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female
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30-35,
*francisco
writes:about two months ago i meet this guy i really liked him and still do. i was in a bad relationship before i met him and i was still kind of scared. he asked me to be his girlfriends right away and i said yes. we were talking and everything was going good. but then i started calling a lot and texting a lot. he would not answer my calls or anything. so i went into like this panic mood and i called even more till he told me that i was psyco and that he was going to change his number which he did. that hurt so much. but now im a changed person I've learned from my mistakes. i wrote him an e-mail telling him that I've changed and that to call me and he did but private. i told him i would do anything to be back with him. i don't know what to do to show him that I've changed and that he can trust me again. Please help!
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 The other bad relationship you had. Must have been pretty bad. You should get help with that first.
Those extra pounds of heavy pain will be laid out on the table in your new relationships. Don't do it to yourself, don't do it to others.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 April 2011):
 I'm with MishMash on this too. You don't sound changed at all. The only way you can show him you've changed is to stop contacting him. He cut you off because you were acting clingy and to show him how not clingy you are, you're clinging. Since you were only dating 2 months and since you scared him so badly that he changed his phone number, you may have to let this one go and let it be a lesson for next time to give the guy some breathing room. If you leave him alone and he decides that he wants to get in touch, he will. There's nothing you can do now other than to leave him alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): I'm with mishmash on this. if he had to change his number then you did some "damage" to him he will call you if he needs to talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): From the sound of your post, you are STILL in panic mode. I would be skeptical of any email saying "I'm a changed and I would do anything to be back with you." I'm not trying to put you down, but that not only sounds like a scam, but it sounds incredibly desperate.Take a break from him and work on yourself for a while. Don't call him or write him. If he had to go to the trouble of changing his phone number, you broke some pretty important personal boundary. If he wants you, he'll contact you.
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