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writes:Men how often would you like for a woman, or your partner, to call you in a day or a week where you would not get aggravated when you two don't live in the same house. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Philips  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 It depends on my timetable. Actually with my work, friends, relaxation, ect... i don't give her more than 4 minutes call, 2 times per day.
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (6 April 2011):
Black diamond20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to you all and fatherly love and annonymous reader she didnt call wtf you are both a trip lol i glad we all helped eachother on this post thank you all
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reader, Odds +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Depends on the guy. Experiment. Call him often one week, just to talk; when you call and he seems to be out of things to say, take that number of times and subtract two. That's how often you can call just to talk.
Calling to set up a date does not count against this limit, as long as you keep it short and to the point.
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reader, ironman777  +, writes (6 April 2011):
Hi - somedays I contact my girlfriend 20 times via txt other days zero. We try and catch for for an hour or so via phone every day or when I'm with her its in the late evening so its for 2 hours.Do what ever you feel like - important thing is to ask him does he like being contacted during the day - if he does then do it with creativity and love and he will do the same. If he doesnt then create the longer gaps to instigate longing and desire on their part to communicate
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 April 2011):
 It depends on the person. Some people like to be called every day, some like to be called once a week. If you're serious, I'd think once a day is absolute max, it's not unusual for a couple to talk every night to say good night I love you etc... But if you're not serious yet, probably less. If you're concerned, let him lead. As in alternate who calls. So you'll call, then he'll call, then you'll call, etc... and see how long the gap is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): Since you don't live in the same house it is a different scenario. Also, I'm assuming you and your partner have been in a relationship for a while, but are not married.. I'm not quite sure on what type of phone activity you have in the first place. HAHA Put it this way, My fiance calls me all the time from work when I'm home, from work when I'm at work, from home when I'm at work, or for any other reason she has to be calling me. Yes, I find it very annoying at times the amount she calls me, but as I type this I'm realizing she hasn't called me yet today, and I'm like WTF.!. Why hasn't she called? HAHA You get my point? If you care about your man and are a needy girl, you will call him everyday, and depending on the type of guy he is he may not mind at all or get annoyed. Let nature take it's course on this one.. call him whenever the hell you want.. if he loves you like I love my fiance, he won't mind enough to get rid of you. Trust.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 April 2011):
 I am in a committed (newly committed) LDR so not only are we not living together we have no physical contact during the week....when we just started we emailed not even dailywhen we started getting serious the emails became more frequentNOW that we are fully committed to making this a long term permanent relationship we email, call and text daily. we also use SKYPE...I start his day with a good morning wake up call at a pre-determined timeHe ends his day with a good night phone call to me... that time is more flexible.Some days we don't talk all day afer the wake up callother days like today where it's just 2:30 we've already talked on the phone 5 times... but then my BF can be a bit manic....I think that on average if you have a great relationship and it's serious that once a day is a good at the end of the day... most couples that don't live together seem to do that.in this day and age of cell phones and text messages we think that constant chronic contact is mandatory...
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reader, eek +, writes (6 April 2011):
 it depends what the situation is. I dont mind however often my girlfriend calls. Obviously dont constantly bother him if he is with friends or family but to know someone is thinking of you is lovely.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (6 April 2011):
 I actually am getting to like this kind of poll Question. I'm a bit standoffish, so I would need less contact than average. For a Committed Partner not living together, I would say three to seven times a week, No more than once a day.
Now I have to qualify this, I've been in a living together, committed relationship (married) for over 20 years so this is stretching the memory a bit.
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