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writes:Hi! I'm 15 years old. I always feel so sad with no reason. My parents are not married. And I'm staying in my dad's house right now which I really don't like. I don't have any choice 'cause my mom can give our basic needs everyday so she said I should go with my dad and finish my studies. But I just feel so sad. My dad is always irritated to us. He always go out every night. That really doesn't matter to me. I just want to know why when I wake up, I always cry and feel so sad. There are days I'm not totally in the mood. I always question everything. My dad won't allow me and my brother to go to my mom's house for a visit or this summer. I just feel so depressed and sad. Please help me. :((((((
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): perhaps you have a friend to talk to, one you can confide in and who will understand? Or perhaps you should tell your dad that you are feeling depressed, that you could use counseling. In the meantime, read, write, do things you love (if you don't like those things!) busy yourself with your studies, find some nice friends who will accept you and you accept them. Try to remember that your parents' actions don't make you a bad or weak person. You are individual of them. Because they are not married anymore doesn't mean that they both don't care about you deeply. Perhaps you could talk to your dad about how much it would mean to you to go to your mom's house. You have a right to see your biological mother, for crying out loud! Is there another adult who you trust that you can talk to about these things? I hope things get better for you, and know that as you are changing and growing into an adult you will feel very strong hormone changes as well, so your sadness could be just that. Don't think that it will last forever. You will feel better and you will be happy again. There are a many great wonderful things ahead of you. You just have to wait a while, to let them happen. Things will get better. Pray about it, there is much to say how far prayer goes, because God does hear your prayers. Talk to Him, He hears you and he knows EXACTLY what you are going through. That is something NOBODY else can say!! And He can help you! All you have to do is ask. Best of luck, and smile even when you don't feel like it. It might turn into a real smile! :)
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