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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The guy I dated on vacation turns out to be my new teacher! Can we keep things a secret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on a holiday with my friends three months ago and one night we were out in a club and we met a few guys thinking nothing of it i got really close to one of them and we kind of just stuck together for the rest of the holiday we had a great time and i really liked him, we ... (326 words)

I'm old fashioned and don't ask guys out so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. freshman year i was walking down the hall and he walked the opposite way, i thought "wow that guys is really attractive" this went on for the entire year, without knowing his name. sophomore year one day i get a friend request from someone, and as i ... (248 words)

Does my teacher like me as more than a student?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need advice on what I should do about my science teacher! He is in his late forties, married and has two kids (including a daughter who is one year older than me!) and he has done so many things that felt very unappropriate and flirty in so many levels. First of all I just ... (874 words)

Is a line being crossed here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my friend with benefits, wants to cum on my face and I've had it on my tummy but never on my face, I realize it could be some sort of power trip for guys but since we re just friends and he's not my boyfriend, is a line being crossed here?? I wouldn't even think I would let ... (80 words)

A drunken kiss that I donn't remember!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, i went out 2 weeks ago with a circle of friends that i don't usually hang out with,but very much enjoy their company. So anyway, tonight on chat, i speak to one of them that apparently saw me out and mentions how he liked my hair and that i've changed (in a good way) sin... (279 words)

Why did he tell everyone that he broke up with me when it was me who ended things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii, So bacicly ive just been out with a boy, he kept asking me one day at school. Recently in the easter holidays i saw him we went out me him my bestfriend and her boyfrined the first day he was fine but all others he messed me around had me and my friend looking everywhe... (522 words)

I think my Dad's having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i think my dads having an affair. My parents have been married for 15 years,they argue reguarly and iv been thinking for the last 2 years that they were going to split up but they havent.The other day my dad was out and he'd left his phone charging,i decided to be nosy and look... (238 words)

I know the relationship didn't work but I want to get back together anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i broke up on good terms a week ago because we both saw it coming and knew it was inevitable. he and i have a child together and i'm still living with him until i find a job to move out. i was verbally abused quite a bit in the relationship and somewhat control... (429 words)

Is he only playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - what does it mean when a guy says that we can see each other when our schedules allows? Just wondering because I was dating this guy but somehow I think he only wanted me for sex. Like, he would call me Saturday and ask if we could go movies or something, but then Sunday,... (229 words)

Too shy to call

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - so im 16, never had a girlfriend, but i finally found a girl that i like a lot and cant stop thinking about. Im pretty sure she likes me, but its so hard to tell how much she does. I go to an all boy school and she goes to an all girl school, and we live 45 minutes away, so i ... (250 words)

Afraid to tell her parents about the engagement

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while now. we live together and very close. one day the talk of marriage came up and we said we would do it! we;re set to be wed in 2 years but i'm afraid of telling her parents. what do i say to them to prove that i love her... (89 words)

He doesn't want a relationship but I've fallen for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, ok, so I'll try keep this very brief. I'm 30, met a guy in a bar last month, his 27. Gorgeous, funny and yum. We get on great. However he doesn't do relationships and made it pretty clear... But we started seeing each other. Were both pretty busy with stresses in life. I'm ... (258 words)

Been seeing him for three months -- is it normal to pine like this on the weekends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ants how r u alll. Need some help here. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3months now and things are goin so well. He adores me and same goes for me. We work at the same company so during the week we see more of each other and still chat often. My problem is during the ... (148 words)

I think he made upa girlfriend because he's afraid of what is happening between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you help ease the anxiety of a man who's afraid? For the background story see here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-move-back-to-be-with-my.html So a month and a half ago, I told this guy Steve that I had feelings for him. Steve said he didn't see m... (202 words)

Torn between the two

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i say to them? So theres this guy. lets say 'David' who i liked and he liked me, we never really 'went out' but we spoke a lot and clearly both liked eachother. (we held hands a few times) After time however David gave me the impression he didnt like me as he said he... (222 words)

Is my boyfriend still in love with the deceased mother of his four year old child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 year. he has two children from two different mothers. the oldest, his daughter, is 4 years old. Her mother passed away 4 years ago, 11 days after the now 4 year old was born. When this death occured my current boyfriend has told me that... (396 words)

How do I change a habit that has become ingrained? my daughter in law has complained about it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age - My son has asked me to stop repeating myself when I speak to his wife. He says she doesn't want to speak to me any more because I repeat myself so often. My son says he is used to me doing this and thinks nothing of it, he says I have so many good qualities that they count for ... (155 words)

How can I determine if my two cousins have the same feelings as I have for them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - ok I have these two cousins who I'm attracted to and I think they might think the same. But I am not sure. One is 29 and the other one is 21.I'm 28. I am really close to both of them. I mean we can talk about anything. Relationship problems, money problems, sex life etc. we... (115 words)

He Didn't Want Me to Kiss Him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so there's this guy that obviously likes me. I mean, it's so obvious that it hurts. Unfortunately he lives 6 1/2 hours away. But, I went down and saw him this past weekend at an anime convention. I didn't get to see him on Friday, but I hung out with him like all ... (218 words)

She told me that her ex's looked better than mine??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question for the guys. And unfortunately this has happened to me so thats why im asking. What would you do if you recently started dating a girl that you really liked and she really liked you back and during a conversation she told you that her last boyfriend was bigger ... (95 words)

Should I Be Angry At All His Lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last Summer Of 2010 i discovered 'Dating Sites' . Over A few Months i got into Contact with an American Man Who was working with politics etc we Spoke For Months And I fell in love :) he came to ireland in autumn and asked me to meet him i was pregnant at the time and instead i ... (261 words)

It started as something casual, now it's awfully complicated

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Backstory, Gay man, 21... studying at Uni. Decided before I started that I would NOT be getting into a relationship while at uni (previous experience of stress + exams = not good!). So I meet this guy 7 months back... was meant to be casual fun, although we clicked straight... (361 words)

He talks to other women...what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I found my husband has been talking to a lot of women. He has started hiding things better now that I found out he slept with one. He mashed up his cell phone because he didn't want me to see who was on it. He even went as far as changing the password and name on the bill so I ... (125 words)

Am I making too much of this dream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What could it mean if I dreamed that my boyfriend gave me a promise ring. Which I wore next to my purity ring. However when I went to go show everyone, my purity ring was replaced by a engagement but it was fake. So I was wearing a "real" promise ring but a "fake" engagemen... (68 words)

I just cant move on even after I quit communicating with her. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Please help me. I just need your 10 mins. I need love. It has been 2 months since I was dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years. I live and die everyday. I moved to USA from Pakistan 2 months ago and after 10 days she dumped me. After another 10 days, she showed... (613 words)

My sister-in-law is too clingy towards my husband. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My question might sound weird, but the situtation that Im in is making me more and more anxious. So me and my husband have been married for a little over two years now. We have two beautiful children(ages 3 and 1)Our marriage itself has been amazing and full of great moments.... (808 words)

How do I communicate with my adult children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) age - I wonder how can you communicate with your grown up children. My daughter going to university, and we have very little communication. We are talking on the phone, and she is very nice, but when I ask any question, she won't answer ,or gets a little insulted.... So,... (112 words)

How do I get her to tell me what is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been dating my girlfriend for a while now by far the longest relationship i have ever had and all i want is to make her happy but lately we've been fighting, she has been sick but her rudeness and attitude is just been getting really bitchy and im not doing anything to ... (107 words)

After I moved thousands of miles to be with him he cheated on me with my co-worker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know where to turn. Six years ago I met a man online, after talking for over a year online, I went to visit him and fell in love. I packed my things and moved from Pennsylvania to Alaska for him. I gave up everything adn our life together was rockey at first, but we ... (285 words)

I moved on from my ex, but I think he left something that's interfering with my relationships with other guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a boyfriend for year and a half, I really believed it was true love and that we would marry someday. He broke up with me the day I lied to him when he asked me if I had cheated on him when he went away to Israel for six months (by that time, I didn't feel it was true ... (402 words)

Discovered a girl I liked is a sociopath. What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know today people throw around these terms too much like narcissist, sociopath, borderline, et cetera, but....I have come to believe strongly that a girl I have liked for a very long time is likely a sociopath. I have known her a while. She's very very pretty and charm... (323 words)

How can I fight my gag reflex and give better blowjobs?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

26 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - hi guys, im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. its going very well, and we have had sex. but now my boyfriend really wants me to start giving him blowjobs and swallowing his sperm. i have only give a few blowjobs. i've been told that im not great at... (165 words)

Should I tell my cousin how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I'm a 14 Year Old Kid Now (teenager) i have this cousin who i Have a HUGE Crush on since i was about 5 or something! yes that long. so anyway , i kinda flirt with him , we make eye contact often and we have broken the touch barrier , once , held me from the back , takin... (280 words)

Should I tell him he needs to decide whether he wants me or not? Or should I let him have more time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing this guy about 18 months ago. We met at work, he asked me out and was very keen for us to become serious. During the first six months he broke up with me twice, both times he asked me to get back together with him about three weeks later. Then things were OK ... (283 words)

He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states he will be doing something for ... (276 words)

Why did my boyfriend feel guilty after his ex left, even though she was the one who cheated?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner said he felt guilty after he left his ex even though she was the one who cheated. He said when he found out, he left her but spent months afterwards feeling guilty and as if he had 'not acted like a man'. What does this mean? (ps this happened ages ago, ... (73 words)

How do I get more passion from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - The sex is great, but he's a horrible kisser! I've tried teaching him, it'll last one day, then he goes back to peaking me on the lips. How do I get more passion from him without the alcohol?... (38 words)

This married woman is ruining my relationship with my boyfriend! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi thanks for reading this please help! I've just moved in with my boyfriend and things are going great between us however the main issue we have is that he is friends with a married couple and the wife is completely obsessed with my boyfriend!!!i think she's like in love wit... (245 words)

My ex wants his wife back for a Visa, so why is he still wanting to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my boyfriend after 5 months as i was not happy. My intutition kept telling me something was very wrong. I eventually found out he was married, still trying to get back with his wife - he has cheated on her since their honeymoon and since he came to the UK. ... (117 words)

How should my friend go about having a relationship with a younger man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age - dear cupid, my girlfriend does not have a computer and she needs some good advice. she is single 42, and the younger guys seen to be attracted to her. from 22 to 34. she wanted to no if that is ok.? she is seeing a 27 year old right now. he has a very good job and never been ... (144 words)

I have this sense of guilt like I cheated! Have I done something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Early in my relationship, my girlfriend and I just were very honest about our past sexual history. Probably for most, too honest. Through all this, I admitted to her having slept with a friend of mine, at a time when we were both single and it never followed up with dating, ... (391 words)

We had a row and it has left a bad feeling between us now he is back in Germany, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, It was my birthday yesterday. My boyfriend is in Germany at the moment with work. I have exams in 10 days. Before he left a few weeks ago we agreed to celebrate my birthday after my exams. He is having a horrible time in Germany and tells me that he hates his accommod... (309 words)

I've been stuck in limbo with my ex for 5 years now! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem w/ my ex here. It may sound weird, but we broke up 5 years ago and I still can't get over him. We were in junior high school and just got introduced to each other for one week before we made up for a relationship. In fact, I wasn't too eager back then coz I ... (795 words)

My ex has a new guy and it makes me feel inferior. Why do I feel like a failure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend has a new guy. We split up a couple of months ago because she's moving away from university next month and now she has already found someone in her hometown. I don't mind, because she's moving on and that's what I've been trying to do. But since I found out ... (181 words)

Why do I always have to start the conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i like this girl in school and we have been talking on fb for quite sometime...and i make sure that chatting with me is fun. We enjoy chatting and all but the problem is that she never starts the convo whenever i dont and only i have to start it all the time.... the other... (158 words)

Do women like nice guys with confidence?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Through out my life I've never scored with a women. I've had them as friends, but never anything more. In my eyes, it was because I've never tried anything, always playing it safe, but now I've become more confident with myself and I'm still a nice guy. Will women be attracted ... (119 words)

How to prove that I am innocent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We know each other from 1 year. we were in physical relations, but now he thought that I cheated him, actually he got a CHAT history from my mail account, but it was not made me, but i fail to prove that, so now we are not in contact, I tried lot to convince him that I am ... (120 words)

Help! I fantasise about my boyfriend with other women when we have sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound very strange!!! I have always been quite a jealous person and I still very much am. On a normal day, the thought of my boyfriend even looking at another woman makes me angry and upset. However, when I am with my boyfriend in the bedroom or ahem...on my ... (124 words)

Questions on masturbating.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently tried masturating but find rubbing more pleasurable than fingering. have you any advice on how to finger to help me orgasm and also how do you know if your orgasaming ... (34 words)

Am I going off him or is it stress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend only two months. He seems perfect, kind, thoughtful, he takes me out and actually listens. Recently I have found myself not wanting sex with him and getting angry at everything he does or says. We see each other pretty much evey night and the ni... (139 words)

He wont reverse his vasectomy, and now I am thinking of divorcing him for not keeping up his end of our agreement.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I had a happy marriage over the past year, but now it’s all gone downhill fast. We had decided before the wedding to start our family in our second year of marriage (which is this year). However he had a vasectomy after his first marriage from which he has 2 ... (395 words)

When will she be mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi... well i am very jovial guy and right now finished my deg 2nd year. in this academic year i fell in love with my junior she is very good and very talkative, and shy girl. she was friendly to me, i saw her first on July 16 2010 and i changed all my behavior to impress her i ... (637 words)

Is there anything I can do to save him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Where to start. Well I'm a 27 year old female and my boyfriend of three months is 32. When my boyfriend was 16 he apparently was madly in love with another 16 year old boy, they were each others firsts and they had managed to stay together for about 7 years until they were both ... (335 words)

He lied to me about spending the day with another girl, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i've been with my boyfriend 7 months. I've always had a problem with this girl, who's legally his auntie, but from his step-dads family. She's only 13/14 ish and my first impression of her was not good. She just sat looking at my boyfriend the whole time I was there. I was ... (563 words)

Why does he treat me like this if we are just friends with benefits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - **I realize it is long, but please... just read it I have an FwB, but we act like we are bf/gf (just that there are no strings). He knows I like him a little, and he said he is starting to like me (not sure if that has changed or not, i asked over a week ago). He calls... (430 words)

Is he just being friendly or does he fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, there's a boy at school and i've known him since i was like, 4. I never really considered him as being a really close friend until this year, and all of a sudden i realised how much i love him. The thing is we are really close and all of my mates say that we'd be really ... (75 words)

Partner drinks and smokes too much and its affecting his health

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner who is 42, drinks every night 4 -6 six cans or more. Rarely less. We have been together 2 years and he claims that he has reduced his intake. Perhaps he has, as before we got together he was single for many years and lived an alcohol fuelled bachelor lifestyle along ... (186 words)

Could taking a shower after sex somehow get me pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i didn't get any clear answers from this last time, so im asking again, and making my question clearer, my boyfriend ejaculated onto my breasts and stomach. we did not have sex!!!( i want to make it clear, we didn't have sex, or use the "pull out" method because we didn't h... (130 words)

Why does he show affection and then say he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This lad says he loves me and want to be with me we hold hands and he puts his arm around my waste and then says I dont want a relationship right now whats going on???... (36 words)

Met online guy, 1st he wants to go slow, then 2 hours later he invites me back to his place. Whats up with that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online. I'm in my early twenties and he's in his mid thirties. We talked on the phone a lot. He was very outgoing! Really nice gentleman. We had a lot of the same interest and he was seemed lik a really cool person. We even talked about mayb a relationship if ... (477 words)

I don't understand why I'm always intitiating spending time with my bf...did he just get used to me doing that? Or is it something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I always have to initiate hanging out with my boyfriend. He does it probably only 20% of the time, while I ask to hang out 80% of the time. We have been together for 2 years, and we do not live together, but we go to the same school. Like if I don't initiate to hang out for ... (157 words)

In my opinion, fathers need to draw a line between being a parent or a club buddy-what do you guys think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it that some men are unable to accept getting older and to be parents instead of best pals to their children.Don't you believe there is nothing stranger than seeing fathers in their 30's to 50's out clubbing with their sons? I am not saying you can't be an approachable ... (62 words)

He keeps on going between me and my best friend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This past year has been tough. I've lost a lot of important people in my life. Back in September i met this guy and him and I were perfect for each other but he was 3 years older than me. We hung out everyday and had a lot in common. Then all of a sudden it just kinda got ... (150 words)

Is a good man worth cutting off for his financial lackings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If he has a bad credit and no job should this be an automatic dump my boyfriend prompter? I have been dating my current boyfriend for 10 mths. Everything seem great. When I met him, he had a business he was working on and was also a correctional officer. His father died and he ... (341 words)

He is not the same as when we first met, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How can i put this we met on a chat line and after two months of talking over the phone i went and seen him, i told him how i felt about him and everything because we just gotten that close to each but point of it all i sent the weekend together We slept together which we did ... (126 words)

I want to ask her out, but she likes my brother as well as liking me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

26 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - so my brother is 16, 17 in september. and this girl i love with all my heart (13) well she loves me and my bro I heard from a close friend and I don't want to ruin a really good friendship if I ask her out and she says no. what should I do. btw I'm more attractive than my bro. ... (79 words)

Dating my best friends ex, and she doesn't know about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends has an ex boyfriend that she dated for about 2 years. Everyone kept telling me that me and her ex would make a good couple and i considered it becaise i like him. I brought it up to her and she said that she dont think she would be ok with us being ... (248 words)

I'm pretty upset and I feel used. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy (i'll call him "B") and me quit talking for six months and the other night he showed up saying sorry for it all amd wanted for to forgive him. Well, i did. He said never meant to stay out of my life that long and the whole entire time he was trying to kiss me and had ... (170 words)

My boyfriend's grandmother wants him to date/marry a lighter woman and I feel hurt by this when I cared so much for her health. Now, I don't know what to think...Please help me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been in this great relationship with this guy for almost a year. We get along great. My family likes him and I think his family loves me. he is a great guy and we both love each other very dearly. I can actually imagine a future alongside him but I think its too ... (605 words)

Trying to let go of an abusive situation.....

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, SO, about 3 years ago I met a man, Luke, online and formed a very quick friendship with him. Over the next few months we became best friends and fell in love. I had never been in an internet relationship before and was a bit naive and very trusting, totally unaware of ... (1551 words)

We've known each other since thrid grade and I have feelings for him but he can be a jerk sometimes which hurts!

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well i feel like i have feelings for my best guy friend but idk if he feels the same because we met in 3rd grade and been close ever since and like at times he is all flirty and sweet and then he can be a dick idk wat to do..i mean i kinda like being single but ahh i hate it ... (73 words)

Is this normal?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well i need help. im a virgin like im very tight it is about the size of a dime the hole. when i finger i see like blood and it hurts with one finger and ive never came. is that normal how do i come?... (46 words)

My boyfriend has no ambitions for his career! Should I be concerned? Is there any hope for a future with him?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've only been with him for 2 months and have only known him for about 4 months. We work together. I just started. He's been with the company for 3 years. He's 28, about to be 29 in a matter of weeks. He comes from a very good family--I don't mean super wealthy, but ... (544 words)

Emotionally sick after going so much, please, how can I be strong and be happy again when I feel otherwise?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - The past year has been a rough one. I was in love with this guy and he left me for my best friend and then broke our friendship apart. Then in December one of my really close friends commited suicide unexpectidly. I try to forget about everything but I can't. I'm getting ... (92 words)

I need to last longer! Help!

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I keep my stamina going!?!? Because everytime I have sex with my girlfriend i get off in like a minute or less.... (24 words)

If we're both fifteen...what happens if we want to have a baby?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What iF You're 15 And You And Your Boyfriend Want To Have A Baby?!?... (14 words)

How do I tell him of my feelings without losing him?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of 8 months are cooling down in our relationship. And that's fine and normal and all but I feel like he doesn't care anymore, he gets mad easily, and makes me feel like crap. I need to tell him how I feel but I don't wanna loose him so how can I tell him his ... (66 words)

I'm nervous. Should I propose to my long distance girlfriend? Is it even the right time to?

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 18. We've been together for five months, talk every day. I want to propose but don't know if it's too soon. I want her to come live with me in Canada, we've had long distance and I feel that makes us even closer. I'd like for her to study here and be ... (205 words)

What are the odds of getting pregnant if we use a condom and he pulls out?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this isnt one hundred percent safe, but do i have a good chance of not getting pregnant if we use a condom, and pull out. i know the pulling out doesnt do much... i just want opinions, i know what is the safest. just answer the question please ... (52 words)

My and Ex I want to be together but I cant let her In

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been three months since my break up with my ex and alot of things have happened. Now after talking for some time we decided that we want to go out soon, but the only thing stopping me is that she recently liked this guy and spent 5 nights over his place and they had sex ... (298 words)

It really hurts watching my ex flirt in front of me

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My (ex) girlfriend and I broke up in February after dating for two and a half years. She said she just needed some time to find herself and I was willing to let her have it. All most as soon as I broke up with her a guy, we'll call him James, started following her around ... (497 words)

I got felt up by the boyfriend of a girl I know. What should I do?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago my best friend and I were hanging out, and she told me she wanted me to meet her Jana and her boyfriend. I was excited because my friend never really felt the need to have me meet her friends. So I met her friend Jana and her boyfriend. The whole time, ... (370 words)

Should I not pursue love anymore?

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here goes: I'm not sure how to start this. I really have felt like all my efforts at having a relationship up to this point in my life have amounted to nothing. I have only had one girlfriend ever and she ended up sleeping with another guy while we were dating. At the t... (223 words)

My best friend's boyfriend is taking over her life! I'm scared he'll succeed in pressuring her into what she's not comfortable with!

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i am new with this whole advice thing. but I feel like my best friend is replacing me with her new boyfriend. i have talked to her countless times. she is in pure denial, and her attitude is changing for the worst. she stays up all night talking to him, she gets about 5 hours ... (107 words)

I'm trying to hold the family together but wife is making it very difficult

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am at a stuck point in my relationship and not sure how I should handle it, I am fighting to save my marraige and family but are being walked over and feel verbally abused. We are liveing in separate rooms and have a 4 month (her idea) timeframe to reslove our i... (335 words)

My boyfriend has made a fake account on facebook so he can speak to other girls

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i have just found that my boyfriend has created a fake facebook account to speak to other girls. Hes denying it and saying he doesnt know how it happened... Weve lived together years, Im heartbroken scared to leave him and scared to be with him for getting hurt ... (125 words)

I'm not sure that I can give my b/f oral sex

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend 15 months and been having sex since about last june so im quite used to it as we do it regularly.the one thing that i cannot bring myself to do is hive him oral. I want to but theres something holding me back, mainly because i used to be so against it ... (161 words)

After being sexually active for twelve years, I STILL can't climax during sex. I've tried so many things, please help!

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sexually active for twelve years, and I still cannot orgasm during sex. I can make myself climax six or seven times a day if I wanted. Occasionally, I can climax with oral stimulation. But never have I climaxed during sex. I have read all of the advice I could find, ... (102 words)

My boyfriend bought a new and has not asked me to move in, much less what I think of this move. I can't see us living together. Should I just tell him I'm moving on? Or stick around?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just bought a new house and never once asked me what I thought about it. I have 4 animals a dog and three cats, he also has a dog. Now he is alregic to cats and I can't see us living together at all. He never asked me to move in so I don't think he wants me around. ... (145 words)

He says I should yell at him for not making more money

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26 April 2011 (F)

age - The man I love has wounded me very deeply. He says that I don't yell at him for not earning more money! Money has become a big issue for him lately because he was laid off from his highest earning job. He has other, very fulfilling (I think) work, which he could perhaps ... (148 words)

Parents divorcing and my brother is acting strangely now

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - @ weeks ago my parents got unofficially divorced, and it's been hard on everyone, considering the cause of it was my father cheating on my mother. It's hard to watch my mother go through this pain. My father feels terrible for what he has done. My little brother on the other ... (212 words)

Is it possible that you meet the right person and they're immature and damaged, but they're still the right person?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating my Ex and then he dumped me, like 2 days after Valentine's day. We said we loved each other, we've both said being together just felt right. Ex contacted me after the breakup and we tried hanging out as friends but ended sleeping together a few more times, ... (576 words)

Took a break from the pill - when should period arrive?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been on the pill (Drospirenone + Ethynylestradiol. 21 active + 7 placebos) for the past 6 months. I had never taken it before, and it was given to me both as birth control and acne treatment. The last week of March I was supposed to start a new pack, but took a 1 month ... (245 words)

Should I put on the online dating site that I am looking so my ex gets the hint?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site. He lied, cheated and dumped me but I loved him and was really hurt. I wanna go back on the dating site but he's on there. Should I put looking for a relationship to le... (108 words)

Why did my ex tell his current girlfriend that he still likes me?

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26 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I ended up going to prom with my ex b/c my real date stood me up 20 min before prom started and I didn't want to waste his prom ticket. My ex has a gf and she was fine with us going to prom together. (Nothing happened although it was kinda awkward at first) Me and him began ... (267 words)

I can't seem to get enough of my FWB! She wants me to cool down my strong desire for sex-but it's hard to when we're together!

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26 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was a virgin up until about 2 months ago, I lost it to a FWB. Since then, I've been pretty sex mad and we've done a lot of stuff since then, she recently told me that she doesn't always wanna have sex when we meet up and I've agreed to that, but the thing is, since I've lost ... (171 words)