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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's in love with me but my feelings seem to change everyday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have never been more confused in my life. I've known this guy for three years and we have always been good friends and recently he told me he's madly in love with me. I feel like I have feelings for him but my friends tell me I can do so much better because they think he's ... (125 words)

Sister is having a party when my parents go away. She asked me if I wanted to drink too. Please advise.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys this isn't about relationships but this is now the only place I can get advice. My parents are going away for the weekend and my older sister is having people over. They are all gunna bring alcohol and some will bring fags. My sister asked me if I have ever been drunk ... (83 words)

Do I confront him to what my psychic said or do I keep quiet and say nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am at my wits end. I just dont know how to go about this situation, i am hoping i get some advice on what to do here i go .. I saw a pyschic the other day, and he was spot on about a lot of things that he could not possibly know of. but the one thing that is going over in ... (295 words)

Is it okay to be smooth with women when your committed to your lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What level off flirting is acceptable? Is it acceptable to flirt when you are in a fully committed relationship? I ask this question because i have no intention of cheating or getting with anyone other than the one i love. However saying that i find that for me i can st... (179 words)

Everyone at work knows he cheated. Besides that he is good to me. Should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't see a clear path in my situation ....... that is where your advice comes in...... SO my BF of 3 years(now) with whom I have been living with for 2 years cheated on me last year with a coworker. It lasted 3 months and he ended it. He said he has cheated in most relation... (194 words)

We're doing all the work. Should we break up with our boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello so i have this new boyfriend i really want to make the new relationship work but i feel like im making all the effort. My best friend is with one of his friends so for the school holidays we have been spending time with them the first day we did was the first day we k... (512 words)

Why do I still love her so much after all that was done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Dearest friends, I'm in love, as far as Iv heard...love is... When your heart jumps wildly when you see the person you love, you become speechless, you shiver, you don't sleep at night because you think about that person so much...and so on... All this is what has been happeni... (233 words)

My BF’s friend has an open relationship and is trying to influence my BF to do the same. It’s a mess. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two friends who are married. My long-term (over 4 years) boyfriend and I met them about 2 years ago and we quickly became good friends with them. We would vacation with them, hang out in our spare time at our house or theirs, and so on. Well around new years this y... (559 words)

What can I do to put the spark back into my relationship?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What can i do to put the spark back into my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and we have just been through a very rough patch, in which we argued a lot, and a lot of hurtful things were said. We are over it now, but we seem to have lost some of the... (208 words)

BF is a financial burden We are to be married. It's really getting me down. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm in bed today feeling pretty down. I'm in my 20's, engaged and feeling very stressed right now. I'm a medical professional, just decided to change employers from a stable community hospital to a prestigious teaching institution. I moved across the planet to... (561 words)

What do you think would help build my self confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I’m 18 and have low self-esteem. I’d like some help. Over the last few years, I’ve suffered from very bad social anxiety. This has improved since going to uni but I still have self-esteem issues. I think this mainly comes from the way I look and how I’m perceived. I’m quit... (183 words)

I can't tell if he's just being friendly or he's into me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I apologise for the length of this post, I did post it previously but to no avail. On my third day of working with my new "boss" (he's my boss, not the boss) I asked him a question after one of my colleagues. For her he didn't get out of his seat, but for me, he g... (385 words)

Should I be his mother, or lay off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My fiance is starting to really pissed me off, and making me second guess my future with him! I am so TIRED of having to be his "mother" in EVERYTHING! Whenever I have to go to work, and hes home all day, I have to write a little list of things that need to be done around t... (243 words)

She's wrong for me and I know it, but I am obsessed with her. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have worked to keep a distance from a bad relationship. We broke up, I know it is right, she was sapping me of everything and I became very depressed, and still am. The thing is I have an unhealthy obsession with her. I have not contacted her for weeks and she has not cont... (161 words)

After a month of ignoring me, now boyfriend is attentive to me in my pregnancy. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am at a state of confusion . I am 23 weeks pregnant on bedrest . The baby's father broke up with me a month ago and I hear from him rarely until recently . I was sent to the the hospital for possible term labor ( false alarm) mutal friends left him a message where I was . he... (485 words)

When he heard I had a thing for him, I got nervous and denied it. But I really do. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I know this might sound like in jumping to conclusion and all that usual stuff but I'm really confused. I've known this guy for ages and we are friends, it was always a thing of will they won't they and it looked promising until a couple of months ago. At a girls night I ... (182 words)

Who is wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - boyfriend cheated on me now he cant have any female friends. And im not supposed to have any either but on xbox live im new to it and a guy on there messaged me and said hey so i said hi. My boyfriend got pissed because i talked to a guy and hes not supposed to talk to girls. I ... (160 words)

Need to get over a crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I get rid of a crush? I'm married, so is he, it's highly innappropriate and it's starting to cloud my every thought. HELP!... (27 words)

Is my daughter right that I am not grateful for what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age - I would have been married for 28 years. Last year Feb 2010 my husband walked out on me. We had been having problems but i did not expect him to go. Two months later his ex girlfriend of 30 years ago moved in with him with her adopted son. She has never been married. I was ... (482 words)

Why don't kids respect their parents anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age - I have three kids that I have raised on my own and I am proud of my children and the people that they are trying to become. Recently I had this big blow out with my children where they felt they had a right to sit there and disrespect me in ways that were not in their ... (117 words)

Me and my ex still have feelings for each other, but she likes someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - It's been 3 months since my break up with my ex. We broke up because we fought so much and argued about every little thing, we went out for three years and when we broke up, we still loved and care for each other. 3 months have passed and all that happened was me regretting ... (320 words)

I'm Chinese and her mom hates Chinese people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a little problem. I have met my current girlfriend online and have known her for over two years now. We recently began seeing each other but she hasn't told her mom about me yet. The problem is that her mom hates chinese and I am chinese. She knows that if she told her ... (107 words)

What if my perfect guy is out there and I'm dating the wrong man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just looking for some general advice from both guys and girls.......my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now......he is my first boyfriend and before i met him i always had a picture built up in my mind of the perfect guy for me.....what he would look ... (191 words)

True love or just wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and have been in a relationship with the same man since I was 17 years old. I am now in my 30's and convinced I am in love with someone else. I had an affair a few years ago and was completly in love with the man with whom I was having the affair. He's ... (240 words)

The only person that makes my twin sister happy is her best friends ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya there. I need your help. My twin is stuck and she isn't a member of this site so I said I'd let her write it on mine. Well first off, about 3 years ago she was in love with this boy called 'R'. They had a thing going off for ages. They would spend everyday togethe... (367 words)

How's my diet schedule?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I would just like your guy's opinion on my diet and schedule an tell me if im doin anything wrong or what i can do better or things like that.I wanna lose weight basically(Im not fat just not at a healthy weight for my height :/ 150 and maybe like 5'0 ft) -wake up at 9:... (226 words)

I think she is moving in on my BF. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A girl kissed my boyfriend, well that's all that happened. apparently he pushed her off straight away and didn't kiss her back. i was hurt but forgave him, today she rang him when i was with him but he ignored the call and i said why dont you text her he quickly said no, so i... (82 words)

I'm shy. How can I turn this into more than a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Im 15 and I've had a thing for this guy I know for ages and a friend recently said that it was pretty obvious that he likes me. Me and this guy are friends and when we are together we get on really well but it has never gone past just having a laugh once or twice. Although we ... (256 words)

First time and it really hurt. Is this just the way it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, and recently decided to have sex. however, i had to stop because it hurt a lot i know it is meant to hurt but does it hurt that much?! also when i went to the toilet it hurt to wee, is this right? do i just have to end... (67 words)

Our group organizer is nice to us, but not his own wife. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very close friends with this man and his wife. i f ever i am having a problem, they are there for me. we re in this group, and there is this very nice girl in the group that became my friend. she was in the group with them longer than me. she is also quite younger than me. ... (339 words)

I'm not sure what really happened with my email. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm a girl who've known this couple for a while. wife is really nice to me. he has been so weird towards me for years. she saw a pic of my and thought it was pretty. she ask me to email it to her. i did. its been 5 months. she said she did not check email, only her husband... (144 words)

GF went through my messages from before I was with her. She has lost trust and respect for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Ive been with my girlfriend for four months but seeing each other for about 6 and it is an extremely strong relationship where we are already talking about a future together. The problem is, she went through my messages on facebook from before i was with her and not ... (253 words)

How right is it to lie in order to meet your gf/bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I am 22 years old. I have just finished college and now I'm back in my hometown. During my last year there, I got into a relationship with a guy who belongs to that city but is now doing an internship near to my hometown. He plans to visit me soon. My parents are not aware of ... (135 words)

I'm beginning to hate her, why does she do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know its very long but if you could please read and give me your opinions I would be most grateful!!! Ok so my mum...ever since I was little shes never really loved me like she should. She bought me plenty stuff and spoiled me rotten but this was to show others that she ... (798 words)

BF fears I will go back to my crush. I dream about my crush a lot. Is BF on to something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey people, i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend who i love very very very much and i've been with him for ten months. the problem is he is really paranoid that i'll end up fancying the guy i used to have a crush on (because he's quite good looking and all the girls fancy ... (269 words)

My depression ends the relationship every time. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know where to start. but i've been with a boy on and off for just over 2 years. I love him! But i suffer from depression and everytime im in a relationship with him, my depression takes over an it always ends. We decided to leave it and just stay friends. So now, we're ... (152 words)

Reason guys visit toilet so often?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Hi all. I have a question. Is there any particular reason why guys would go to the toilet a lot whilst on a date, apart from the obvious reason of course.... (31 words)

The rule is no dating at my uncle's factory. She is causing people to talk. What does she want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where i work. in his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been there for over a year now but i ... (531 words)

I'm angry, confused and hurt at the way my ex is treating me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I have been on here so many times with my marriage separation, here I am again needing your help, I have two gentlemen who have emailed me, to take me out somehow my ex got a hold of the emails and emailed them back telling them I was not interested.... I still love my ex very ... (157 words)

Recently discovered my BF is looking to hook up with men. I don't know what to do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for quite some time.(3.5 years) Recently when i looked at the computers history I noticed he was looking at M4M ads on craigslist(maleformale) This disgusted me so much, but I was even more disgusted when I saw him email and he had ... (81 words)

Can you help me figure out why he is out of reach?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online for a year now.. we been in a long distance relationship.. we talk for hours, we share pics, we share everything.. he even told me he wants me to be his wife, the mother of his kids and wanting to marry me when he come to my place when we meet.. so as far ... (267 words)

Would a man, given the opportunity, cheat if he thought he could get away with it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for married men. Why do men cheat and want to talk online to other women when they say they are happily married? Would they really cheat or even flirt if they were that happy? Would a man given the opportunity actually cheat if he could get away with it?... (53 words)

Why can't I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, well its a long story. i apologise in advance. i've been with this guy for three years. i have never stopped loving him even when i found out he was married and had 4 kids. he is twice my age. i couldnt leave. i have tried so hard. i couldnt. after few months i fou... (293 words)

Do you believe in full disclosure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This issue is really about how much someone should really share with their bf/gf. I'm not trying to be secretive for the sake of it. My boyfriend and I have had very, very different lives. His has been very normal and he hasn't gone through many real hardships in his... (425 words)

I put up a fake profile to monitor my son, but now I've fallen in love and don't know how to get out of it.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age - I set up a social networkng acct only to keep an eye on my son. Since I was only there for that purpose I put in all wrong info and a pic that was not me. Age 20 years younger. Different state etc. The problem is that I accepted a friend request from a man who is 20 yrs younger ... (168 words)

What can I take or do to reduce the size of my breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid friend! I will really appreciate if you all can find the solution to my problem and it goes... There is this guy i love and he really love me too, but the problem is that he complain how big my breast is. Please help me, what should i take or what should i do to reduce ... (63 words)

Does she just come to see me because she is bored and lonely? Should I trust her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i need some suggestions. i posted this question a couple of days ago but i didnt get any replies so i thought id give it another shot... this could be pretty long but ill try to keep it the shortest i can. my ex girl and i dated a couple of years and broke up a few months ... (523 words)

How do I get my parents to believe I am who I am and don't want to be like them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question about my mother....PLEASE READ!! Ok so Ive dealt with years of mental and physical abuse from my mum, she always tells me im worthless, no-one will love me, in useless, I'll never amount to anyone, I should just die already and make everyone happy, ... (741 words)

She broke up with me. I thought I was just trying to make her feel appreciated. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, At first, sorry for long message. I was with a girl for a couple of months, however we knew each for a long time. I messed up.. even tough i wanted to behave good, deep inside myself I am probably very self-centered. Whenever i was doing something for her i wa... (312 words)

I'm not sure if he's just being nice or he's generally interested.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey im starting to like a workmate ..thing is im really shy and so is he and im not good with picking up signals at all so any help with be great :) a few possible signs this week stirring me up saying this other guy was my bf even though its not true ,and im like no i don... (211 words)

Found Dad's history of porn on computer. Should I confront him or tell my mum?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my mum and dad have been married for about 18 years and recently things have been a bit awkward. they have been arguing quite a bit and my mum even told me a few weeks ago that she was getting fed up of my dad because i was upset and said that i was fed up of him because he ... (197 words)

We've talked for four years. When it came time to meet he backed out. What is going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, Im very confused right now. I met someone about four years ago. He works abroad, we kept in touch online/emails/chat etc. Got to know him well enough (as much as the net allows). He suggested to meet up, when he's on leave. Mentioned it a few times. Now he'... (297 words)

He's a wonderful man, and loves me very much, but I've been faking it for four years. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem where I am not sexually attracted to my man... he is a very handsome man, very romantic, loving, respectful... he's the best boyfriend you could ever ask for. I often listen to woman who are just wishing for a man like I have. He is completely dedicated to me.. ... (444 words)

I've chatted with him and sent him pictures. What more can I do? I don't want to give up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, I started talking to him when I was 17. I have been talking to him for one year and hes all Ive thought about. I have spent so many hours talking to him, so much time its unbelievable. I sent him 100s of pics of me, to keep him interested. I felt like h... (125 words)

Tips for lasting longer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I have a bit of a sex problem arising. I'm not going to say I am the most gifted at it by any means so here's the problem. I'm dating this girl who has been with a few guys in the past and during sex not one of them has been able to last longer than 3 minutes. I kno... (134 words)

Do you think this will get "A's" attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm attracted to this guy lets call him 'A' but he seems shy so he has never spoken to me but gives this impression that he is also attracted. Anyways, his friends with this other guy we'll call him 'B' who i've spoken to once and he hangs round with him a lot. 'B' is friendly ... (164 words)

B/f was lying to me and meeting a girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop feeling jealous when my boyfriend speaks to other girls. I've been with him for over a year now and although I don't like to throw the word love around I'm happy to say I don't want to be leaving him for a very long time :) The problem is about 2 months into our... (364 words)

Does anyone think online dating can work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I joined an internet dating site. Some people said it’s worth a go, a lot of people warned me off, and told me there are a lot of users and losers out there. I met a guy, he was nice (although he seemed to have dated a lot of women via internet – maybe he just liked meeting ... (268 words)

My girlfriend liked sex with her ex better because he was "larger". How do a I deal with this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

14 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I know a lot of people on this board are tired of the never-ending penis size questions, but please bear with me. The answers to most questions are "it's how you use it" and "women don't care about size", etc. But, what if you're in a situation where your girlfriend's ex was ... (329 words)

I love my girlfriend but she's too fat. How do I break up?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - me and my gf got together about 3 years ago. we both weighed 17 stone. we had a good relationship but in the last 12 months we said we would go on a diet. Now i weight 13 stone. she however weighs 18 and 1/2 stone. i am attracting the attention of other girls and flirting more. ... (73 words)

Dating 3 years and he's still contacting former lovers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age - Why does the guy im seeing for a little under 3 years still in constant contact with all his ex gf and lovers? He texts sends pictures and talks to them daily. When asked he says I had a relationship with them and no reason to stop talking to them. No reason why its a daily ... (159 words)

I'm afraid being monogamous will make me feel sexually repressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with the best possible guy i could be matched for. We are now also doing bible study and im connecting to myself spiritually. But im noticing my fear of my need of wanting to be intimately involved with other men. I used to be quite permiscuous before ... (205 words)

I don't know how he feels about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have been texting this boy for a couple of months now, after we met at a party. We get on really well and always have contact on a daily/ every other day basis. At a party last week we made out with eachother and then yesterday we were together all day. My problem is I ... (159 words)

How do I pick up some clues to see if he is interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hey guys... im crushing on a guy i work with , hes awesome but im not sure his status cos hes new :) the thing is im really shy and really dont want to make an idiot out of myself if hes not interested so im just wanting some clues on how to pick up if hes interested.. im ... (266 words)

Is he stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend was previously in an 10 year relationship whereby he had two kids with her. We’ve been together for 15 months. He and his ex girlfriend split up 7 months before we met. He has said that he loves me and we spend 98% of our time together (everyday except Thursd... (376 words)

The guy who likes my best friend has been spreading rumours about me, how do I stop them from getting together? I don't want to lose my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Emm, here goes: My best friend, Ann has this admirer who confessed to her a year ago(and still likes her). The thing is I have always had a good impression of him until recently. I found out that he started spreading rumors about me being unreliable and the like (which is ... (185 words)

How do I end my affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, I am woman of 25 in a extramarital relation. I want to end this. please suggest me some way that I can be out of this. my husband will be heart broken and may be angry, if he finds this out. in fact I love this extra thing, but still I want to stop it for my family. ... (95 words)

Any ideas on doing something different on a date? We have done the cinema, going for meals, nights in....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you guys give me some ideas on doing something different on a date. We have done the cinema, going for meals, nights in. Any ideas much appreciated.... (29 words)

Health problems, no intimacy or sex, a man who needs spcae.....this relationship is falling apart but I don't want to lose him! Help!

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. When we met it was wonderful. He was so passionate and loving and giving he held me like I was someone special. When he kissed me I felt like a school girl and was on cloud nine. About 6 months after we met and I was ... (626 words)

What should I do about this guy?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. I could of swore he liked me. he would flirt with me all the time.He would sit by me in class.Sometimes he would put his arm around touch my hand.Then one day he asked me to ask out one of my friends for him.I was so shocked.Because I'm prettier than my ... (163 words)

How do I stop being insecure about my boyfriend's ex-crush, as it's really bothering me

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's ex - crush is a girl in his gang of closest friends. She recently threw a hint at him that she is now interested in him, again. He later told me that though he wished he had heard this hint from her when he had liked her, he now doesn't want to do anything abou... (143 words)

My girlfriend of 8 years told me last week that she hasn't got the same feelings anymore. My life has come crashing down!!

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Please my girlfriend of 8 years last week told me she hasn't got the same feelings anymore. I always thought we were great together as does others Iam devastated sick everything you could think of we are both from different countries so I've returned home to northern Ireland ... (164 words)

Is it too late to ask her out with only 2 days until she leaves?

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so there is this girl who lives in the room next to me in residence at university and about 2 weeks ago she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but she seemed to be over it from what I gathered. Anyway, since then I have really wanted to ask her out but ... (109 words)

32 Year Old male virgin, no luck with girls, thinking of going to an escort. My religious side says no and my masculine side says hell yes!! Anyone in a similar situation?

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 and am a complete and utter disaster when it comes to relationships. I am good looking, I'm not obese or anything, I can approach girls and talk to them, but I seem to always say the wrong thing and turn them off. I have followed the advice of my female friends for years ... (368 words)

I'm almost 28, still never had an official relationship, obsessing over a loser I once dated briefly. I'm getting closer and closer to becoming that crazy cat lady!

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here's the gist: I dated a guy for 9 months, but it wasn't ever serious. Then he moved away and that was that, and this was almost 2 years ago! We have remained in contact and I saw him twice after he left, and we hooked up both times. It's been 2 years now, and h... (353 words)

My life has been a roller coaster of ups and downs, and now I want to shed the inhibitions that stop me from doing what I want to do because of the paranoia I feel all the time...

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've just turned 29. I feel massively self conscious all the time. I feel and do stupid stuff like walking down the road, I dread when the lights turn red because people in cars are more likely to notice me. I lower my music in my car when I am stuck in traffic incase a... (1576 words)

What should I do? I feel I'm putting up living with him just for the sake of my cat. I feel trapped

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please someone tell me what to do I feel trapped in a relationship with this guy I have a great family, but i cant move in with them because of my cat. My rented apartment is half his place too. He can stay at work if he wants to, but our whole flat is full of my stuff. ... (188 words)

How can I hold myself back from visitng prostitutes?

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I again visited a prostitute for sex. But this time I an feeling very guilty. Now I don't want to go there ever again but I am not sure about my emotions. What should I do to avoid going there?... (40 words)

She is trying to 'work on herself' what does that mean? and why did she want to break up if she still wants to be friends?

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when you breakup and the girl is trying to work on herself and she still wants to be friends ? Why would she want to still be friends when she did not want to stay in a relationship with me? ... (44 words)

Should I ask him out?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm confused, there is a guy who is older than i am and he told me that he is interested in me. i wasn't sure at first but now have fallen in love with him. i recently told him that it would be nice if we could talk more often and spend more time together, and he told me before ... (217 words)

Best boy-friend into boyfriend? How?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this best friend I have since I was a little girl. He acts really cute when hes with me, but when somebody talks about being in a relationship we say "no way!" anyway, I want to take the next big step. How do I tell him without ruining our long friendship?... (53 words)

Is my teacher just playing with me, flirting, or just likes me?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this teacher in my school who is also a model and just 12 years older than me. Since the beginning of the year Ive have a big crush on him, but Im not sure if he likes me back. Anyway, Ive notice some uncommon behaviour when he is with me: He always smiles when Im ... (224 words)

Why does my BF deliberately shove me away from him after we experience something as intimate as making love?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We love each other very much and we are even making plans for marriage after we are both done with school. Because we are both in college we tend to make love during the day between classes. The sex is great but aft... (264 words)

Traditional Premature Ejaculation Cures show no results - should I seek medication?

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend says she doesn't mind my premature ejaculation problem, but she almost always stays wanting more, or gets frustrated or unaroused whenever I start-stop, or climax early. I do pleasure her with oral, fingering and other body contact, but nothing compares to a go... (102 words)

How can we get the spark back?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now hes in jail right now he'll be getting out next year i am gona wait for him i love him very much but he says there is something missing its not the same as before and he is right i think it might be me i ... (98 words)

Advice on dieting and losing weight?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, Well im 14 and im quite fat. ive had some serious issues with wieght and my looks in the past i have been bullied because of them and alot of the time ive been made to feel like im the one who just doesnt fit in. ive developed severe depression but things a... (505 words)

Been with my g/f for 13 years but developing feelings for someone else

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 32 and ve been going out with my girlfriend for about 13 years, the problem is that ive started getting involved with someone else who i met through a friend of her family, we started out just holding hands then we started kissing, now she recently been wanting to be more ... (116 words)

Why is he ignoring me? What should I do?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he ignoring me? What should I do? We are suppose to be good friends and I know he's had feelings for me for almost a year (he sent a lot of mixed signals though). He's had a habit of coming in and out of my life and has a habit of withdrawing from people. When I w... (315 words)

My 12 year cousin may be abusing her brother, what can I do, I am 14??

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help this scenario isnt just wierd but im so conserned. well i have a cousin who is 12 years old ill call her Kim (not her real name.) My auntie got with her dad about 3 years ago and they are now married and she had a son with him who is now almost 2 ill call him ... (917 words)

Can you get pregnant if semen does not go inside the vagina??

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If cum gets on the outside lips or around my vagina can it go up into my vagina without being touched? Or does it have to be physically inserted for it to get in and pregnancy to happen?... (38 words)

I fall, they leave, am I too nice??

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does this ALWAYS happens to me? what is wrong with me:(? i really dont know what is wrong with me but every time i fall for a guy tends to leave me:( it always starts off so great, so sweet then he'd get distant and leave. am not a horrible person, my friends think ... (167 words)

He is verbally abusive and very controlling, why??

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im heather i jus turned 17 on monday. and ive been off and on with this guy who has jus turned 21 a few days before me since christmas. theres a few things that are really bothering me 7 i would jus likwe some insight on why hes treating me like this... we have had ... (389 words)

The more sexy the woman the more likely she filters for sucessful men?

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - For women. The more attractive the woman, the more likely she filters for successful men? Or does it just turn out that those men just happen to be more (or become more) successful than average?... (35 words)

I want to post phone my wedding due to the death of my father

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I was going to get married this May but my father just past a way and I'm not ready to get married right now because of my mother I know I can't stay forever but I feel bad just leaving her so soon..... How long should I post pone the wedding...... I say to ... (71 words)

Is he afraid of a relationship or does he just not like me? Whats with all the mixed signals??

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have had this guy friend, Alex, for a while and we never reall talked much at all until about a month ago. (we are both 16 by the way) He started texting me everyday for like a week and a half and then we kind of hung out. I just went with him to get his hair cut and then ... (475 words)

Want to move on, date someone new but am afraid to ask someone out

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14 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - i'm 24 years old with a 3 week old baby in a shitty apartment writting on an peace of crap labtop. with no job and zero friends due to the fact i lost them all because i was so wrapped up with my ex. who by the way i still love but f*** off when i told him i was pregant and is ... (175 words)

Is he going to cheat? or has he already? and what do I do?

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am lost. What makes a man claim to be happily married when his internet browsing history says otherwise? Our laptop was on his profile tonight as it sometimes is and I get on facebook and other various sites from his profile from time to time. I am 5.5 months pregnant and had ... (250 words)

Had sex with a guy who has a GF, my ex got mad at me and we broke up; now he wants me back. I want him and also the other guy, who's ready to break up with his GF for me!!

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14 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in a delema... Im deprived between 2 guys and i dont know what to do. It all started with my boyfriend, He was a great boyfriend and so sweet. But hes a virgin, and hes so nervous( which i do think is cute :) )... he always makes me happy, but there are times where i am so ... (321 words)

I fell for a girl but I don't think she likes me in the same way

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14 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell for a girl recently and have been trying as hard as I can to get her to like me back. Were seeing each other next week but I always get the sense she only sees me as a friend. Also I think she likes another person, they seem to flirt almost on Facebook etc. I feel so ... (82 words)

Thinking of getting marriage annulled, any thoughts??

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14 April 2011 (F)

age - Hi, My boyfriend and myself just got back toghether. I found out information about him going out on a date the following weekend with someone else. Why couldn't he just tell me he went with this new person to dinner? This really bothers me and I did ask him abou... (164 words)