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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I just wanted to get some advice I don't think my gf is phisicly cheating on me but..... When got together she was seeing this other guy at the same time. 2 years on and she is still in daily contact via txt and face book with this guy. to save you all a novel. She always hides messages from this guy gets defensive of her phone ect. Recently she stayed loged on to facebook and I had a look. She had been talking to this guys friend saying she wished she got with his friend (the guy) before he got his gf. Recently I saw 2 messages 1 she sent him a photo and the other she said I can't believe u asked for a pic of my cleavage on loud speaker ( I dident hear) I don't do that in pics only in person. I keep it quirt and casualy later asked if I could go on her phone. I had my head bit off. So I went to smoke. When I came back she gave me the phone and the txt where gone. I questioned this and she point blanked refused she sent them. I told her I saw them and that she was lying to me but she told me to stop acusing her. She then lost her temper saying I don't trust her and realy made me feal like poo. she sleped on the sofa that night. I saw a txt that night that said I realy must love u a lot to defend you like that I gave him so much shit ( refuting to me) every time I question this guy I get my head bit off. I realy don't know what to do. The odd thing is she keeps asking when am I guna propose to her. But she telling other people she wishes she went with this other guy. I realy feal down on this. I love her to bits and apart from this there are no other problems. But when it comes up I'm made the feal like I'm in the wrong. Please help
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 you don't trust her and it seems you have reason for it.Do you really want to stay with her?
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (6 April 2011):
Dump her. She's taking you for a ride.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Why are you still with this girl?????It's beyond me when people stay together knowing full well that they are cheating.Leave her. Even if she bites your head off. Get from her. As far from her as possible. 'Cause if you do propose to her, she's gonna carry on doing it, and your the one she has got to fall back on when the "relationship" with the other guy goes tits up. I think she wants to be with him, but you said he has a gf? He won't leave his gf and ur gf knows it. But he will cheat on her. So she is holding onto that. If he was single she would be off in a shot. That's my opinion anyway. I know girls that sound like her!I hope this helps
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