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writes:Okay.. so here it goes.I met my boyfriend about 1 month ago after I left a really bad relationship(my ex cheated on me and lied to me for almost a year) but I kinda got over it.I had a long time where I had no attractions to people. but when I met this guy we got really close and it was like .. well we're more than just soulmates.. we got the same interests. we think about the same almost at the same time and everything is great.... almost.He is giving me money like it was bread.. he's not holding back.. I told him he was too kind after he gave me almost 700 dollars and refused to take them.. instead he gave me 2000.. so yeah it's all good.Since my last relationship ended tragically I've been lacking trust and once I called him and heard some girl moaning where he told me he was working.. it kinda got me scared that he was cheating on me. and such.. sometimes if we're supposed to meet I see him with other girls(he had relationships with) but he told me they're just friends since they never had feelings for each other.Every time I got sleep I get a bad stomach feeling about he is cheating on me.What can I do to change this for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeey.. thanks for your answer.
So I told him to tell me if he had done it and that if he didn't tell and I found out then I'd be more hurt than if he just told me straight away.
So he did.. he told me in the first week he kissed & got into oral sex with his ex.. but they haven't spoken since.. I'm not really angry at him but then yeah.. I'm just surprised and hurt 'cause he could let it happen..
I've decided to give him a last chance because he was apologizing from 8 am to 10 pm whole Wednesday.. again.. thanks for your answers.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (13 April 2011):
 THat is a very childish excuse for him to cheat on someone as a "payback". Why not just break up with her? I think he could cheat on you, but I don't think that is likely unless you provoke him or he feels that he needs "payback" in a way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, he did tell me he cheated on his ex. but he told me that the only reason he did it was cause his ex cheated on him.. so as a 'payback'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): Have you ever asked him if he's cheated in the past before? Because I say once your a cheater your always a cheater. Not saying if he is that he's gonna do that straight away but you need to be EXTRA careful when it comes to dating people like this... Alot of times people don't necessarily cheat because of something the person their dating did (sometimes it is that tho) but some people just do it for the thrill... And those types of people shouldn't be in any sort of serious relationship whatsoever because they can't be trusted and they break hearts when they do stuff like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I have told him a few times when we have met and he said he'd never do such thing.. I believe him but still lacking that trust.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (6 April 2011):
Have you talked to him about your fears?
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