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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I messed up but what can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well my boyfriend has always been a big flirt and one day him and my bestestfriend were flirting with eachother even the people around us noticed and i felt embarrased because i didnt do nun about it ,it was constanly happening all the time non stop they would even hang out ... (131 words)

How Much of My Own Beliefs and Opinions Should Enter DearCupidAnswers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've noticed that in some of my answers to questions on this site, I have allowed my personal beliefs to color my opinions. So my question is, is that wrong? It seems nearly impossible to take my whole self out of the equation, but what level is ok to have present? I'm... (68 words)

I dated a guy, didn't work out but I like his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hung out and went on a date with this guy who liked me, and discovered pretty quickly it wasn't going to work. Overall, it lasted for about a month, in which he thought we were dating. Apparently he really liked me, so it was awkward when I told him I wasn't feeling it. A... (172 words)

16 weeks pregnant and stressing over my future.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a couple of dilemmas. I just broke up with the father of my baby for some pretty good reasons: -still using (I'm a former user, cannot have those people in my life) -still getting drunk (I hate drinkers) -lying to me -lying to my father about my "secrets" wh... (430 words)

Fiance asked me to move out so she could sort out her head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age - hi i have been in a relationship with a very lovely woman for 3 years and got engaged however middle of last month she asked me if i could let her have a few days on her own.we lived together.so i agreed and she agreed that it would only be two days well that was middle of last ... (224 words)

My husband is in a nursing home, is it wrong for me to want to go out with a man for a drink?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age - I have been through a horrible two years with my husband who developed dementia and now is in a nursing home. We have had a very happy marraige and I miss him so much and have so much guilt about him being where he is although he is well cared for and it was so difficult to ... (272 words)

Sex hurts my GF and I ran out of oral things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there me and girlfriend have been together for 6 months now. it is great but everytime we have sex she has pains in her vagina. we can only do missionary and i was wondering if i am doing anything wrong or am i trying to rush to fast and shud wait longer for positions. i ... (71 words)

I'm not confident about my body and am confused about exercise

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Please help me out. I have NEVER been confident with my body. I want to transform myself, so that my confidence will finally be where it needs to. I am confused about exercise. I cannot afford a personal trainer, and nobody in my family is an athlete that can help me... (271 words)

I have no regrets but she does! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age - Hi all was at a convention and after a wild party a long time acquaintence and I both wound up together and had sex. I made sure that she understood that we where like 2 shops passing in the night, and nothing would come of this after. We are both married , We both enjoyed ... (105 words)

I feel like more things fall on me because my older brother is married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - unfortunately my uncle passed which is my mother's brother. He lives about 4 hours away. Here is the petty part: sometimes i feel like things fall on me more than my older brother (5 years old and i am 26) simply b/c he is married and out of the house..b/c i am single etc i ... (248 words)

Don't I deserve to be cared about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I've always felt "less than". I've never liked the way i like even though i've gotten complements plenty of times. The past two years, my self esteem has hit rock bottom. I got involved with a guy i shouldn't have and it didn't end well, well it's sort of still going on. He ... (186 words)

I get paranoid at night

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i gues this coud be a health issue ima 14 year old male who gets very paranoid at night and some times during the day (especialy when im alone) i normaly dont go to bed till around 9,40 and normaly fall a sleep after 11ish. this is because i have very weak front door and a ... (95 words)

I have had thoughts about girls. Am I going to turn into a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP ME, im so scared and anxious. im not going to go into my crazy antics here, but i'm just gunna sum it up. i've loved boys forever. wanted to date them, be near them, impress them, make them like me. i formed friendships with guys based on the crushes i had on them, and... (438 words)

Is it rude to ask someone if they are in a bad mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Does anyone else hate this? Yesterday I was tired since I went hiking. So, my boyfriend was talking to me on the phone and asked if I was in a bad mood. I was only tired, but it put me in a bad mood when he asked if i was in a bad mood. Why do people ask that question?? To me ... (105 words)

I have hidden the truth/lied to the love of my life for 2.5 years. Can this be salvaged?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - The love of my life, and I met and began dating about 2.5 years ago. We seemingly had similar expectations and values despite our very different upbringings, and insane chemistry. About a week into our relationship she was told that I had previously been sleeping with a ... (960 words)

My boyfriend smells down there. Why, is this normal, and can it be changed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Before i start, im a girl, im 16, i have been with my boyfriend now for four months and i am really happy with the way things are going but here it goes... So, my boyfriend is a year older than me, he isn't very experienced, I am the first girl he has done stuff with. We h... (348 words)

Has anyone else felt like the ugliest, wherever they are?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I have always been the ugliest everywhere. In family, school, college, everywhere. Neither am I very intelligent. This has led to a low self esteem. I have made peace with the fact that I am really ugly. My question is has anyone ever been through such a thing in their life?... (51 words)

He likes me, thinks I'm great, but is not ready for me yet! And that is why he will stay with his gf whom he thinks is clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Around March I received a friend request on facebook from this boy that was going to a college I had applied too. I didn't add him, just left it there and around july i finally added him because I was sure i was going to that college and I was bored lol. So I asked him how th... (1046 words)

I am married, but regret breaking up with my ex who cheated and is newly wed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married mother of 2 young children. Before I met my husband I was in a long term relationship which ended very stressful after I found out he had been cheating on me. I left him and I went straight in another relationship with now my husband. Got pregnant quickly and got ... (229 words)

Could he love me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I would really appreciate any advice from anyone whos ever been in a similar situation. I have been with my husband for 20 years, married for 9 of those. We've had a stressful couple of years, financial difficulties, moving home, young family etc. Anyhow, out of the blue ... (337 words)

It is a long story, but is my teacher flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody. I have this huge problem and i really need sincere help. It is getting worse every day. Please please before judging me …read this and put yourself in my situation. It’s long but I can’t make it shorter … Last year I moved to a new school in new country.... (918 words)

I knew I was going to regret BJ from my GF, and I do. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I feel like that was the ending ... (140 words)

BF says I should be okay that he goes on trips alone with former lovers. What should I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate rules in a relationship and I trust my boyfriend very much, and trust that he wont ever cheat. But he enjoys to go on alone trips with other female friends of his, where they will sleep together in a small tent (shoulder to shoulder) or be alone in cabins. He has also ... (330 words)

I need more affection from her. How do I tell her without upsetting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for seven years and sometimes we go through these stages where the affection, mainly the sex runs dry. For example,we went from having sex on a regular basis to literary nothing. It leaves me in an awkward position because I know if I called her ... (210 words)

He doesn't want to see me as much as I want him to. Am I being too clingy? Is he being reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there need some advice please I am dating a GREAT guy, he is very attractive kind hearted, stable and treats me very well. He is truly one of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever met. The only thing is, sometimes he seems a little aloof. Background is he... (281 words)

I am confused about my feelings for my lesbian friend, and so is she.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so about a month ago i started speaking to this girl at work who is a lesbian and i know she gets extremely attached really easily but i never though it would be to me. so the weekend after i met her, we went out to the club together and ended up kissing and texting constant... (346 words)

BF smoked weed before I took him to meet my parents. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend smokes weed. It doesn't bother me, but the other day he was gonna meet my parents for the first time, and he'd known this for a week beforehand, yet he still went over his friends and got high first. Is it just me being over sensitive? Seriously it's meant to... (139 words)

Why won't my LDR boyfriend come online and talk to me about his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My SO and I are in a LDR and of late, we have been having problems with communication. Two days ago, I told him I have some stuff for us to discuss when he comes on IM and he suddenly said he's not coming on IM because he has some stuff he has to sort out. I asked him if he ... (204 words)

I need advice on finding the right girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there...i'm 25years of age, i still don't have a gf that makes me annoyed and frustrated. i've a good relationship with different gals. they liked me. most of them liked me but on contrary i don't like them. because of this and such types of problem i'm still lonely. i ... (56 words)

I need help telling my parents I am bisexual.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Here's the thing. I'm bisexual. I really like one of my girl friends, and she's bi too. she told me she liked me and now we are kind of going out. my parents/family dont know that I like girls and i am far too afraid to tell them because im scared of what they're reaction... (74 words)

I have written a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. Please give me some feedback

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have written a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. I don't want to do it but I feel I have to. Please give me some feedback. Xxx, I think is time for the end of our friendship. Whenever think of everything happened between you and me, believe the start was good but s... (355 words)

Is he just settling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When I asked my bf why he liked me, the first thing he said was that he knew that I cared a lot about him and that I thought about him a lot. Is this normal? I feel like he's only with me now because he's settling and because he just wants someone and anyone to be the... (74 words)

What is the difference between like and love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What is the difference between "like" and "love" in a relationship? Why does it start with like, and then it becomes love? And why do some love last and others don't?... (37 words)

Should I get sexually involved with my 66 year-old boyfriend's son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i was dating this 66 year old man. now i want to have sex with his older son. The father doesn't know. im just talking to his son on the internet. The son wants me to come to his place were he stays with his kids. I told him i would never disrespect him like that. I never ... (86 words)

How can I get my sexually shy BF to put the moves on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend isn't very confident when it comes to anything like kissing me, putting his arms around me ect. He's not normally shy but I know he is with this. At first he even needed prompting to hold my hand! When we kiss it's normally me who makes the first move, and I can ... (232 words)

My friends put me down because I don't drive and I want it to stop.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got together with a group of friends whom i haven't seen in months. We all were out and having a good time when one of my friends suggested we go somewhere that was kind of a far driving distance. My BEST friend goes oh no we cant go because i have to take (me) home, ... (225 words)

I don't want to ruin her chance for happiness, nor do I want to her slip through my fingers. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. I've recently (three/four months ago) been through a rather violent breakup. A number of factors led to this; her grandmother died and she took it out on everyone else, we fell distant.. you know. The major factor - one that we had kept from each other - was that we had e... (251 words)

She broke up with me, but is still giving me mixed signals. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend it hurts a wee bit as she told me that one night she had a cry because she missed me but a part me is happy because hopefully now i can move on and stop getting mixed signals from her. I guess my question is that will the mix signals stop... (107 words)

I found out, by snooping, that he is in tough financial shape. Could he be taking me for a ride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age - I have a boyfriend and it is great. I am 45 and cautious. I am at an impasse. I know this is crazy, i lent him some money, not a large sum. I had the opportunity to be alone in his house and went through some files. He told me he has had a tough few years and I get that, but ... (115 words)

How can I track my boyfriend's online activity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I track my boyfriend online to what sites he is on when we live separately?... (17 words)

Why do these people have a problem with how little I drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like some opinions on this. Do you think there is anything wrong with not wanting to drink a lot of alcohol? There are a few people i know who have made comments on me either not drinking a lot of alcohol when i have been out, or not drinking alcohol at all (i sometimes ... (237 words)

Should I text him asking him why he is ignoring me, or wait until I hear from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend split about a week ago and i was finding it really hard, and then he phoned me friday asking if i wanted him to come and see me. so he came down, we then had a chat and decided to give it another go, he then slept down friday and left saturday morning, but ... (236 words)

Boyfriend is completely insensitive about my health scare.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Is my boyfriend being completely insensitive? I've been having these mini-seizure things that my doctor has no idea what it is. Brain tumors run in my family, so she suggested I go to a neurologist in two weeks. I also have been having really bad sleep paralysis where I hear ... (378 words)

After two years she has hurt me bad. How could she be so cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for about three weeks now. It really sucks. We broke up because it was long distance and she told me she thinks she has feelings for this other guy. Now on facebook I see pics of her and that guy at a party and then a concert. How the hell do I ... (90 words)

I fell for the wrong guy. We had a fight and I am a mess. What does this all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I knew this guy for 7 months now. We started seeing each other 5 months ago. He's 33 and I'm 27. When I first met him he was getting himself out of trouble that he got himself into 3 yrs ago with the law. I have a son and he has 3 kids with 2 baby mommys. When we first... (1289 words)

Seeing LDR BF soon. I'm stressing that he won't like my body. How can I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy I haven't seen in person in 2 years. He tells me that he loved my body when he saw me last (we were not together at that point, I learned this after the fact) and I am the same size now that I was then -- five pounds lighter, ... (170 words)

Do you think I should ask him what's going on so that I know where I stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused.... I went on a trip to New York about 4 weeks ago and I met a guy who was on the same trip as me. We got kind of close on the trip and I sat next to him on the plane home and during the course of the flight we ended up holding hands and kissing a little bit. L... (271 words)

I want fun sex with multiple guys and girls, with no attachments and no one getting hurt. Where's the harm in that? Are my friends right to tell me not to do it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I've got a problem and it looks like this. I am bisexual, I am young and I need my freedom. I've gotten out of a long pretty sexless monogamous relationship and I am not ready to involve myself in some "serious" stuff again. I just want to have affairs! I want goo... (286 words)

My family hates my boyfriend and is making me choose between them and him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 yrs and have 2 children with him. We recently split as my family don't like him and make it difficult, he isn't perfect but he is not all bad. I want to give us another go and so does he but my family have given me a choice..... him or ... (84 words)

Does he cheat because he is insecure, or am I insecure because I don't trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So i am confused about being about to trust my boyfriend? We have been going out for four years, and the first year was absolutely terrible that I dont even know why i stayed with him then. So what he did was emailing this girl who is like a teenager, and dismissed my existenc... (267 words)

BF never pays for anything. Do we have a future together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for almost 2 years now and everytime we go somewhere that requires money he never shouts me. We either pay separately or i pay. Im not a gold digger, i appreciate anything that comes my way bt 2 years and i still pay for most things like lunch, movies, i ... (300 words)

He keeps dying his hair the same color as mine. Is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so today at work we got evacuated and a guy i like works there too but we're never together so we spent the 2 hours outside near each other. we never really speak, but if we're passing we'll say hi or smile and if we're in the lift together we have nice little conversa... (197 words)

I don't think he will try anything. Is it okay for me to hang out with my 36 yr. old neighbor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and i've had a 'crush' on this guy that's 36/37 for a very long time, he used to be my neighbor however about 2 month ago he split from his wife for reasons that i still don't know of and he moved out and now has his own place. Anyway, we talked a lot when he lived ac... (266 words)

He says he loves me, but he treats me terribly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 18yrs old (gal) been in a relationship on and off with my boyfriend from april 2010 up to now. Got pregnant and we now have a kid. I call him his phone rings he doesnt answer an i call for the second time his phone is unreachable the following day he tells me his battery ... (153 words)

Any tips on making French kissing a little more enjoyable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over 2 months now. We’ve always taken things reasonably slow with us and we didn’t kiss on the lips for about a month. Over the last week we’ve been kissing more often but we never do anything more than brief open mouth kissing. Yester... (245 words)

He knows it's me that likes him and he hasn't said anything. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has been texting the guy i have liked for a few months for my benefit saying that one of his friends likes him. which is obvious me (i only found out a few weeks ago ) anyway she never told him my name just that one friend of his really likes him. She was goin... (263 words)

8 years together and now he hates sex and the thought of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together 8 yrs. We've been through more (bad) problems than anyone I know. We ended up homeless for almost 2 yrs, went through the loss of eachothers dads together, have had many family members on both sides impose upon our hospitality and ... (202 words)

He's the one. Do you think he feels the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone Ok i know this sounds very very strange as we are not going out but there's this guy i really like known him for over a year now and have slept with him a few times, But the thing is deep down in my heart he's the guy i really want to be with, we kinda have thin... (256 words)

LDR first meeting. I was on my period. Did that put him off oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Does knowing your partner just came off her period put you off going down on her? Im in a LDR and went to see my bf a couple weeks ago. When I arrived I happened to get my period on the second day (I have irregular periods due to a medical condition so I cant work out wh... (309 words)

Is he interested in me or not? Need an opinion.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. there is this guy i like a lot. i met him two years ago and liked him since i first saw him. i think he likes me but im not sure, id like to know what other guys thinks about the "us". in the past two years we have been threw a lot together. he struggled to get w... (237 words)

I want to see the prostitute again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I lost my virginity to a prostitution and feels like going to it again. Is it safe? But I feel guilty too. Please help me.... (25 words)

I like him and we've kissed, but is he interested in me or my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) So recently i've started to like a guy from college, and he appears to like me too. We've been out once and we've also kissed. But here's the thing, he seems to show a lot of interest in my best friend. I don't know whether i'm just being paranoid or whether he actua... (62 words)

I'm invisible to her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, i have a complicated situation here. im ( i would say ) an average looking guy, even though the girls think im handsome anyway thats not the point. i like this girl sooo much !! but to her im kinda invisible. not her type lol, i never had a problem to get a... (205 words)

My friend is not safe online, but I'm hesitant to tell her parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im friends with this 11 year old girl online. basically im really really scared for her safety, she trusts people online way too fast with her facebook and cell phone number. im truelly afraid for her safety and i tryed to tell her to be more carefull but she isnt ... (297 words)

He broke up with me when I needed him the most!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone. So I am new to this, and am already seeing a psychologist but am finding the one hour sessions not enough and would love some extra support from an objective viewpoint as opposed to friends am family. So my boyfriend of 18 months broke up with me a week ago but it ... (855 words)

My gf thinks I'm 22 but I'm really 16! Should I tell her??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 16 year old boy , but i've been living a life of a 22 year old. I smoke cigarettes and booze. And i dont look my age. I look like a guy in 20's. I got a girl's phone number from my friend and fell in love with her through the phone. After meeting her i realised that she is ... (279 words)

How do I break up with a guy without breaking his heart or ruining my rep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so im 17, and im not sure if im gay or straight. I think i am still curious about my sexuality, and i think im just experimenting. Anyway, i dont want to be gay, id rather be asexual than be gay. I know i cant choose what sexuality i am, but im not really in... (195 words)

Should I be worried that my FWB partner is getting tired of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I've been having this friends with benefits relationship, no strings attached with a co-worker (he works in the same building, we don't actually work together)for a couple of months now. I know I'm probably too old for that kind of "relationship", but I'm going through a lot of ... (266 words)

After a fight my bf I slept with another guy. Is this cheating?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 18 yrs old and im really confused because a couple of weeks ago me and my boyfriend had a huge fight and he walked out on me and told me it was over and i thought it was. so that night i was a real mess and got really drunk and i called up a guy i used to have sex with ... (190 words)

Are girls meant to have an orgasm every time they have sex?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone Short little question: are girls meant to have an orgasm whenever they have sex? or does it depends on their mood, situation, size of penis?... (28 words)

Am I right to feel that my bf does not want to spend time with me?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I been with my boyfriend 6 months and we are ok most the time but at times i feel he dont want a lot of time with me. we stay at his twice a week as im there one night in the week and one at the weekend unless he visits family then we do a day visit together at his or go ... (264 words)

My girlfriend left after she said she lost her feeling for me. Will she come back?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex girlfriend is 38 i'm 44 and she works away a lot. 3 weeks ago after texting as normal i asked her if she was ok and she said fine how about you? i said i think we need to talk and from that point within 30mins she said no she's not fine and we were finished. she said shed ... (162 words)

What I don't get is all these coincidences...

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sorry, I am so lost, confused, and hurt right now. this may be a little long. i acted rash last night- i called this girl on block i suspected my live- in bf of three years has been seeing, i never met her before but she figured it was me and told me yes, im with your boyf... (342 words)

I shouldn't put up with it yet I still continue to

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Furious BF is still talking to ex lovers. Sending them messages 'Hey Sexy miss you.' Why do I keep putting up with this? I know its wrong and that I shouldnt put up with it yet I still continue too. Even if he hasnt cheated on me sending messages to other women like that is... (98 words)

Why is it whenever I get into a relationship, I feel trapped and want to get out?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, I'm 17, a good student, I have experience of a real relationship and have been out with about four guys in the last three years. My problem is, two years ago my step-brother was a bit nasty to me. At the time I was 14, and unsure of myself, I was i... (217 words)

My boyfriend says he loves me but insults and criticizes me. I am so confused!

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well its like this. i had this relationship with fazmi at first. we had the affair for about ten or eleven months. we truly loved each other. but we had to break up because my mum got to know about our relationship and she made a big mess. but i tried to explain to fazmi th... (813 words)

Does my married work colleague like me in a romantic way?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a male 35 year old married. I have a colleague, and she is 30 year woman married. We are professionally very closely related and requires lot of interaction on day to day basis. I came to know her 6 months back when i was in Gurgaon and she was in Mumbai. I had not at... (864 words)

Will I ever find the Mr. Right for me?

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3 April 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Hai. My name is Theona, i'm a 16years old. I like very hot, charming and a bit silly guys. My problem with this guys is that my relationships with them it always end up as a big mistake! That scares me alot, im afraid i will never have a good guy in the future. As it has alwa... (88 words)

We fought on Valentine's day and our sex life is still suffering!

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - DearCupid: My name is Leighton and i am 41 years old. On the 14th of feb my wife and i got into a bit of a problem in our marriage where i took everything for granted and never showed any interest in her needs. Its been a rocky road since then but i have pulled my weight a... (151 words)

She said "DO U WANNA"? Is she asking me out or does she just want to have sex with me?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my girl best friend and I are really great friends. Last 5 months, She told me that she's Bi and I told her that I'm bi too. So today, Things got kinda awkward.. We were chatting online and she kept telling me this question like DO U WANNA??... and she also said that... (79 words)

Boyfriend wants to move out....but stay together.

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. When we first met I'd only been divorced 6 weeks. Spark flew but I needed time. We stayed friends for about 3 months until I decided I wanted to be with him. But now he was going through a tough time and didn't want to be in a ... (550 words)

Does this text mean "we're" over or her track practice is over?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, the other day, I was talking to one of my bestest friends in the whole world who happens to be the oppisite sex and I just so happen to love her like none other. Anyway, We were talking to each other and I was helping her through a tough time in her life (I won't say what ... (226 words)

I love my partner, but I cheated on her with an 18 year old who is now pregnant

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have Just made the biggest mistake of my life. After having my first un-planned child at 17 and then a planned one at 19, I have since seperated with my childrens mother as things were just not working. I'm doing my absolute best to do the write thing by my kids and I see th... (298 words)

How do I start believing in myself?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I try so hard to have faith in myself as a person so that I can be confident, successful and have fun but I always fail. I don't know who I am and I can't connect well with the people who are in my life whether it be at work, my bf or my friends. I think about things too much ... (144 words)

What dating avenues would you suggest for a Real 40-Year Old Virgin?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - The problem is, I wouldn't even know how to broach the subject with any woman I might be interested in but that doesn't mean I don't want a relationship. Any advice?... (34 words)

My parents don't approve of our relationship and no longer trust me

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm kinda in rut now and i need advice pronto! I dated this guy for about 2 years, even though my parents did not approve of the relationship. Ever since then, my parents stopped trusting me. It was hell for me. When i'm out with friends, my parents think i'm lying. they ... (105 words)

I masturbate...is this a sin?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a christian that does masturbation all the time because my husband is away is this a sin? am i cheating on him i feel guilty when i finish how can i stop i need help pls... (43 words)

I've been with him for 4 years, but he doesn't want to move in together...Where is this relationship headed?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys Ok iv been with my boyfriend for four years and ready to take the next step ie move in together but he's not ready and it really hurts me.. He's a great boyfriend but im worried that if he doesnt want to move in together at four years where is our realationshi... (129 words)

I have rusty feelings...I'm not sure if this is love or something else?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - okay so, its been a long time since ive really "LOVED" someone this girl i have my eye on has me confused. i really just don't know if its lust or love. its like when i think about her i can barely breath and i start to get that warm feeling of happiness inside? is this love... (114 words)

I was 23 a few months ago but can still very easily pass for a 14yr old!! Is there any way I can I make myself look older without making myself look cheap?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that I look so young for my age. I was 23 a few months ago but can still very easily pass for a 14yr old. For example I always just get given a childs ticket for the bus/train without even having to ask, which you can only get if you're under 15. I got asked ... (353 words)

My supervisor flirted with me, but when I asked him out...

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an intern at this office. I am there until May. My supervisor is ten years older then me which I really like. I started developing a crush on him in the fall. I was in his office with him going over a mid semester evaluation this fall and as I was sitting there his phone ... (751 words)

Am I weird or is this a normal fetish?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm very new here and have always considered myself somewhat of a "freak" because of this. Ever since I was young when I had an operation and was put to sleep, I find myself aroused when I see pictures of myself asleep and even now I get so drunk that I pass out ... (141 words)

I'm trying to move on from my ex, but he owes me money...Should I bother getting it back?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i broke up with my ex boyfriend due to mental abuse he owes me 600 dollars i asked for it back and he said he would give it to me the next day he didn't of course i really want my money but i know he keeping it to have some weird control over me should i ask for it again or ... (114 words)

My boyfriend has women's underwear in his drawer that could belong to his ex!!

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has intimate womens clothing that probably belongs to his ex? So a few days ago I went through a drawer of my boyfriend (he let me do this, he was there). It was a joke as he has a pantihose fetish so he let me have a look at them. However, when i starte... (310 words)

My online date and I have just agreed to be exclusive...When should we become facebook official?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I asked the guy I'm dating to be my boyfriend, and he said yes without hesitation. It was so simple, I'm almost in shock! We met through okcupid so we both have accounts through that, and we're both listed as single on facebook. Generally, how does the etiquet... (159 words)

I am 13, gay, and I'm having anal and oral sex with my boyfriend. Is this wrong?

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3 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I know people say don't have sex until your married,but im 13 and me and my boyfriend are planning to spend our lives together, so I gave him oral sex. We both enjoyed it so I let him perform anal sex on me. It was painful but the best night of my life. We have been dating for ... (93 words)

I love the perfect guy...but he has a girlfriend!!

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So , I may be young and naive , and people may tell me I don't know what love is yet or haven't experienced anything close to it , but how do they know , right? I have been working at a fast food place for a year or so now , part-time , while attending school. There is this guy ... (455 words)

How do I come out if I am gay?

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3 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hello.I am 13 years old and I know im gay, but how do I come out? I have a boyfriend but we don't show our love at school because we are scared of being teased by other students. My parents don't know either. The only time we hold hands or kiss is when we are alone at movie ... (109 words)

Ex-flame. Sparks evident. But I have a loving girlfriend. Is the next field always greener?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am a 21 year old guy who has been in a relationship with a gorgeous woman for a year and a half. As far as I am aware, I am in love. Tonight, I bumped into a girl who I spent the night with (no sex) four years ago, and we discussed the fallout, over dr... (322 words)

He's bored with me when we are not doing anything, like having sex.

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in our 20s and have dating for about 18months…. I sometimes feel as though my boyfriend doesn’t take me seriously. He is a very smart, fun, well-rounded, down to earth person who has a lot of friends. I love him a lot. However, being his girlfriend,... (952 words)

How Do I Deal/Be Supportive to A Super Busy BF? He goes to School FT & Works FT.

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure how to treat my ex. I broke up with him because he stopped spending time with me. When we met he was working, had a car and a motorcycle, house etc.. and 4 months later he got suspended with pay(though he lost his job), then had to sell his truck because it was h... (397 words)

Unerotic water sports?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A girl I'm seeing is wanting me to pee on her. I know lots of people will do this for the erotic pleasure, but she insists that this isn't the case for her. She says its more about the intimacy of it. I'm a little confused by her reasoning. Anyone have any insight on ... (57 words)

Fat girl seeking a man that love fat women

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 19 year old female. i am a heavy girl and i have never had a boyfriend or even my first kiss. I am horrible on the computer. I have been searching the web for men seeking very fat woman but can not find any chat rooms for men seeking the fat girl. i can only find woman ... (91 words)

This relationship has gone downhill. I would leave him, but I think I would miss him too much.

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We started this relationship 4 years before. at first we are just classmates but we don't like each other. and at last by some misunderstandings and forces from our friends we started a relationship. but when he got a girl he started using that girl and our relationship became ... (354 words)

My older brother is avoiding me

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My older bro has been in college for the past 4 years and he had finally returned! Anyway, I'm glad to see him again, but it seems like he's been avoiding me. I think I know why, but I'm not sure how to handle it. I used to be pretty overweight, but I worked it all off while... (178 words)

I am in love with my science teacher

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm in my final year at school and at the beginning of the year I got a new Science teacher. At first I just saw him as a teacher and didn't have any feelings for him, in fact I actually slightly despised him because it felt as if he would always pick on me and others had ... (697 words)

I want to reopen the lines of communication with him, should I send him a birthday text?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I split up 7 months ago after a 3 month relationship. I told him I was happy to remain friends, and a few texts went back and forth afterwards (all friendly - I never sent any begging letters, never let him know how hurt I was, etc), but then he met someone else, so ... (327 words)

Guys, do you only go down on a woman you are really into?

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys, do you only go down on a woman youre really into-- your gf or someone you care about/love? or do you do it just for fun or for reciprocity?... (30 words)

Confused about my friend's ex!

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3 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend had a boyfriend and they broke up about 3 weeks ago. Now the guy keeps on talking to me and starts saying he loves me. At first I thought it was just one of those normal love you text's but then my other friend told me that he probably wanted more because we have gon... (79 words)

Girlfriend has been less affectionate lately... or am I over reacting?

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3 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has been acting different lately. We used to have sex three to four times a week, now we barely do it once, she even stopped taking the pill... but what I dislike most is that I don't feel she enjoys it as much anymore (we were both virgins when we started, we'v... (562 words)