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My teacher kissed me! I don't know what to do or how to handle this!

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I KNOW ITS KIND OF LONG BUT PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS. Ok well i get along great with my maths teacher. hes funny, easygoing and a great teacher! We always have a laugh in class as well as getting the work done, but one day some of my friends started saying that he fancys me and w... (480 words

I've seen him flirt with other girls but could he actually like me?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - dear everyone i would like your opinion if this guy likes me or not. okay so pretty much the first thing i founf out about him was that he was a flirt. i found this out by my friends. At a dance he danced with 6 girls. i only just met him and we have talked and stuff he told... (181 words

I had an affair. My husband forgave and now that I'm no longer cheating, I can't decide if my husband is "the one." The indecision is killing us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

25 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for almost 16 years now (together since high school). I had an affair for just over a year. We broke up last summer because of it but got back together. I continued to cheat with the same man. My husband recently found out that it was going on again. He ... (176 words

I keep bleeding after sex...should I see a doctor? Or will it eventually stop?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i haven't been having sex for that long and have only had sex around 8 times but every-time including the 1st and the last time Ive had sex Ive bleed afterwards and it can be fairly painfull during and after sex.. should i get this checked out or will it go away after the more ... (63 words

How do I overcome my status as a "divorced" man? It seems women think I'm damaged goods!

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25 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - Okay, so I joined match.com, and I'm a little dispondant. I'm divorced, I was treated badly by my ex who was emotionally and physically abusive to me, and after trying everything I had to leave for my own safety. I have ticked the divorced box, as the only other option is... (228 words

Boyfriend sometimes cries and I'm not sure of the meaning behind it!

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - This may be a dumb question but this is my first relationship and until now I have not had much contact at all with men. Sometimes when me and my boyfriend are making out or having sex his eyes well up as if he's going to cry. I don't know if this means something about ... (238 words

How do you prove your serious in a relationship?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - How do you prove your serious in a relationship?... (9 words

Very stressful life with boyfriend and my special needs daughter! How do I deal with them?

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25 April 2011 (F age - Hi I am having a time with my special needs daughter she is 18 and my boyfriend of 5 1/2 months first of all they both like one another and he does a lot for her and I now he is demanding a very very clean person and set in his ways, my daughter is stubborn can be heart headed ... (271 words

Met a nice girl, but she's sending me mixed signals! We have a great time together and then, she won't pick up my calls. Should I ask her what's going on?

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25 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - A few months ago I met this really nice girl on my course. We got chatting and I asked her if she'd like to go for lunch one day. She agreed and we had a great chat, got to know about each other and she even mentioned that I should go visit her in the summer. So following lunch ... (254 words

So, being in a FWB situation, I'm wondering if these signs mean his commitment-phobia is starting to go away-or am I wasting my time?

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am having a friends with benefits relationship with a man. Before we started sleeping together, I knew he had been burned in relationships before and didn't believe in commitments.... that he only "hangs out" with girls. I got out of a relationship a few months ago and was ... (291 words

My boyfriend texted a gay man saying he had "enough of chics" and I don't know what to do!

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - OMG...I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO... I come across this message my boyfriend had sent april last year. I dont know what to make of it. I know he has never really been into sex with me... like he does it but yeh... I always just thought it was because I needed to lose some weight... (232 words

Ladies, would an effeminate man who had a male roomate at forty and flirted with younger students attract you?

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I asked a q before about a guy who may be gay. He is good lookong, very intelligent and highly educated. He is effeminate but he doesn't dress "gay." However, mamy people who meet him for the first time think he is. His colleagues think he is. However, I believe I've seen ... (216 words

I don't understand why my gf gets mad at me so suddenly/quickly when we love each other!

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - What is the tings that ticks women of emediately.??? What makes women mad at you in a way that they say nothing?? Please tell me a little on how your emotions work. Because I have a girlfriend with which I had an amazing fun night at the movies. Then I asked her when she want... (98 words

One date, I want to buy her a small gift, is it too soon?

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25 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - I recently met a girl and we seem to get along great (common interests, fun to be around, laugh alot) even though we've only been on one date so far. We've talked on the phone quite a bit and texted. We have wanted to get together again real soon but I've been sick with strep ... (178 words

My man spends all his money on his daughter!

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25 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - i feel very depress the reason why is my partner of 4 years have a 34 year daughter and shes married with a baby and my man spends all of his $$$ on his daughter ... (37 words

I check on partner's ex and he broke up with her 10 years ago!

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am obsessed with my partners ex. I just constantly check her facebook page and look at pictures of her and her husband. My partner and her broke up almost 10 years ago! I think I am going mad, can someone please give me some tips to stop!... (52 words

My feelings have went flat toward boyfriend, is this normal?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello all. I think i need some advice..its always the same issues with me but they get better...then come back haha. I've been with my man now for nearing a year and Im 18years old. At the beginning of the relationship there was butterflies and unbelieveable feeling of love and ... (292 words

B/f says he loves me and then runs back to his spouse!

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25 April 2011 (M age - I am in a gay relationship and love the guy I am dating. The problem is he tells me that he loves me and cares for me and wants to spend the rest of his life with he, then he runs back to his cheating ,thefting husband. I love him with all my heart and soul and it hurts me ... (71 words

I always bleed after anal sex

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25 April 2011 (M age - I am a gay male and I have anal sex with my boyfiend and with anal toys. The problem is that if I go to long with out anal sex like maybe 2 days my butt get real tight and then I have anal sex and after the anal sex my anus bleeds a little bit. Is this normal or not.... (61 words

What do use for lubricant?

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25 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - Ok so me and my Gf wanna try anal sex,but we dont have lubricant. She does have vaseline, and Bio Oil (vitamin E skincare tissue oil). Could we use any one of these?... (35 words

Did he just say those things because we were having sex?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months. We are both grown adults. We have discussed love and we both feel that we love eachother, but neither of us ever say "i love you" to eachother (because we are both afraid of heartbreak) last night we were having sex (not the ... (205 words

His mixed signals???

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - This lad says he loves me and wants to be with me. we hold hands and he puts his arm around my waist and then says I dont want a relationship right now. whats going on???... (36 words

Should I play hard to get or just be myself?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - okay so iv been texting this guy for a couple of weeks now, he works with a couple of my friends and iv seen him before, a couple of times, but i have never actually spoke to him face to face. Im worried that if i text too much or come across as overly keen i might scare him ... (128 words

I'm in love with my cousin!!!

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a real problem here , I think I love my cousin, he is totally fit and everything , I think about him all the tome and I don't stop , I remember even actually having a sexual dream about us two having sex and it keeps getting worse and worse and I have no one to talk to ... (98 words

I don't want to risk the friendship, but she might be "the one"

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25 April 2011 (M age 41-50 - I need help and fast. I'll cut to the chase with this one: Boy meets girl, they become great friends and boy soon falls in love with girl. Lots of complications including distance and an age gap but boy goes out of way to make romantic gestures to girl and be there for here a... (189 words

Could shower water wash sperm into me?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend ejaculated on my breasts and stomache, he then wiped it of using tissue. afterwards i took a shower; what im worried about is the shower water washing any remaining sperm into my vagina????(obivously i was standing up in the shower, and didn't touch myself at all,) ... (48 words

Boyfriend has no feelings toward his ex at all, is this normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - My partner says he is over his ex. He has no photos. no mementos, does not speak to her, does not email her, and he has often said (on me asking) that he never thinks about her. Also, when she does come up (I bring her up btw) he is usually negative in his tone but he is not ... (236 words

I can't stop thinking of him inside her, especially as he's bigger than me!

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - So my ex gf and i broke up a few months ago and we both went our separate ways. I only dated a few girls but i never went as far as touching them. Now my ex gf and i started talking again and we are thinking about getting together again. the problem is that we were talking ... (321 words

Suicide dreams... confused as I don't feel this way at all!

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Two questions about dreams that have been laying in the back of my mind for a long time. My first question is about a reacuring dream when I was younger. At the time these began I started to learn about what sexuality was and I realised I had an attraction to guys and t... (318 words

My ex has a new guy and it makes me feel inferior. Why do I feel like a failure?

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25 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend has a new guy. We split up a couple of months ago because she's moving away from university next month and now she has already found someone in her hometown. I don't mind, because she's moving on and that's what I've been trying to do. But since I found out ... (182 words

21 and feel like my life is ruined forever!

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Im only 21 and I feel like everythings ruined and Im going to be alone forever. Ive had boyfriends before and randomly dated guys but Id been with this guy for 2 and a half years and he was the first guy ive fallen in love with and he dumped me a month ago because well he ... (244 words

Everyone is so against our relationship... help!

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I went out with my ex for a year and a half and we had some great times, however looking back we saw way too much of each other and things got stale. during our relationship he lied a few times and was very secretive about things. his mother gave him up to be fostered when he ... (176 words

In denial of what we're meant to feel

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Met this guy, we're at different uni's but live just down the road from each other. We started getting to know each other and fooling around over Christmas when we were back home, went back to uni after agreeing it was just flirtation and amazing sex and that was fine with both ... (136 words

How do I make her feel the way she used to feel about wanting to date?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am 18, and so is my ex girlfriend. We dated for a year, having been friends first for a few months, and split mutually two months ago. The reason we split was because the relationship had become 'complicated'. This was mainly because she went to a party six months ago, got ... (214 words

Why are my stepsisters getting treated better than I am?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Am I right to feel upset? My parents are divorced and my Dad remarried a year ago and suggested I go on holiday with him, his wife her kids and one of her kids boyfriend/fiance (she's only 16!), so there's 6 of them altogether. The plan for the holiday was to stay in a car... (321 words

Help! I'm confused about my sexuality...

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25 April 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi All, First thank you for your time, I greally appreciate it. I am 22 male. I have been facing one issue for which I am seeking assitance herewith. It was okay all till the age 20 and then suddenly I am having different thoughts, likes and confusion about my sexuality... (358 words

How do I french kiss???

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - My bf and i have dated two other times before, so we just pick up from where we left off....He tried to french kiss me but i pulled away. I told him why i did and he said he didnt want to pressure me. But now i rly want to... oh and the reason y i pulled away is cuz i've neve... (72 words

He says he finds me boring during sex! Help!

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - hello... when i have sex with my partner it lasts a good amount of time(anything between 10 mins to an hour.. which i think is OK) i think he gets pleasure from it and so do i but 9 times out of 10 after sex he always makes sarcastic remarks like well your boring why wouldn't ... (130 words

He only wants to kiss or cuddle when he wants sex

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for only 5 months and the only time he wants to kiss or cuddle me is if when he wants sex. each time i say no he plays the guilt trip and says you would if you loved me, i just don't know whats best to do, end the relationship, or discuss my ... (74 words

Advice on living and working in Nova Scotia?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok I know this isnt the place to ask this question but I need some help. I plan on hopefully moving to nova scotia, canada for a years work experience in september....just waiting to hear back to see if i did or didnt get my visa, fingers crossed i did because i would ... (155 words

If I kiss him befor he moves will it make it harder on us??

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is moving to south carilonia thursday 4-28-11 :( i want to know if i kiss him will it make it even harder for me and him when he moves? And also does long distance relationships last long.. Thanks... (42 words

How should I respond to his need for space?

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about my relationship. One of my boyfriend's friends told me that my boyfriend told him that he thinks the world of me, but he feels ashamed because he doesnt have much money. His hours were cut down at work recently. Things were ok up until last week. ... (375 words

Birth control pill supply runs out when I'm aboard, how do I get more pills?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've started the pill, and from my calendar that I am using to find out when I run out of my first three month supply, I am going to run out on the second day of my holiday abroad. How do I get more pills? Do I have to have a check up to get more pills? ... (57 words

Is it ok to ask a married man out for coffee?

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi everybody. First time here. Could use your advice. I am friendly with a married man. Our sons go to karate together. We talk a lot when we see each other twice a week. He always finds me to talk and seems to enjoy my company. I enjoy his company as well. Would it be oka... (91 words

Can't get this boy off my mind, even though I barely know him. Is it possible to truly like someone without knowing them?

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - There's this guy who goes to my school that I really like but barely know. Basically, whenever I'm not in school I miss him so much that it always gets to the point of me crying my eyes out or lashing out at my family. Everything I do makes me think of him and even when I'm out ... (107 words

Why does she want to speak to me, after rejecting me?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi! I'm in love with a girl she is my collage mate. I proposed to her but she rejected me but she spoke to me for two months. This new year she suddenly stopped speaking to me, I asked her the reason but she said "no I don't want to speak to you". I was behind her for 2 weeks ... (171 words

His daughter is ruining our relationship!

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25 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - I been in a relationship for 4 years he's 59 and I'm 41. I have no kids, he has 2 boys and one of his girls is 35 years old and the other 32. The one girl is a pain; she's married to an army guy and has a daughter. Her boyfriend pays her electric bill her water,cellphone,home ... (259 words

He no longer sees her but talks and texts every day...

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I started a relationship in a horrible way. Although I am now separated, I was married and he was in a relationship with a 19 year old (he is 40). He has feelings for her, but knows it would never go anywhere. So after realizing he would lose me if he stayed with her, he broke ... (293 words

My long distance boyfriend dumped me when he got depressed

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am trying my hardest to get on with life right now but Im finding it quite hard. My long distance boyfriend dumped me 2 weeks ago. He got depressed and as a result he didnt care about anything or anyone. Then one day he woke up and realised how far behind he is in school ... (686 words

Bought a sex-toy, but I'm not sure if it is safe to use.

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - So, I have recently purchased a sex toy called "Ring o's" which is a small rubber hoop, which you put on the base of the penis, it is described as "enhancing the lastability and hardness". Now, I tried it out once, and it was pretty tight, so tight that I was afraid it would st... (106 words

My best friend may have herpes, does this mean I could too? How can I help her through this?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - So my best friend just got out of this long relationship. They were together for almost 5 years. He is a good person to be friends with, but not a good boyfriend. He was really mean to her. Anyway, there is this guy that we used to hang out with like 5-6 years ago. He was ... (371 words

I'm really bad at being on top during sex

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - When I am on top having sex I some how keep managing to 'bend' his penis. Not sure exactly what I do to it, it is not a serious injury but it hurts him for a couple of minutes and then he seems okay again. I love being on top usually and he loves me taking control but I do... (83 words

What does it mean to let go of someone you love and if they come back then it is meant to be?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - could someone explain this quote to me? what does it mean to let go of someone you love and if they come back then it is meant to be? would that fit into the categorie of someone leaving you for someone else then coming back to you and telling you that you are the one? Or is t... (115 words

Ideas of what to do once I have tied my boyfriend up?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my guy have been discussing getting a little kinky. He wants me to tie him up and really dominate him whilst he's helpless to resist. I'm excited for trying this but I just need a few ideas of what to do. Once I have him tied up I was going to tease him, kissing, biti... (105 words

Why did my ex message me on a dating website?

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25 April 2011 (F age 51-59 - HI All, Some insights would be welcome please!!I split up with my ex sometime back, but we have still kept contact. I went out with someone new for around 7 weeks, and did not contact my ex, then called him up to see how he was after I ended it with the other guy. he would not ... (271 words

Why does my ex boyfriend brag about his new girlfriend to me?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My ex texted me out of the blue about 3 days ago. He said hey what are you doing i just wanted to see how you were doing and then i didnt text back and an hour later he said i love you. and then i didnt text back to that. 3 days later he texted me again and said i heard you... (434 words

How can I move on in a respectful way?

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've always defended my other half, when friends and family have always told me I could do so much better. I've been with a man who drinks too much but won't get help, who has let me down many times over the year and and really I know, underneath that I am worth so much more. ... (207 words

How do you french kiss?

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - This may sound stupid but I really need help on this. My BF and I have dated 2 other times before. He has tried to fench kiss me both times and I have pulled away every time. Now we are dating again and he has tried it again. I told him not yet but the real reason why is cuz i... (74 words

We had our first big fight...over his friendship with another girl

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now and had our first big fight the other night. We've been having a few communication problems in the past few weeks and we both knew that the argument was coming. It was about this girl that he's friends wit... (328 words

My boyfriend is ignoring me and it's driving me crazy!

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - so heres the thing. my bf he keep ignore me lately. and i dont know whats happened i sent him so much sms and call him so many time. he always act like never seen it and dont reply me then im so mad,i saw him with his friends go clubbing. and he saw that i saw him. but st... (316 words

I'm not buying my boyfriend's strange behavior and excuses, but should I just let it go for awhile?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm having a problem and I'm not sure what to do at all so any advice or thoughts will be greatly appreciated. So my fiancee whom iv been with for five years and that I live with did something very suspicious tonight. Before I begin just to set the record ... (438 words

I should accept that he is never going to come back to me...but I miss him.

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need help getting over my ex boyfriend. Im the one who posted the question about my boyfriend getting depressed and dumping me because he's to lazy for love and relationships and doesnt want them anymore. Last night I had a little argument/discuss... (306 words

I'm so desperate that I scare men away...how do I stop being like this?

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25 April 2011 (F - I hate my life. Im single, Im 27 and a mum of a 1 year old. I have a good job, a good family and good friends. However, I want to find the right guy and settle down. Im so desperate now that I get obsessed with any guy that shows me attention and then I stalk them or chas... (193 words

Old boyfriend perfect...new boy...exciting

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone okay heres the deal ive been with this guy for three years.. and i love him i think. but i met this guy not long ago and he seems nice and he flirts with me and i have to admit i flirt with him. hes exciting and new but i feel bad about being flirty with him ... (111 words

He changed after seven years...

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - My fiance suddenly changed and develop cool feet for our relationship. Please i need help on how to win back his love and at the same behave as if i dn't luv him anymore only to make him jealouse and even love me more. Pls help... (46 words

I am living with a married man and pregnant with his child...but he is still hiding me from his wife and family!

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've been living with a married man for more than a year and now i am pregnant and about to gave birth on May. Although we are living together,he did not yet end up his relationship with his wife who has an 8 years old daughter with him. He admitted that he still love his ... (493 words

I'm in crush with my parish priest!

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm in crush with my parish priest.I like to be with him. For him, i was in the church for the whole day as my house was near to the church. when i've not seen him for one day also i feel very depressed and sad. Even i know that he is a priest i can't get out of my love.He is ... (80 words

How do you know if people are hurting on the inside?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is it true someone who can look so happy and confident be feeling depressed or lonely inside? I wondered this because i was watching this film that showed a girl who was beautiful, fun loving had great friends and family.... But when she would write in her diary she would write ... (169 words

I can't make her cum with fingers or oral, and I've got no rubber for sex...how do I find her G-spot?

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25 April 2011 (M age 26-29 - i can't seem to make my gf cum by my fingers... she doesn't let me touch her clitoris cuz she says it is too sensitive..we can't do oral either cuz she isnt comfortable yet and we have no rubber for sex.. any tips other then the g-spot because i can't find that either... (53 words

My friend is in love with her uncle

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I write on behalf of my friend who needs serious help from you all. She just told me yesterday to help her, that she has been diagnosed with chronic ulcer and depression due to the fact that she has been in love with her uncle that lives with them she knows it's ins... (138 words

Should I feel guilty for loving him but getting over him?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need to get over a guy and stop feeling guilty. When I was almost 15 pretty much my bestfriend who was 20 asked me out. I was stupid and naïve and said yes. Things progressed out in our relationship and when I was almost 16 I ran away to live with him because I was scared of ... (191 words

I've got 2 girls and 3 problems

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25 April 2011 (M age 26-29 - So i am a freshman in high school and there are two girls i really like. One has been my friend since like 2nd grade. The other since 7th or 8th grade. I hang out with both, and text them both regularly. I have three problems with this. First i don't know which one i like mor... (90 words

Will my gums heal? Is my smile ruined?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Today, while playing with my dog, she accidentally jumped up and her tooth hit my top gumline, just above my two front teeth. It started to bleed like crazy, but now it has stopped, and I have a wound just above my teeth. I'm worried that my smile is now ruined forever, and I ... (81 words

My boyfriend's buddies now give me the cold shoulder since I made him stop hanging around with his ex!

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. Things were going very smoothly until two months ago. I told him how uncomfortable I was with his friendship with his ex from college(who happens to be the center of his social universe). This woman was calling him nonstop even ... (386 words

Was that phone sex?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay soo....I have no idea what happened with my boyfriend and I, but I think we may have had phone sex. We are very spiritual and we feel spiritually connected to each other. I was lying in bed and he was in his car, and we were on the phone very early in the morning, lik... (165 words

Should I carry on or back off?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - There is a friend of mine. he has been my friend since 3-4 years. we know almost everything about each other. he was flirtatious. some time back i had some problems with my ex boyfriend. so my friend told me that he loves me since one year and wanted to contact me but ... (199 words

I'm bi, but I am still nervous about dating girls! What can I do?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm attracted to guys and girls. I consider myself bisexual. I wanna be with both I have no problem with having sexual relations with a guy because I know my penis can become erected. But is different with a girl because I'm scared to get a girlfriend because there may com... (182 words

Is it worth it to keep up this long distance relationship?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've met this guy online about 5 months ago and he was very sweet and caring. He's a couple years older than me and although we've never met he tells me he has very strong feelings for me. He lives in New York though and i live in Arizona. Its very far away from each other. In ... (224 words

Should I get together with this guy who's separated from his wife and has a kid?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - Alright.. I'm not sure what I should do... I like this guy, he likes me. He's separated from his wife and they're getting a divorce, he has a kid. I don't know if I should let the relationship happen. I know him through a cousin I'm close to. She's really protective of me and ... (80 words

Can I win my ex back after he said we're over and he no longer loves me?

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i am confused. My ex and I started a long distance relationship 10 months ago and we only meet each other every 1 or 2 months. we never know each other before that, hence we skipped the friendship part and got into relationship very quickly as we fall in love with ... (646 words

I don't get turned on by "hot" guys and my heart never pounded with my ex-bf. Could this mean I am gay?

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - I am really confused with the way i like people. My friends they see these guys that are tall dark and muscular and they pounce on them like a cat. I on the other hand do not find those types of guys attractive. Ive always thought it was weird. I would find the tall sup... (288 words

Why is my bf always talking to my friends about me?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is very controlling,and right now he is mad at me because I wouldn't let him come over one night because I was busy and had alot of homework.He kept demanding to come over and I said tomorrow we will hang out. Well then he contacted my best friend on facebook who ... (266 words

Boyfriend says he doesn't feel anything for the first couple of minutes of sex anymore. I'm not enough!

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of five years have recently started having problems. We both enjoy sex and usually have it once every day or two. A couple months ago he started this thing where I'll be touching him and going down on him but he is surfing the internet on his laptop at th... (227 words

If am straight, then why am I fantasizing about girls?

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - So, I've always known im straight. Ive had boyfriends and im sexually active. I know I want to be with a man but lately girls are becoming sexually attractive to me. Like i dont want to be in a relationship with a women but i'm wondering what it would be like to be with ... (72 words

When does a girlfiend or boyfriend become a priority?

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for a little over 4 months now. We both work full time jobs and I go to school full time and he's always doing something that takes up a bulk of his free time too. We see each other maybe 2-3 times a week for a few hours at a time. The honeymoon ... (345 words

Found out bf belongs to 3 different Internet sex sites. How should I handle this?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have recently discovered that my boyfriend is joined to two or three different internet sex sites where he can search for women in the same area as him to meet up and have sex with them :/ I don't know if he has ever actually used it or met up with anyone, but if he hasn't ... (211 words

Is what I have with this boy real love?

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25 April 2011 (F age 26-29 - There's a guy i think i really truly love. We've dated before but broke up. When we broke up a few days later he talked to me. He said that I've been on his mind since that day. Just 3 days ago he made an attempt to kiss me. Soon after i put a status saying 'people are in ... (108 words

My family has moved many times. Is it normal to not have many lifelong friends when this happens?

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ever since i was a young lass my family has moved around a lot. Therefore I don't have any lifelong friendships with anyone outside my family. I'm 24 now and have been settled in the same city for the last 7 years. I made what I thought were going to be those lifelong frie... (136 words

She's a vast improvement to my last GF. Am I being paranoid? Worrying that she'll become like my last Gf?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello all, and thank you for reading this in advance. I feel like a rather foolish boyfriend. You see, 2 months ago I ended a rather horrible relationship. My girlfriend treated me like garbage. She put me off for her friends, ignored me, and would forget about talking to me n... (177 words

I have doubts about my boy friend. He hasn't told his other girl friend about me. I love him.

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - i'm 20 years old . i need help, because my boy friend told me that he hasn't told the mother of his child about our relationship. He says if she found out about us she would expect him to pay child support to her. i think he still with the girl he fathered the baby with... (106 words

Five months and we are bickering and he says I don't 'know' him. How do I learn to know him better?

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and he feels like I don't know him. About a week ago I tried to give him a nice chain but he rejected it handed it back to me, and that hurt my feelings a lot. I would have thought that it should not matter if he likes jewe... (196 words

Is she a 'keeper' as a friend or is she likely to cause me pain in the future?

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I befriended, someone i went to school with through facebook. We soon became close friends, until we both got are wires crossed and lost contact. We sorted out the misunderstanding and rekindled are friendship. Although since we got back in contact, i felt like she hasn't, quit... (469 words

All I want is a nice decent guy ...

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am almost 37 and a divorcee, no matter how much I try, I cant get a stable relationship. I want to have a guy in my life but all that I come upon either wants a night out or my saving out (if any!). I dont seem to come upon a guy who has feelings for me genuinely... Any tips ... (66 words

How will my Bf react if I tell him I want a threesome, with us and his twin brother?

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25 April 2011 (F age 36-40 - I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and his twin brother. I'm so in love with my boyfriend, we have been in a relationship for 6 years and just a few months ago his brother came from italy and he was totally different, i want him but just for sex. Also i have to tell... (129 words

Do I come out to him? I haven't confirmed if he's in the closet yet. I don't want to lose contact with him.

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - If you have read my other posts you know my story, but to sum it up I am a 17 year old bisexual male. This guy and I have been friends for a while and have been growing closer together and are on the verge of starting some kind of relationship. My problem is currently that I d... (214 words

My 'always tired' boyfriend looks at porn all day while I work. Is it time to leave him?

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together four years in May...now i'm starting to feel like i should leave him, because we hardly ever have sex i love him more than anything but i'm starting to get irratated at him.. he's always like i'm tired...he looks at porn when i'm at work.... (57 words

Will a married man cheat if he is truly happy?

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25 April 2011 (F age 41-50 - Will a married man cheat if he is truly happy at home. As cheating I mean carrying on a emotional and physical relationship for over acyears?... (26 words

Is my mom finally accepting that I'm gay?

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Is my mum starting to except that I'm gay after a year and a half? We didn't get along for a long time and suddenly like a switch she has changed back to her normal self, we don't argue as much and now she has started to warn me about sex... A bit creepy but I think it's a s... (117 words

How do I convince him I'm good in bed? He doesn't realise that I'm a virgin.

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25 April 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I'm a virgin but I want to sleep with this guy who doesn't think im a virgin and will never know I'm a virgin as then he'll think I lied to him. Anyway, he's slept with lots of girls so is is experienced and I want him to think that I'm good in bed but is that impossible if ... (93 words

With FRIENDS like these.....

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25 April 2011 (M age 30-35 - Well. This is a real boll of uter most anger. HAHA"sarcastic laugh" What would you do if your SO CALLED FRIENDS... made a bet on you , behind your back , that you are gone be in a huge accident because you got a new car this month. ?????"angry" Don't friends support each oth... (97 words

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