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writes:how do I ask my man to go to the doctors and get his testosterone level checked? I feel like this is the problem he is having sexually he is only 28 but he is really having a hard time. We are still fairly young I am 23 and like I said he is 28, I am actually jealous of friends we have that are a couple and tv couples to. I see them have sex at will and our friends that live with us will take showers together for 2hrs I am sure having sex. I want this kinda of ease for sex and so does he but how do I tell or ask him to get help. I have never been demanding and I have even asked if he is okay with how our sexual part of relationship is?. He says its fine. I was trying to ask him about his needs but he is not having any issues with that I guess. One thing he did say is that he always thought he was a more sexual person cause he said when he was single he could jack off almost everyday and sometimes twice but he is confused on why he can't keep up with me or have sex a little more at will. can someone either give a suggestion to help us or anything? thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): Its possibly pressure and anxiety he feels when he senses he has to keep up with you. Perhaps he feels you have an expectation for him, and that makes him nervous and out of the mood. You have every right to have your needs met, but dont compare yourself to others... if I did that, I'd be sad for my sex life. Talk to the guy and see what's on his mind, chances are there's more communication needed here. Good luck.
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reader, Battista  +, writes (6 April 2011):
If it was me, if I had people living with us who were always- obviously seemingly- having sex, to be honest it would put me off a bit. If room mates are so aware of each others' sex lives then perhaps this is a bit of a turn off for your bf as it doesn't seem that there is much privacy.How often do you have sex? You don't mention this in your post.Incidentally, there is more to sex drive than testosterone levels.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (6 April 2011):
“when he was single he could jack off almost everyday and sometimes twice” This doesn't take much energy to preform then actually having sex. Some people want it all the time and others don't, that doesn't mean anything is wrong with him. You may slow down and a few years and he may increase. My advice is for the both of you to introduce other things like toys.
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