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writes: please help i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months, we live quite far away from eachother and i dont get to see her often, the first time i was with her i was too shy to kiss her, she then said "i got a hug today but not a kiss", so i sent "next time, i promise", she's coming down here again next weekend and im not sure when to kiss her, or how to bring it up, sorry for the wall of text but i want you to have all the info to help me thanks.PS im 15 and she's 14
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): thank you all for the advice :)
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reader, lysha +, writes (7 April 2011):
if she is wanting a kiss from you, then when you meet her give her a hug and say hello and whilst you hug look her in the eyes and go in for a kiss, she is wanting and expecting one so she wont mind at all, if you go to kiss her when you say goodbye she may get annoyed that it took you so long seeing as you promised her, also during the time your together that weekend she may be thinking in her head ''why wont he kiss me? whats wrong with me'' she has told you what she wants so its okay to kiss her:) hope this has helped and good luck xx
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reader, inhibited +, writes (7 April 2011):
Kiss her when you first see her is my advice.A kiss is a physical manifestation of emotion. I assume you'll be very happy to see her so kiss her to let her know that's how you feel. She'll appreciate it. This has the plus side of getting it "out of the way" so you can enjoy the time you spend with her without worrying about having to kiss her at some point.If you only hugged last time then maybe a peck on the cheek is enough and maybe you don't need a full blown kiss on the lips? Do what feels right and remember your fear about this is normal but you _must_ over come it.It's pretty true that confidence equals sex appeal. Try and appear atleast a little confident even if you're really not. You're both young though and it's normal to bumble around a bit to to start with.Good luck and go for it! I'm so jealous oh to be young again.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (6 April 2011):
Hey. She is expecting a kiss. So you can kiss her whenever the moment feels right. Saying goodbye is always a good time to do it. I hope this helps and Good Luck =)
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