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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My teacher may be flirting with me, how should I handle this, I am 16??

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22 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - i am 16, male, and i go to college, i really like college and i'm not bothered by anything, but i am wondering if my teacher wants me cause over the course i have been there my teacher has been doing these things that i like but i wonder if what she is doing is what i think it ... (436 words)

He stopped talking to me, should I join the scout group he is in or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - this guy that i like doesnt talk to me at all any more we used to talk quite alot but then this girl asked him out for me and he stopped talking to me this was about a year ago and i am goin to start the scout group that he goes to but i dont want him to stop going just bec... (86 words)

How do I ask my mom about birth control pills diplomatically??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need to get on the birth control pill, im seventeen. how do i go about talking to my mom about it? i really need it. ... (26 words)

With these two sexual encounters, what are my chances of getting pregnant??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had sex for the first time, without protection. but within two hours took plan b, as well as he pulled out. i know pulling out doesnt work. but what are my chances a of being pregnant? then i had sex a second time with a condom and pulling out, what are my chances o... (66 words)

I've had to cancel seeing her a few times, she has family problems, what can I do to make her feel better??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does something no matter how small they... (246 words)

Any suggestions as to how I can end my lonliness??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Helo dear cupid...well this is my second time to raise my question, the first response wasn't satsfied me yet.here is my trouble and challenge...i strongly wanna break my lonliness,but still exacerbated, i'm still single upto 25 yrs.from time to time, from day to day,i've... (175 words)

Is masturbation a normal thing??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have this problem i mustarbate sometimes i have a gf and we have briliant sex but i do and sometimes i feel watching porn and thats against my believe of 10 commandement. Wat i tink is i m too old 2 mustarbate and also tink i m not normal is the anyone do the same who tink ... (60 words)

We broke up, he's with her, how do I move on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - 5 weeks ago I found out my husband was having an affair with my friend who was also my bridesmaid at our wedding!! We have a 9 month old little boy. He is in a relationship with her and as been since we split. I am absolutely devastated, he as changed so much into a nastier ... (453 words)

He wants to be in the military, I am anxious now in our relationship, what do I do when he leaves for war??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancee wants to join the marines and be a sniper. I really dont want him to go and i cry just thingking about it, i got him to agree before that he wouldnt go but it always comes back up. So sence it would make him happy i finally said ok. But i have depression and anxiety ... (150 words)

How many of you think you really know your partner well??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - One thing I am wondering about a lot lately is how much long-time partners (either girlfriend/boyfriend or wife/husband) really know each other. I must confess I am surprised at how superficial some long-term relationships seem to be to me. I mean, most of us end up going ... (239 words)

He wants a house here, I don't, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - At the beging of the year, I started to see my ex boyfriend again and things are going great. But now he want's to buy a house and settle down. I really love him and care for him but I hate living in this town and so does he so I don't understand why he wants to stay here. We ... (124 words)

Found someone I love, my old friend is back, so are the old feelings, what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i have a very big problem, you probably get it a lot here. I dont know. My problem started when i was in high school. I fell in love with my best friend, we did nearly everything together, going to the cinema and such. The only problem was that he had a girlfr... (569 words)

With our differences in parenting styles, how do we compromise??

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my husband have completly diffrent parenting styles. He is was to strict and i have rules to but im more layed back. He doesnt even want our kids when teenagers to drink pop. I never heard of a teenager not knowing what pop taste like. I was raised more layed back to ... (138 words)

Difficult situation, we click, but he is married. What to do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a married man on his 50's, 10 years older ten months back. At first he told me he is divorced but admitted the truth on our 2nd month. He told me to give him 2 years to wait for him to finally divorce his wife. I always have told him to just continue with his married life ... (275 words)

Was what we did considered cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Today i went out with my friends including this guy who I've been having feeling for recently and we went to the park and everyone else went off and it was just me him and my best friend and we were playing catch and coming on to each other as a joke( he's single but I have a ... (156 words)

I'm meeting an old friend (crush) tomorrow, how can I overcome my nerves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm meeting with an old best friend/guy I used to go out with tomorrow for a brief reunion before he leaves to go travelling. Long story short, we were best friends during school but there was a spark between us. A year ago, we had difficulties due to the fact we had sepa... (202 words)

Question on birth control pill

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts.... I have been taking this contraceptive pills its being a week right now..., the doctor asked me to take them for around a year... But i just wanted to know its advantages and disadvantages as I don't know about it. How it effects and what all changes it ... (61 words)

I found a text from another woman and it's tearing me apart!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i neeed some help.. i would realy appreciate every reply Basically I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years our relationship was going extremely well we were like sole mates we trusted each other with all our heart..I could feel his love and affection he cou... (391 words)

Should I continue trying to come back with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - In 2008 I met a girl we were dating for 8 months. Then she became my girlfriend. 5 months later I broke up with her 'cause I wantted to see her often but She was bussy all time Sometimes we see each other after 3 weeks. I tried to forget her travelling abroad but we kept in ... (304 words)

I am infatuated with my boss!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a lady boss who is 10 years younger to me. she is married. She used to like me a lot in terms of me being competent in my work. I like her to the extent that I don't want to report to anyone else at least till she is working in the organization. She now has other ... (134 words)

How can you tell if a guy only wants sex or does he really care about you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guys. Can you tell me how you know a guy only wants to sleep with you? Are there signs, things he does, says, etc. that shows you he only wants sex with you? And if he really cares about you as a person and has feelings for you besides the physical, would he act diffe... (101 words)

My ex and I want to be together but I can't let her in

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been three months since my break up with my ex and alot of things have happened. Now after talking for some time we decided that we want to go out soon, but the only thing stopping me is that she recently liked this guy and spent 5 nights over his place and they had sex ... (298 words)

Broke up with my LDR, but he seems to want to stay in touch when it suits him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My long distance boyfriend broke up with me in December. He has since been in touch and I never normally contact him first, he is usually the one to text every week or so. Now I being the polite and nice person I am, have stayed in touch because the break up was amicable. He ... (299 words)

Why does my ex keep saying we will get back together? He's someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am still in love with my ex we were together for almost 3 years and had a son together. we seperated 2 months ago and just cant move on. plus my ex keeps giving me hope that we will be getting back together he just wants space. and he told me that he had not slept with any1 ... (126 words)

My ex is my bestfriend, but he is my boyfriend too?

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend broke up with me in December and over the past months the most we've not talked was the 2 weeks after our break up. I'm a senior in high school, I just turned 18. so those two weeks were because of our winter break. January: He was treating me 50/50, like som... (820 words)

I need creative ideas for a date for my husband and I!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help on a date idea for me and my husband. We have been having ALOT of problems lately and I have decided for ME TO TAKE HIME on a date. He has told me I’m boring before and that is b/c i probably am. I'd much rather stay at home than go out anywhere. So I am planning on ... (462 words)

Suspicious about boyfriend cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've been a little suspicious about my boyfriend latley. he gets on myspace alot more aften now like 4 times everyday he didnt use too. when he is with me he puts his phone on silent but he dont hide his phone like he keeps it out were if i wanted too i could get it. s... (466 words)

I've gotten close to this girl, but she's still not over her ex

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22 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so me and this girl met like a month ago and for some reason we got pretty close. i have met her whole family and actually went to her dad's birthday dinner. Eventhough we do everything a real couple does we still are not going out. There is also this ex who she broke up with... (127 words)

Is my clumpy period a miscarriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancée and i have been trying have been trying to get pregnant for 3 weeks now, i was due my period last friday and a week from then i started to bleed. i know that you can start bleeding but there was a clump of blood that i saw? did i miscarry? or is it just my period. ... (101 words)

I broke up with my long distance boyfriend...now he snaps at me when I call and text him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a LDR for 4 years. He began to get depressed around January and then around 3 weeks ago dumped me. Said he doesnt want a relationship right now because he wants to focus on getting himself better and also love is to exhausting for him so he just doesnt want it. ... (441 words)

I like my friend's girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - right 1 of my "friends" has this girlfriend and i like her. it bugs me more because he is a really bad boyfriend to her he moans that she texts him i mean wtf? i'll admit that i'm jealous of him because i know that if she was with me she would get a much much better boyf... (217 words)

Is he a serial player or was I really special ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello Guys i need you honest advice please . i met a guy when i was on a business trip , he hit on me in the restaurant of the hotel and we excanged few words and our business cards but i didn't accept his dinner invitation or contacted him again till i came back to my count... (378 words)

Is it true or a hallucination?

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So this guy i met a few months ago, on a ski trip , i want to make sure if he loves me or not. The way he talks to me is as if he loves me, but i still have doubts. He talks to me in so many different ways, but they all are so romantic. He texts me every night before i wen to ... (136 words)

Does anyone ever feel sexually inadequate when they know their partner has had many more partners before you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone ever feel sexually inadequate when they know their husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend has had many more partners before you? I'm in a very loving relationship with a wonderful man. We've discussed marriage multiple times and we're both loving and committed to each ... (201 words)

Questions regarding masturbation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - 1.Is masturbation bad for health? 2.when tired my girl friend want me to masturbate and swallow my cum. is this good?... (22 words)

He stares at other women, but he has not let me seen him naked in over a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help!!! I have been dating this man for almost 2 yrs now. It started great (as they usually do), but feels as though it is going down hill fast! I am a very sexually active and at the beginning of our relationship he informed me that flirting is like "cheating" and if were not ... (354 words)

I just can't accept the fact that she will spend her life with a person who does not match up with her looks!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony aunts, My sister recently got engaged to a guy that i just saw once before. At the engagement party i found him to be really unattractive and short for my sister. My sister is very beautiful and i felt like they looked like beauty and the beast. I cant deny that he... (110 words)

I caught him having cyber affairs. how do I deal with my cyber surfing husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm 23 and my husband is 43, we will be married a year in May 2011. We met on a online hookup site, yes I know it sounds bad but I had just been divorced a few months and joined and out of all the guys I chatted with he was the only one who didnt seem like a pervert and I ag... (505 words)

We're taking a break because he can't stand the fact I cheated on my ex, should I breakup or contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice in wht to do at this point.. my bf cannot get over that I have chated in my past..(10 yrs ago) on my ex husband.. he will sometimes argue with me like if I had cheated on him. He really wants to make it work out but says his mind just gets the best of him and ... (232 words)

Do you think he might want a relationship in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy who is 10 years older than me, I'm 26 and he's just turned 36. We are really good friends, and are quite close. Well a couple of months ago, I told him I have feelings for him. He said, it's one sided and that he cant give me what I want. Then when we were at ... (135 words)

Should I try and mend this very broken friendship or just let it die?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - OK in a nutshell: I used to be friends with this guy, who to be completely honest, I had a bit of a crush on - but I always knew it wouldn't go anywhere as he was gay, which I knew from the start. We were friends for about 18 months. During the first 12 months we went o... (699 words)

He became controlling. Pinned me down. Do I get back with him, or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my bf for 8 months. I'm 17, he's 18. It was a good relationship at first. He was a great laugh, made me smile, took me places. It was great. 6 months into the relationship however, he changed. He got controlling, aggressive, overprotective. If i went out with my ... (269 words)

Was his friend right? is it off-putting to guys that I'm articulate? Or am I OK as I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When talking to these two guys the whole night at a pub, who were 22 and 23. Near the end when i said my age i first received a nice comment from one guy and then straight after, his friend hit back with a comment that made me think is he right? I am an eighteen year ol... (370 words)

How close can a guy be with a female friend, when in a committed relationship with another girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How close can a guy be to him female friends when in a committed relationship with a girl? What are the things that a boyfriend can and cannot do with female friends when he is committed to someone?... (39 words)

Why do I want to be with him instead of the other guys who I actually know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When I'm out i meet many guys so i get a lot of guy attention. But recently every time i leave to go home, on the journey back i think about this guy who i would rather be with. As in I would rather be in the club with him, or just hang out with him instead of clubbing. Which ... (198 words)

Heroin use during first 3 months of pregnancy... Should I abort?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 9 weeks pregnant (my first time ever, and it was unplanned), and I have an abortion scheduled for 5 days from now. Up until today, I was positive I was not going to continue with the pregnancy and was for sure going to get an abortion. Because of that, I have been ... (532 words)

How can someone I don't know make me feel so small?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a confident person, so how can someone i don't know make me feel so small? When i go out and i'm having a good time, just enjoying the night with my girls. But as soon as i feel the slightest bit of rejection, it knocks me and i feel like i am not gorgeous like th... (169 words)

Our sex life is suffering, we're bickering, and now he's acting shady on Facebook!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I need some advice and anything given will be appreciated. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months. He's lovely and treats me like a princess, however recently things between us have been a bit difficult. We havent been able to sleep togethe... (626 words)

What reasons would you give for his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Let s just say it was you alright? You are schooling with this guy. He s always checking you around, giving you a very perculiar look with many questions. Sometimes he would change his direction when he sees you walking the same path as his. What would you do? What reasons ... (60 words)

Can dating a woman who is separated be legitimate if her husband doesn't know about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Thanks for any help on this. I have recently become involved with someone who works close to me. It started out simply as emails which graduated to a certain intimate aspect. We have since become physically involved. She is currently separated from her husband but ... (238 words)

Should she be my Facebook Friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age - I have been trying to decide whether to send a Facebook Friend request to a lady friend that i work with. We get on well and have some very good conversations, and have developed a friendship, although we dont actually see each other that much . I know I can never have a future ... (211 words)

I want sex, but my boyfriend doesn't

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a while, and he's told me that he has really bad sexual temptations; which is why i don't understand why he doesn't want to have sex with me. I'm not a virgin, so i can see why he wouldn't like that. But i always thought that guys always want... (161 words)

Sex life has all but disappeared!

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22 April 2011 (F)

- Been married about 6 months, things are going great except that our sex life has all but disappeared! I am 38 hubby is 55 but we're both in good shape, good health and enjoy life. What gives? He never wants sex! We used to have sex several times a week, then pre-wedding it ... (161 words)

Pointers on Asking your friend out on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've decided on asking one of my female friends out on a date. Do you guys have any tips on how I should go about doing this? For instance, since we're already pretty good friends is it appropriate If I were to simply text her saying something like "Hey Rebecca, how would you ... (64 words)

What should I do if he isn't putting in as much effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months long distance because I'm away at college. Lately I've been feeling like I'm putting more effort into our relationship than he is. He used to come visit me at my school often during the first semester and I would even drive ... (404 words)

A LDR chatroom for teens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to find a free chat room to meet other teens who are looking for a long distance relationship, texting, skype, facebook, etc. I really haven't had any luck at my own school and it hurts me so much inside to be lonely and have to hold a whole part of me back inside. I ... (78 words)

Friends, feelings and more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a girl in need of some advice this is my 'question'. i have a friend who i have caught feelings for. This is a long distance friend and i think they may have feelings for someone else. This other person is a friend of theirs and she is very ill. This guy talks ab... (137 words)

My g/f thinks my cousin's love interest likes me and is telling me not to talk to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids :) So a couple of nights ago went to a party, both my cousin and I are lesbians, I went with my girlfriend but we didn't hang out much. Well my cousins sort of fling was there and she is very nice, not my type at all, well my girlfriend has a big mouth and messed... (200 words)

She's sure I cheated when I didn't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - my gf have been together for 1 year and 9 months now and she truly believes i cheated on her when i know i didn't but i can't back up my story and its ruining our relationship. i love her and would never hurt her but i have no idea what to do. please help!!!... (55 words)

Been married for 5 years and attracted to someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 5 years I got married really young it was the day after my 18th birthday. I love my husband very much, but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. I am extremely attrated to another man. This has happened once before maybe like a year and a ... (212 words)

He was once my prof, I don't want to lose him from my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have feelings for my former lecturer, we are not friends and I am no longer his student, I do not see him often, it has been 3 years and my feelings for him have grown stronger, I cannot stop thinking about him, I hav never felt this way about anybody else before and don't kn... (225 words)

Never even a first kiss at 21 -- how lame is that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Anybody who can help me: I am a female. I am 21. And I have never gone on a date... Or had my first kiss. How lame am I? I must seriously suck at life. And it sucks more when youre family is constantly asking.. "Why dont you have a boyfriend?" I feel like a failure. ... (107 words)

How do I gracefully avoid an awkward situation of being pressured?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello aunts! I would like to start off by saying that I am 14 and a high school freshman. Four days ago, an 18 year old high school senior asked me out. Please don't judge the ages, I am aware. He's leaving for boot camp next fall and I do not expect a long lived relationship. ... (120 words)

Ex stringing me along while he has a g/f?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - long story short my ex and i broke up 8 almost 9 months ago ever since its been on and off with us talking hanging, out telling me he wants me hook ups, dates ect. So recently I had asked if he was talking to anyone else.. he replyed ya, arent you too ?, I know you are. I was ... (196 words)

Body Language: Is It Really Reliable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so to keep this short, essentially there's this man I'm crushing on, hard...And I think he likes me too because I've done some reading up on male body language, like stuff guys do when they're interested in a girl, and he does almost everything. The thing is though, is ... (193 words)

Is he just "settling" for me? And what about my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - {Moderator note: Two questions from the same poster combined} How do you know if a guy is settling for you? I think my boyfriend is settling for me. I feel like when we first met, he wasn't that into me. Even now he says that I make a good girlfriend, which makes me think th... (124 words)

My wife was not a virgin

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

22 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, my wife and i have being married for 4 years, i just found out she had a hymen reconstruction, i though we where both virgins now am stuck between a rock and a hard place.. I feel like cheating on her for what she did to me.what do you think i should do?... (54 words)

We had make-up sex and then I find he has a girlfriend?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - So, this guy and me quit talking for six months and the the other night he showed up asking me to forgive him. Well, i did. He said he was sorry and i wanted to be close again. Then one thing lead to another we had sex. He hasn't talked to me since. The other day i found out he ... (80 words)

Is he gay and if not, is he dateable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know a good looking, cultured, intelligent, highly educated, employed guy in his 40s. I am very attracted to him. However, he is kind of effeminate. He could be a metro. I found out that he lives with another guy and that they have lived together for a long time. He has ... (226 words)

Confused about threesome.

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22 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I never asked anything about that before, so it's kinda weird to me right now, but i really need some advice. Here's is what is going on. A few months later i had a threesome with my girlfriend and a female friend of ours and it was very nice, despite the fact that i ... (301 words)

Infidelity, money worries, fights? can our marriage be saved?what would help?

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for several years, and married for a while now. We both in our 30s have kids from both our previous marriages. Background - We met a few years ago. and fell in love instantly. Everything was perfect for months. We moved in together that sa... (1491 words)

He said he liked me, but now he won't really talk to me

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, so there is this guy who I have become really good friends with and I like him. He moved to a different city a few weeks ago and we would talk alot. But recently on facebook my friend told him I liked him and he told her that he liked me, so when i was chatting with him I ... (144 words)

Does my cooking class buddy really like me? Or was he just making conversation?

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long... sorry about that! Last semester there was this guy in my cooking class (let's call him "X"), who I sometimes would talk to. A few days after he broke up with his girlfriend we were both assigned to clean the same kitchen area. We started talking and we d... (337 words)

Feeling inadequate sexually and worried I'm not as good as his past girls!

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 20 and I'm 19. We've been dating for about a year and he's in the Marines. My problem is I feel very inadequate sexually with him. I had only had 2 partners before him and while I'm not sure of his exact number, I know it's quite a bit higher than mine. I know ... (265 words)

I feel like he choose the weed over me. He's losing me and doesn't seem to care!

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not a weed smoker, but my hb does. He is one person when he smokes, and different when he doesn't. I didn't know that he likes weed when we were dating, I never saw that before, but when we got married he start to smoke in the house. At the first time I didn't realize ... (397 words)

My current boyfriend doesn't like how close my ex/friend are and he's really vocal about it.

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this guy since I was in like 3rd grade - I'm in 11th now. It just so happens that he and I used to date. We were together for almost a year and a half. Things didn't work out so we broke it off, but we're still best friends. My current boyfrien... (200 words)

It's been 7 months and I still love him!

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I split with my boyfriend in Octover 2010 after a 15 month relationship as things wasnt going well and i noticed he was acting different. He moved on quite fast and got with someone else straight away, however 7 months and theres still something there, i still love him. I cant ... (137 words)

Has my friend gone too far?

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. So, I have an amazing boyfriend. He has his group of friends, about 4 or so guys, and I have my group of friends which usually include only two girls. One of my girl friends, M, is an easy girl. I say easy because she often sleeps with men without 'knowing' ... (474 words)

Hot woman wants you but you are married...

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This question is for MARRIED MEN!!! But men in general can answer it. PLEASE ANSWER TRUTHFULLY!!!!!!! If a beautiful and hot woman was showing interest in you and was everything you were looking for in a woman and more, ie. you have everything in common, a strong e... (115 words)

She asks me for help, for advice at all hours of the day and night...and then finally when I ask her out she says she just likes me as a friend!!!

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22 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - OK I had this friend, a girl, who I was interested in, right. And she probably knew it, I mean how could she not since I went outta my way to help her. Now she would call me for advice, for help when she was in trouble. And I would always help her. I mean, this girl would ca... (312 words)

How do I get him to notice me?

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22 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm 20, at Uni and almost all of my friends are in relationships. I'm a virgin. I've been in 'love' with this guys for nearly 3 years, but he doesn't even know I exist. Well, he does, but he seems to like to pretend he doesn't. I'm really shy and I don't know how ... (76 words)

I don't think this is a healthy relationship, how do we fix it?

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22 April 2011 (F)

- This is very long, so any help is really appreciated and thanks for reading this. Not long after I started university I met a guy who I very quickly became very good friends with. I was really comfortable with this but then one day he asked me out and I turned him down, because ... (624 words)

We're on different pages and I'm just not sure what to do.

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so, I'm sixteen years old and I have a boyfriend that I've been with for a couple of weeks now. (Not very long) He's eighteen and a senior. (I'm a sophomore) Believe it or not, before him, I had never kissed a guy. But he invited me to prom and that night, after prom, ... (346 words)

What is wrong with my boyfriend?

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22 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend used to be so sweet to me and we had alot of fun together, but after awhile I felt like I was walking on eggshells around him because alot of things I said made him mad for no reason.My boyfriend started telling me what to wear he told me not to wear heels , ... (466 words)