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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I get involved with my ex's brother?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive been in and out of a relationship with my baby daddy for about 4 years now.I met him at the same time i met his younger brother.Im now 19 i met them both when i was 15.Ive always had an attaction to his younger brother which is now 17.but im not sure if he has the same ... (216 words)

We are both really shy..how do we talk

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28 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy...who, for security purposes, we'll just call allen. just some background information about me and him: we're both first-year college students and only about six months apart in age (i'm the oldest). anyways...we met about a month ago throug... (248 words)

I like her but she doesn't like me but she has her reasons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i really like this girl but the problem is that she doesnt like me...and she has her reasons. I am really nice but i just cant show it to ppl and they dont see it...ppl think that i am unsensitive and not a nice guy...but i am not like that...i just cannot show it...its a ... (112 words)

I'm pregnant, he's married but I still wants us to be friends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I got a crush on a bus driver. He plays and teases me every now and again but I never let him know how I felt. One day, I got on his route to go to my college campus and he began telling me his college goals. Next thing I knew, we had more than psychology majors in common. I ... (153 words)

What is the best condom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts. Sex advice needed about condoms. For 1st round, I stay for an hour during foreplay with an extra time condom and 2 to 3 minutes in the intercourse. The 2nd round, I stay for as long as I want in foreplay and 15 mins for intercourse. But this info is about ... (127 words)

My b/f found out about my chats, phone calls with co-worker and broke off with me. I don't even know how he found out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive done a really stupid thing and now its gotten out of hand, and i dont know what to do,im 26 and have a boyfriend.About 2 months ago a male work colleague and I started talking,then hanging out,then swopped phone numbers, and started chatting online.I never mentioned ... (382 words)

I told b/f I hate him watching porn but he says its normal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - my boyfriend watches porn and i am not happy about it. i think he watches far to much even though he has me. i am willing to experiment, but he chooses these porno girls. i have told him i hate it but he says it fine and natural. is it? i am also concerned about how much he ... (111 words)

Getting over a broken heart when you still have to see them?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over a broken heart when you still have to see her weekly? Should I just grin and bare it or try to never see her at all? I don't want to do the later because I really don't want to give up a sport i love (which is where I see her). And the "grin and bare i... (83 words)

Is he just cautious in waiting to commit or am I deluding myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know whether I'm being an idiot and wasting my life waiting for someone who will never commit, or whether my man just needs some time... I've been in a relationship with a man 12 years older than me for three years. Things are great between us and we've had to dea... (551 words)

My dream wedding will never happen because of troubled relationship with family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a level headed girl in my late twenties. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years. He proposed to me five years ago, but I wasn't ready. Now I'm scared he'll never ask me again. I don't usually think of weddings. But I think with all the hype over William and Kate... (756 words)

Messing around with husband friend! I know I'm a bad friend, wife and mother!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have gotten myself into a huge mess and only keep digging myself deeper and deeper. my husband and i have been married for 6 yrs, we have 5 children (4 still very young) but there is no romance, i guess there has never really been. Here is the dilema..about 6 months before w... (554 words)

My insecurities leave me feeling so alone inside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question I'm very self conscious and vunreable and I dont know how to snap out of it. A little backround on me I;m 24 yrs old. skinny, many ppl say i should model big breasts, I have a graduate degree, and currently employed. I just got out from a 5yr (emotion... (323 words)

My wife went behind my back and loaned her ex money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 43 year old guy. My wife gave (she says loaned) some money to her ex to enable him to purchase some real estate. He had purchased on option on the land which was about to expire. If his option expired, I was going to buy the property. She says she is not having an ... (217 words)

I love her, but she runs hot and cold

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help! We have been seeing each other for about 8 months. I am 27 and she is 22. We had a good relationship, no arguing, made sure we went out places regular together, had lots of laughs and everything seemed fine. We had a few issues, her ex was one he was in regular ... (1144 words)

Smother-in-laws

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of town shower - I don't see t... (560 words)

It bothers me that I'm his "second" girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - although he ws in my class for 5 years in school,we never talked.i never noticed this guy though he used to sat on the bench next to me.he had a crush on other girl from our class. but for me it was love at 1st sight wen i saw him on d 1st day of my degree college.we became f... (179 words)

A little girl accidentally got hurt while I was babysitting and I cannot get over the guilt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - During the day I look after two little girls aged 3 and 5 (I'll call them J and K respectively); I collect J from nursery at lunchtime and K from school a few hours later. When I brought K home this afternoon there was nobody else around, as her mother (I'll call her C) had ... (397 words)

When is the right time to have children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When is the right time to have kids? I want to have a child but here are some of the thing stopping me 1) I dont have a partner that wants children (he has his own) 2) I have endometriosis (womb tissue on ovaries can affect fertility) 3) My parents are strict and... (141 words)

Sex once a month isn't enough for me and I'm afraid I may cheat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - HI, I have been in my relationship for 4 years and we have an 18 month old daughter, however my sex drive has become very high over the last 2 years and my partners is quite low compared to mine. I find myself feeling totally unsatisfied with the amount of sex we are having ... (94 words)

Should I try a relationship with my male best friend?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just recently stopped talking to this boy that I've been talking to since September. I fell hard for this boy but the problem with him was that he had a kid and a baby mother that I think he still loves. Regardless, I told myself that no matter how he feels about her now, ... (268 words)

Boyfriend has been unemployed for 3 years and its getting to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone so heres the thing my bf of 3 years is unemployed hes been like this for 3 years since weve been going out . is it wrong that its getting to me now as i have to pay for things and he constantly beg money from me for ciggerets and when i dont give him it im worri... (153 words)

Why did he hurt me like that? I thought he loved me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he wanna hurt me so bad? it really hurts:(? My ex boyfriend had a one night stand with a girl at a party and was sleeping with another for 2months all the while I was with him. I loved him so much, was a good girlfriend to him, I never would've hurt him. Told ... (205 words)

G/f dumps me every year on my birthday!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - im 26 tomorrow and have never felt so alone and unloved im an extreamly caring person and have a big hart i would say im attractive stocky in build blue eyyes dark hair around 6ft. My ex finished me 2days ago for the 3rd time 3 years on the trot, around my birthday always ... (1166 words)

Boyfriend has become abusive, we constantly fight and I'm always on edge. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I am very upset. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a total of almost 3 years now, but lately we have been arguing a lot. The last heated argument we had I ended up crying on the floor while he made sarcastic remarks about male friends of mine. He is ver... (354 words)

Long distance and sex toys, will a vibrator keep me 'loose'?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey Cupids. Basically I lost my virginity and I am now in a long distance relationship. I won't be seeing my guy for some time now. Would getting a vibrator help me from getting tight again and if so what would the best type of vibrator be?... (55 words)

Vacation Love

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28 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - First of all, it´s not a question, but just a comment about my situation, althought I accept comments... I´m Brazilian and I had been in South Africa in 2009 to study English for a few weeks. There, I met a guy and we became special friends. Then, I came back to my country. ... (97 words)

I wanted to become celibate, but my boyfriend threatened to leave me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanted to become celibate but my boyfriend threatened to leave me..... clearly he cannot respect my decision... What do i do? But he claims he loves me so much.... (35 words)

Is this the beginning of the end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 10 happy months. We are in a committed long-distance relationship currently and we get along very well. However, I'm concerned with the amount of time he spends "pleasuring himself." Since we are so far away and cannot be physically ... (301 words)

A man at work flirts with me and I don't know what to make of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with , the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me ..lately we have been talkIng heaps , just random stuff and flirting ... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though they aren't really , what's ... (257 words)

How do I get his parents to like me and my parents to like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i make my boyfriend's parents like me more...they dont hate me but i want tips. how do i make my parents like my boyfriend when they meet him??... (33 words)

Should I really consider having a fling with an unhappily-married woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having a real struggle with my conscience and really need some advice. I have been single for over a year after a break up of a 10-yr relationship. I have found dating hard because I don't want kids. Anyway, last weekend, I met someone who is witty, intelligent, att... (492 words)

I love my therapist and she's helped me so much, but my wife is jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age - Hi. Hope I can clarify my feeling. I have been in therapy with a lovely women therapist who I had almost immediate connection. I was very vulnerable and so taken by her honesty and style and her insights. My marriage has always been pretty unconnected emotionally. So getting in ... (221 words)

I want my boyfriend to need my attention more, not the other way round!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriends's attention and he loves mine too, i give him a lot of attention, he does too. but sometimes he doesn't at all and i feel lonely. I want to get over this and be independent. I want him to be needing my attention more, not the other way round...... (57 words)

I feel my friends are leaving me out, how do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have two friends who live close to each other, they are always seeing each other more than i see them, and sometimes i feel like i miss out a lot on the stuff they do together. how do i get over this? i do not want to be worrying about what they do and stuff, i just wa... (86 words)

I feel short changed but should I be happy with my lot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we have lived together for one year. He is 42 and I am 48. Before we got together he had not had a girlfriend for about 15 years. He said he had resigned himself to being single for ever. I think his confidence had taken a blow ... (261 words)

My boyfriend is a bit too close to his sister, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and his sister are very close same as me and my siblings, but sometimes when i am around i do not feel comfortable at all, they will playing together tickling each other and that makes me feel out of place. i just sit there and watch them its like i am being ... (102 words)

Problems with my boyfriend's family.....

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend, we have been going out for 1 yr 9mnths now and he has a sister who is my friend i met him through her. At first i told her i liked her brother and she tried to get us together and we went out for about 2 weeks briefly, it was nothing like a relationship ... (526 words)

I don't want my friend to get hurt by this man, what should she do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age - dear cupid, i really didnt get a lot of responses to my question on tuesday. i need some good advive for my girlfriend. she is a good person . we are like sisters. i dont want her to get hurt. the guy she is seeing only goes to her place. he doesnt take her any where yet. he ... (230 words)

Is my life going to change completely when my mother has a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother is 45 and pregnant, i am 22. I am so excited to have a baby in our family again after those years but is my life going to change completely? I need help, will i be baby sitting forever and wont be able to live my own life i am worried, even my mother was when she knew ... (115 words)

Boyfriend said he will love me more once I give birth to his kids! What does he mean by this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we both 21 and he said he wanted to marry me and i would love that too. One day he said to me if you give birth to my kids you will be loved more, what did he mean, does it mean his love for me is on a level, that it will increase ... (70 words)

Happy about the royal wedding but sad about not having a hubbie of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to sound really odd but I'll give it a go. As everyone knows its the Royal wedding tomorrow, and being a royalist I am excited/happy to see the ceremony and the wedding dress etc. It will be a lovely day here for many of us in the UK and I am very happy for Prince ... (213 words)

Is there anything I can do to stop the pattern I seem to be falling into?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm wondering if I am beginning to notice a slight pattern in the type of guys I fancy, or "really fall for" it always happens when I am away somewhere, I seem to really get curious when people have different backgrounds. I always seem to " meet people" when I'm discove... (252 words)

Crazy about an older man who is already in a relationship....how do I forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a 20 year old girl in love with a 16 yrs older man, who actually has a family (he is not married, but he has been in a relationship for about 6 yrs, and also has a little son). If he would be single, I didn't care about the age difference. We met during a journey,... (210 words)

My intuition tells me no....but my whole body and 99.99% of my mind says yes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay ive been talking to this guy on fb chat and he says really nice things to me. he tells me im awesome, that im a babe, im hot that he loves talking to me. that he misses me and that he wants to see me again. but the thing is that ive seen him act all flirty to other girls. ... (210 words)

How do I convince her she is beautiful, and to try more foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Just after some help on what to do.. I've known this girl for a few years now, slowly gone from flirting to becoming more. i had sex with her once very drunk a few months back and now everytime i see her we kiss/hug and talk/text everyday. i've wanted to be wit... (396 words)

He slept with someone while we were on a break, how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

- cutting a long story short, my boyfriend broke up with me in a pretty shitty way last June. I was heartbroken, We spoke and sometimes we were going to sort things and sometimes we weren't, sometimes he was falling at my feet and the other he would be not talking..i dont think ... (307 words)

How do I stop myself from feeling like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've asked a lot of questions about this problem before and received a lot of kind words and helpful advice so I'm back again. To cut a very long story short, about a year and a half ago my male best friend broke up with his girlfriend, we became even closer than we we... (422 words)

He doesn't call me, does this mean he doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - please i love my boyfriend but he does not call me , he said i should be the one calling, he said he does not have the money to call, does that mean he does not love me... (38 words)

What did I do or say that was so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i was supposed to be spending the weekend with my boyfriend that lives out of town. i had plans on driving and getting him, its only four hours away and he text me and told me that he couldn't come because he said something came up with his son. i text back and said ok but ... (137 words)

Dating a guy out of my league.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and things between us are great. We get along, we make eachother laugh, the sex is great and we are happy together. So whats the problem, right? The problem is- He's extremely attractive. I on the other hand, am not. When... (261 words)

Boyfriend resents spending £5 on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 35 doesn't have a lot of money to spare but has 8k in the bank and no debts and two cars and a bike which are his hobbies. We go 50/50 and always do free things like cycling and rambling. Last night I cooked him an expensive meal and he was really grateful. I ... (193 words)

How do I confront my husband about his cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for four years and just found out he's cheating. It really breaks my heart because I think we are doing ok and he doesn't complain much. We have 2 kids. How do I confront him? I don't want to talk to the tramp his dealing with I don't really think she and I ... (88 words)

I think I like this other guy more than my boyfriend, but he keeps letting me down! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all :) I'm sorta of having a problem. Here we go; I have a boyfriend who is such a great boy. He's lovely and is always there for me. I don't think i could ask for anyone else better. But see, that's just it. Last week i went to a party and hang out with this friend who ... (312 words)

My boyfriend's friends were showing naked videos to him! How should I react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 months.recently my bf has gone for a trip with his guy friends.he was telling me that he and his friends were having a nice time on sea beach. but after sometime there was a huge wave due to which my bf's pant slided d... (189 words)

Will I lose my virginity if I give him oral? Will he love me more if I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a 17 years old girl and still a virgin. my boyfriend is asking me to have an oral sex with him, he's 18 and were both virgins. i keep telling him that i don't want to because i'm reserving my virginity till the day i'm married. (even though im started to be tempted ... (270 words)

Sometimes I feel like he's over us and just doesn't know how to tell me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend seems completely bored and distracted when I'm in his presence or on the phone with him. He rarely initiates conversation, sits silently at dinner, is easily annoyed by me, avoids me when I get upset with him, doesn't ask me much, doesn't show sexual interest... (268 words)

I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. How do I tell him I'm not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at a crossroads at the moment and feeling very confused. I don't want to live at home anymore and I also don't want to live with my boyfriend. I don't know how to tell him that I want to get my own place...I think he's going to be devastated. So, I'm 28 and still live w... (305 words)

I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. Can people please just keep us in their thoughts?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. We got completely leveled today by the tornadoes. Just asking for people's thoughts and prayers for the state of Alabama. Lots of people lost their homes too, and their lives. just please keep us in your thoughts! thank ... (50 words)

Could the trauma of my parent's divorce and seeing what I saw as a child be the reason I cannot connect with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This is difficult for me to write, as it is deeply personal. When I was a boy, my parents were on the verge of divorce and I had just turned 10. My father constantly traveled for his work, and his absence and constant fighting when he was home drove them apart. Eventually... (244 words)

I really want him back though, I know there are plenty of fish in the sea but he's mine! how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2.5 years dumped me on my birthday. We had a 3 hour long conversation because he was feeling depressed am I wanted to help him. In the end he called me a doormat and he said I let him walk all over me. He thinks it's my pride/values draining away and that dis... (350 words)

Does my ex girl friend in the country want to re-visit our relationship, despite our breakup?

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28 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, well im looking for some advice about my ex gf. Five years ago i was working in the country for 6 months on a railway and while i was there i used to go into a shop there and i became friendly with the shop owner's daughter. Anyway to cut a long story short we fell in... (306 words)

Should I continue to tolerate my unkind hurtful insensitive boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Honestly I dont know what to make of it. My boyfriend and I just finished making love and he screams from the bathroom "blood". Yes Im in shock I just bled a little from having sex with my boyfriend. It has never happened to me and I expected more consolation from my boyf... (191 words)

How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relationship with another woman. W... (397 words)

Guys, I feel I've been left behind. Do you think anyone could give me some pointers or an action plan to get me connecting with girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

28 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Not really sure what I hope to accomplish with this. If anything it just helps to write it out. Any advice would be appreciated. This really isn't the kind of thing that guys talk to their friends or family about. The thing that's been really bothering me lately is that I'm ... (524 words)

Would it be appropriate to confess you like someone in a text message to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been great friends with this guy. Were not too close though. Were quite comfortable with each other, which scares me at times. We're always playing around like we're kids. Either he starts at me, or I do. He prys into my conversations, then asks his question. Well ... (217 words)

Why do I keep dreaming this lovely dream? Is it simply because I wish that would happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago. He got depressed about things in his life and as a result said love and relationships are hard work and told me that he no longer wants it. But he wants us to be friends. Im quite devastated I love him so much and I'd do anything to get him ... (280 words)

What can I do? Really I don't know which boy to choose and I'm feeling so confused by it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So last year this new guy came in our grade. (let's call him guy #1) I got to know him a little better and then he asked me out. I said no because I thought I'd be better if we stayed friends. Well, he just kept liking me for a while. Even this year he has. He kept asking me o... (290 words)

Do you think it's disprespectful for a guy to dance with another girl at a club?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - do you think is it disrespectful for a guy dancing with any girl in the club while he has a girlfriend? and telling his girlfriend" hey baby im going out with my boys, then ofcourse i'm not gonna dance with my boys over there, only dance, but not even more than that" do you ... (60 words)

So many choices. who do I choose? The guy I really like? Or one of the guys who likes me?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy in my class and he really likes me, but then i found out a few other guys like me, and i don't know what to do about that. And then there is a certain someone at my camp that i haven't seen for a year and i'm afraid that if i go to camp, i might hook up ... (130 words)

I'm pretty sure he likes me, I'm shy, but should I ask him? I feel afraid?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so i really need help here, so please try your best and thanks a lot for the advice. Just the other day my friend thought it would be the perfect time to ask the guy i like, but i have a "shy" problem... I told her i would ask him out today but that back fired. Now i... (137 words)

I feel like my parents are taking over my life sometimes

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents are driving me crazy!!! They hardly ever even let me out of the house and if they finally say yes then they're nosy about it. I know theyre my parents and they just love and care about me but it's starting to get old. I never get to hang out with my boyfriend and the ... (172 words)

My boyfriend hurt me so bad! What's wrong with him?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf has treated me really bad and always tries to control me and makes me cry!.(btw i am 18 and he is 21) One night I told my boyfriend I was busy with alot of homework for school , and that he couldn't come over that night , but that he could tomorrow , and he kept dema... (497 words)

I'm falling in love with my dance instructor!

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so.. i am a dancer.. by profession. my dance trainer is extremely serious and strict. He was very serious with me in the beginning of my work with him. Now since exactly a month he has been smiling wierdly when he talked to me.. a wierd smile, that he tries to hide.. this smile ... (485 words)

I am always hard around my fiance and it's starting to turn her off

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28 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for me to just be constantly hard around my fiance. we been dating for 4 years...and we lost our virginity to each other. She is very very beautiful and when i was younger, im 19 now i dont remember being so hard around her, ever since 17 every time im cuddling ... (223 words)

He says we have to move states because Arizona has a lot of bad memories for him

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dear-cupid. I need your help. Me and my bf been together for 4 years. We live in state of arizona. We both have job, apartment for living and car. He said he want to move to another state. This state have a lot of bad memory of him. We had one time domestic violience and he ... (210 words)

Am I the only person in the world who feels this way?

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28 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am a 16 year old guy. The truth is...I don't know how to be myself...I am paranoid, truly suffering from paranoia. I do not think there is anyone who is like me on this planet. I am scared and nervous of life in general..as crazy as it seems...here is my story. I have... (389 words)

Can too much sexual talk or sex put off your man and his perception of you?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend. We are in a LDR and we have been trying to make it work. The only thing that bugs me is that I find myself in relationships where men like to talk dirty to me and I think my relationship is turning into that. I love sex a lot but I dont abuse it. I am alway... (415 words)

I don't feel the love between us anymore

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate the fact that my husband has to work closely with a very good looking, actually hot looking girl. I'm very possessive and jealous type. I ask too many qs to my husband. I'm constantly suspicious. I also have self esteem issue, weight problems. I'm a stay at home mom with... (126 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me?

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so i've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. and things are going great. i love him with all my heart, since way before we got together. but, hes gone through a lot in his past, like abuse, and he was made fun of by the kids his age because he was always the small ... (133 words)

My husband wants to take me on a cruise, but I have social phobias

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28 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband wants to take me on a cruise, but i am struggling with social phobia at the moment and other mental illnesses. I am petrified at the thought of him looking at other women especially around the pool. What do i do?... (43 words)

Soliciting ideas for spicing up my sex life

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28 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone... i wanna spice up my sex life with my girlfriend... we just have normal sex and she's getting bored ... i tried using whipped cream on her but it wasnt enough.. any ideas what i should do to turn her on? and blow her mind?? thanks... (59 words)