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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm vain but have no confidence in myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old and I have no confidence in myself whatsoever and I am a vain person. I am shy of girls, and intimidated. I do not know how to "be myself" because i just don't. I always find myself trying to be someone else...that is just how I am. So...i get social anxiety ... (160 words)

Is it a good idea to talk to these people I've met online? One is an ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - In the past few years I have been talking to many people online, first in a multiplayer games site for many years (pogo.com) and more recently, a few months ago, on a teen site. I have had two online girlfriends (long distance and purely online as I've never met anyone that ... (242 words)

My LDR boyfriend wants to be "just friends"....and its killing me! I'm a mess...How do I deal with this right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I wrote in before about my LDR bf getting super depressed suddenly about everything and losing all emotions etc. I need help again. He didnt come online last night but did tonight and he said he did some thinking and that he wants us to be friends. He said he needs to... (375 words)

Do I tell my bofriend the truth and say I can't move in with him yet and risk upsetting him, or do I tell my parents I'm moving out in 5 days and risk upsetting them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a really big mess at the moment and need help getting out if it! My boyfriend asked me to move in with him a few weeks ago, I said yes and I am really looking forward to living with him but I haven't told my parents yet because they are really difficult to talk to and ... (292 words)

My 'straight' friend fingers me in her sleep

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well, I think my 'straight' friend is a lesbian. I'm absolutely okay with homosexuality as I have many bi/lesbian friends. But this is different. I don't want to confront her or anything as it's kind of a touchy topic, I can't really go up to her and say hey are you gay? I ... (197 words)

I feel unappreciated and I don't know where this relationship is going...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya:) Right my question is about my boyfriend. It may seem like something very petty and silly to ask about it, but it's making me reconsider our relationship, so it's something to me and I'd be so grateful with any advice! Basically, I was 'seeing' my boyfriend for around ... (302 words)

Pregnant, in the military, and the daddy opts for adoption

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres rhe deal...im in the military' 20yrs old and find myself pregnant.my boyfriend if u can call him that pcs'd to the other side of the country and weve been having problems here and there but now that ive decided to keep my child he insists on trying to convince me to ... (99 words)

He cheated, and I'm later totally grossed out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend cheated on me a couple years ago with his ex wife. I figured it out and he finally admitted it about a year ago. We have been working on it and overall it is better, but I still have major trouble with one aspect of it. He slept with her, washed off, didn't shower, ... (206 words)

Never fooled around before and don't want to be bad at it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im almost twenty, and ive had many opportunites to have sex and hook up. For some reason, ive just chosen not to do any of that. I havent really dated that much because i like being single. But now im ready for a relationship or a fling but im really hesitant because i have ... (97 words)

I tried cutting my friend's hair and it was a complete disaster!! What do I say or do to make this better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i was at my friends house with my other friend.. lily. we got bored so lily said why dont we cut her fringe.. so we did. and it looked really good axualy...but then she said 'can you even it off,' so i did, and now it looks BLOODY AWFUL! we kept on telling her it looked g... (155 words)

What would be the right way/time to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my third year of college and I've started to develop feelings for a classmate of mine. I've known him since I started. By pure coincidence we ended up working together on group assignments every time. We get along really well. He makes me smile like no other and we share ... (237 words)

What can I say? he wants to be more than friends and I don't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really close to a lad, like we've been friends for 7 years and he's just told me he thinks we should be more than friends, however i dont want to.. he comes to mine every other week and i dont want him to if he feels like this towards me as it will be awkward. Im scared ... (79 words)

What would you guys do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i need some suggestions. this could be pretty long but ill try to keep it short. my ex girl and i dated a couple of years and broke up a few months ago. during the break up we kept having sex and kept going on dates but not officially together. she dropped out of college this ... (448 words)

How big of an influence are friends on a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex is 22 yrs old. I'm 25. Which is a pretty big difference in terms of partying and settling down, etc. Our relationship was fine until one night when we met his friends. I felt like none of them liked me. Like, because i didn't find smoking a hookah and drinking beers in ... (191 words)

I'm a spohmore, my BF is a Junior and a guy flirting at me is a highschool senior!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Aunties, I am a sophmore. I have a boyfriend who is a Junior and i love him but... there is this guy who is a senior in highschool and he keeps on smiling at me and flirting! and he knows i have a boyfriend. Do i tell him to back off or try and ignore him?... (60 words)

Why did my husband fondle me then go masturbate in the bathroom when we were at a friend's house?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I do not have any idea how to title this question. I am 31 and my husband is 32. We were at some friends' house recently. He came to me and asked to come with him. We went into a bedroom and he closed and locked the door. He said to me to get my blouse and my bra off. I ... (133 words)

I told fiance I was going to miss being with her while away and she started to cry. What did I do wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old guy. My fiance is 24. We are separated for a few days as I had to go on a work related trip (in my hotel room now) and she could not come with me because of her own responsibilities. When we were in bed the other night, I told her how much I was going to ... (132 words)

He ignores my texts and only contacts me when he wants sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age - I'm a gay guy. I met a guy a few weeks ago and we've seen each other a few times since.We always have amazing sex, and he always says how great the sex is.Thing is i text him and it gets ignored.Then maybe a couple of weeks later he will text to say"come round" then we end up ... (95 words)

How to deal with her at the prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a prom in a few days...and the girl i like and wanted to go with knows this and says to one of my friends that she doesnt really like me. Now on top of that...she is bringing a guy from outside school to the prom with her...she has also recently been playing diry wit... (193 words)

Husband could never cum from anything other than actual sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) age - I wonder ,if you can help me figure out this strange sex problem. I live in a long term marriage, and we had good sex life. My husband was very highly sexual, and good lover. Now ,he has very serious sexual dysfunction. He is not medically ill, but for some unknown reason ,... (267 words)

Will married lover ever divorce his wife? Should I just end things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Its kinda complicated. Me and my partner (who is married) have been off and on for 4 years now. I met him when we were working together overseas for a year, after two months of being close friends we started being intimate. We pretty much knew it was just a fling the whole time ... (446 words)

How have relationships changed over the years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello dear cupid.. i was wondering what relationships were like back in the "good ol' days." i always here about how in generations before me, relationships were solid, committed, faithful, and just plain perfect. no divorces, no adultery, alot of virgins on their wedding da... (113 words)

My parents are giving me grief about my friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months ago i came home drunk and then i came home drunk again a week ago. I am 18 and my parents threw a fit. i know they have a reason and i understand that i shouldnt be doing that in the first place, but now they talk down on my friends and its starting to get on my ... (199 words)

He loves his girlfriend but can't stay away from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and I am in love with a man who is 29 in a few months. He lives with his girlfriend and I have been seeing him on and off for 2 years. He thinks it's just a fun thing and doesn't know how I really feel, I have told him I loved him before but he didn't believe me, or ... (138 words)

He broke up with me, I kissed his friend, he's hurt, I'm hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - about 6 months ago a boy started to inbox me and we got talking, after abit we got really close, and we did stuff and we lost our v together and after abit he stopped talking to me and got with this other girl in my school, then after 2 months of being with her he wanted me ... (127 words)

Wife had an affair, no protection and now I won't touch her

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age - Wife having an affair This went on for a year and i didnt know. she said no condoms were used. That was it , I left. I got tested and no std's. she wants me back but all that goes through my mind was his fluids. I know after sex they leak out of her and I remember all the oral... (107 words)

Should I tell my teacher how I feel about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello right, could you please help me I'm a 13 year old girl and I have the biggest ever crush on my 40 year old teacher and I know nothing will ever happen because there is a 27 year age difference and he is married and his wife resently had a baby. This teacher knows that I ... (181 words)

How do I deal with this lost love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I am 21 years old girl..study in a university..I love a teacher i the university.he didn't teach me anything.When ever I saw him I became so happy and i think he knew that but I didn't say anything to him.now he has left the university and outside the country.Plz tell me ... (65 words)

Could I have "commitment phobia"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! Well... I think I have a commitment phobia! But im not exactly aware of it. Like right now i'm thinking if the right guy came along, i'd love to be in a relationship. But the thing is, when any guy comes along and I get to know him and then he starts heavily flirting I ... (229 words)

My friend is dating a married man I used to date, I tried to warn her but is it my fault if he hurts her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated an older married man in an open relationship when I was a teenager. We went our separate ways after I couldn't handle my jealousy of his daughter being born, and the experience of losing me made him 'change' his ways so to speak. He divorced his wife at that time to ... (321 words)

My ex is sending me strange text messages. What do you think she's trying to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about my ex. We broke up nearly two months ago after four and a half months together because I was leaving university and she wanted to adjust to life at the town where we study without me. She is in her first year and this is my last. Since the break ... (613 words)

Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do I deserve a girl who loves me as much as I love her? Recently, I started to question myself whether I deserve a girl who loves me. I know I am young; I know I should focus on academics even though I am pretty good; I know teenage love is difficult; but my confidence has s... (322 words)

Guys: Does this mean he likes me or is he just playing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Guys I need YOUR advice..... There is this guy i like but i NEED to know if he likes me back(he already knows i like him too).... He was poking me, tickling me, scaring me, meowing at me, pulling my hair, smacked my ass, and asked my older brother if it would be alright if he... (81 words)

How can I keep our relationship strong when we have to hide it from my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Essentially my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month, and we're both in love. I don't expect people to believe you can be in love at 14, and that its probably infatuation but whatever it is makes me happy. We haven't told our parents- I'm an only daughter who lives ... (151 words)

I had a dream my crush gave me a bad kiss.What does it mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a dream last night that I was kissing a man that I've had a crush on for the past two years. Suprisingly, it was a really bad kiss. What can this mean?... (36 words)

Could anyone with therapy experience share their story?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I would like to ask for some advice about therapy, particularly from those who have personal experiences and from those who have a loved one experiencing it. I hope to seek professional advice in the next coming weeks to deal with some issues in my life... (341 words)

I love my wife dearly,but her past sexual detailed confession makes me miserable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my lovely with get along very well although in the beging of things we went through a lot in understanding each other.to be exact we been together for seven years,one of those legally married.my wife is very understanding although very jealous sometime,she ... (258 words)

Confused--does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't but feel the guy I last posted about is leading me on. That, or he actually does like me. We were talking last night, and he was complimenting me. I know it's natural to compliment somebody, but he told me he doesn't like leading people on, then compliments me, fully aw... (108 words)

I really like my friend's older brother, how can I let him know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I just wanted a bit of advice - i really fancy my friends older brother. He's really cute and lovely and we're into the same stuff and things. I think (hopefully anyway!) that he feels the same, and if we did get together I think my friend would be fine with it. ... (122 words)

B/f's family hates me and is making me miserable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I love him very much and he makes me happy. We only have one problem his family. They are such busy bodies and have to know everything about our relationship. They treat him like a child and he is 26 years old. They give us sex ... (221 words)

Should I send my ex a painting of the two of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey y'all I'm in need of some advice. Me and my have been broken up for about 4 weeks now. I'm still frustrated about it but it is really getting better. Im going to wait a little longer until I contact her, I was wondering some methods to do this. Im an artist and back a year ... (173 words)

How do I end things with my abusive cruel boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years or so. We met off a dating site. I gave him my cell number and he texted me alot probably 200-300 texts per day. Telling me his life, his life stories. I was flattered all this attention at first but was a little leary at the sam... (637 words)

In love with a guy who won't date me because of my age.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this might sound a little odd but I really need some help if you can give it! I am in love with a guy I met once about six weeks ago and spent only about 3 hours with him. He barely knows I exist, I am sure he doesn't even remember that night since we were both quite dr... (299 words)

Is it possible to have a midlife crisis at 25?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to have a midlife crisis at 25? I am good looking, and have a masters degree and a great job, but i just feel it isnt enough. Im not satisfied with anything, and honestly i could care less for all of it. Maybe i'm spoiled becasue i had a privligged upbri... (181 words)

My fiance's double-standard about being friends with exes makes me want to break up with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, So, my fiance, who I've been with for over two years now, asked me very early on in our relationship to stop being friends with my ex because it made him uncomfortable. He not only asked me to delete him from facebook, but to stop all contact with him. I didn't h... (250 words)

Should I wait until marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was just sat here having a little think, reading some questions and I had a thought, that maybe I should wait until marriage to have sex. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, we haven't done anything particularly sexual, and we don't intend to have sex ... (255 words)

What do you think about the potential of this relationship: should we try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The Relationship: We get along great. We have similar humor and personality. We enjoy the same TV shows and always had a pleasant, easy time together. But we didn't always have a lot to talk about or share a lot of common interests. We had FANTASTIC sexual chemistry. W... (199 words)

Cheated but it felt great!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok... so I'm in a long distance realtionship with my boyfriend. We've been together for three years now and I'm actually kind of getting bored. I'm 23 years old, I love him, respect and cherish him. However he is not here, where I need him. LDR just gets the worst of me and I ... (364 words)

Bumped into an old crush and wondering if he found me attractive...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I bumped into this guy today, who I used to have a big crush on in my last year at school (so I was 14-15 years old at the time I liked him then, and he was a year older). He (apparently) didn't fancy me then. Well, that was what he said, but he knew I fancied him, and he used ... (348 words)

Has our relationship already run its course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i just got back in a relationship with my ex who i been dating for 2 years, on and off. I really in love with him and i can't let him go for nothing in the world! It's like he got some kind of hold on me. We've been through a lot, well he put me through a lot in those 2 ... (317 words)

Does she truly care for me and how do I handle her current behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where I work. In his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been there for over a year now but I ... (543 words)

Feeling used!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. This is the healthiest, most loving relationship I've ever been in and I love him dearly. When we first met, he had a great job, a nice place and we went out all the time. About a year in, we moved in together. He ended ... (347 words)

Is it illegal to date a step cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it illegal to date a step cousin? Or better yet, a first step cousin? I have a huge problem. Over the past weekend, me and my step cousin have gotten really close. I may have some strong feelings for him, and im pretty sure my family would disaprove of this. I dont know what ... (68 words)

My best friend has got engaged and is becoming more distant, would that be too much if I wanted to talk to him once a week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am no single mom, have no affairs, no pregnancy or sex problems. That means I have a very non exciting simple yet genuine concern here! I knew this guy in picture for two long and painful years. I cannot mention the circumstances we met in but just that he is a medico lead... (608 words)

I love my boyfriend but I don't know if he loves me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend but I don't know that he love me... We have been together almost a year and a half. We met in Law school. He's older, is in the middle of changing his career. We we first got together it was casual. He was in a rocky relationship with his girlfriend and I... (769 words)

How to deal with online dating rejection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've started to try online dating. It's so frustrating for a guy. I'm not the best looking out there. I send my responses. No response. One girl messaged me. I asked to hang out with her. She says she's busy. We still talk to each other. But ugg. I've been rejected ... (100 words)

Is there a problem with this age difference?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Honestly is the a problem dating a 28yrs woman if you are 21yrs old man. We both love each other a lot. ... (22 words)

Dating my closest friend, but it still feels more like 'friends'. How can we change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just got into a relationship with 1 of my closest friends of 3 years. I know we taking a risk with our friendship but as much as we try we can't let go of the feelings we have for each other so we got together. Anyway there's still a problem is it still feels like we just ... (77 words)

Would this be enough of a 'gift' for an anniversary?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - From a male point-of-view, I know guys aren't the most materialistic people in the world. So let's say your girlfriend of 1.5 years puts on a sexy piece of lingerie and entertains you, would that be enough of a "gift" for your anniversary? Thanks :) ... (49 words)

My older partner is pregnant but our families are stopping us from being together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - im in a very big confusing situation. I met a woman 8 yrs older than me at work we fell in love for one yr and few months now. I called a meeting with parents and this woman. my mom thinks she is too old for me and she also dont like her mom about some rumours that she has too ... (141 words)

Do I believe the manipulative ex wife or the lying boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known my fiance for two and a half years. He moved to my town for work. We lived together until his contract ended and are now in a long distance relationship. We planned to marry in September. Last week however I felt as if my world had been turned upside down by a ... (585 words)

What is college life in America like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone my question is aimed at people who have been to what they call college in America. is the experience like what the films and t.v programs make it out to be like drinking and sex as well as the education side of it. I was thinking about going to go to Am... (108 words)

Waiting until marriage, but would like some ideas on 'mixing it up."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I want to wait until marriage to have sex. We do everything else, but want some new ideas. What are some things to do to mix it up a bit?... (33 words)

What can I do so it is not so painful for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old. My girl friend is 20 years old. We love each other. We decided to have sex. I was trying to penetrate my penis into her vagina. But the opening of the vagina was very small and both of us were feeling tremendous pain. I want to know what should I do to have a ... (64 words)

What does my dream about my ex mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, broke up with a guy for about 7 months now. thing is I have been having dreams. Like today I dreamt about how he broke down in front of my house (and this guy moved back to his home town in Pittsburgh while I live near philly) and he said "oh god, I had to break down in ... (436 words)

Should I go back to my ex? I love him but he hasn't changed much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my X of 4years, and in his drunken stupor, he told me I am the woman he loves. {I still miss him and think about him everyday of my life} The next day he invited me to visit him at his place, and we ended up having sex. we both did not talk about our past, present an... (174 words)

Help me decide about these girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

12 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (A) for about 2 months now. He asked me out when I didn't even know him, but I said yes. Before that however, I was sort of semi-dating my other friend (B), getting to know him etc. We are now really close friends, but in a ... (187 words)

How can I accept him as he is, and not expect his whole life to revolve around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondeing if I'm becoming a possessive girlfriend? Basically, whenever my boyfriend fails to talk to me (i.e start a conversation himself, text me) I feel as though he obviously doesn't want to make the effort and I'm forcing him to be with me by being the one to ... (359 words)

He doesn't want to continue because we live so far away. Can anyone advise?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi...now i am in a bad situation. i knew a guy for 3 months then he left back to his country. we really had a wonderful time together and really want to keep on our relationship. on our last day we talked, first he afraid that we are not gonna make it because of the distance. i ... (468 words)

Am I feeling uncomfortable because now I have an opportunity to try it?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this girl around 3 year ago and she's became my best friend since then. For the past year I cant help but think she's a lesbian or bisexual, but never mentioned it, as it doesnt bother me... well last night i found out she is in fact one, but i'm the only person she's... (218 words)

Does chemistry fade? My LDR did not feel the same when we met this time.

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship. I havn't seen him for so long. Got to his place last night, and things felt so awkward. I don't know why but I feel I want to keep distance, I don't want to get emotionally attached to him again, as I have to go home to finish off at Uni. Bu... (252 words)

He's asked me to a dance. is it ok to date a guy I don't have feelings for?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a question I had thought over even before I came to this site, I just wondered if it's okay to date a guy without having feelings for him. Previously, my affiliated school's student president asked me out. Wow, back then, I was only 13 and he was 14. I totally ignored ... (127 words)

Does he like me as more than a friend?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Does he like me more than a fren? Well, i did make the first move already. I invited him to go with me to movies and even go have a dinner in a hotel... Of course, i invited but then he paid for it.. We actually talked a whole lot, he shared his secrets with me about the girl ... (207 words)

What do I do about a bf who doesn't listen to me, respect me or do anything I want to do?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bf--i think....well, we have been fighting heaps and he has been treating me like crap, doesn't do anything i ask. Anything i do he rejects...... I have done everything for him. Hell, i gave him a threesome with another chick....he doesn't ever respect me, listen to me ... (59 words)

My brother tried to kill himself over a girl, and because of that I refuse to talk to her now. Am I wrong?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi aunts and uncles, i really need some advice. I'll start from the beginning. About four years ago my brother got together with a girl and they went out for ages and they started to argue. A lot went on and they split up after about two years. Now my brother is a bit emotion... (324 words)

Are these feelings for this other guy just a crush or love?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,i have a relationship of three years and thing have been great since.my boyfriend lives far away from me because of studies.we are close to 400km apart but we visit each other every now and the.i met a guy this year and we started as friends,he also have a girlfriend of 2 ... (178 words)

How do I make him see that he is the only one for me?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl at varsity and my boyfriend is working.He has beeen doing everything for me,but he thinks that when I finish school I will leave him for another educated person like me,I love him and I am not vene thinking about that,but he keeps telling me that what should I do to ... (65 words)

I get the feeling he hasn't really forgiven me.....

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met this guy two months back and we were close friends but i knew deep down that he is not going to stay as my friend for long because i saw in his eyes that he was inlove with me. the problem with all this is that i ussually told him about my boyfriend ,how inlove we are ... (340 words)

Calling friends pet names?

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I was wondering do you think the calling your friends pet names (baby, sweetie, honey etc) destorys the intimacy of a relationship and or the meaning of the words?... (33 words)

I threw away the woman who loved me! How do I get her to understand how sorry I am?

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey ags I really need some help here. 3 years back wife walked out on me for my best bud and I took it hard. Long story short I jumped right into a relationship with 2 women that didnt know about each other. I slept with G but not C. They found out about each other so I stayed ... (257 words)

In these sorts of situations, do couples ever get back together?

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! Basically around 4 weeks ago my ex girlfriend told me that she wanted to separate. It came as a real shock and seemed completely out of the blue. I'm 23 (she's 22) and we had been together permanently for 8 years. Around 6 months ago we purchased a house together... (818 words)

I want the chance to get to know him better, how do I go about doing this next time I see him out? Is it weird for me to ask him for his number?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering how I can make something out of pretty much nothing. Let me give you some background information on myself. I'm 21, graduating from college in May and moving away, and am about 4 months out of a 2 year relationship. I am mostly over my ex, but am learning to be ... (374 words)

Am I over-thinking this?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, my boyfriend has started getting closer to one of his friends. Let's call him Tom. After learning that he was accepted to med school, Tom decided to throw a party at a 21+ bar. He invited my bf but since I am not 21, I was not able to attend. The next day, a... (247 words)

Teasing co worker driving me insane.

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'll keep it simple. I've liked this guy for quite some time. And I don't want to. I've dated other guys, and tried to keep my distance. We work together, we disliked each other at first but the more we started joking and playing around, I fell for the guy. I'm too ... (251 words)

Getting over a crush on your friend?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you get over a crush you have for a close friend?... (13 words)

Insecure partner during sex

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and Im in a relationship with a 22 year old. When we had sex for the 1st time he acted very insecure to a point he won't take his clothes off. I know he is a bit chunky but i told him i like him for who he is but he doesnt agree. Now its to a point to where he doesn't ... (153 words)

Am I still a virgin? Will I still bleed after sex?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a virgin but I often masturbated and i can put one finger inside my vagina..it hurts a little but its ok...well my question is Am i still a virgin? If my boyfriend sex me.. will there be blood after sex? Because most guys believe that the sign of virginity is having blood ... (93 words)

Should I change my style to get a girlfriend?

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well my mother has brought to my attention that i will never meet a girl unless i start dressing better. See im 18 and i wear funny graphic t-shirts and shorts all year round(I live in NY and i still wear shorts in the winter). I can see her concern because ive never had a ... (74 words)

Why is my boyfriends Facebook status single?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. It is a long distance relationship. He is shy, and private. We keep our relationship quiet. I respect his character, and do not have him listed as my boyfriend on facebook. I simply have a blank for my relationship sta... (94 words)

If you were in my shoes, who would you choose?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i having a dilemma right now.. i am so confused.. i have 2 guys in my life.. one is that, he loves me so much, for me he is perfect, i am always happy everytime i talk to him,he shower me compliments and i love him so much even if i didnt meet him in person yet.. but everytime ... (165 words)

How to talk to the girl who really hates me....

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i love a girl. first she use to talk normally. one day she came to know that i likes her. she started hating me. when i tried to talk she just replys for questions. and trys to stop the conversaton, she did'nt add me in her facebook, even though i requested her..she wants to ... (89 words)

I'd really like to attend my friend's bridal shower but it interferes with my boyfriend's birthday plans

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! So i have a dilemma and I'm just looking for advice/opinions.. My friend is getting married in September and I just received an invitation to her bridal party in June. I should mention that we used to be friends in High School, lost touch and since last year we got back... (361 words)

She doesn't seem to making much effort to spend time with me

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So all year I have been looking forward to this baseball game against our school rivals, and I'm pretty excited to play, but just last week i injure my arm and I need to be out for a couple games. That's only the start, and where it connects to my relationship. My girlfrie... (344 words)

I have a crush on my teacher and I think he likes me also, but he's married to a woman who is way older than him!!

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so at the beginning of the school year I didn't like him that much I just thought he was kinda cute so I thought I would get over it but then he started flirting with me! He started staring at me, smiling at me, and he just treated me differently than everybody else. I ... (140 words)

Don't want to turn him off by bringing drama into our affair

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met a guy at work who is married and I am married as well and we had a discussion one day about hooking up. I am away for 8 weeks on business and don't have to worry about my man catching me as much as his wife would catch him. We hooked up and man, it was incredible. The ... (202 words)

Mother's rights to unborn baby in Massachusetts?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 16 and im 12 weeks pregnant. the father and i are no longer together. do i have to give the baby his last name? just because it is his baby doesnt mean hes goiing to be there and support it, id rather do it on my own. if he were to take me to court to fight for the costody ... (126 words)

Why is it that it's still a man's world, every porn mag is for men, every nude scene in a movie is of a woman? When are woman ever truly going to be treated as equals?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sick of the world that we live in, the expectations and pressures on women today, the young girls who suffer and have low self esteem due to the images we see everywhere, in films, magazines, billboards etc.. Why is it that it's still a mans world, and that every porn mag ... (312 words)

I lied about being 13 and told him I'm 15; turns out he's 18 and he really likes me

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i really need anyones help i could get at the moment so any comments will do. i met this guy on the internet a few weeks ago,then the other day i asked for his age,turns out he's 18! so i told im 15,but really im 13! then we've been talking so much and we both like each other ... (136 words)

Should I stay or should I go?!

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 42, my girlfriend of 4 years is 26. I originally lived with my brother after splitting with my previous girlfriend. 2 years ago, my now girlfriend wanted us to get our own places, live seperately for a year or so , then move in together. I got a flat virtually straight ... (512 words)

Why am I the bad guy? He's the one who dumped me!

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We were together for six years and we have kids together. I was thinking about breaking up with him but he broke up with me first. In the past I would beg him to take me back but this time I said Fine, let's break up, this isn't working, let's stay friends for the kids. In fact ... (186 words)

I had a dream that I was pregnant with someone else's baby - what does this dream mean?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I rarely remember my dreams, but I had one last night that is confusing me. I dreamed that I was pregnant, but it wasn't my boyfriend's baby. I didn't dream about who the real father was but I remember being happy to be pregnant but crushed that it wasn't his. A little ... (210 words)

Pregnant and BF doesn't want the baby right now. What do I do?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am only 21 and at Uni Bf still has a year or so to go till he finishes. I have just found out im pregnant and wasnt sure whether to keep it but decided to. I thought It wouldnt be easy but possible. Bf has told me he doesnt want kids... not yet anyways. He is studying... (208 words)

Shower Time Troubles?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I do not have sex because we want to wait to marriage, but we do other things and always try to mix it up to add some new fun to the mix. This weekend we took a shower together (both completely naked), but we did not have sex and his genitals never touched ... (141 words)

I just broke up with my boyfriend, now I regret it; do you think I could get a 3rd chance?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - iv currently just finished my boyfriend,we've been together 3 months,he treated me like i was nothing and wanted to date 3 other girls while he was with me,i don't know what to do,this would be my 3rd time with him again and i don't think it really sounds right,i don't want to ... (63 words)

I'm worried that he's drawing away because of my complaining

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have ben dating for a whole year now. and what we have is beautiful. everything was just simply great till, from past few days he and i, have ben having some family problem/he is kinda avoiding me . because every-time he talks to me i start telling him all of ... (297 words)

Torn between two men--who do I choose?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a young lady, with fairly severe jealousy and self esteem issues. I have been dating and living with my boyfriend for 3 years. 2 of those years, we haven't been getting along. He was ignoring me, resorting to alcoholism and occasionally flirting with other women (and had ... (429 words)

Was I too generous?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still very good friends with my ex boyfriend. His son who is 21 years old, made me a wonderful cd for me to play in my business. He lives with his mother and so I wrote a card to say thank you, and because I am using the cd for my work I also put in £50 as a gift and ... (355 words)

Why won't he break up with his ex to be with my friend?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have this friend who was with a guy for three years and in that time she cheated on him. so finely he kicked her out but he still loves her and wants to work through there problems. after he kicked her out he ran into his x and let her move in with her to kids. that was 6 ... (100 words)

We really love each other, but sometimes I feel like he's bored with me. How do I fix this?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Alrighty, so I'm in a little crisis with my new "lover." We've already told each other that we're interested, and he would like to date me. But, he is in eighth grade, and I am in 9th. We do really love each other very much, but sometimes I doubt it. When we text he ... (195 words)

I keep giving him money, he keeps lying to me and standing me up!

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy for a few months. I thought whatever we had was good. Then things fell off. I wasnt seeing him as often. He'd always forget to call me back. But I put it up with it. Then he lost his job, and me being stupid I started giving him money when he asked. Which was ... (459 words)

My girlfriend was very promiscuous in the past and I can't seem to let it go.

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old and my girlfriend is 24. I have been with her for 9 months now, and we love each other so much that I can see myself marrying this girl. BUT, I have found out that she was very promiscuous in the past. She had somewhere around 60 partners, and I ... (204 words)

I don't think I can get the grades for 6th form, but everyone keeps telling me I have to!

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am currently doing my GCSEs and im in Year 10 at high school. My mum is head of media studies at the local Grammar school that is nationaly recognised as outstanding. Shes keeps telling me that the only reason that we still live in this town and don't move is because i could ... (264 words)

I finish too quickly and can't go again. What's going on?

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and left me for another man.. It was all very unexpected and has really been a huge blow, losing your best friend and lover is the pits. Anyways since then I've been depressed but have been trying to get back on the horse, ... (266 words)

Unfamiliar with her culture, does she like me or is she just being friendly?

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I want some help. I have immigrated to USA about 2 months ago. I live here with my mom, my bother and his wife. I'll call my brother's wife ABC. Me and ABC are like brother and sister and we are very good friends. Now here is what is going on. When I was not in U... (360 words)

We both get angry easily. Can this work?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I both have very short tempers but we are madly in love with one another. Is there a good way to appease her, or do I just have to deal with it? I fear for the longevity of our relationship. ... (43 words)

How can I tell him I like him? He's never alone.

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some help.I've decided to tell the guy I like my feelings.The problem is that we don't know each other that well.He knows my name and we use to have a class together but that's it.I know I'm going to get rejected but I'm still going to tell him.I won't mind at all if I ... (131 words)

My Boyfriend is very afraid of loss.

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend grew up with his dog, and the two of them were incredibly close. She would have done anything to protect him and they were best buddies. I'm sure from what I've written so far, you can tell that she passed away, about a year ago. He's having a really hard time ... (198 words)

I don't know if I should have sex with him, I don't want him to disappear!

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm 20 years old, right now i'm dating a guy that i've been crazy about him for a year. We've been seeing each other for like one month, and thing's are getting a little bit crazy. He is 28 year's old, I had sex with one person, one time, and I was 17 at the time, and ... (151 words)

I don't if I'm being used, he won't tell me if we're together.

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for the past 3 months and i have know him for 15 years and always had a thing for him but now as more than friends we dont hang out he wont stay at my house and wants me to stay at his place. he tells his family and everyone else that we are ... (86 words)

Hung out with my old flame. Now there's awkwardness.

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lived next to this guy for about eighteen years we have been really close for about 6 years and we liked each other a lot. I left for boarding school and so did he. We lost touch but as I was finishing up boarding school, and he was finishing up his to return to public ... (259 words)

My Husband Cheated on me, what should I do?

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12 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - So I am 22 years old and i have been married for 2 years with my husband for 4. We have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. Everything was great until Sunday morning. We live in a five bedroom house so we rent some of the rooms out to friends. We had my best friend living here. ... (255 words)

I'm not ready for a child, but I don't want to regret my decision.

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles I need some advice. I am 20 years old and just found out I'm pregnant and would really appreciate advice hopefully from people who have had or know of similiar experinces. I have a job that pays very well I make over $1100 a month and my partner wor... (228 words)

I transform when I'm with my parner into a better person. Will that better version stick?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - “Jack” and I have been dating for over two years. He’s my first. He’s intelligent, hard working, witty, and full of integrity. His knowledge surpasses mine, but we mesh well as a couple, filling in for what the other more or less “lacks”. We see each other on weekends, and our ... (292 words)

I had cybersex with someone else. Should I tell him?

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12 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start off by saying I feel really bad about doing this but I cheated on my boyfriend cause I cybersexed another guy. He doesn't know about it and I feel really horrible about it but I don't know what to do. If to tell him or bury it. Help. We've been dating for 2 years,... (59 words)

How do I rekindle our love?

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12 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my wife have had a serious falling out recently. we are seperated and argue quite often. for details on the falling out see my other questions. It has come extremely close to divorce several times. She is staying with a friend and says she wants to take it slow and start ... (96 words)