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writes:Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous?
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reader, Mr Husband  +, writes (8 April 2011):
Adviceneone,
Sorry, didn't mean to give the impression I was trying to put the orginal poster off; far from it. The experience I had was amongst the best I've ever had in my life, my wife too. I was just trying to point out that having the discussions I mentioned ahead of time will ensure that everyone feels comfortable and assured going in. Once done then the OP and her boyfriend can discuss who'd like to do what to whom, what the other person would like to see etc.
Hope this helps!
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reader, Adviceneone  +, writes (8 April 2011):
Hi 1st giving an answer but from the answers already here seems alot of people didn't have fun doing a 3some. I can only give you personal advice from what i've done. Me & my gf have been together just over a year & b4 we were together she'd done a few so naturally i wanted to try. 1st time was me my gf & my friend & i was so nervous. I guess the nerves died down once i finally stripped naked, that was the scariest bit for me. Was wierd at 1st standing next to my friend as my gf gave us both oral but once we relaxed & got into it we had heaps of fun. So my advice is just to break the ice is the hardest part, but once your all naked you get into it. oh and it can be messy for the girl with 2 guys and there cum. Mostly only do it if u wanna & are having fun.
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reader, Mr Husband +, writes (7 April 2011):
Speaking from experience, the first thing is to discuss every possible outcome. Everything from you're both having the time of your lives, to one of you is seriously enjoying it and is getting off on it all and the other really wants to call a halt. Are you both prepared for the other to call a halt to things if it invokes really bad feelings? Even if you're the one having the time of your life? How will you let each other know? Is the third person known to both of you? If so, how will he handle one or both of you calling a halt? What if he wants to repeat the experience afterwards and you don't?Until you've discussed how you might both react and how that reaction should be handled, and then discussed how the third person might react and how the two of you will handle that, everything else is unimportant details.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): Dont do it. i did and now hes my ex bf. they both did me at the same time. i felt like a slut and still do
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (6 April 2011):
Point is how would you feel if you watched him having sex with another girl?
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reader, prodigal0x +, writes (6 April 2011):
one of the most common things; you will probably give oral to one guy while having sex with the other.
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 I think that him seeing you having sex with another guy will make him extremely angry, and think that you are cheating on him, even though he might be cool with it now, when it actually happens he will be so pissed I just imagine... I think you should only have sex with your boyfriend, and not another guy in the mix.In my honest opinion, share your intimacy with only your boyfriend, and don't have threesomes in general, it can complicate your relationship.
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reader, cupidus +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Who's idea was this in the first place?I'll start there.
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