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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Too many guys! And which one to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am in my first year at university, and while it is going great, I am finding all the male attention a bit overwhelming. It seems every guy I talk to is interested. Currently there are two I am potentially interested in myself, while there are around 8 that ... (239 words)

I want more, but am I just his close friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend are both 17 and we are very close. We spend loads of time together and recently that has been growing. He has told me before that not only am I his best girl friend I am also one of his overall best friends. We started becoming close a couple of months ago and ... (307 words)

Will my abusive ex start begging to be back with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know where am standing ? will an abusive ex bf who is possessive and obsessed of being wid call after slapping me this time and spit on my face ? he violated a restrained order once and my dad trials to ask him stay away from failed ..each time he ruin every chanc... (221 words)

I met the most amazing girl online - should we meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We have spent a lot of time getting to know each other. There's a good friendship, we've chatted on the phone, I've written to her. We have learned to trust each other. There was a time when we flirted mindlessly, but then we went through a phase where we talked less, an... (154 words)

Should I get together with him, and should I tell him about me and his brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I share a flat with Four guys one of which is my cousin. So I'm interested in two of them and my cousin has told me they both really like me. Last month me and guy A were alone and it got really intense really quick an we ended up having sex. Just as we had finished guy B comes ... (168 words)

How can I match up to all the women he's been with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to deal with this. You see my boyfriend has had many girlfriends before me, and even though we've been together for two years it still bothers me. Knowing all the girls and guys he's been with and that he did sexual things with them, it just makes me want to ... (132 words)

I told the guy I'm dating to slow down, was that the wrong thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and we really like eachother. Recently while we were making out he made a go for my boobs and from there it got a bit too intense for me. So I pulled back and told him that I didn't want it to go any further and that I felt ... (183 words)

Is there a reason why this guy goes into so much detail about his sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i need answers from guys. this question is hard to explain, but thanks to anyone who takes the time to read and answer it for me.. ok, i am in a long term relationship, and we have very different schedules, so we e-mail very often, actually daily, and they are always l... (377 words)

2 men, 1 confused girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and he is everything I have always wanted with a boyfriend and what I want in life his family is amazing to me. However I had a fling with my work college before me and my boyfriend got together me and this guy had been close before and we were for a short ... (129 words)

His parents walked in on us having sex and his mother looks at me like I'm not good enough for him now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 and a half years and we have been having sex for about 4 months. So one day I was round his house and as his parents were out and we thought we would have sex. But in the middle of it his parents walked in and saw it all. ... (175 words)

Why do boys act so possessive?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - why is it i can get a boyfriend really easily .....but i dont want one cuz they act too possessive with me..... why do they act so possessive?????... (29 words)

G/f has decided she never wants to have sex again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now, and it is pretty serious.Our sex life was AMAZING until 2 months ago where she decided she was "never interested in sex" and has decided that she never wants to have sex with me again? I try to respect her choice but i ... (74 words)

Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I find someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel so alone in my life right now. It's mainly because I'm 30 and I still haven't met the right person for me who actually really does want to be with me. I've been out with a few girls but something always seems to happen or go wrong, like I get let down in some way. And ... (209 words)

How accurate are sonograms? I'm worried about who is the father of this baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I cheated on my boyfriend whilst we were going through a rough patch. I totally regret it, I have not told him but I think about it and deeply regret it every single day. I almost torture myself mentally over it. The worst part is that I'm pregnant, now I didn't kno... (377 words)

When I'm alone with a female I become speechless!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dimario Here, Yet Again. Well i have a problem with females. when im around people a group in general i am usually a really social person. but i noticed when im alone with just female(s) i find myself speechless. literally it feels like the words where stolen from my throat. it ... (112 words)

Husband acting weird not wanting to kiss claiming I have bad breath

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, my husband of 2 years has been acting wierd. Last week, he bent to kiss me bt refusd and said my mouth was smelling, I have tried kissing him with a bad breath intentionally long ago but he didnt complain. He also have decreased the time he spends with me or how ... (156 words)

Do you think this could be the start of the end of our relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my partners mum passed away yesterday morning. I met him at the hospital to comfort him, went back to his brothers house after- put my arm around him on the couch but when we got home he told me to save it for when we're alone(he usually doesnt mind being all over me i... (287 words)

I want to go out with my new friends, but I need them to invite me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this question isn't specifically about love but i need some help, please! I have just got this new group of friends at school and im REALLY happy, they are great! Problem is, they all live near each other and are really close. They always go the park together but they... (125 words)

How can I stop obsessing over this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

8 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi friends...I need help... Please... Okay...so how can it be a coincidence all the time? There's this girl...who makes my heart jump, makes me crazy...in short my love... So the moment I forget her...how is that I see her in reality? She's on my mind all the time...I don'... (120 words)

Should I confront my girlfriend on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend has being a mean girl lately and i am not liking it. She tells everybody i am a _______ and i am not. She has been starting rumors about me and my other friends to and i want to what's going on because the other day i found a note with her hand writing that said she ... (83 words)

Boyfriend cheats but won't admit to it. He doesn't take me seriously. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So, the scenario is that Im with a man who has cheated in the past a couple of times..and every time he got caught his answer was that we were having problems..anyways, been together for 6yrs and Im not happy how everything is going..I have no trust just a month ago..I found ... (298 words)

I have feelings for my best friend's wife. I need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so here's the situation probably asked here a thousand times but mine is with different details. i have this close friend for more than ten years, we live and work aboard. two years ago he met this girl online and they fell in love and being his best friend he was always asking ... (443 words)

What do men want to hear during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What are the things a man wants to hear during sex? Dirty talk? What is the most turn on? ... (20 words)

Should I be patient and wait for him to fall in love with me, or should I run now to avoid a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm looking to hear what people think about something I am worried about with my boyfriend of 6 months. We get on really well, especially when it's just the two of us together (he can try too hard to impress his friends sometimes...!), I'm very attracted to him... (480 words)

I like her and don't know whether I should contact her on Facebook or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i went out to a bar with one of my mums friends daughter it wasn't really a date but i really like her and i got the feeling she liked me i didn't get her number but i found her on faceboook but im not on it and i don't know if i should just add her because i don't want her to ... (66 words)

Husband has anger issues. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age - Should I give my husband a second chance? We have been together for almost 11 years. My daughter was 7 when we met. He was very affectionate, and was very good with my daughter. The only thing I found out about him is that he has problems with anger. He gets angry about ... (192 words)

Why am I obsessing over this guy in another country?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and obsessed with this guy that lives in America and I have been talking to him for a year online and the time I started talking to him there was a lot going on with my family and I had this idea in my head that I would go over to him and I would feel happy again and be ... (112 words)

We fought over housecleaning and he walked out. How do I make him understand?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, living with my boyfriend is killing me! Lately we have been arguing because he doesn't clean up after himself. I do all the cleaning and I don't mind seen as I don't work as much as him but the guy does nothing and when he eventually does ( after me nagging like an ... (315 words)

Is my life cursed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) age - I'm in huge confusion, I don't know what to think. I keep doing the right thing, but my life ,(actually not mine but my family's life) is falling apart. I have such a tragic things with my kids, with all of them, that nobody would believe me. They are all troubled, differ... (219 words)

Should we stop having sex or still have it occasionally? Need advice on this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice about sex. Sorry for the long story. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months (only known him about 5). We met online on a dating website and he's one of those really sweet guys that are hard to find. When we were initially talking online he told ... (597 words)

I have fallen for my online friend. I don't think he feels the same. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 22 years old and i finally met the guy i was talking to for over 2 years..we got to know each other online through a common friend,started as texting but then we started talking everyday!..and we finally met,he came down to my city for 3 days..we went out, drove around ... (228 words)

I told her I used drugs in the past and she broke up with me. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Just recently I told my girl that I used to smoke marijuana, and because of that she said she doesn't want anything to do with me. She left and said that she can't be with a druggy. I was smoking before I met her and quit because I met her and she was all I needed. How do... (141 words)

After 5 years husband confesses addiction to Pornography?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 5 yrs. All this time I thoguht my husband was addicted to my body. But,Now my husband tells me that he loves big boobs and that all this time he has been entertained himself with porn videos on Youtube, watching women with big boobs and masturbating. He ... (192 words)

Do I just ask her out or do I tell her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, well there is this girl at my college and i really like her and i really want to ask her out but there are a few problems 1) we are right in the middle of our exam period and 2) we live in different cities. So my question is i really want to tell her that i like her, ... (98 words)

My ex is now willing to get with me, but I think it's too late

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll try explain the situation as much as I can within this. I've had an Ex but we broke up before christmas, but we had tried many times to get back together and failed. But now we're more liking and he is a lot more willing to get with me. But I believe it is too late. I ... (268 words)

Should I Tell Him That I'm Pregnant With His Baby?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm sorry to bother you all but I've got myself into a difficult situation. I'm 17 (18 in 2 months) and I just found out that I'm 29 weeks pregnant. I was really experiencing any symptoms which is why I never found out earlier. The problem is that my baby's father ... (138 words)

I've been out of the dating scene and now feel awkward. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody! This year of my life has really been full of crazy things, but the saddest thing about it is that my girlfriend I've had for the longest time finally broke up with me. Yes, it does make me sad, but seeing as we're still really close friends, I've go... (163 words)

My love has faded. Is this just a phase, or should I call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my bf for over a year and i feel as though we have drifted apart i never see him (with the hours he works and what i work, even though we live together). and when we talk it is only really because i come home from work and he has had a few drinks. i get annoyed ... (138 words)

I had sex with him and now I am worried about a few things. Need advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So i was a complete idiot. I am 17 and where i work this new lad started who was 21. Instantly we clicked, and i really liked him. Of course i barely knew him. But he spoke to me online and we met up and the 4th day i kissed him and i was so happy, thinking maybe this is ... (269 words)

Can I satisfy and get her pregnant with this size?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - dear mam i have penis in 5.8" and girth 5.5" is this penis can fully satisfy a women and get pregnancy with this size of penis ?... (28 words)

I want/need to tell my teacher how I feel about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently posted a question about being in love with my teacher. I don't need anybody to tell me that it isn't love because I have never felt like this with any male before. Friends are telling me that they can see chemistry with us both, they way he acts around me is ... (419 words)

Break-up after 7 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 7 years, and like every couple we have shared good and bad times. During the last couple of months things have been especially bad, we seem to argue a lot and she tells me that I "irritate her". I booked a weekend trip in an ... (266 words)

She's 30 years younger than me, should I not get involved?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age - I met a woman on holiday who is 30 years younger than me. We both know this is not long term but we enjoyed ourselves. She wants to visit me in my home. My children are grown up and don't live at home. I am separated for 6 years. Is it best to avoid getting into a relations... (66 words)

I'm scaring her by staring at her. What should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Today, the girl I love suddenly asked me why do I always look at her and this scares her. She said all her friends have noticed that. Two days ago, I have sent her a goodbye letter and wanted to end our friendship since it is too much for me after six months of mental tortur... (166 words)

Confused about what the doctor's time off slip time frame refers to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship problem. It is about being off work. I have been off work with a severe cold for a week, so I handed in my self certificate on the 7th day and on the eighth I made an appointment for the docs, couldn't get in until today, so, the doctor back date... (180 words)

Need suggestions on how to win her back while she is dating someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright i know what ur gonna say do u really want ur ex back. Shes a good girl im just wondering how to show her that im not possessive. She broke up cuz i was supposedly possessive. I realize im gonna be who i am and if she don't like me again fuck it shes not worth it but im ... (188 words)

I am concerned that my GF is cheating on me with a male coworker. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a lesbian relationship of 2 and a half yrs. My girlfriend and I have been going through a lot of bs lately. She is my best friend we talk about everything. I havent been able to take her out lately due to financial issues. She has recently got a new job. She considers ... (312 words)

After being found out he admits to all the cheating and says he'll give up his other girlfriends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody! I and my boyfriend are been together for 2 yrs and I just found out recently that he has already a girlfriend before me and they're still together. On top of that he has other women that he sees once in a while... I found out also that 3 months after we have the ... (223 words)

I am dating my supervisor. We are discrete. Should I stay at this job or move to another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am in a weird situation here. I work as a nurse aide and my supervisor and I have been seeing each other for two weeks now. He is so sweet to me. He always tells me how pretty I am and brings me flowers. When we are at work we keep it professional and we are good about ... (200 words)

I don't know if I believe my married lover when he says he doesn't sleep with his wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im too much depress now, because my boyfriend is too busy and he have wife and 4 kids.. i understand of his being busy because his a General surgeon he always have operation, he told me that if he ddn't do his job the patient get died.. he is 20 years older than me but that... (129 words)

He kills the mood when he asks me how long it is going to take. Should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has tried to get me to orgasm a few times. Every time he does, he ends up stopping halfway through the process and asking me how much longer I'm going to be. It frustrates and even offends me to no end because when he says that, it completely kills my mood for any ... (146 words)

Fallen in love with "Best Bud" and he is leaving. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i am falling for my bestbud.. it's been 2 years.. i started to care more than i should.. i dont want to lose him.. he is showing he cares for me.. jokes that he loves me.. i know he loves someone.. its so hard when what he is showing is different than i know.. he is... (91 words)

Am I his mystery girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18/f hes 19/m i apologize in advance cause its really long but i figured you'll need as much info to help with the situation; The last 4 months i have become really close with a guy i consider my best friend. I know as cliche as it is, but ever since i was little i to... (1147 words)

My boyfriend is pushing me away - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me I'm in such a pickle. I'm currently in a relationship - I'm approaching the 1 year mark so it's still early days but we both moved very quickly and things were rapidly serious. We've had our ups and downs as most couples do but once I saw a fews texts from... (422 words)

Girl I care about is in a destructive relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm back again. There's a girl in my school, a very close friend of mine who I like, more than ever before right now. I made a topic back in November about her: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-date-her-so-should-i.html So I decided not to do an... (419 words)

He was 30 years older than me, but I still can't get over our break-up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Isn't life ridiculous..... it makes me fall in love with a man 30 years older than me and then it makes us break up because we cant be together properly.... I loved him so much and still do...... How I wish we could get back together..... How I wish we could then be to... (169 words)

I am secretly dating my cousin. Now her sister is threatening to tell our family about it unless we have sex with her, too!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, My cousin and I have been dating for close to a year without either of our families knowing or finding out. But just recently, her younger sister came forward to us about knowing about our relationship. She's threatening to tell our respective families about us unless we ... (102 words)

Should I tell my friend I dated his sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I had been seeing my friend's sister after she came onto me over Christmas. I had liked her for a long time. She told me that she had wanted me for a long time which felt good.We had several conversations in which she and i discussed a future together. We did not tell... (283 words)

Without actually asking how do I confirm if he's gay or not? I am gay.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old gay guy and there's this guy in my class that i have a crush on But i can't tell if he's gay or not or most importantly does he like me or not? Okay so he is not very girly, but has best friend who's openly gay. And he plays soccer so i am not sure if he's... (155 words)

Girlfriend says I need to give her more space. I am not sure what it means for our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really down at the moment. I was getting to know a really wonderful girl, and then the last two months things have gone from talking daily, to it appearing like me texting her is a nuisance. She told me we need not speak daily, that I am high maintenance, now... (262 words)

Should I leave her? Ten years, I have done all I can to appease her. Sex is rare. Is this fixable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! Sorry for this long text, but I want you to understand my situation better, so I can get a better advice, I need it! I have been having this problem for a while now and desperately need advice. I am a 27 yr old guy and my gf is a year older then me. We have b... (1051 words)

How am I giving out signals that I'm gay? only my sister knows. But this straight guy has shown interest in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - recently a guy from my class text and ask me "are you plu?" what is that suppose to mean? is he interested in me? to be honest, i can't even believe that he will ask such question, mainly because he is those type of straight acting dude. i'm bi and no one knows about my sexu... (114 words)

My girl friend exhausts me mentally so I broke up. How do I deal with all my negative feelings at having to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Two days ago, I sent a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. The reason I did it is after 6 months of chasing after her I feel mentally exhausted, so I have to said to her is the end of our friendship. Yesterday, I went up and tried to talk to her, she was really sad and didn... (100 words)

Why can't I return my partner's physical affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i cant cuddle or kiss my partner when he cuddles me. i keep my arms down when he leans in for a kiss and i turn my head. he has noticed this and i had no idea i was doing this even now when i know i do it, i cant stop it. why is this?... (56 words)

I set him a trap, he failed my trap. Was what he did cheating? How can I stop him cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship together for more than four years now. He has never done anything to cheat on me but when i checked his emails, i saw one of his emails saved in drafts saying "I am a single male of 24, what you want me to be" I have no idea ... (412 words)

I am torn between my polygamous ex who I love and a stunning woman who I dumped. How do I sever ties to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl since October and we are madly in love, but it hasnt been easy. She has lied to me numerous times,I have found out her actual age (a lot older than me) and she has lied about being with her ex, while she was still with me. She swears on her li... (329 words)

Tell me how I can heal my broken heart? Is my caste my fault? Twice I lost for same reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how could i ever forget my boy friend easily? He said that he loved me, but he can't be married to me, because his family don't accept me because my caste didn't match with him.. tell me how my caste is my mistake? i loved him unconditionaly with out any terms and condit... (121 words)

He seen me in my bikini, got a boner and now he's angry at me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so the other week I went on holiday to the seaside and another family who are really close. So on the last day I wanted to go swimming but the only other person who wanted to was a boy my age from the other family. So after I got changed into my bikini I went to meet him. ... (160 words)

After I had sex with him he told me he was involved with another girl!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So I've always liked this guy. Ever since middle school I've had the biggest crush on him. I'm in college now, and we've just started corresponding last summer. We used text each other about once a week or so. I could tell he was generally interested in me (or at least... (220 words)

One aspect of boyfriends behaviour frustrating me.

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend gets angry whenever i become a little possessive about him.I dont like it at all that other girls try and draw his attention and if i tell him about it he gets upset.even in office i dont like him borrowing a shawl from any girl to wrap around himself.I feel he ... (116 words)

How do you get away from a manipulator?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you get away from a manipulator? My bf and I have been together over 2 years. Its long distance as he lives in the states. We met online and its definitely been a roller coaster from the jump. He's "cheated" on me with many other women online. Carried on relation... (417 words)

After a year we still haven't said "I love you" to one another

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with this guy for almost a year now and i feel like he is my "one" but neither of us have said "i love you". I have always had issues saying it but he hasn't. So why hasn't he said he loves me??? I sometimes feel like he is cheating but it might all be in my head. ... (119 words)

My break up....did I deserve this?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years in total. I had started dating him after 6 year relationship I ended because I was so young I grew out of it. We fell in love and after a year and a half I cheated.. he started neglecting me sexually he found out and left me for almost ... (512 words)

How do I make things work with my best friend and my boyfriend?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is starting to ditch me because I'm with my boyfriend too much at school instead of how it used to be with just me and her.. I don't want her to feel forgotten but I also want to be with him and have been with him for a long time. How do I keep both of them and ... (71 words)

I'm worried that later on in life my boyfriend could become abusive

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend always treats me way good and does nice things for me but when he gets upset he kind of scares me. He has never hurt me or anything but he flips out and it gets crazy. I'm worried that when we are married he will get worse. Should I talk to him about it and let him ... (70 words)

Can a 15 year old move out of home? my family make me feel sick

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i seriously can't stand my mother we fight and yell all the time i really want to move out, but i don't know how to really make it. i'm 15 and done with my family because of my family i have depression and stress, so bad it's affecting my health. i really do need help and ther... (79 words)

Advice on rebuilding my life and moving on after abuse has ended

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Firstly thank you so much for taking time to read my question. I really do need help. I have recently come out of an abusive relationship, I have been out for roughly three months. It was a terrible experience that has shaken me to my core. After ... (306 words)

He turned down a handjob, does that mean I'm not good at it?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The other night I was over at my boyfriend's place but since I was on my period we didn't have sex. We still had a good time, went out for coffee and watched a movie. Later in the night I offered to give him a handjob and he said no. His reason was that it doesn't feel as good ... (166 words)

Loving a girl but other girl proposes.....solution?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am loving a girl(same religion) from two years but can find the guts to tell her. Another girl (of different religion) who is a friend of mine says she is loving me since she has known me and is ready to change her religion for me. I've been talking on mobile with her and ... (77 words)

I want to stay married but sex life is driving me crazy!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - He hates foreplay and wants just sex. I have talked about it with him but no difference. He sticks to his gun. I had a previous relationship where the guy made me feel sexy, wanted and fufilled. We are married and I just can't forget my ex no matter how much I try. Want to stay ... (65 words)

My GF doesn't open up to me, is very close to her ex, got naked at a school party...yet has no regrets and just doesn't seem to care anymore!!

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there everyone. I'm not sure what to think about my girlfriend. I'm normally really good at reading people and I've just been having trouble this time. My girlfriend and I met online and have been together 3 months. Yes I know, I don't need all the comments about lo... (495 words)

How can we reach out and help our damaged friend?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A close friend of mine has had a pretty hard life. She's been abused by her controlling and highly religious father because she is a lesbian, and she has been raped by a guy she thought was her friend. Now, she obviously has some pretty deeply ingrained issues, a major ... (200 words)

Men please help me, Was it love?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for 8 months. we recently broke up and come to find he had other sex patrners and was still sleeping with his ex the entire time. I dont get why you would get into a relationship if you have no intention on being faithful. His best friend even said to me ... (186 words)

A Greek mythological name for my daughter?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 7 months pregnant with a little girl and im having a really hard time finding a name for her since i dont like traditional names much im looking for unique names does anyone have any suggestions. I love greek mythology and dark beautiful names as well. I am trying to ... (71 words)

Creepy boy I dated for 1 day is now moving to my town!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so my clingy ex whom I dated a while back keeps texting me and sexually harrasing me, but I can't tell my parents because I'm not allowed to date! So last year, my friend and I went to a school football game, and this guy that didn't go to my school, and still doesn'... (324 words)

She led me on believing she wasnt dating anyone when she was, why do I still badly about her?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is about an online relationship. My question this time is, why do I care so much about my online ex girlfriend? We dated in january and it was fantastic, she was the "perfect girl" emotionally, and we shared lots of values and hobbies. Things went on well until her ... (578 words)

Please help.. judgmental mom doesn't like my boyfriend of 2 years for no reason whatsoever

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom is being really mean saying that she doesn't like my boyfriend of whom I've been dating for 2 years now only because he is shy and doesn't like to talk much. Gosh it's really irritating me.. gahhh I feel myself getting closer and closer to telling her off because he ... (192 words)

Should I go out with a girl my friend has sex with?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my friend has introduced me to a girl but he has had sex with her three times so she is'nt a virgin but i still she's interested in me but i don't wheter to leave her or to date her as i'm a virgin and she's not and also as i said my friend has had sex with her ... (59 words)

How do I fall back in love?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen out of love with my fiance'. what can i do to regain this?... (16 words)

I'd like to have sex once a day, not once a week!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - For the past few years, my sex drive has been so much higher than my husband's. I am starting to feel like a big old slut in comparisson. We usually have sex about once a week, but really, I would rather once a day. I'm starting to take this personally. What can I do? Am I ... (63 words)

I know he still likes me, is he trying to make me jealous?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with this guy for 4 days and we broke up he was the type that wasn't very popular...but now that he is he thinks he is all that...but we still talk and text as friends...and i know him well and i know that he still like me but he's too stuborn to admit it...somehow i ... (76 words)

Is going to a prostitute a bad idea?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is satisfying my sex needs by going to prostitute is a bad idea ? ... (14 words)

I can't get over this person even though they have never been free!

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Good evening. I've known this person for two years, and they have been TAKEN for three. Since the day I met them, I "fell in love". Usually when this happens, I simply get over it. Alas, not this person. In the months that this person goes back home, I figured it would get bett... (206 words)

Is it flirting if he gives me a nickname?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so this guy i like it seems that we flirt to me and my friends but im not sure if its the same for him. Ok so he gave me a little nickname and and we tease eachother is this flirting?... (42 words)

I've never felt passion for my husband

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I married very young to a really good guy that I dated exclusively for 3 years during high school. We have been married for almost 20 years and things are good... gets better each year. I am thankful that I chose well and life has been good. To be honest though, I feel like ... (93 words)

Should I continue to pursue this girl or let things go?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well there is this girl that i met at this event with my friends, i really liked talking to this girl and she seemed intrested in me as well. I got the guts to ask her for her number and she gave me hers and she also asked for mine. The next day she texted me and asked... (352 words)

After 4 years I think he wants to end things but won't express his feelings

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone may be able to help advise me. i ahve been in a realtionship with a guy 6 years younger than me for 4 years now. Mostly things are fantastic and we are good friend and have great respect for each other and allow each other to follow our own dreams. for the last ... (186 words)

He blocked my number and then lied about it!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf and myself had fight few days back and he blocked my number. I knew that he blocked my number since i hv asked my friend to call him and she was able to reach him and but from my cell i was not able to reach him. After few days he called back and when i asked him... (120 words)

I expect my husband to at least be interested in me once a week!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We'v been married for 1 year and 4 months, but I find that our sex life is winding down. Recently, the frequency has changed from once a week to once in two weeks. Obviously, my self confidence is taking a bashing as I don't understand what his problem is. He would rather watch ... (162 words)

My husband lost his job but never told me! He let me believe he was working when he was home sleeping!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hey all, Ive been married for 4 yrs but been with him for 10 yrs. I have a 2yr old baby! My husband lost his job 2 months after we purchase a house but never told me. I used to go to work and so did he and so i thought! He used to drop my son at his moms so that she can watc... (215 words)

Why did my ex suddenly tell me to leave him alone?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I broke up with my ex bf 14 years ago (I am now 33 and he is 35). We were teenagers and we moved on, I saw other people and through a mutual friend I heard he has seen one or two but that I was his only real relationship. I feel I still love and care for him for some rea... (202 words)

When I have dreams they become real. what is this about?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a little weird.....but here goes So sometimes when I have dreams they are real. Like if I have a dream about something within a week or a month , it actually happens. its been happening a lot recently. What does this mean? Thanks for reading! ... (55 words)

Did something sexual with a guy friend

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ahh Hi, sorry i've just signed up cos i've got a couple of questions or things i'd like advise on if thats ok? I just freaking out about putting this on the net thats all and getting dissed by people, here goes.... Last night i did something sexual with my best friend whos ... (62 words)

The relationship isn't great and I'm pregnant

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 21 and in my first year at university. I have been with my bf for about 7 months and things over the last month or so havent been the best. Found him keeping in contact with ex's and lying about it etc. I have found out today that I am pregnant though :/ My las... (120 words)

Why does he stare at me?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this boy at school I like but he does not know it and he does not no I'm gay. No one knows I'm gay. The boy I like stairs at me often that's how I started to like him because he stairs at me I use to stair back but he doesn't seem gay. He's a basketball player on the ... (318 words)

Mood for sex?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - why are some women more in the mood for sex right before they start there period?... (16 words)

Does he really love his GF as much as he says he does? Or is he interested in me?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I realized I basically fell in love with one guy. He has been in a relationship for 3 years now. From the begining he did not tell me about his girl friend,so I was talking to him as to a single good looking and nice guy. Then I found out through my friend that likes hi... (376 words)

Is this likely to have got her pregnant?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am slightly worried about the condom having slipped off and am wondering if I should be worried. My head tells me no, but I'm not very knowledgeable so I would rather ask. I finished inside her, but by the time I got it out it had softened and the condom had slip... (150 words)

I don't really know how to act- sometimes we're very close but at other times, we're not...

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for around 3 months now, but we only mostly get to see eachother during holiday periods, as we go to different universities. We get along great but he's really confusing me lately. He can be quite hot and cold- one minute he's introducing me to his p... (184 words)

I cannot have an orgasm my body cant handle it

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't cum when i reach the point of a orgasim i have to stop my boyfriend as i cant handle the feeling in my body. we brought a vibratour to see if i could do it myself when he wasnt home but still when i reach the point i have to stop cause i cant handle it please help me ... (62 words)

I told people I have a boyfriend when I don't

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i made up me having a boyfriend to impress my friends but now they want to meet him what should i do i dont want to tell them because then they wont like me and i hav already said that we broke up but they still want to meet him. Help??... (51 words)

My dads porn addiction is hurting our family!

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A little back story: My mom and I are very close, so we talk to each other like friends often. Because of that, I know a lot about her and my dad's relationship. My dad has been experiencing some Erectile Dysfunction issues over the past two years due to heredity and inju... (257 words)

How can I get my mother to kick my sister and her kids out?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a sister that is in her 30's and her and her kids moved in with me and my mother almost 10 years ago and they wont leave. my sister wont get a job or even make an attempt to look for her own home and expects for my mother to keep taking care of her and her kids. last ... (133 words)

He says he got rid of his porn for me. Should I believe him?

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8 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a question that is mostly for guys.. i want to start by saying that i am very aware that when a girl tells a guy she wants him to get rid of his porn, usually he just hides it.. but in my case, i never told him how i felt about it, the topic was never brought up, but ... (90 words)

I made a mistake. Should I try to get her back or just get over her?

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8 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my x split up last year due to my sexting and emailing other women and she kicked me out even thou it was meant to be for a few months she still hasn't and now wont let me back (harsh i know but that's what she wanted) basically i cant get over her,cant stop thinking... (250 words)