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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I ran away from my home two years ago. During most of that time, my girlfriend helped me to overcome my sadness. Six months ago, she returned to her town, and I was living by myself, alone, without friends.In the last three months, the relationship with my parents have become better. I decided to return back to my parent's home, to save money. I don't need to pay rent nor food with them. Also, I want to be with them, because my parents are old, and I'm afraid that they might die. I know that being here won't keep them alive more time, but at least I'll spend time with them.The thing is that, I didn't told my girlfriend about my plan of going back to my home. I hid this fact from her. I wanted to ask her about the idea, so we could take the decision. But at that time, she was feeling very depressed [suicidal]. I didn't wanted to disturb her, or make her feel worse. I hid this situation from her, but I was planning in telling her once she overcame her depression. The money I'm saving will go to pay her college debt... I haven't spent any cent of it at all.We are on a long distance relationship, and I have been having a moderate depression ever since she left my town. I have been feeling without energy, or enthusiasm to work or do things that I like. Right now I've been taking medicine to help me with my depression.The thing is that, she found out that I was living with my parents! She found inconsistencies with my stories and I had to tell her the truth. She stated crying [all of this via skype], and she told me she didn't want to talk with me. That was almost 5 days ago... she has not sent me an email, nor logged in to skype. I feel miserable because she didn't even gave me the opportunity to explain her anything. She just cut all contact.Just for a little more background, we've been four years together, and I have treated her very very well, since I love her, and I care a lot for her. But so far I don't have a way to contact her, and she seems to don't want to contact me. I tried not logging into skype again... but it is very hard for me, since I feel that at any time she will connect and will want to talk with me.Do you have any ideas? Any advice? Did I screwed it up that badly? Have you been in a similar situation?I feel miserable because I have no friends, and no one to talk to. I found out I am a social creature, and I need contact with somebody, and friendship. This silence is killing me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell,after seven days, she just talked with me. She is upset because I lied to her, and she can't trust me. I feel like crap. I hope someday to recover her trust. Next time, I'll be 100% honest with her, even if it hurts her.
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