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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I give him the card I wrote telling him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, there is this guy who has told that he has feelings for me in the past. the problem is that we don't talk to each other very often because it is kind of complicated. we don't talk to each other on a regular basis and we don't go out on dates at the moment. I really care ... (173 words)

He's asked me to send pictures of my breasts over the phone...If I do it, will he think I'm slutty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and have been on and on involved with a married man/friend on and off. He is now asking me to text him pictures of my breasts with a bra on and without. I trust him completely, but not sure if I should send them or not. We have never seen each other naked yet. ... (116 words)

Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get short, blunt answers...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get blunt answers. Before the last few days I was getting really lovely texts and phonecalls from her, as if she was really eager to hear from me and was really chatty. But it doesn't feel like this anymore. We live abo... (307 words)

My boyfriend is angry and moody all the time...I am no longer attracted to him sexually and considering leaving...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just need some helpful advice. I am in a relationship which is about 2 and a half years old. In the beginning things were fantastic, i had met the love of my life, the man i had always dreamt of. We moved in together, which went very well for some time, before little thi... (452 words)

My dream man still lives with his ex and it's destroying our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy have been dating for nine months now and he's a great catch. He ticks all the boxes and fullfills practically everything I ever wanted in my 'dream man,' but never really believed existed. And to top it off, when he came into my life he practically fell out of ... (441 words)

The more he hurts me the more I want to cheat on him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm back with more relationship drama, i'm 18, i shouldn't be dealing with this, but anyway the last time i was on here it was about my best friend and i and our break up. call me crazy or stupid i probably am for this but i'm back with him but we're not engaged, ... (152 words)

Is it me or what's the deal with this guy???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this guy online a couple of months back, first we just exchanged emails then we started texting and then we talked on the phone a couple of times. I think he seems nice but something inside me tells me to be cautious and wait and see( I'm not overly excited about hi... (262 words)

Is it right to bring a baby into the world when the father is a herion addict?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've just found out I'm pregnant with my first baby The baby wasn't planned but my husband and I have been married for two years and I have openly wanted kids.... anyway... there's one small problem... my husband is a heroin addict... it all happened when he nearly worked... (148 words)

My boyfriends wants to have sex with another girl!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend, well hes a good guy over all but he has said and done some stupid s***, first of all he does say Im pretty and he loves me and he takes me out but then... he has this friend that he told me with these exact words "I want to f*** her, god knows I want to f*** her" ... (243 words)

I need to understand this guy's behaviour! Any advice appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to understand this guy's behaviour. He is a lot older than me. Lets call him jacob. There are times when he is so warm and friendly towards me. He stares at me and treats me differently to everyone else like I'm the only one he sees. Then other times, suddenly and ... (136 words)

Help me with my obsession!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

- Please help me. I am totally obsessed with this guy. I met him a few months back, we hooked up and a great time but he works far away so we couldnt have a relationship or anything. We have kept in touch on facebook and by phone a few times and hes coming to see me for the ... (207 words)

Crazy dream of being pregnant! What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this really in-depth dream last night that I was pregnant. Everything felt soo real it was scary and I cant stop thinking about it. A few times throughout the dream I remember putting my hands on my belly and feeling the movement of the baby inside. In my dream I didn't... (75 words)

Overly long labia???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay im 14 and my labia is really long and i absolutly hate it! i cant bare to even look at it.. i swear its not normal for them to be this long? and im too scared to ever show it to anyone which will affect my sex life when im older.. someone please help.... (55 words)

I don't know how to gain my parents trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to gain my parents trust. A month ago, my boyfriend and I were making out in his room. And his parents caught us. So they over exaggerated it to my parents, and they think we were having sex. Its been a month, and his parents demand that I need permission ... (187 words)

Should I ask her out and if so how do I go about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, quite a problem in my eyes anyway. I am gunna ask out this girl on the last day of term. However I am scared about what friends are gunna say. I know if this was her asking about me feeling like this, then you guys would say leave him but I really don't know what to ... (76 words)

Why is Hardcore Porn so popular and why do people defend it so fiercely?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 814 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men get off on watching women being so obviously humiliated and abused in hardcore porn? For whatever reason the women are made to look as if they are being violated and taken violently for pleasure purposes of those watching.... I just read about a woman on here wh... (159 words)

"Relationship crossroads:Approach of College"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright This is going to be a bit of a long post, this is a big deal for me so try to bear with me through it. In September I started seeing a wonderful girl in the grade below me (shes a junior/I a senior), but of the same age as me (17, I'm very young for a senior, an ear... (983 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to ask his friend to join us in our threesome?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has brought up the idea of a three some i am down with it i ask my friend and she is down with it why wont my boyfriend ask his friend to join us in a three some and how can i get him to ask him ... (51 words)

There is no reason for my children to have these problems. Where can I go that someone will understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) age - I feel so alone with my problems. I feel there is no one else on the world who is going thru the same tragedy as me, or in the same way. I have tried to get help before from counselors and support groups, but i felt very misunderstood, and that they don't get it. Also in s... (298 words)

His parents won't accept the union and I am heartbroken. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm madly in love with this guy, but we can't marry because our parents wont accept the union, it's more his parents. He's not even allowed to have female friends, if they found out about me, they'd disown him. We've broken up lots of times but end up getting together somehow.... (161 words)

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortunately with a twist. We hit it... (230 words)

How do I ask, "Are we in a relationship?" without him feeling pressured.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i ask him if we are in a relationship without him feeling i am pressuring him. I have been dating this guy for a month now and we get on really well. we text everyday but sometimes when he feels awkward he will ignore me for days. we met up the other day and spoke lo... (166 words)

Girlfriends are spreading rumors that I am a lesbian. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so hi everybody I'm back with yet another problem .. All my life I've been very weary of boys because of a bad past which I would not like to go into. This has obviously taken it's toll on my social life. I have a close group of 4 friends who I love loads and have a... (318 words)

Any men like being adult breast fed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey men, just wondering if you have ever been adult breast fed by your partner. If so, do you like the taste of the milk? What is your best description of the taste, and which do you enjoy more, the feel of the nipple on your mouth, or the taste of the milk?... (53 words)

Is he talking of marriage just because I am planning to leave?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont think he will be moving on too for his Msc. I think he will settle for a job in Mauritius. Besides he changes ideas quite quickly. i wonder if the fact that am going is making him say all the sweet words and plans of marriage...thanks for answering me:) it helps me ... (62 words)

Should I take this friendship to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who i have been spending time with recently, quite a lot of time actually but always in the company of friends. We also text very frequently. i have known him for years and i have started to like him a lot, we seem to get on very well in each others company ... (105 words)

Should I tell him when he give me butterflies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering, do guys want to know when they are turning you on? Only because my boyfriend sometimes does this thing when he starts drawing on the back of my hand with his finger and then he sometimes runs his hand gently down my arm and it really turns me on but I ... (107 words)

I'm confused and need help. I have a great BF, but I really like the "player" I've been texting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I have an amazing boyfriend, that I really like, and have liked him for years. It feels so right to go out with him. But there is one problem. I've been texting this other guy. I really like him too. He makes me feel so special and loved, he kind of treats me bett... (223 words)

At my age are there any legal or moral grounds where your parents can forbid you to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Are there any justifiable legal or moral grounds on which your parents can forbid you to date at the age of 19? I mean, if you still live with them but never bring your boyfriend home (so nothing happens under their roof) and you're sensible otherwise, once you're an adult in ... (71 words)

My life is upside down and my parents don't treat me fairly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 years old male in south Africa. my problem is my parents treat me less important that my other two brothers, they don't want to accept my girlfriend and they say I'm taking drugs. I'm also repeating grade 11 and they keep saying I'm going to fail until i grow a ... (93 words)

"Is she crazy, or am I? OR both?"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend (ily) broke up with me last week because I finally leveled with her about sexual relationships I had when she and I weren’t together. One of which occurred before ily and I had ever met. When we first began dating she heard I had a fling with a less than desirable ... (412 words)

Do I have anxiety disorder ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone i had some physical problem so my family doctor prescribed me the urine and blood test which also included the HIV test. Although the reports are negative but i am deeply worried whether the lady in the pathology changed the syringe while taking my blood sample. ... (236 words)

I'm confused and wonder if she is using me until she finds someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a girl on a dating site 8 weeks ago. We only see each other every weekend, I stay at hers, cause we live over an hour away from each other. Every thing seemed brilliant until today when she let me take away her laptop to fix. I found she had gone onto the dating site ... (215 words)

My girfriend may be dying, why don't I care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im really stuck here. My girlfriend was recently diagnosed with viral encephalitis which is irritation and swelling of the brain. She had it before and nearly died from it but recovered. I have felt that the relationship has been over for a while for me. She cheated on m... (245 words)

What is the chance of getting pregnant from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What if a condom is used during sex, and then the guy removes it and cums on you. A few drops fall near the vagina but its wiped dry immediately. What's the chance of getting pregnant??... (36 words)

Dating two men, one of whom is married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating two men at a time, the more caring one is a maried man nd d other one is stil single and has promised to marry me. I love them equaly. What shoud i do now?... (37 words)

Her excuse for sleeping with my brother is that she thought it was me! Should I believe her?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A few days ago my twin brother and I had our birthday party at our apartment. Our girlfriends were at the party with a few friends. We had quite a bit of different kind of liquor. Then I guess I passed out. In the morning, my brother's girlfriend loud voice woke me up. She had ... (219 words)

My son will only get financial help for college if I remain umarried for 2 years, but when my fiance found out he took the ring back and demands I marry him next year and leave my son alone in my house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age - dear cupid , hope someone can help me. i was planing on marrying this july. well my son got full fiancial aid for college books . everything . well i cant marry for 2 years now, they go by your income. i asked my guy to wait and he got mad. took the ring back. i love him but ... (184 words)

She is always sick, is she the right person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - She is always sick of malaria and worms. I have spent lots of money on her treatment since I got her. She has tested for other diseases like HIV but we are all negative. Will she be the right person for me?... (42 words)

Am I just being crazy or are my feelings somewhat valid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I've been in a LDR with my bf for a little over a year now. I go to school away from home and have my own place, which makes it easier for him to come and visit as he has a place to stay with me. Now I'm faced with the decision of going to a school closer to home a... (374 words)

Did my dad over-react? And should I go all the way with my boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my bf are both 15 and in love and about a month ago my parents left and he came over. we were making-out then i gave him a bj, (we still had our clothes on, his pants were unzipped). then my dad walked in grabbed him by his neck and started yelling. now he wont let me ... (102 words)

What made this happen? And is there a way to stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, okayy...brace yourself. this is kind of a weird question. buuut it's been bugging me, and i really don't know of anybody that can give me any answers about it, soo...well, you get the idea. hopefully, some other girl on here can help me out a little bit. lol.... (202 words)

Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my fiancee got really drunk. Later that night he called me another woman's name right before we passed out. He called me a mutual friends name, who was his roommate for a year and like a sister to him, nothing happened between them ever. It was weird, and a bit ... (58 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating and I'm not! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for six months so far. And recently my sister and her boyfriend broke up. And he hits her and first time in front of me. I stuck up for him telling him my sister deserves better than him. Her boyfriend got mad at me, called me a ... (133 words)

When I move away for university we will be long distance, and it will last for 6 years! How do we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. I am 20 and my boyfriend 23. we have been dating sice i was 16 but take several pauses off. but last year when i entered university, we again became close to each other dated for about a year. then litle problems crop up like he leave me unattended yet saying he loves me... (303 words)

I'm jealous of all my friends who have relationships! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there... I'm 21 years of age.i wanna tell you my problem here we go... I don't have any relationship and contact ever in my life time, even i didn't kiss lip, this makes me anxious and strange. where comes these problem? I don't know... When i see my friends love ... (66 words)

I had to break up with my boyfriend because of my family, now I don't know what to do......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, well i'm 16 and im going uni next year and i have been with my now ex boyfriend for about 6 months, we were getting on perfectly together, we was happy. there was hardly any problems and when there was we sorted everything out and everything else was just perfect. ... (578 words)

Why don't I think about my girlfriend when masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age - Here's my story. I have this great woman who I love so much. I would feel dead inside without her, that's how much I love her. BUT, why can't I fantasize about her when I masterbate? I think about younger girls and their cute small breasts or past gf's and their great body ... (161 words)

Opinions on the letter I am going to send to my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I wanted peoples input on my letter im going to handwrite and give to my ex in an envelope. I said some terrible things to my ex after she dumped me and i need to get them off my chest. I just wanted to make things clear since I do owe you this I’m sorry for what I’ve done. ... (334 words)

I'm not cut out for FWB relationships, can I get my new guy to change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've never done this before, but I just have a question. I've recently "split up" with my fuck buddy, and it broke my heart, because I started being in love with him, and as soon as I told him, he started withdrawing and not returning my calls, until I had to break up ... (218 words)

Why has he stopped mastubating over me and thinks about girls we know instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend told me he masturbates over me and porn which i was fine with, but yesterday he came out with the fact he doesn't masturbate over me anymore he does it over other girls we know and porn. This really upset me, why would he do it over girls we both know and are our ... (82 words)

She knows I like her and because of this she stays away from me, how do I get her attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i really really like this girl who knows that i like her....and bcoz of this, she doesnt really interact with me much....we were kind of friends before...she talks to my friends much more than me and that makes me feel sidelined. I dont like it...when one of my friends asked... (192 words)

How do you have sex via webcam?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hello i need help if you can help me ... i have my girlfriend .. we have long time together but only through the internet ...and we never spoke about sex never happen that ... today she asked me to come tonight on the internet and she want to do with me sex but me i don't ... (85 words)

Is it normal to act crazily for love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am always a man who fall deep in love, and once I get somebody I love I feel like running crazy for the person. I do all sorts of things in my capacity to make my partner happy. I can call her 10 times a day just to tell her I miss her and hear her voice. I have realised ... (144 words)

I can't initiate sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I joined this place after googling 'sex makes me feel guilty' and an answer from here came up. The question I read though was vague and although there were good answers they weren't foe me...so I'll say a bit more I am a female and I have a female partner. I class myself a... (373 words)

Would a guy who is not interested in a girl behave this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just wanna get some opinions on this. Will a guy who's not interested in a girl romantically bother pouring sauce in her dish, opening doors etc? i mean opening doors is fine but are pouring sauce and taking food also considered gentlemanly acts? Also, how d... (76 words)

My boyfriend wont talk to me about his feelings or worries any more.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for Four years and we live together, but he no longer talks to me about his feelings, worries etc anymore. When we first got together we would talk about anything and everything (We've both had quite turbulent up bringings and although neither... (255 words)

My 8 year old daughter is telling people she has a brother when she is an only child, how do I deal with this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just got back from having a chat with my daughters teacher.My daughter is 8yrs old.The teacher had mentioned about my daughter being tierd one particular day.She had told her teacher that her young brother had kept her awake most the night. I was taken back by this as ... (197 words)

Advice on helping my boyfriend maintain his erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - My bf has trouble maintaining an erection when we're having sex, and I'd like some advice on how to help him. He says the problem is that he starts worrying that he's not pleasing me, and that makes him loose his erection. We've been together 7 months and everything else in ... (149 words)

Why would a guy not be hard or be able to be hard if he never came?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend where having sex this morning and while we where having sex I started to notices the feelings was going away then we thought maybe its the condom. so he took it off and cleaned up did not even try to continue he never came either. I asked him if he would try ... (147 words)

I am too attached to my lover, but I want to lead a normal life with my husband now he wants a baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am 27/ f/ married for 5 years. I have been involved with lots of guys in my life physically and this continued even after marriage as my husband is not a interested in sex, its been almost 3 years we made love, he is fine with it as he is not interesed but i manage with ... (161 words)

Pregnant by an ex lover when I was supposed to be working on my marriage with my husband....what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well please dont judge me, I made an horrible bad decision, and im hurting trendmendously. Separated from husband over an year ago. Had sex with and ex lover and now Im pregnant. Husband and I were suppose to be working on us and I sliped up bad, It's killing me inside to know ... (138 words)

How do you shrug off worries that your ex may have bad-mouthed you to people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone ever worried that your ex will talk sh*t about you? Like exaggerate things about you so that you sound worse than you actually are. Like, I guess I was a little clingy when my ex broke up with me, like I tried to stay in contact even though he was trying to cut me ... (117 words)

How do I tell my son this man wont be his dad anymore, without him thinking I have a problem with men?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i met a wonderful man 3 years ago and we had a wonderful relationship, we had agreed to start marriage proceedings in december 2010,i n the african setting this is done by first seeking parents approval, they all knew him, i must say i didn't know his key family members, ... (168 words)

Should I ask him to break up with her or should I save myself the heartache and just walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Met this guy over the summer. We clicked right away, but he has a long distance girlfriend. We start hanging out socially but he always flirts with me. I always remind him he has a girlfriend, but he is extremely persistent. Unfortunately Im completely head over heels so ... (628 words)

Weird dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i keep having weird dreams.. i constantly dream of a goat with brown eyes,a womans upper body and a mans lower body and its always asking me about my relationship and when ever i try to look into its eyes it feels like my heart is stopping it hurt alot . all this didn't... (102 words)

I think girls are running away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my gf last year.i didn't want but it happened. I'm alone and it's very hard to bear.I'm going to be crazy. last month i suggested friendship to a girl but she rejected. i tried to contact with my ex gf but she is friend with another one. i think girls are ... (81 words)

I told him I wanted to give it a go but he would not leave his girlfriend. Now he is acting all jealous when I am with another guy! What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i am really confused at the minute and im hoping for a little advice. I have been friends with this guy for a number of years now but in the past two or three we have gotten a lot closer. I have liked him as more than a friend for even longer but the timing has never been ... (392 words)

I want my boyfriend to be loving and caring like he used to be, rather than ignoring me for days on end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im really worried for my relation i love that guy like hell . we have been together for almost 6 years we love each other in the begining we were so loving and close but the day he joind the school for higher studies he is changed going away he's more happy with friends and tv ... (176 words)

He has not had a job in the 9 years we have been together! Will he ever change?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together 9 years, he never had a job in 9 years, only 2 times he had a job for like a month each job.. I m a dancer so more money is not necesary to live well, but it is necesary because all he cares about is to play xbox and to watch tv, i used to ... (261 words)

She gave back the necklace I gave her - does she hate me?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl for a long time and just be friend now. so we are friends for only 2 month. we like to message each other. one day she said that she want a present but only for a joke. i give her a necklace and she said its too fancy or expensive. so she gave me back. does she ... (72 words)

He thinks I would make a "great wife", what does this mean?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. we're both 26. The other day we were talking about how people in my middle eastern culture are always in search of a mate. He said that he bets that I would have a lot of offers (for marriage), I said I wasn't interested in ... (174 words)

Girlfriend cheated on me and I can't get over it

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend cheated on me months back and I can't seem to get over it. We were living together and things had started getting really rocky. We were fighting bitterly all day every day. I felt her distance herself from me, and rather than give up and distance myself,... (709 words)

Girl I'm interested in has been avoiding me since we had lunch? Is she not interested anymore?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl in one of my college classes, and ended up having a big crush on her after a few days. For a while I thought she was sending me interesting signals (i.e. jumping in on my conversations with the professor, laughing at every joke I made, smiling when I talked to ... (488 words)

Should I stop seeing boyfriend or friend?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - 40 F he is 45. Friends and later date for 18 months. Sex monotonous, he only wants to be 1 initiating. I also sex 35 yr guy who is a family friend=FWB for a yr. Sex with fwb is gr8 and fulfilling, bt he is in a steady live-in-love. 2gether we click, avoid each other and bounce ... (102 words)

My girlfriend doesn't believe in long distance relationships, what should I do?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - These days we discussed a lot about our relationship but I couldn't make her understand that I'm trying to change, trying to be the man she's been waiting for. The problem is she doesn't believe in long distance relationship, she told me she needs a boyfriend who can be beside ... (475 words)

Do girls mind if you have yellow teeth?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - ok I really really really really love this girl 1 month older than me in school. and I have yellow teeth but I brush them everyday 2 times a day. :(. what do most girls do? : care bout what people look like. or. think about how funny and stuff they are? need help. and ... (73 words)

He really likes me and doesn't want to lose me, but now his ex is back in the picture. What should I do?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i met this guy im seeing a week ago.. yeah we havent known each other long at all, but we had instant chemistry.. he has been coming to my house every morning when he gets off work and he crawls in my bed and holds me, its like we have known each other for years, i have ... (267 words)

How do I make my husband believe I wont leave him?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I got legally married 6 months ago. My parents nor my husband's parents are aware of the wedding. Since we belong to different communities it took some time to get my husband's family to accept me. Now a social wedding is being planned for the month of June. However his parents ... (303 words)

We can't see each other because her grandmother is strict

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i got a girlfriend that loves me and i love her back but we cant see each other or be together because the grandma is strict. but i still wanna make it work what should i do ... (39 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to listen to me?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi every one, please could you give me some advice? My boyfriend and i have been together over three years and i love him very much. He has suffered from depression in the past and over the years has left me several times onlx to realise and come back. More recently we had an ... (312 words)

My friends' relationship problem which I don't want to answer.

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Its about my best friend and me.I am noticing a strong feeling of irritability is developing between us, from my end.She has been my friend since 5 years and we share same sort of thoughts.The problem is she some times lies about herself to create a fake ideology, I know one or ... (535 words)

How Can I Make Something Positive Again

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - In the past year or so I have come out of a period of severe depression and health issues. I moved to a city where I know few people, and due to the nature of my work (odd hours, and working alone) I get few opportunities to meet anyone at all. I'm mid-thirties, and though I've ... (677 words)

Now I have a boyfriend, my ex FWB tells me he's jealous?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had a fwb type situation going on with this guy for about 3 years now. Not going to lie, I felt deeply for him and probably always will, and despite him wanting to keep things very casual I know that he felt something for me too. I started seeing another guy pretty ... (289 words)

He can't understand I only want to be friends with him what should I do?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am currently dating someone and I cold be happier I'm crazy about him but I still have a guy friend of mine still pawing at me I tried telling him and sending hints but still as soon as i starting seeing mt boyfriend he's been asking me how long do I think we'll ... (159 words)

I think I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i think i'm in an emotionally abusive relationship, although i'm not quite sure. some of the signs i read online just aren't quite suiting, although i just feel something has to be very, very wrong. i've been cheated on and found out, and she begged for forgiveness. and... (455 words)

What are your views on Cuddle Buddies? (Kiss, snuggle, cuddle, make out, no sex, no emotional feelings). Does it work?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know what your views are on cuddle buddies. Cuddle buddy is similar with friends with benefits but without the sex. Cuddle buddies do kiss, snuggle, cuddle, make out and many more. However, the feeling of love is just a detachment. There will be no emotional fee... (95 words)

3 months after the baby is born and we still haven't had sex

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about two years we just had a baby. we didnt have sex for almost six months befor he was born. it has been three months since he has been born and he still has no desire to have sex with me unless he is drunk. we live together and i know he ... (87 words)

Boyfriends best friend- its ME or HIM!!!!

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My name is jess and im 18. My boyfriend is 17 lets call him brenton. So currently we have been dating for about 8 months. We dated in highschool but he dumped me. We were always friends though. Now brentons got this friend called..... Pete. Whom i used to b... (278 words)

He broke up with me and I don't even know why

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So its been a month that my exboyfriend broke up with me and im still having the hardest time to get over him. We dated for a 1year nd 2months. So for me its so hard to let go of wat we went through. I already tried talkn to him. I sed i was sorry nd if he could give me a ... (173 words)

Does he wife really know or does he just want out?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am just wondering what people think because I can't figure this out. First of all, I know to many you are going to judge me and tell me it doesn't matter because I involved myself with a married man, but I do know it was wrong, I just want help in figuring out how it ended. ... (304 words)

Husband cant satisfy me because of premature ejaculation.... perhaps I need to have my physical needs met elsewhere?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband very much. We did not have a lot of sex before we married, so it wasn't until after our wedding that I confirmed that he has premature ejaculation. This has effected every single time we have had sex for the past two years, without exception. Neither of us ... (283 words)

Elopement right for me?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been datikng for 11 months we worked with each other for a year. We both got out of bad 4 year relationships and our first night together (although it was the most amazing night of my life) we agreed to not be in a realtionship. 2 weeks later he ... (291 words)

I love her but she's been with alot of people

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi fellow peers of cupid, this is dimario, Ive been stuck in this situation of good and evil emotions. how do you react if the person that your with has been "with" physically allot of people before you? my significant other the one i love with my heart and soul, my Armour. we ... (312 words)

Should I just slip this guy my phone number?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is a guy at work (typical start I know) who is really cute and I'm interested in. He comes in every Tuesday for music and I will admit I've spoken maybe 4 or 5 words at the most to him-mostly because I don't really get an opportunity to talk to him. I've been debating ... (106 words)

Is his mom getting too nosy?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been in a relationship with this wonderful guy for about two and a half months. He's great, and his family adores me. Both of us being hispanic its not uncommon for our parents to hangout and have drinks and such. However, one of these nights his mom spilled to ... (128 words)

I am really confused, about a female teacher that I like, and I'm also a female?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I am kind of confused, because I think I have a crush on one of my teachers who is a female (I'm also female). I just realized like 1 month or so ago. I get soo excited when I think about being in her class. But when I am actually in that class I get really nervous. I ... (209 words)

Boyfriend is in jail for violating probation, I'm doing all I can to help, but apparently I'm the "heartless evil bit*h". Why is he doing this to me??

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was sentenced to jail for 30 days for violating probation. His urine came up diluted, which means there was low levels of the natural substances in pee, indicating he added water to his pee sample. however, he swears he did nothing to his urine. but anyway, ... (198 words)

Pregnant, BF doesn't want anything to do with the baby, and this might be my only chance to conceive because of a family history of medical problems...

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 19 years old and just recently broke up with my boyfriend after being with him for 2 years, we were madly in love aand i still care so deeply about him, but i broke up with him because all we ever did was fight and argue about everything. i thought i was doing the best... (201 words)

Why would a guy want to hurt a girl who adores him?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a guy wanna hurt a girl who loves him and adores him? ? Every time a girl will meet a guy he's so sweet, you look past his flaw cos your a nice person. You love him and would do anything to make him smile, always there when he needs you.. Only to find ou... (204 words)

I think he was shocked that I asked him out!

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5 April 2011 (F)

age - meet this man that i really like an gave him my number . i thought we was both inestrest in one another .but when i gave him my number an i said to him would you like to go out an eat sometimes . his answer was i do not live here . which i knew this so i said if you did not ... (195 words)

So where is the line drawn with girlfriends and male friends?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So where is the line drawn with girlfriends and male friends? my girlfriend occationaly texts guys she met on vacation. Shes also facebook friends with them and when they wished her happy birthday they used pets names for each other. Also a bunch of guys post on her wall and ... (173 words)

I have such a low self esteem because of my boyfriend

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in urgent need for some counselling for a very bad siutation I have been in for 6 years - stemming around my relationship with my bf - now currently ex again I am have been putting this off for a while but now I am all alone over here in london I need help to ge... (196 words)

Boyfriend and I have completely opposing views on porn. Is this a possible deal breaker?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend, who's 25, for about four months and all had been going great; he's kind, caring, generous and always puts me first. However, I noticed on his internet browser history a couple of weeks ago that he looks at hardcore po... (473 words)

Should I start buffing up for sex?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend keeps getting tired and wants me to try being on top, but my legs get tired way too fast. And then it's just trying to keep moving and not really enjoying myself. Any suggestions for better positions? Or do I just need to start buffing up my thighs...... (52 words)

Do you think we can feel when others are thinking of us?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, this probably sounds a bit weird, and I mean, it is, but I'm just wondering; do any of you believe that we can sense, or feel, when somebody is thinking about us? Like, I don't know...it's just that I sometimes randomly get this really intense feeling, like in my chest and ... (107 words)

Is his suggestion for sex really safe?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my bf r both 15 and he said he might have an std [he has a bad rash ]. and he didnt get it from me becuz we have never had any contact like that exept kissing.) and he told me he hasnt had sex in almost a year and he is rlly anxius. then he told me if u have intercurse ... (90 words)

Girl I'm dating hasn't contacted me since Friday at noon?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this girl for a month and everything has gone really well. Nothing i can think of could turn our relationship bad. Shes always laughing and smiling when shes around me. We normally have lunch dates together, and then we go to class. Tuesday at lunch I asked ... (776 words)

Is he interested or am I misinterpreting everything?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay here goes, it will be long winded but I need to know once and for all, Im really losing my patience. About 5 months ago a new tenant moved into our house, hes very handsome and I was attracted to him instantly. Initially there was alot of flirting between us and ... (538 words)

How can I have good sex with my wife?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 24, my penis is small in 5". I am going to marry, how can I have good sex with my wife?... (24 words)

Should I confront my mom about her affair?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Some quick background information: I'm 17 years old. My parents got divorced when I was little. While my mother has remarried, my father has not. I am still extremely close to my father. My stepfather and I, on the other hand, do not get along very well. My mother and I are ... (242 words)

I'm fifteen and I really want a baby!

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5 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I am fifteen and I want a baby so bad!! I know I'm insane because I'm still a kid myself but I just want to have something that's truly mine. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we both love each other and want to be together forever. We are sort of ... (122 words)

How can I stop wanting to date my friend who's already in a relationship?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this friend, we met about a month and a half ago maybe? She's smart, funny, gorgeous (one of her sisters is even a model) anyway, we talk all the time and always have fun when we hang out together and maybe its just the natural guy inclination to be attracted to a ... (156 words)

Been with my b/f for 5 years but have now fallen for my best friend!

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old female. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years and I love him, he might be the one. My problem? My best friend is a girl and I have fallen for her. I never considered myself bi until now. What do I do? I asked my boyfriend for a break to sort out my ... (107 words)

Am I being unfair to my boyfriend?

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5 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - i need some advice. i left my husband a year and a half ago and i have had a lot of problems geeting on with my life.I couldn't be with hubby anymore because he was violent and i feared for my life. I thought after i got out that i would have a bf straight away and i could be ... (399 words)

Solo travelling - with a girlfriend back home. How do you approach the issue?

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I want to go on a solo backpack tour around America in August. I haven't been travelling on my own for years, and just desperarately want to get some time off for myself - off from uni, work, friends, family. I have been in a healthy relationship with a wond... (234 words)

Does this sound like my boyfriend is cheating?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend always tell me he loves me like a billion times a day. yesterday he was texting me and stoped texting me at 7:16 i think and then didnt text back untill about 9:00 or something. i asked him why and he said that he went with his cousin and left his phone at... (127 words)

My gf talks about her guy friends all the time

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5 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Ladies and Gents, Here's the scope. I want advice on what I can do to get over this or just not let it bother me. I have a gf(yea!!) and she talks about other guys(boo!!) in conversations with each other. I understand its okay for her to have a group of guy friends that... (330 words)

I'm 14: Should I let this boy have sex with me?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i am asking for help. well i met this boy on facebook not too long ago, and im starting to like him. one day he said he wanted to meet me, and i asked what would he do. he said he would try to have sex with me in the family bathroom at the mall. i think hes really cute, but ... (103 words)

Do you think not talking to him will change his mind about how he's acting and he'l come chasing after me?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, me and my now ex boyfriend have been haveing relationship problems... we have had a rough year, from cheating, lying, breaking up, losing babies... and it seems right when we get to the point where our relationship is healing... he breaks up with me... And its mostly ... (259 words)

FWB no longer interested?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So im in a nsa friends with benefits situation (for about 2 months). Things are going well and im happy with the arrangement. We normally text every day about random things/how are days are going etc and usually meet up once or twice a week. For the past few weeks my fwb will ... (86 words)

Co-worker's suspicious bathroom behavior makes me wonder if she has an eating disorder?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This really skinny girl I work with was in the stall next to me today in the ladies room. She spoke to some coworkers and then they all left. I was being very quiet so no one knew I was in there. Her feet were facing the toilet and she was standing ..this is not how girls use ... (152 words)

Should I make a move on my best female friend?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years of age. And I got this kind of problem. I really like this girl (best friend, let's name her meg not really her name tho lol) so I like meg. I've known her for around about 6 years and I want to just hold her close to me you know. So there's this thing not long ... (231 words)

Am I supposed to be ok with husband working with co-worker he cheated with?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband have been together for 5 years and married for one. He recently told me that he has felt his love for me was gone for a while and that he cheated on me once with a coworker of his.he wants to try and regain what we once had but cannot get transferred from his ... (76 words)

Which ex should I choose now that they both want me back? The hot and sweet one who lives far away or the funny one who lives close by but is a big flirt?

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't choose between these two guys. I used to date both of them at seperate times of course and now they both want me back. One is way hot and sweet and I know he loves me but he lives far away so I barely get to see him. Also he's broken up with me twice because we never... (177 words)

About to be married, but still have strong feelings for a girl I was once crazy about.

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5 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with this girl. 11 yrs ago I left our school because our love life was disturbing my education. Yet since then i have not found love in any other be it man or woman. the worst of it all is that i am preparing for my marriage this month and just last month she ... (125 words)