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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Six months ago he walked out with no explanation. Should I trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry it may seem a bit long. But here it goes: Me and this guy have been best friends for a few years now, but we were also FWB's for a little over two years. About six months ago he stopped speaking to me out of the blue. No texts, no calls, and we even stopped speaking... (224 words)

Need snogging advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - When I went to kiss my new girlfriend for the first time I went too low even though I am taller than her but I don't want to mess it up again so how can i get it just right? Also any advice on how to snog ( make out if you are from the us)? Because I have never done it before ... (71 words)

Sex hurts. There is a lump afterward. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, basically my problem is this; I'm 20, lost my virginity to my boyfriend 9 months ago, he's my only sexual partner, he has had other partners, we always have unprotected sex, but we went to get him tested for STD's and he got the all clear. Well now you know the back ... (103 words)

Boyfriend makes me jealous with talk of beautiful colleague. I don't know how to handle it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of an year often talks about his colleague, says she is sexy and beautiful and all that stuff. I am not comfortable him talking about her even when we are intimate and it also makes me really angry. I told him in a normal way that i dont like the way he talks about h... (123 words)

Do I get back with ex despite friends protests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been on and off for several years, lived together, broken up, worked together, broken up, lived in separate cities, broken up... We do love each other very much but for some reason can never quite get it together and tension builds up and we break up. ... (285 words)

Fell in love with a man who is in a "marriage of convenience." What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It's complicated, I fell in love with an Egyptian man. he is funny and kind and I love him with all my heart, but he is married. He married a woman to allow him to work in the EU as a doctor, and now she lives in her country and he is in England. They don't have any children ... (105 words)

His friends are interfering in our relationship. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! Okay, so I've been crushing on this adorable guy for most of 2010 all the way to this instant. He's everything I want, and I recently came out and told him I like him. He likes me back. The problem? His friends are trying to steal me. they're flirting with me every second ... (126 words)

The condom broke and now she doesn't want to see me. Why? What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a lady for 7 weeks. I am 45 and she is 46. On our 10th date I stayed at her house and we ended up having sex. The problem I have is that I used a condom but it broke. I felt it go pop but was just about to climax and couldnt stop myself. The end result was I ... (307 words)

Will the fact that I am dating his ex ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, okay, I am stuck in a love triangle with my best friend's ex.. They were together for about 2 years, and half of that time we secretly had a crush on one another. Now that they have broken up(only recently) we have completely fallen in love. It is beyond the point of ... (133 words)

Is my married friend just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I ran into an old friend and we have been seeing each other. for the past three weeks. but the problem is that he is married and wants to leave his wife because she has cheated on him more then once. however he wont tell her that he wants to leave. or he is just telling me what ... (66 words)

Should I believe the rumor about my new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys. I recently started going out with this amazing girl and I think this could actually go somewhere. Problem is someone she knows made up a rumor about her and her friend having slept together, I didn't take it seriously buy the more I think about it maybe the rumor is... (94 words)

What should I do to get more time with my married lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this is angel fluff i am having sex with a guy who is 35 years has three children. i am 19 years. we are not in a relationship we just having sex. i dont know what to do i really fall deep for him before we had sex twice and i meet him 2 weeks and we did it. after that he ... (113 words)

GF doesn't have long to live. Please help me with suggestions on handling our limited time together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend which i met on internet and never meet physically so far. Still both of us are strongly connected and feel love for each other. We were thinking to get married by the next year. We had a plan to meet and spend a week together with all fun in this East... (234 words)

Boyfriend forgot my birthday. How should I handle it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Yesterday was my birthday and the guy I've been dating for over ten months forgot it was my birthday OR didn't even know. We are more than "friends with benefits" and less than totally serious. He has told me he loves me. He went away with friends for the weekend and has not ... (203 words)

Tiny, hard spots in the sides of vagina, help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've had tiny hard spots under the skin of my vagina for a long time now, but i dont know how to tell my mum or go to the doctor. I was wondering if anyone could shed some light on what they could be? The spots are small, hard and under the skin inside the walls of... (98 words)

I haven't been with anyone because I am so hairy. Is this enough to put guys off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a mixed Italian/South African (white) guy. The reason I said this is so you can more understand what I look like, not for a racial reason. I have more Italian features than the "boer" features. Thing is, I'm really really hairy everywhere, except for on my back. I have a ... (125 words)

He said he wanted to be seduced, but that's not working either. Our sex life is dead. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this lovely man for around 9 months, and have been sleeping with him for a year. The problem is, our sex life seems to have completely died - just before Christmas. We've only had sex once since the end of January. He keeps telling me I need to initiate thin... (492 words)

I didn't feel anything while having sex, is this weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sex wasn't really how I thought it would be.. I've have it twice now, and no times did I actually feel anything. Well, I felt him like. Inside me, but I didn't really get a buzz, or any particularly nice feel out of it. Of course the first time hurt a lot, but then it stopped ... (227 words)

I am not sure if I am falling out of love or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months now and after a month i knew he was the one and he felt exactly the same, i didn't see him for a week and so was really was looking forward to seeing him at the weekend but when i got to his house i instantly felt wierd i didn't ... (155 words)

How do I reconcile our relationship and not be overwhelming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year, me and my best friend/guy I dated had an argument about our situation and we went our different ways. We were long distance and had work/studies at the time Only recently, he got in touch with me saying that he wanted to apologise for the way he was towards me w... (170 words)

I am not sure what kind of a relationship we have. GF wanted to take it slow. What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, First time asking here. Having some relationship problems. I've been "dating" my gf for just over 2 months, long time acquaintances. She got out of a bad relationship in December, and we started dating in late January. This were so great at the beginning, we sa... (407 words)

I miss my friend and I want her back in my lfe

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I miss my best friend. Last summer she met a new girlfriend who is very possessive - she doesn't like my friend spending time with me on her own and when I see the two of them, I am ignored all the time. I was in a car accident before Christmas - not too bad but bad enough. ... (157 words)

My father did not tell me I have a half brother. I want to confront him. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that I have a half brother. I think he's still only a baby, but I don't know. I found out by myself, my dad (whose child it is) doesn't know that I know. My mum and dad split up before I was born and my dad lives in a different country. I don't have that muc... (264 words)

BF is not the same since he started hanging out with misogynistic band members. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've never written for help about this kind of thing before but I really don't know who else to ask. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now and, until recently, things had been great. About six months ago, though, he started hanging out with this local ... (185 words)

Boyfriend said he was bored. Need ideas for dates that don't cost money.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a week, he seems interested and wants to meet up lots. We have met up 2 or 3 times, when i meet up with him everything is lovely and great. But we get bored, i dont know what to do, we have been for walks and my mum wont let me to ... (135 words)

I'm gay and I think my cousin is Bi. Should I tell him how I feel about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, this is my first time writing down a question in the site. ^^ Here goes..and this could be kinda long. I'm an 18 year old gay male, and..I have this cousin that I 'think' I like. We grew up together with this cousin of mine since third grade when we moved in the pla... (303 words)

Girlfriend had bad dream. How can I comfort her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend had a bad dream that she saw her best friend die. She cries every time she tries to talk about it. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? ... (45 words)

Advice on how to use sex toys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - advice on sex toys please/ never have used them but im a lesbian and my g.friend wants 2 use them on me. im a virgin but she dont know that and im scared if we have sex then she will find out so is this possible? also im scared 2have sex toys inside me how do u do it etc?... (60 words)

Is it worth a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I recently discovered that my boyfriend had a few meetings with his ex a few months ago. On finding out, i broke up with him as soon as i got the chance. I told him how i found out and he eventually admitted to it all. I was more angry than anything but also disguste... (721 words)

A week before we are to see each other LDR b/f starts totally ignoring me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

- Please help me. Im going out of my mind. I was having a LDR with a guy who works 400 miles away and he was due to come home yesterday. We had arranged to spend next weekend together. But for the past week he has been totally ignoring my texts, calls and emails. I dont know what ... (211 words)

Is she acting entitled?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - ok gang, so here it is. its a little long, i know but it reads fast! :) this girl and i have been on rough terms for the past few months. i kept gettin more and more upset with her because i felt she took me for granted. we are not dating or anything but still are friend... (509 words)

I messed up on my first attempt. Any snogging tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A few day's ago I went on a date with my boyfriend. I am in year 8 and he is in year 9. We have only been going out for just a week. On the end of the date he went to kiss me with his lips a bit open, and I tried to snog him but he was doing it too quickly for me and I ended up ... (144 words)

How long is enough time to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been seeing this girl occasionally on the weekends, she is a friend that moved away and moved back close by recently. Anyways yesterday we hooked up and everything went really well, the night was enjoyable and we both had a great time. I really want to see her ... (134 words)

What do you do when you've done everything to move on but you still suffer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - About a year ago, I met this guy off an online dating site. We automatically hit it off spent hours on the phone. When we finally met, we spent the whole night talking until six a.m. We ended up seeing each other for three consecutive dates talking to the morning. I felt ... (859 words)

Is the friend of my boyfriend attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a bit confused. This friend of a man i am dating winks at me a lot, and he ahs said he thinks i am good looking and a nice girl. However, he says that the man i am dating is a good man and that he thinks i am good for the man i am dating. he even stuck up for me when the ... (198 words)

My partner's friend comes around when I'm not there and I don't like it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - my partner has a male frieind she has known for a while..even though nothing is going on sexual i know he would like more but she has said no. he only comes round when i am at work .. i have told her i do not want him round as i find it strange that he comes round when i am not ... (90 words)

My crush found out I was in bed with someone else even though it was innocent!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well last night i was at my friends house and she had a party and a boy came who i really like and we were ment to be getting together. Then he went at like 2 in the morning, and one of his friends came onto me and i pushed him away and said no! and then i was really tired and ... (126 words)

Did I use bad judgment in loaning my ex money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 years and I live together. I have 2 children from my ex husband. My boyfriend and I have come to what is becoming a pretty big issue. My ex husband has been unable to obtain employment since december. In the past he was always financially responsible. My ex ... (255 words)

How will know true love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - how will know true love?... (5 words)

What comes next? Do I make a move? Or await his decision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I dated a guy for a 3 months and we officially stopped talking end of February. He said he likes being with me, but he didn't think he could give me anything serious right now. if it turns out I was looking for that he didn't want to hurt me, if I did want that. He aske... (243 words)

He says he loves me and then laughs. Is he into me or just messing about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I know I asked a similar question a few months ago but, since then, things haven't changed a whole lot with this guy I really like. I recently turned 18 and I am almost certain that I am gay. I am not out of the closet yet. If I ever do come out soon, I would want only my ... (930 words)

I'm scared of getting bored of my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I get bored of realtionships very easily.Something or the other haapens and I lose interest .I dont like to change boyfriends often.Now I am into a relationship and I am scared to get bored of him. What should I do?... (43 words)

Is sex something worth breaking up over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyy. I'm graduating from high school next month. My boyfriend and I aren't sexually active. But lately he's been saying that he doesn't want to be a virgin when he starts college. (I honestly don't understand the rush.) But he knows where I stand when it comes to sex and that ... (89 words)

We're 14, are we old enough to have sex?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, this is a pretty long question but it would be great if i could have your honest opinions, i'm 14 and i've been with my boyfriend who is also 14 for about ten months. we're very close and he's like my best friend as well as my boyfriend he is in my year so i see him ... (299 words)

I have a very spoiled boyfriend who criticizes how my parents raise me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have noticed a pattern in my boyfriend's behavior, and I've found out that he is very spoiled. He has no respect for conserving money, and his parents encourage it. For instance, when we are at my house, my air conditioner is set to auto, meaning it turns off every 10 mi... (571 words)

Should I speak of my feelings first, or just ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, well there is this girl at my college and i really like her and i really want to ask her out but there are a few problems 1) we are right in the middle of our exam period and 2) we live in different cities. So my question is i really want to tell her that i like her, ... (98 words)

Why do these things make me jealous and very angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do these things make me jealous and very angry?. - my boyfriend talking about his friends - my boyfriend hanging out with his friends - my boyfriend watching a movie with a girl I'd think he think was hot - my boyfriends EX - my boyfriend talking to any girl pretty or ... (75 words)

B/f doesn't trust me because of what happened while we weren't together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there everyone, So me and my boyfriend recently got together. We were together for two years, split up for six months, and are now back together again. During these six months, I saw a couple of guys for a few months each but that didn't really work out so we split up. ... (312 words)

How do I get over my ex? It's ruined my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, please don't judge me on what i'm about to say because everyone I have tried to talk to has: My name is Hayley and i'm 15, almost 16. A few days ago my boyfriend broke up with me, he said he didn't love me anymore. We had been together for exactly 13 weeks (new years... (901 words)

My boyfreind has been admitted to psychiatric care. How do I help him when he comes out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I have the most wonderful but very troubled boyfriend. He has recently been admitted to psychiatric care as his depression and schizophrenia got out of control. I managed to get him admitted to care as I was concerned about him. His family has abandoned him an... (468 words)

I'm shy but don't want to be!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i'm a very shy person but i don't want to be. I always want to talk to others but i just can't. i always chicken out. and when i am with someone i always worry about what to talk about and always thing of something to say. i also get paranoid that others ar... (90 words)

I need the truth but my husband won't talk about things!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 12 years in May. My husband is currently overseas (he is a soldier) and I recently uncovered some emails between him and another woman. They are very playful emails, with not one mention of a wife or child. He continually tells this woman how much he ... (139 words)

6 months later after I break up I'm still dreaming of him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So you have to know the background to this...last October so about 6 months ago this guy and I "broke up" it was a really bad one.. And I realize it was my fault. Although I keep saying I'm over him I keep dreaming of him. and when I awake from those dreams I am so tempted to ... (156 words)

I'm in love with my best friend who is now seeing someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with a best friend who has recently started seeing another girl. i've never told him how i felt, and sometimes i honestly feel like we both know that we could be something more, but neither of us wants to make a move to risk the friendship. i know now that i should ... (82 words)

They tell me I should like boys, but I don't How do I tell them I don't want to go to the dance without hurting their feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ermm, hi, kay, here's the problem. My best friend, el, told me that at this age we 're supposed to like boys. But, I still sort of hate them. I mean, is it even normal to like boys. I've not even had my first crush or anything like that. Then, our teacher said that we have some ... (214 words)

He's making my teacher crush go away. Do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Help please! For about two years I've been crushing on my teacher and he's always been dreamy and made me feel like I was floating just from a smile or a greeting. I never wanted anything more than just to see him at school everyday. Until now. A few days ago, some stu... (631 words)

First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? Hi everyone... Well the answer might be obvious, but I might need your opinion.. I date a girl and we get along. We spend everytime around 6-7 hours together when we see each other and we have fun. We had 3 dates and at t... (158 words)

Family doesn't like BF, but I love him. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my bf for almost 2 years and my family n friends especially mum don't like him at all. For many reasons. But ill only mention 3. One, he showed up to my house drunk early one morning. Knocking at my window so loud that mum heard it, she was nice enough to i... (267 words)

Is this the wrong way to go about it? I'm using someone else to make my teacher jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - i am 18 and i am in a short term relationship with another 18 year old but it isn't serious i don't even have feelings for this guy i am with i know that sounds so awful but i don't. My reasons for dating this guy is... i have feeling for this older guy who is like 7 years ol... (179 words)

I don't know if he's really stressed and tired, or if he's just making up excuses to avoid sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I am in a year and three month relationship, and right now it's going good, but I'm still having some doubts. The reason I am having doubts is because about 8 months ago, my boyfriend and i moved in together, and since then, it's been a roller-coaster. We moved in together ... (507 words)

Is he acting this way because of work, or is he just over us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, My problem is really nothing new and I am sure some of you have been something similar but I am just at a loss. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months but we were best friends for a while before we started dating. We work together (but in separate... (352 words)

Don't know if what he wrote on his Facebook page referred to me or someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone there's a guy I've liked for ages but haven't the guts to tell him that i do like him, he drove me somewhere on Tuesday evening and anyway after i left his and a few hours after he wrote this on his facebook page......... It hurts to love someone and not be loved... (188 words)

How do I build this friendship into what I want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

10 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am in love with this girl at school...we were kind of friends before but when she found out that i liked her, she was kind of cut off with me and didnt talk to me as much as she did with my friends. She basically didnt like me by anyway outside friendship and when she got to ... (184 words)

I plan to be independent, but don't know how to tell him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm studying Eng.,and he is my classmate, we both love each other, but he gets angry whenever i talk to boys, he also told me not to wear jeans, and also tells me that after our marriage i have to leave my job because I have to take care of his parents???? what to do ????? I'm ... (94 words)

I don't think we are ready for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So me and my boyfriend are going away for a weekend I heard him talk about having sex with me to his friends but I don't mind I think we are ready. Thing is he has had sex before and I'm still a virgin, what if I'm not good enough, what if his first was better than me, what if ... (64 words)

Do I believe he used a condom or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay , so im a young adult , and although this is a silly question its bugging me , .... just the other day me and my boyfriend had sex (like usual) we've been dating for about 3 months now, and although its early on im trying my best to give him my FULL trust, (sorry in ... (737 words)

Why has he stopped noticing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there is this guy I have liked for ages, he used to always look at me and smile. He said hi once and I said hi back, but lately its like he has been ignoring me. I catch him looking at me but when I look at him its like he doesn't notice me. Any ideas why this is, im 14 ... (69 words)

Any advice on how to play it cool and get this stubborn boy to realise he has an amazing girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf are a big on-off couple. Its always him that breaks it off with me and leaves me heartbroken and I always feel like the idiot. He so stubborn, and when we have a serious argument he runs. We had a big argument the other week and Hes been ignoring me ever since. I... (205 words)

I like the "Secret Admirer" but I also like someone else. Which one should I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Just did a "Secret Admirer" event in my hall at uni, which is like Secret Santa. My person got me a poster as a joke, then a letter which was very sweet but creepy before I knew who it was, and then a DVD that I wanted, chocolate, and a poem. Turns out this p... (112 words)

How would you deal with his?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - As an adult, if a child came up to you, and told you they were being sexually abused by someone in the family, how would you deal with this? and what would you say to the child? I'm 18.... (42 words)

I feel like I'm having a midlife crisis at 18!

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right. I know this is ridiculous, but i feel as though i am having a mid life crisis at eighteen!? I keep thinking i'm so close to being twenty and going off into proper adulthood. That it's making me panic because i want to experience what teenagers are meant to, just h... (190 words)

Bf is not 'mentally attracted' to me though am pregnant with his baby - help?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 14 wks pregnant and my bf just told me last night that he is not 'mentally attracted' to me. We are living together and I feel absolutely crushed by this. I told him last night I was highly concerned as there was no intimacy since I have fallen pregnant and it bothered me, ... (295 words)

Why do I go from guy to guy and how can I get this to go away?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyones help on this would be brilliant! I don't know why i'm feeling like this? During the past month or so, I have literally went from guy to guy! I feel I just want to always have a guy there, whether it's texting them seeing them or whatever...... Like in a club i wont want ... (293 words)

I'm 24 and I feel lost careerwise, what do I do?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I always did well at school and had good grades. But I lack direction. I've been working at a warehouse for years and I absolutely hate it. I see other people my age in careers and I feel reallu jealous. I'm smart and I know I can do alot better. I'm 25 next year and I'm sick... (79 words)

Is there any way to make oral sex taste better for my boyfriend?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - is there any way to make oral sex taste better for my boyfriend? he said he doesn't mind the taste but is there anything we can do to make it better because obviously you can get flavoured condoms for boys what about girls? Any help appreciated :)... (48 words)

I kicked him out because he watched too much porn, please advise.

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now (we are both 30) and we moved in with each other at the end of November. I have been blissfully happy and not even thought about anyone else, I was ready marry this person and have children. I used to go around telling people how ... (477 words)

Is animated "better" than real porn?

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been reading the questions regarding porn, and I was wondering if animated porn was "better" than real porn as it's just cartoons? Or are they as bad as eachother?... (31 words)

Unhappy sex life ruining relationship!

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Before this I never thought it would be such and issue. My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year and a half. Our sex life went from several times a week to like three times a month, and it is always me asking a being very upset. I have a very high sex drive an... (140 words)

Will I get over him?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 18 and I work at a fastfood place with a coworker of mine and I think I'm obsessed with him(23)he's just my friend. I always text him I just love the sound of his voice ( he's got an african accent) I love his body in his uniform his car is so clean inside ( he gave me a ... (133 words)

Is our friendship pointless?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is kind of long. I've been best friends with this guy since 8th grade. We've dated a few times in 9th grade, but we were both immature and whatnot. As time went on he had to move away, but I've stayed in the same place. I still had feelings for him as did he. Of ... (272 words)

Only the girls I don't like show interest in me

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 18..im kinda shy nd quiet..ma problm is:why is it that only the girls dat i dont like show interest but the ones i like treat me lik crap..im i doin somtin wrong? ... (34 words)

I look way older than my age and dislike that!

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. i need ur opinion about this thing, i look way older than my age, and in my early twenties but i can easily be taken for a 30 years old guy, i dont know if this is actually a good thing cox i dont like it !! i feel like when im in my thirties i will look sooooo... (112 words)

My neighbour and I are both married, but we admitted to having feelings to each other, what is wrong with me?

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a happily married man of 15 years and I have been with my wife for twenty years, However, I have moved to another country and have been in my new country for 3 years. I do have a soft spot for a neighbour, but I just ignored it, but tonight my neighbout admitted feelings ... (255 words)

I am being forced to pierce my nose?

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year male. For a long time i had a dream of learning and performing Kuchipudi and Bharatnatyam in front of a huge gathering. After long discussions and suggestions i joined a dance institute in Vittakarun, Karnataka. I paid 22,000 as a joining fee including boarding... (349 words)

My Dad and I get on very well. So what would be the reasons I am attracted to very old men 50 plus?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old girl and for as long as I can remember, I've always been attracted to older male celebrities, like men that are 50-68 years old. I have to force myself to find someone my age to be attracted to. I've even had a kind of crush on a teacher who was 40 years ... (93 words)

I just had anal sex. Am I still a virgin?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I know this is a stupid question but am im still a virgin? I mean...my boyfriend and I just did anal...and im wondering if im still a virgin. I'm kinda naive about that subject. Im sorry... (40 words)

I too am genuinely insecure about him cheating now. How do I tell him I am so worried?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. There is this girl that has been constantly texting my boyfriend and I recently found out that she has been going over to his house by reading his text messages. I know that it's bad and all but he never tells me who it is. In the texts and even facebook messages ... (169 words)

Does this other man now have more influence over my husband than me?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This am married. My husband got his ears pierced 5 years back. then he met a man with more radical piercing. And copied that man. Now he is very reluctant to change them back to studs. I fear him being ridiculed by society. Now he has purchased more nose studs and rings . ... (75 words)

Should I tell him about my genuine insecurities? That I think he is going to cheat on my?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I have been going out for just over 5 months and I'm his first serious girlfriend. I've asked him about his ex-girlfriends and he answers me honestly but the other night when I asked him when he and his last girlfriend spilt up and why, he just ... (162 words)

Does he want a committed relationship? How long before a guy should propose?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2years now. He is really an amazing guy most of the time but I feel he really may not be ready to take our relationship to the next level. For e.g, I wanted to use him as my contact in case of an emergency but he gave all sorts of ... (166 words)

How can I attract and keep a girl friend? I really like blondes

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 year old boy. I am wondering how I can attract girls and how to i get them to like me. So far I have not been able to get a girlfriend because I have never had a girlfriend in my life. I am really in to girls, mostly blonds. So I need some help.... (60 words)

How can my confusing situation with my ex be resolved? what can I do?

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys.. my ex and i had been together for around 1 year and 6 months. We broke up 3 weeks ago. She asked for it. I found out about some relationship repair programs and followed it. She started contacting me, telling me that she misses me a lot. She did confesses to m... (699 words)

Am I a booty call, or just FWB? Why does he never initiate our get togethers?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, how do I word this? Lets see.. I have a friends with benefits, but my friends say he's a "booty call". We don't talk for a couple of days, or even a week, and then i'll text him and we either hook up that day or the next and then go back to not talking again. ... (133 words)

If I can't get my act together and trust him, is he saying we have no future together?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - when he told me he was buying a house we almost broke up, we decided to try and work things out instead. so after a month of not seeing him and talking just a few times he finally came over for a visit. we had a great night, dinner, a movie and we made love. he was staying ... (197 words)

If love comes and goes is there any hope for two people wanting sustained long term love?

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I read it all the time: "We were in love, but then I fell out of love." And then--poof!--the relationship ends. Love seems so fleeting. We get to know a person, the first few months or year are exciting. But then we tire of that person. Love fades. Some keep going through th... (120 words)

Why was my girlfriend crying during sex?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for the last 3 nights and tonight she started crying. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? ... (33 words)

I just want people's views please on what they think of my bf who is married to his job

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need to know what people, other than friends and family, think about my issue. I have been in this relationship for almost a year and I love him more than anything, and I know he loves me a lot too, he has told me this. Our relationship pretty much doesn't have muc... (819 words)

I feel confused. Can I trust him after he was deceitful about smoking?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for one year and 6 months. when we first started talking he used to smoke, but then he said he stopped. after two months of knowing each other we started dating. Recently he has been lying to me here and there about little things. I got ... (142 words)

He's been lying. I just found out he has kids. Should he stay or go? what do I tell my kids?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i found out my boyfriend of 3 years has 3 different babies, by 3 different women. the ages of his three children are 5, 4 and 2 i love him, he lives with me and my kids, who are aged 8 and 13. I love him and i want to be with him, but what do i do try to trust him again? I... (98 words)

I think my boy friend is depressed. When depression hits does the person lose their emotional feelings?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I actually just posted this question like earlier: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ldr-boyfriend-is-depressed-and-yelled-at-me.html and now I'd like to know...when someone is depressed can they lose all feelings? I asked him if he still loves me and his answer ... (185 words)

I stay married for my children, but am in a relationship with a divorcee.

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10 April 2011 (F)

age - I stay married for the children's sake but but romance with my husband died after he cheated on me and am not sleeping with each other. I have just started a relationship with a divorcee who is much younger than me and who said he doesnt mind me being married and will love me ... (127 words)

What should I make of this conversation between my boyfriend and his ex?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I make of this conversation between my bf and his ex who I feel he still has feelings for. BOYFRIEND - god i fucken add u for 2 minutes and she went off at me fucken sick of it and i am pissed of at u for not showing up u doit to much its just selfish . E... (328 words)

What choice is best? I have mixed emotions. My gf or a girl I want?

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - my problem there is this girl i have really really really liked since 6th grade and we are in 10th grade now. it seems like every time i try and be with her she has a bf/gf or just broke up with him/her. When that happens and she is emotionally distressed at breaking up, so i... (237 words)

Does this guy like me?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Does this guy like me? There's a guy I like at work. He's very Tall, has fiery mysterious brown eyes and very wild, all over the place dark hair. On feb 22nd, I was outside at lunch and he was walking across the parking lot and our eyes met, he kinda looked behing him, like... (337 words)

LDR boyfriend is depressed and yelled at me, how can I help?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Id really appreciate if you could all read this and help me...im sorry for the length of it but please help me! Im desperate!!! I really dont know what to do anymore...Im in a LDR, have been now for 2 and a half years and my bf is amazing. Unfortunately we both have proble... (544 words)

Is it a bad idea to text an apology to an ex?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think apologising to an ex on a text is a good idea? I have a terrible conscience and even though i know we broke up for all good reasons, him admitting he wouldn't change, and a few other stuff, what i regret is the attitude i had when we split up. I did all the c... (261 words)

I'm a young mom but I cant get over my high school sweetheart :(

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 19 and i just had my beautiful little girl in 2010 a year after i graduated high school with my boyfriend of 1 and a half years, BUT i still think and miss and i believe im still in love with the same boy ever since i met him when i was 13 years old. we have such strong ... (134 words)

My girlfriend ignores me!

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10 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - okay well i have never done any thing like this be for so if some one can help it would be really nice and help full. well this is my problem my girl friend says she will do any thing to be with and spend time with me but when ever i try to be with her she says she cant bu... (123 words)

I cannot stop having these fantasies about a celebrity!

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10 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, this may sound funny, but I really worry about it: I cannot stop having these fantasies about a celebrity! He's at least 19 years older than me and I just can't control myself when I think about him! it's crazy and I worry about it! (I wont say who he is, he's a singer ... (112 words)

We never had a first date, so he's taking me to the fair...what do we talk about?

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10 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've been dating this boy for 3 and a half monthsh, but we never had a proper first date so we decided to have a first date to the fair, but I already know lots about him. What could we talk about? I don't know what to talk about. Help! x... (54 words)