner and now I am stuck as I am waiting for my visa decision, not allowed to work, and can't afford to move. We don't want to leave the country because my son loves it here and is doing so well at his new school ... (336 words)

I don't want to ruin our friendship by flirting if all he was doing was messing around.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have known this boy my whole life he is the same age as me but goes to a different school We know each other because our mums are best friends and knew each other before we was born, every year in the summer we all (me, my mum, my two sisters, him , his mum, and two brothers) ... (215 words)

Is it that he doesn't want to commit, or is he trying to protect me in case he doesn't make it back home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my guy friend have been seeing one another, we didn't have a verbal commitment but more of an unspoken one bc he just went away to war. With that being said, one morning I was laying on his chest and asked him if he wanted a life with me post-war? His response was ... (150 words)

I advised him to give it another try with his ex, but I've fallen for him and now I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, thanks to everyone who will reply to this in advance. So im a 21 year old girl. Ive only had one serious relationship so far and it ended in a mutual break up last year. After that ive gotten close to many guys but there is one guy who ive been extremely close to for t... (333 words)

I'm really interested in her and can't tell if she is in me. I just sent 101 roses. Now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really interested in this girl. Like, really interested. We both work in the same neighborhood, in bars. I manage a big nightclub and she works the graveyard shift in the café across the road from me. Anyway, for the last about three weeks we have been flirting like cr... (291 words)

I love her. Do you think she feels anything other than friendship for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm deeply in love with my straight best friend. I'm 17 and bi, she's 18 and leaving here for uni in October. I don't remember ever feeling this strongly about anyone, and even before I told her we were incredibly close. She ended up guessing how I felt about her and reassured ... (287 words)

BF uses drugs. How do I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for a while now and its been the most rocky relationship I've ever had. Its very on again off again which is weird considering we haven't even been together a year yet. He uses drugs and I found this out a few months back but decided to look over it ... (270 words)

My husband is cheating with one of his students. Does he still care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married with grown up children. My husband has been seeing this university girl the age of my children. He said he was helping her to stop drinking spirits cos she was addicted. Other times he says she is the security in case anyone wants to spoil his drink. He was so ... (162 words)

I want him to talk to me first at the gym. How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Simple question and may sound ridiculous men, but i want an honest answer please.Firstly, I know that every guy is different in what they like.... What i want to know is if you were at the gym and you noticed a girl, what would she do that would grab your attention more a... (227 words)

I gave him a BJ and he told all his friends I'm frigid.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i gave my bf a bj the other day 4 the first time. i dont like the idea but he asked and i did it. it obviously worked but afterward he said it was s*** and he told all of his friends im frigid what should i do?????... (48 words)

Do women give oral sex out of the blue, or is there an ulterior motive behind it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - A few friends of mine were talking one night over beers and one said his girlfriend gave him a blow job 'out of the blue' when he got home from work one night - for apparently no reason. We all called BS, but he was adamant that he didn't do a thing for it to happen and she ... (142 words)

How many positions do you go through while having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When getting it on with your partner, how many different positions do you typically make use of? Do you stay put with one position until you're both finished or do you switch it up every couple of minutes like in a porn video? ... (47 words)

It's over, but he calls about five times a day. Is this harassment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years. We have a 3 year old daughter together, so obviously we keep in touch. He sees my daughter on weekends. I'm getting constant calls of him. My mum says I'm over-reacting but I don't think I am, I'm getting like 5 calls a day and ... (63 words)

We were each other's first for everything and she broke it off. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. She told me she didn't love me anymore. She started talking to a new guy almost right away, but every once in a while she text me or calls me and says she misses me or is thinking about me, and misses old times, ... (278 words)

He was jealous and possessive, but says he's changed. Should I risk going back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope there is someone out there who can help me. I have been dating this guy for almost three years I love him so much. We recently broke up because he is extremely jealous and possessive and things seemed to get worse. Since the break up he has been promising me the world ... (233 words)

It's over but I can't stop thinking about her. Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I find myself thinking about my ex throughout the day. We were only together for a few months and we split up about a month and half ago. It's hard to explain... it's like, I'm not thinking about anything specific, it's like - she is just on my mind. Through the day I can hear ... (110 words)

He says he wants to, but I am afraid I will ruin the relationship if we have sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now, we've been close friends for about 5 years. I'm the first serious girlfriend he's ever had, even though i've had quite a few boyfriends before him. the thing is... i'm not a virgin, and he is. i haven't had sex ... (174 words)

Girls, thoughts on chewing tobacco?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question for the girls on here. How much would it bother you if your guy dipped. By dip i mean used chewing tobacco. Enough to leave him or view him differently? What if you have been with him a while and you barely find out hes been dipping?... (49 words)

Why has she suddenly changed her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So me and my Gf have been dating for almost 3 years. Im 27,she is 26.Since last year she has been talking and hinting about getting engaged. To make things worse, her cousin and 2 of her friends got engaged,so all the pressure was me.She said it would be a dream come true ... (213 words)

We sleep over each other's houses. Is what I am doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I need advice from parents with older kids. I'm 19 years old, have a job, keep a 3.9 GPA in college. I also have a boyfriend. I'm a nice kid, I do what my parents ask most of the time and I don't do drugs, don't drink, I'm quite responsible. I have a boyfriend and we stay ... (352 words)

Need advice. I want to wow him at the airport for the first time and wow his family too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. This is a question for future reference. I'm meeting my LDR boyfriend in July for his birthday. I will be meeting all of his friends and his family as well. We've been dating for three and a half years, and I've no clue what to wear! I was thinking of getting... (158 words)

I have a very high libido, and she used to, but now it's almost nonexistent. Please advise.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 28, my wife is 24. We have been married for a year and have no kids (yet). We dated for five years before getting married (for school reasons). About a year into dating, we started having sex. Lots. Like three times a day. Most of the time, she initiated it. Naturally, ... (370 words)

Do girls like their space? Will she feel crowded if I request more of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am middle aged guy in late 30's dating a 26 year old single mom. We met a year ago through a internet dating site and have been seeing each other for over a year now. I am a settled, educated, professional, who has separated from my wife a couple of years ago and s... (395 words)

I'm itchy after sex. What could be the problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi antys i got a problem here. Here it goes. A week ago i had sex with my boyfriend and of course we used protection but my problem is since that day i always feel like i could pee. I'm not itchy or what but i have this feeling is irritating me. I feel this in my vagina please ... (70 words)

My marriage ended two years ago....I found out my wife had been cheating on me, but I still cant seem to move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi new person here. I am a 39 yr old male and at the point of desperation. My marriage ended two years ago. I found out my wife had been cheating on me (again, we had that issue before and thought it was resolved). She did not want to work things out. She felt that she di... (216 words)

My boyfriend is acting ungratefully. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend asked me to buy him a expensive pair of shoes that I can not afford right now. I was straight up with him and told him that I couldn't afford them right now and his reply was that he never ask me for anything and if it was something that I wanted I would've brought ... (116 words)

Am I being cheap here and over-reacting? Or does my boyfriend not give me the respect that I deserve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Sorry this is going to be long; thank you in advance for reading and for your answers. I’ve been dating my bf for about 2 yrs now. He’s always been a little clingy and overbearing, but I attributed that to the fact that he’s had a disturbed childhood (he lost his dad very ear... (657 words)

I don't want to lose my virginity to her because she is not a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a virgin and I've met a girl. shes not a virgin though and she wants my virginity but i don't want to lose my virginity with her as she's not a virgin either what do i do about this? ... (41 words)

When a man says "Be Patient With Me, ".what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this man since Nov. all was great until Feb. I saw him 3-4 times a week, slept over and suddenly that slowed down. I found out that he sees another girl on my off days, he has no idea I know, I have asked if there are other women and he tells me I am the only ... (164 words)

My jealousy is starting to ruin the relationship. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I get so jealous about my boyfriend's past and especially jealous when he hangs around other girls or talks to them a lot. I know he loves me and doesn't like them, but I still get jealous and believe me I constantly try to just let it go but I never can. What do I do to make ... (68 words)

Can your second love be your true love forever? Even if your young.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year. He just started working everyday from 7-3:30 but has Sundays off. This has been difficult for me since im used to talking to him all day plus it’s been harder for us to get together. He try’s to see me once a week every week ... (486 words)

He slept with his ex after he'd been out with me. Does that mean he liked her or made a mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 16 months now. i recently found out he had slept with his ex a day before wed first slept together last year jan 2010 around the time we started meeting up. we had only met up 3 or 4 times at this point but we got on so well i r... (349 words)

How can I help someone when I'm so shy and don't speak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I think one thing holds me back in life, from being myself, and that is I am painfully shy. I am acutly aware of how awkward I am in many social situations, any involving people I do not know, always in groups, even with my best friends, and even sometimes with my best fri... (542 words)

I finally broke off an 12 year affair and I am a mess

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age - i did it ...i sent him an email today to end up all that mess ...i was in and out in a relationship - affair whatever you call it with a married guy for over than 12 years ...i am trying really hard to deal with it ...its painfull !!! physically and emotionally ...the ... (96 words)

He wants sex but won't tell me where we stand. How do I make him understand that this is important to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

7 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - There is this friend of mine that i study with at my uni. we have know each other for roughly 2 and a half years and a lot of nights we study until really late (between 2am and 3am). The problem is we are attracted to each other and sometimes after studying i go over to his ... (351 words)

I resent my boyfriend sometimes to the point that it disgusts me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles.. I have been using this site for a while but this is the first question that I have posted. I am very nervous so please be gentle with me. My problem is my hard to explain but here goes... I have borderline personality disorder I have rece... (316 words)

Although I am not ready to have a GF, I still feel as if I am missing out on something important in life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont like flirting around with girls, not because it is bad but because am not ready for it. i don't have a gf and don't need one now, but when i meet or see a girl especially with her bf, i feel i am missing a lot of things in life. my question is, will having a gf stop this ... (73 words)

Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents. Nothing I have ever done has gotten any sort of approval. Everything I do could always be improved, according to them. I get A's and all they have to say is, 'You didn't get an A*, it's not good enough'. Most nights they refuse ... (420 words)

How can I make my boyfriend sexually interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend was married to a woman for 5 years, and she left him mostly because there sex life wasn't happening. I met him a year after his divorce, and now the same seems to be happening with us. We both love each other, and want the relationship to work, but I feel out of my ... (861 words)

Her best friend is a boy. Am I wrong because I feel jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys, i go out with a girl that has lots of boys as friends and has a boy best friend, is it normal for me to get really jealous and sometimes upset because it seems like she likes him ? ... (41 words)

His moody behavior confuses me. What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, brace yourself. This might be a tad bit confusing. So, "Leonidas" and I were together before from November till February until I got pregnant and had an abortion. He clearly has relationship issues which I think are pretty obvious? He grew up in Foster Care, when he was 5 ... (1685 words)

Whenever b/f has to chose between me or friends & drugs, I lose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. We've always had a great relationship- going out together a lot, regular good sex etc. We even ended up going to the same University together, which although many people said was a bad idea, has turned out to be great for ... (441 words)

People who are in a marriage with a 30-year age difference.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really REALLY in love with a man 30 years to my senior, but I worry about our age difference. I have done so much internet research and found so many similar cases with a biiiiig age difference, but none of them really answered my question. I really want to know, especia... (186 words)

How can I get over someone I can never have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get over someone I can never have when I have to see them once a week and they stare at me all the time? Sometimes he ignores me and acts quite rude to me. I don't do anything to provoke this right enough but then all of a sudden, when I think he hates me, he's so ... (186 words)

I found out about my husband's sex secrets after he had an accident. Why doesn't he understand that I am upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age - my husband has been addicted to porn for many yearswe have been to many councilors irecently found out he has been masterbating with abroomstick in rectum he had fallen and perferated his colon he had to get acolonostomy bag iwas devastated ifound out after he also enjoyed ... (132 words)

Boyfriend likes his space and doesn't share things with me when I stay at his place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - me and boyfriend together 5 months and i sleep over once or twice a week. when there tho i feel in the way as he dont like me in the kitchen and says i will make crumbs and he likes to do things his way. wont let me wash up or anything 4him. also he dont let me leave anything ... (182 words)

My boyfriend and his sons always pick on my mentally handicapped son

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boy friend whom has 2 boys.. I have 3 young children my self... My boyfriend hates my oldest son and him and his boys always yells at my son and picks on him cause hes mentally hanidcap... What do i do ? Do i leave my boyfriend?... (53 words)

Does my dream guy like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there! Alrighty, so, I need some help figuring out if my dream guy likes me! He's very confusing; almost like an intersection during the holidays. Anyway, he started a chat session with me on Facebook nearly a year ago. He asked questions about me, and I about him, and we ... (258 words)

When is it too late for closure? is revenge helpful? Should I try to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, it's me again. Well, a guy broke up with me about 7 months ago and I haven't heard from him since. 2 days after the break up (which was a bad break up) he was in a relationship with this girl (Who I suspect he was cheating on me to begin with.) The break-up occured ... (290 words)

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend turns into a drunk, abusive, cheater! Does this mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep having dreams about my boyfriend where he turns into a complete loser. But he's nothing like this in real life. In my dreams he turns into a complete drunk, shouts abusive things all the time, and even cheats on me with my friends right in front of me. These are ... (91 words)

I got physical with my girlfriend during an argument. She has forgiven me, but I cannot forgive myself! It is always on my mind. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and we get along great. I can honestly say that she is the only girl I ever want to be with again. BUT at the same time I am so confused and disappointed in myself. A month ago, we got into a huge fight. I found te... (319 words)

My boyfriend can't stay hard during sex and it’s upsetting me? Does anyone know why? Need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend can’t stay hard when it comes to sex. I accidentally fell pregnant with his baby, but never knew at the time he was on Viagra, which he has now run out of. I never noticed he had a problem until now. He tells me it’s not me and that it has a mind of its own. He has ... (414 words)

I ended it with my husband because he was awful to my son. Now he wants to work on the problems. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, I did it. I ended my relationship. My second husband’s relationship with my little boy was awful. My little boy is 9 years old and he needs anxiety counselling because of all the chaos in his life. I have to say, although I love my Husband, it got to the point where my ... (216 words)

My boss bullies me, and my boyfriend is a colleague. Am I right to feel peeved that he ignored me at a social gathering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boss is a horrible person and a bully. She treats me like crap even though I do a good job (I have great stats for my work, better than almost everyone else). For example, she recently forced me to apologize publicly for a mistake that was her fault so that she could save ... (313 words)

My husband cheated on me with his ex! Did he truly end things with her? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married 5 yrs. Lately, when my husband and I argued, he would always calls his ex. He said it was nothing and they are just friends. Then he started calling her secretly. One week later, he went on a date with her and they had sex together. I realised this after ... (236 words)

Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age - My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?... (46 words)

She broke up with me for another man. Does she want me back now? What should I say to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Two years back, I had a girl friend whom I loved so much. She had all the qualities I would need in a woman. I love her and did everything in my capacity to make her happy. We co-habited for two years in Kampala Uganda during my studies. When I returned to South Sudan, I left ... (579 words)

In-law's visits getting too frequent. Is there anyone I can get them to stop?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have one little problem - I want to get rid of my in-laws. Not in the physical meaning, of course, but I'm just so sick and tired of their constant every day visits! Especially my mom-in-law - god, she comes literally every day! She is the nicest woman, th... (214 words)

How to deal with your parents and other people pressuring you?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I get pressured a lot mostly by my dad! I'm in college doing a sports course I want to be a coach. He tried to pressure me to finish college this year to work on a burger van with him. I said no, also he trys to make me feel bad about myself! My friends started driving before ... (263 words)

Why is my face getting thinner?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, i have a health question my face is gettin skinnier, like many people telling me that its gone too skinny, my body is still the same but my face is like really small and it looks long coz there is almost no meat on it. could this be a symptoms of some disease lik... (84 words)

My husband wants to take me to visit his woman on the side!

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been married for 17 years and have tried to be a devoted wife and mother, even sacrificing my career and my time with my mother for the sake of the family. i have 2 beautiful children who will pass out of school in a couple of years.also, the responsibility of running the ... (445 words)

Is female cum the same as male cum?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What is a women cum. Is it the same as a man, (when they get excited they "squirt" come)... (19 words)

I'm worried our relationship is purely based on sex!

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 and a half years are always having sex. Our sex drive is ridiculous and we always want eachother. Our relationship has been good so far but I am worried that its based on sex. Im taking him very seriously now so I dont want this to be the only reason I am!... (56 words)

Do I still need to get checked for STD's?

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7 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - So, i had sex for the first time back in October of last year and haven't had sex since then. The guy had many sex partners before me. We used a condom, but i was wondering when i have a check up this week with my doctor should i ask for a STD screening? I haven't had any ... (74 words)

Is he right about our relationship? Will I be missing out? Will we both end up getting hurt?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 and i'm dating a 26 year old. though unorthodox, we persued our relationship. through the protective older brothers and sisters, judgmental extended relatives, and questioning parents; we came out as happy as ever and perhaps stronger. we started dating on ... (214 words)

Am I just a bit of fun, so he keeps me a secret?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when you are being used for "one thing"? Ive being in a relationship for 6 month now. I would be offened if he didnt want to or fancy me like that but Im not sure if thats all he is after. Im not saying we are at it all the time or that he preassure's me into ... (165 words)

Loves me or loves me not?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello eveyone.this is my first question and i hope that you can help me.just to clear this out,im gay and i dont want any hate in here.so let me begin.im 18 years old and i am at this college.there is a fellow student of mine that i really like and i think he likes me too.he ... (220 words)

She lied and flirted with other guys so I cant trust her anymore, but she wants another chance. What should I do?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. please help! i met a girl last year, march 29 2010, shes very pretty, cute. a month later, we started dating. and i proposed her and she accepted me. when we go out together, she kind of stare other guys, she doesn look, rather stares. and on small small thin... (325 words)

Moving in with my boyfriend and his 2 friends, but I dated one of the friends a few years ago! Will it be awkward?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right about our one year anniversary, my boyfriend, his two closest guy friends and I are all moving into a house together. Yes... I'll be living with three guys but I'll be in my boyfriend's/our room. Unfortunately, I dated one of his friends for a month about three years ago. ... (88 words)

Is he with her for sex?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this friend I liked for a year. We've known each other since elementary school til now in highschool. I recently moved to another state 3000 miles away But he knew I was returning and I even came back for the summer time. Summer was perfect hung out literally every... (249 words)

How do I get over him and stop blaming myself for our breakup?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was a child I was sexually abused and when my boyfriend and I broke up two years ago I felt like he left me because he could tell I was molested. We had sex and then afterward I told him that I loved him. He told me he was not capable of loving me and it broke my heart. ... (150 words)

I took a guy's virginity and stopped talking to him cold turkey. Now I feel guilty, what should I do?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About three weeks after ending a five year relationship with my ex I started talking to a guy and things went off great. It was honestly really amazing, he was perfect. I ended up having sex with him, and he had told me before hand that he was a virgin. He moved away to college ... (453 words)

Cure for Premature Ejaculation? - No alternative pleasing, just penetrative sex!

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is there really a cure for Premature Ejaculation?? I have used desensitized condoms, and they work great on me, but the latex burns and rashes my gf, no mater how wet she is or how much lube we use. The Start-Stop method don't work, it has actually made it worse in my opin... (107 words)

I want to get married, but she had 1 minute intercourse with a man while we were on a three month separation...Should I let this bother me?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I been with my girlfriend for a very long time and we both are thinking about marriage. We have everything we want in one another. I just have question if everything you and your girlfriend did sexually was both of your guys first besides a a brief sexual act that only lasted ... (119 words)

He said if he wanted to be married it would be with me but he wasn't sure if he was the marrying type...

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We were great together we were dating for about 4 years he knew very well I wanted to get married he always told me to give him some time.....he said if he wanted to be married it would be with me but he wasn't sure if he was ... (265 words)

How the hell do I get him off my mind?

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7 April 2011 (F) age 26-29 - I have a horrible, horrible crush on my gym teacher. He is the hottest man I have ever laid eyes on and he's shy but when he yells, oh God am I turned on. The slight problem is that Im thirteen and he just turned 28. I know that he's married and has a girl, too. How the hell d... (169 words)

I want a long-term serious relationship, but I get bored easily!

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm generally an easily bored person, and it's no different when it comes to relationships. I'm constantly wishing for my ideal man--someone who is engaging, funny, and charming among other traits. Maybe it's because I want a unrealistic fairytale relationship, or maybe it's ... (302 words)

How do I decide between my boyfriend who I want to marry and my best guy friend?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a really big problem… so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He’s a great guy, very sweet, and would never do anything to hurt me. He wants to marry me one day and have a family. We’re 17. So, two months ago my best guy friend and I kissed, ... (236 words)

I don't know if this means I'm bisexual

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dearcupid.org, Hi, I am a young teen and I am confused. I always have liked guys, but since the past year I have had a... atraction to girls. Not a girl, but just girls in general. But i still like guys. Now I'm really confused. I don't know if this means I'm bisexual.... (182 words)

How can I get laid without lowering my standards?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've only dated people that I had really good chemistry with before, but it's been over a year since I've met anyone I'm interested in. It's hard for me to meet new people since moving to a new city and working around 80 hours a week. I thought about dating sites, but no one ... (101 words)

Complicated girl trying to get a complicated guy...

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a bit long, but I tried to keep it as short as possible. I'm a 28-year-old virgin who has never even held hands with anyone. People find this hard to believe. I'm not religious, just never found a guy I would be interested in, perhaps I'm a super-late bloomer and I wa... (1091 words)

There's this boy and I want to know if he likes me...

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I sit next to my crush in a class. Recently we have been getting for friendly with each other and talking and joking around more. He also kind of teases me. Yesterday, he bent down next to me to pick up something and my fingers brushed his hair accidentally. He sat up and had ... (128 words)

He tries to look at me when he thinks I'm not looking

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend broked up with me a few week ago. And at school I have a class with him and I ride the same bus with him. We haven't talked since he broked up with me, and during class and in the bus he tries to look at me without me knowing, does that mean he misses me? ... (58 words)

How do I make husband see a friendship is all we will ever have?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for almost 12 years... we got married on our 10th anniversary... three weeks later he moved out.. he has always either used and sold drugs... abusive verbally, physically and emotionally. I haved always been in love with him from the moment I laid ... (320 words)

We aren't technically dating yet but I slept with someone else. Should I feel guilty?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for the past two months, but we are not dating yet. We talk every day and we hang out once or twice a week but we have talked about where the relationship is going and we both know that we will probably start dating in about a month or so. He just ... (169 words)

With my dream girl, I don't want to get hurt again.

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm just here for some advice on a relationship i've just entered, though were not officially together yet, were basically seeing eachother. i've liked this girl for years and we've always been quite flirty with eachother but i had a girlfriend for 2.5 of the 3 years i'... (554 words)

I love my first cousin what should I do?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my first cousin with all my heart and i want to tell him but wat if he does not feel that way about me what if he rejects me and we lose the cousin bond we have now.I live in conneticut so its legal could you plz help me tell me if i should tell him or how to tell him ... (64 words)

Should I become his second wife?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dated a guy for a year-lets call him Peter,he loved me and l loved him too but we couldn't get married because his relatives did not want me,they wanted his ex girlfriend.the ex girlfriend started to live with Peter's mother,the relatives went on to marry the ex ... (153 words)

Is it wrong to date an 18 year old? She's still a virgin.

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 and have never gone out with a girl this young. She's 18 but she's quite mature for her age and doesn't look young either. Sometimes I forget she's 18 and feel like I'm speaking with a grown woman. She's not even "really" woman since she "confessed" that she's a virgin. ... (62 words)

Advice on dating outside your own race?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm a white boy and haven't had many girlfriends at all. Where I live there are a lot of Hispanics in addition to whites. I have found a lot of the Latinas to be very attractive and outgoing but haven't asked any out cause I think they wouldn't want to be seen with a white ... (79 words)

My ex-bf recently got married and I want him back...Plead for a lifeline.

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this pakistani guy on the internet since 11 dec 2008. I am lebanese and was 19 years old at that time he was 27 years old. The moment he sent me msg on facebook we clicked, we exchanged emails and chats for almost a year without seeing each other, just the pictures. ... (620 words)

Inappropriate crushes?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a habit of making trouble for myself. I develop crushes easily and seem to always have one on somebody somewhere. This is a problem because I have been happily married for many years. It seems that the more inappropriate the crush, the harder I fall (doctors, pastors, ... (114 words)

Found womanly things under his sink, I stormed out and now he won't talk to me.

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is this guy ignoring me!??? Ok, I have this guy friend who I have been just seeing for 5 years. A couple of days ago, I found a lot of womenly things underneath his bathroom sink. I questioned him about it and asked if he had a girl living with hin or if he had a girlfrie... (213 words)

My ex wants me back and I'm unsure because I'm seeing someone, so what do I do?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together since we were 16 for 5 1/2 years but 2 1/2 years long distance. We've been through everything together, we grew up together, I stuck with him through the Army for a year. Distance was not a problem because we had a strong connection. January 23rd, he was c... (514 words)

We used to like each other, I still like her but I don't know if she does. Help please?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I liked this girl... and still do and I knew she liked me. But, I don't know if she still likes me and we don't talk. The thing is that I am about to graduate and I didn't want to have to make her wait because I am going into rhe military. So, like an idiot, I stop ... (131 words)

We want a baby, but it's not working. I'm scared a doctor won't approve.

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 going on 17 and me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for months. I have been wanting this for a long time now but nothing is happening. I am willing to do anything for this baby. I am scared if i go to my doctors, he will go against the idea what shal i do? x... (62 words)

I'm 26, she's 17, is it wrong to pursue a relationship?

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 26 year old guy and iv recently been seeing a 17 year old girl, we have literally everything in common and get on so well. Been out on a few occasions and we both like eachother. Would it be wrong to ever start a relationship??... (47 words)

Boyfriend in service will be away for 7 months and I need ways to cope

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey All, I know Dear Cuprid isn't necessarily for this type of question but I honestly don't know where else to turn. Many of my questions have been answered from people who genuinely seem to care and I'm hoping it's the same case with this one. My boyfriend is a US... (298 words)

Why do I cry so much over this boy?

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7 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - why do i cry so much over one boy? i like him and we used to talk quite a bit but then a girl in my year asked him out with me and he said no hes a year and 7 months older than me now he doesnt talk to me at all and he deleted me from facebook aswell. for some reason i ju... (79 words)

I want to marry her, but her friend is exaggerating horrible secrets from my past.

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7 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and I'm planning to propose to her soon as we are very much in love, but I have some very horrific and soul destroying secrets that I never ever want anyone to know, but a close friend of hers knows some small ... (172 words)