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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What are all the ways to stop feeling nervous and develop my confidence in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been able to make friends, but I struggle to form close friendships with people... when I wrote for advice about this, the advice that I got was really GOOD. People have told me that I need to work on my self-confidence and overcome the anxiety I feel about how I come... (197 words)

What can I do to save our marriage? My wife says we need to talk. She is angry with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone, Me again - slowly eating myself up from the inside out. I desperately want to save my marriage and two little children. I have really been compacent and taken for granted what I had. I have not had emotional connection or empathy ... I thought my role as ... (435 words)

Should I trust that he'll come home loving me or should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months now. He is in the Marine Corp and is currently on a deployment. He and I knew each other from high school, and have been good friends for years before we started dating. He had dated a girl for maybe three mont... (612 words)

How do I ask my ex if he wants me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my ex broke up in October 2010 as things wasnt the same. We didnt speak after we broke up as we thought it was the best thing, however he's got my number again and started texting me, this i hate as i still have feelings for him. He, on the other hand has been in a ... (81 words)

Is the perfect person out there.. Or should I resolve myself to a life alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. He couldnt deal with the fact i wanted to wait til i was married to have sex. He told me he couldnt be that person for me. I decided to be strong and walk away. Just wondering are there any like minded guys out there like me who want... (111 words)

After awhile during sex I just want it to be over with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

- hi, well im 21 and im having a little trouble being able to 'cum' i've had a few sexual partners but i've never been able to come during sex no matter how long and after a while i get fed up and just want it to be over because im that frustrated. i cant even cum by myself... (189 words)

Weird pushy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age - I have known a group of women for over 20 years. we are very close friends, they are all married but me. started dating a guy one of the women introduced me to and we hit it off in a big way and are still together. problem is one of the women (the one the intro'd us) takes ... (150 words)

Why he doesn't acknowledge me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Me and this guy were seeing each other and talking and getting to know each other. We are both physically and sexually attracted to each other a lot. One day he was hanging out at the park which is nearby my house with his friends and he saw me going out and in the ... (126 words)

Sometimes we see what our heart WANTS to see..is that what happened to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear friends I'm asking for your advices because I'm facing something new and I don't know what to do.I'm 19,and I have never had a boyfriend before,because I have never been attracted by those who tried to approach at me.When I was at high school I used to sympathize someone ... (464 words)

We want the real thing but are afraid of the consequences!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all. I have a weerd question. Me and my girlfriend love each other. pleas don't think this is weerd but we both love each other thats certain. Sex is not the problem. we are comfertable alot with each other. half naked aswell. My question is that we pretend to have ... (145 words)

Confused -- it's like he doesn't care

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, I've asked many questions on here about my situation but now I'm just a little confused and could do with some advice, okay long story cut short, I've been seeing this guy for 8 months now we've been on a break for a month but we work together and see each other literally ... (193 words)

What to do about decietful wife

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, i hope you guys can help me out. My wife of 5 years has broken my heart with her deciet, when we first started dating she new everything about me, how i wanted to marry a virgin woman with a good personality,kind at heart and honest. I told her from the beggining before it ... (124 words)

G/f hates the idea of me going away for a year to college!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all. me and my girlfriend's relationship is amazingly strong. we love being together and we are in different schools but the relationship works for sure. no problems. I finish this year and would like to go study 2 years . unluky it's 100kilometers to the campus.so the point ... (213 words)

Fiance very racist and negative and he's exposing our son to his views!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance has always had a negative outlook on life,he is 1/2 black and 1/2 italian he feels every1 is racist and it frustrates the heck ouuta me!he says so much negative things in front of our 5yr old son and i dont like it,i try 2 bring it up 2 him and tell him not 2 say ... (78 words)

How do I develop better self-confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I currently work for an agency as a healthcare assistant,i go to the local hospitals in the community. I do lack confidence and i find that i dont deal to well with authority,in the sense that i get really nervous and stupid around ppl who i regard as higher up than me.Now i... (269 words)

His penis hurts after we have sex and he pulls out. Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. :) Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex. I was a virgin before him,and am a little bit clueless still to things. He's had other partners before me. The sex is great,but I'm wondering about something. After sex, when he pulls out, he says his p... (94 words)

The communication between us has gone way down...did he lose interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on Plenty of Fish, we texted back and forth for a month with pretty standard 'get to know you' questions, e.g.: what would you bring on a desert island, what are your parents like, etc. After a few weeks of texting and establishing that we enjoy the conversatins we ... (644 words)

I've been flirting with this guy I work with, who doesn't know I have a boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What the hell is wrong with me? I have been with the same guy for 3 years. He's really nice and buys me cool stuff when I need it. I can't complain much. The only thing that has always been a concern is that he can be cold towards me physically. It is something that I ... (121 words)

Is our age gap too great? I look much younger than I actually am.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am nearly twenty and he is thirty one. Is that too much of an age difference? I know others that are his age and older and I would regard them as scarily older than me at times but with my boyfriend that's never there. I feel almost as though we're equal but obviously with a ... (219 words)

It physically hurts when my boyfriend and I have sex, and I don't like his reactions to this. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - when my boyfriend and i have sex, he is really big and it hurts. it hurts so much that i often scream quite loud during sex. its painful and worrying but its what he does which is also worrying. when i am screaming he either puts his hand over my mouth or puts my head into the... (105 words)

My new wife wants nothing to do with my kids. How can I help everyone reach a compromise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for a couple of years to a very attractive and intelligent woman who holds down a good job and earns a lot of money. She is a wonderful woman but although she knew I had children before we married she now won't have anything to do with them. We were in the ... (271 words)

Why can't I connect well with other people? Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm originally from USA but I've been living in Mexico for the past several months. I love it here, and I've made some wonderful friends, but something has been tearing me up inside lately. I'm worried that there's something profoundly, and irreversibly, wrong with me. ... (557 words)

I'm facing all kinds of peer pressure...I definitely need help dealing with this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really pressurized to be 'normal' at the moment. I don't understand why I'm being treated like a freak just because my interests are a bit different from other people I know and I didn't even think they were that weird. For example I like walking/hiking, going to ... (535 words)

Anyone know of chat sat badoo?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone know the chat site called BADOO?? I need advice about it to see if my partner is telling me the truth or not. Thanks x... (27 words)

She says she loves me very much, but why is she still with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going to give the short version: I was with the love of my life for 2 years (we had been best friends for many years before that though, so we were very very close) She broke up with me because things were getting complicated. I'm graduating college and am looking for a ... (379 words)

Husband has full out melt down on nit picking!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband nitpicks? I dont know if thats the exact word for my situation, but if it is, it is definately NOT normal nitpicking. This is a full out meltdown. I will try to give you some insight into what I mean because it really is bothering me on many different levels. Mostly ... (1097 words)

What shape type do men like best on a woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What Shape do Men Prefer??? my measurements are 38-35.5 to 36-43 Bust 38. Waist 35.5 to 36. Hips 43. (Trying to lose weight) lol! I wanted to know, I read all over the internet how the "hourglass" is the perfect female form and what men want and what they look for, bu... (203 words)

I want to believe he likes me. Does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, This could be a long one. I known this guy for years, but we lost touch for a couple of years. He kept all my photo's and emails I sent him. WE got chatting a while ago and I realised that I still liked him. I told him I liked him and that I understood if he decided that ... (212 words)

Our drug addict son ruins everything when he shows up. No one wants to be around him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) age - How can you deal with a drug addict son, who is no longer welcome in the family? He is not accepted or loved anymore by the extended family. Nobody wants to deal with a drug addict. They are very upset if he shows up, because he will wreck the atmosphere. Nobody wants h... (193 words)

I'm dating a guy I like, but don't love. Now my ex shows up and wants me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Just saying, Im Gay first. Okay here is my problem, I'm dating this really really great guy and I really like him, but i dont love him. Its been about a month and things are getting really serious. About 2 days ago after 4 weeks from talking to my Ex he comes up to me and he ... (138 words)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer (I will be 26 by then). ... (124 words)

Husband found out about an encounter I had before we met and now wants to leave

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I had sex with my stepfather when i was 33 yrs old i was very drunk, i don't remember much, this was a year before i met my husband. After 10 years together he found out and wants to leave me. He said he can't handle the fact that this happened and my stepfather has been around ... (70 words)

Guy turned a 180 and is now ignoring me..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry, this is long! I've just never been in this position. Okay so my friends introduced me to this guy about a month ago. We’re both 20. I guess he went to our high school freshman year, but I didn't remember ever seeing him. I guess like a month or so ago, he got out of a 3 ... (1497 words)

Would it be weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple days ago I met a girl, we got a long great I was just wondering if it would be weird if I added her to msn, I already have her on facebook, but shes never on and I dont want to come off as creepy... (47 words)

I've realized that I've been trying to guilt her back into a relationship with me. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I had been going out with my ex for 3 years. we broke up late last year because at the time she was moving away to the UK and now I have moved to the UAE for 7 years. We still chat but I still have feelings for her, though I think she has moved on. She was my first proper ... (182 words)

How can I get over this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - after 3 years of a virtual life with my long distance girlfriend that i have never met, she leaves me !! i cant believe this is happening, im crazy in love with her and so was she, but lately she was acting so weird, she always uses the excuse that i am too controlling even... (193 words)

It could've been our first time...what should I do in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm a 23 years old male,i'm a virgin,i met someone i love and she visited me at my place and spent the night with me,we touched,kissed and got naked,i was very hard during the foreplay and when trying to penetrate her my penis just collapsed in her vagina,we tried several times ... (92 words)

I'm engaged, he's married, but we've both confessed feelings for each other. How can we deal with this without it affecting our friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My coworker and I have feelings for each other. The problems are he's married and I'm engaged. He admitted to me that he's attracted to me. I admitted that I like him, too. We had a talk. It was a talk about not crossing the line and we are not going to go down that affair ... (119 words)

I haven't seen my mother-in-law in 6 years, and now she wants to see my husband and son, but not me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother inlaw has hated me for elven years now. My husband went 6 years without speaking to her. Because of the disrespect to has to his wife. She is not a good grandmother to our son because of the hate she has towards me. She wants us to meet her for dinner after 6 years ... (153 words)

I think I'm in love with him, and I don't want to regret keeping it a secret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy that goes to my school and I'm falling for him. He's not in my class and I'm only going to see him for one more month and I don't want to think about what will happen if I never tell him how I feel. A few weeks ago, one of my classmates who is sort of a fri... (111 words)

We were getting close even though he has not come out as gay, and now he is chasing after a girl! Why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay guy who has just started to accept my fate as a gay guy this year. My life has been a lot better this year, because i am more open to try getting close to people i like (although i still haven't revealed to anyone that i am a gay). I have a very nice guy friend this ... (536 words)

In a relationship, but fell in love with someone else.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so here goes..i cant handle this thing alone anymore and i need some advice. I'm in a relationship with this guy for 3 years and we live together. I love him and everything is great apart from the usual arguments couples have. Recently i got in touch with a guy i hadnt ... (236 words)

My girlfriend wants my blessing to have sex with another guy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend wants to have sex with another guy at a convention and wants my blessing. shes says its cool cause i will be allowwed a free pass too. why won't she understand that i only want to be with and should i see at her wanting to end things.... (50 words)

Why does she want to marry me when she doesn't want to be with my physically?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys and galls. I was just hoping for some views on my situation. I an due to be married next year after 5 years in this relationship. Over the part 8 months me and my future wife have had sex 5 times. This is not normal for any relationship surely? When i have tried talking ... (83 words)

My fiance is still friends with his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got engaged and I know we are both very much in love with each other. However, my fiance is still friends with his ex. I have never liked it, particularly because for awhile I didn't even know they were still talking. He says they are just friends. Since I have ... (137 words)

Can't get over my ex wife, even though I know we were not meant to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My divorce from my 20 year partner became official yesterday. I am very sobered and even sad about it. It was not a divorce I wanted, but we became too disconnected to reconcile. I left because of the arguements, and that made her spiteful and angry. While I was trying to ... (397 words)

Questions about sex and virginity......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - is it possible to become a virgin again after losing it? my vargina gets too wet when I am romancing with my man, is it normal?... (27 words)

I'm only 16 and I think this 36 year old likes me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i need some help..so i'm 16 and i'm pretty sure that my 'ex' neighbour at 36 (who i've had a crush on for a LONG time) is coming on to me. He used to live across the road from me with his partner and their daughter at 3 years old. I've always been aware of him but ... (462 words)

Should I let this relationship with my ex go because of his double standards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. I've been off and on with my boyfriend for about 6 years. Right now he is out of state because he said he needs to even though he could do his business here since it is through internet. Anyway, the last 8 months since he's been gone we have gotten in ... (478 words)

I think my boyfriend is shooting blanks

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I need a little help... Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 3 months now and wev still not got pregnant Im 21 and already have 2 kids from a previous relationship and my boyfriends 30 and doesnt have any kids Iv been pregnant 4 times 2 of them I miss... (258 words)

Do you need to have sex to love somebody?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a virgin. My boyfriend of 22 months is not. I love him to bits but he has said he cant love me until we have sex. He says theres an emotional connection there for him when it happens. I have always wanted to wait til i was married but he tells me that he wants to before ... (160 words)

Ever since she lost her virginity, she has become less interested in sexual activity!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have dated for over 2 years now, and in the begginning it was awesome we couldn't keep our hands off each other. the problem is she was "virgin". i enjoyed the stuff we did instead , anal is awesome. but ever since she lost her virginity its like a swit... (99 words)

Are these guys actually single? When I have a boyfriend, will he do the same things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really curious about this because it makes me wonder what kind of guys these are or whether most guys do this and we're naive to notice. Basically when i go out on nights or just shopping during the day i'll see guys look at me even when they are with their girlfriend... (275 words)

I help out with my sister's kids, but she doesn't dress them appropriately...How do I get out of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age - Ok look. I try to help out my sister by helping take her kids, my nephews and nieces places. I don't mind doing that, I helped "raise" them in a sense (and I am thankful for that, and it was in no wise any thing to take away from thier real mom and dad). Anyways, I am 50 years ... (257 words)

I discovered my husband watches porn...I am threatening divorce

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age - Hi, I have been reading various questions and answers recently and have a question of my own to ask you all: About 5 years ago I discovered husband had been watching porn, I came across this quite innocently while looking through our music library online, on husbands compute... (788 words)

Sometimes I wonder if he’s really into me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He never calls me pretty, he rarely wants sex, I don’t feel very desired, I used to love getting little messages every morning but they never happen anymore. We used to seem to turn each other on big time, but now he doesn’t seem pushed. I’m very sad about this sometimes. I try ... (285 words)

My husband is a cheater, but I'm in a dilemna if I leave him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together 6 years, married for 5. We have 3 children. About 2 months ago I call him while he was out with his friends and instead of pushing end on the cell he push talk by accident. I heard him getting it on with a girl while his 1 month was sick. He ... (685 words)

Think I'm falling in love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Right!Im 16 and there is guy who 19 and I think im falling in love with him. But the problem is that when ever I go round to the house, out from the blue I get really shy and don't talk or when my mum says were going there I get Butterflies all of a sudden. I don't ... (98 words)

Is he hiding me from other people, or is he the one hiding something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i've been seeing my man for 9 months now but he wont tell his family about me or meet up with any of mine, including my older children who dont live with me. He's met my youngest whose still at home and they get on well together but wants to meet everyone else in a natural ... (501 words)

Guys: Do you all want a younger woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys, tell the truth, do you REALLY want a younger woman than the one you are with now? I am in a relationship with a man 15 years my senior. The other day I asked him if he woud date a woman in her 40s he said no, in her 30s he said no (even though he is in his 40s ... (112 words)

Her parents forced her into a marriage with a man she doesn't love, why cant she just leave him for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in love with a most beautiful girl who also loves me very much. but suddenly she was married with other whom she never knows (her parent's compelled her to marry). Now we love each other much more than in the past. then why can't she just leave her husband whom s... (108 words)

A smile from the guy I like - does this mean he is approachable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I've been wondering this question and asked someone friends but want your opinion. Probably the stupidest question someones asked but in all seriousness and honesty..... And i have no idea why i'm interested in knowing this i just do!? haha I know they say a ... (167 words)

Instead of talking about our problems he keeps breaking up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating since november the 6th 2010 about 5-6 months now, and we've been through a lot. i suffered an unplanned pregnancy which resulted in me ressucitated on the operating table, ever since he stayed with me through all that, all the past ... (202 words)

Why is he behaving like this? Does he have low self esteem? Is he gay? Does he care about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - We have been in love for past 2 years and had not met each other.It was this month that we met .He seems smitten during the first meeting and in the second meeting insisted on sex.(we did have phone sex before several times and we were online friends).I discovered that he had ... (207 words)

Why did my ex's new girlfriend believe him? How can he get away so easily with being dishonest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay after a couple of years after my break up I feel almost like I have closure. (My ex cheated on me after 5 years and had been seeing his mistress for the last 4 1/2 months. I outed him and tried to talk with her)The one thing that still bothers me is when she told me, "he ... (192 words)

Love Triangle and some minor cheating....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Let me begin by painting the scenario: I broke up with my ex over a year ago. We didn't talk and didn't see eachother for a whole year. I knew she had gotten a new boyfriend about 6 months after our break up and very recently, a year since our break up, she texted me out-of-t... (667 words)

How do I tell my fiance I am bi-curious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never been with a Female before but i am Bi Curious but my problem is i have a fiance and i would never tell him about me liking females because i am Jealous when it comes to him and other females. My Question is what can i do to make myself comfortable enough to maybe ... (70 words)

How do I stop being so shy and meet more people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well to start off im a very shy person and its hard for me to meet new people. This being said the only women i end up talking to is my friends girlfriends. The problem is i end up falling for them and it never ends up bad. So my question is how do i break my shyness and meet ... (62 words)

I have tried talking to him about the lack of sex in our relationship but it is not working! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like i am in a sexless relationship but i am in Love with him so i don't know where to turn, I have tryed talking to him about it but that hasn't solved nothing, it is sort of like he don't care when and how often i want to have sex, it is only when he is ready and wants ... (219 words)

I feel like some girls are out of my league, do girls ever feel this way too?

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, well lately ive been having more attractive girls flirt with me and stuff, but when i was 17 (20 now) i didnt really think i could get with very attractive girls. but now it seems like they are coming around more often, but sometimes i still feel like some are "out of my ... (86 words)

My ex and I reconciled but she likes another guy.....

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex after a 3 month break up reconciled meaning that we went on a date, but many things have changed like the fact every since the break up she started liking this guy alot and I had sex with this girl that i liked (but regret having sex). So after our date, such a ... (265 words)

How can I stop loving her?

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a co-worker for the last few months and things were going really well. She was supposed to have moved in with me last week and we'd booked appointments to look at local schools for her children. Instead we had a massive row about not very much and she ended ... (272 words)

Is it ok for us to still be bf and gf even though we don't live together anymore?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. I need unbiased advice.. My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. We have been together for a little over 2 years now. After a year of dating we decided to move in together. At first we had a lot of problems but eventually we started to work out better. That... (389 words)

Do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone you have been in a relationship with for 5 months?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am interested in hearing other people's opinions on this- do you think it's possible to love someone you have been in a relationship with for 5 months? I have been with my boyfriend for this long but really feel like we have a strong connection. We've met each other's parents ... (157 words)

I'm a virign and he's not.. so with my inexperience, what could I do to keep him satisfied, without going all the way?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm a virign and my boyfriend clearly isn't.. We're very open with each other when it comes to talking about sex and past relationships (though i don't really like hearing about the girls that he's slept with in the past).. We've gone as far as dry humping and seeing each ... (149 words)

Why won't he say he loves me?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for six months and he told me that he's never felt this way about anybody before. Although he doesn't get me flowers or gifts like my previous boyfriends did, he's treated me better than all of them. We've met each others families and we always have ... (163 words)

Is my boyfriend cheating?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 9 months.its been more than 1 month that my bf has stopped caring the way he used to.now he never texts me,in the whole day he wont text me at all.at the night he will text or call for 2 min, thats all. today i checked ... (186 words)

I was over her for a long time, until she got back in my life as a "friend."

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, my ex girlfriend and I have been... I don't know what to call it. She and I have been broken up for over a year now and she's got a boyfriend now. I stopped all contact with her after she got her boyfriend. All was well, I got over her. She eventually added me on ... (361 words)

What can we do with a crazy ex?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! I'm a girl and I'm in a long distance relationship with an other girl, we started dating recently... she had a grilfriend before me of course, but she is my first girlfriend ever, the thing is my girlfriend had this trip planned to visit her best friend since like... (421 words)

Sex for the first time?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am thinking about having sex for the first time. Does it hurt and can somebody give me details... (19 words)

My son just had a baby with his GF, who was sexually abused by her mom's boyfriend. Now they've buried the hatchet and my grand daughter is left at home with this sick man!!

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem my 17 year old son is dating a 17 year old girl. They have had a baby recently but the worse problem besides they are teens is a year to year and half ago my sons girlfriends moms live in boyfriend sexually abused her. she had told us right away social ... (231 words)

How can I tell her that I feel like my opinion is second class, and that I'm not trusted to be a good Dad the way I trust her to be a good Mom, without her feeling attacked?

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I just had our first child. She is beautiful, and I couldn't be more happy. When the sleep deprivation gets too intense, and all the work gets to be too much, my wife tends to snap. So many times, if I don't agree with her opinion about how to handle a particu... (278 words)

How can I distance myself from her, enough, but not too much?

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, My girlfriend is out of town for a few days, but the whole time we have been dating, she has not really shown me that she wants to be with me, she only says she does. Examples: she does not like sharing feelings i tell her i am going to miss her, she says don't ... (219 words)

She's everything I want -- should I tell her?

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - is it wrong for me to fall for my best friend? i mean maybe we are too deep in to the so called friend zone, but in reality she is everything i look for in a girl and she makes me happy as a friend. im thinking about just manning up and telling her how i really feel because ... (81 words)

How can you tell when a guy is being genuine???

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if a guy is feeding you lines, or is actually interested??? I'm talking about when you first meet someone, not while you are dating someone. ... (29 words)

Am I reading the signals wrong or does he like me?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I want to know whether you think this guy likes me: We are studying together at uni for an assignment. At first we were just studying when we met up. But now we have been hanging out longer and longer (and not getting much study done). The other day we chatted for abou... (199 words)

I really like him but I find him too 'touchy'

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im new to the whole dating thing (late bloomer) i'm 17 and im dating a 20-something year old,so i haven't told anyone about him we havent gone out on a proper date yet because i always avoid making time, but we tend to just spend time together because i alway... (170 words)

How can I get these other guys off my mind?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so...i mean this is kinda hard to explain so try to follow? basically what happened was: My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months and 14 days when we broke up last October. We broke up because I caught feelings for another guy. I left my current boyfriend for th... (215 words)

I'm in a relationship, is it normal to have feelings for someone else?

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So quick question, I am in a relationship, its been on the rocks for a while but I;ve been trying to fix it, and she;s constantly telling me I'm not the one and she doesn't understand why I stay. Well I met someone and we got on well together but I didn't pursue, I feel bad for ... (63 words)

Soulmates or should we not be together?

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20 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been together for about 10 months now. The feeling and chemistry is very strong right from the beginning. Deep down, we just know that 'we belong together' but we can't just work it out. We are good to bring out the best in us, and also the worst in us as well. When we ... (175 words)

To everyone I'm the stuck up pretty girl with a perfect life, but really I'm a mess inside. Please help.

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a huge mess right now so please I just need some helpful advice...I feel overwhelmed with everything going on right now..I'm literally busy 24-7 to keep my parents satisfied..I get strait a's I take college classes don't party or do anything bad. I do it all for them an they ... (289 words)

This is a rocky relationship. What should I do?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am 43 years old and my partner is 48. Tonight we had an argument and I am wondering if we should break up for good? He openly admitted tonight that he chats and flirts with other women but is only interested in me cos he loves me...I am a very insecure person so this did ... (126 words)

The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts....and I think I somehow fell in love with a guy there!

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts. I'm not a counselor, and I don't talk to them about their problems or issues or anything, but even with my job I have to remember my boundaries, at least for a certain length of time. Anyway, I was attracted to this ... (520 words)

I want to relieve the stress in my life by losing my virginity.

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and my parents are always fighting so i think if i loose my virginity it will help me relieve stress. What should i do?... (29 words)

I can't get over his exes!

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is older than me and has had lots of sexual partners. Everytime he mentions them I get really jealous and upset, and I cant stop picturing him with all these different girls. How can I stop doing this? Its starting to affect our relationship. Thanks guys ... (48 words)

Why does my married employer keep bringing up his ex?

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20 April 2011 (F)

- Hi, I have known a certain MARRIED man for the last eight to nine months. I met him at my workplace, as I look after his son. This man has been giving me lifts home from my workplace when he comes to pick his son up quite often. We get on really well and I am on good ter... (479 words)

How do you connect to people and form close friendships?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hola todos, Hopefully other people will see this and I can help someone else, as well. I want very, very badly to change this situation in any way I can. I would REALLY like to cultivate close friendships, but I could use some advice as to how. Sometimes I think th... (264 words)

I'm getting impatient. Is this insecurity or being non-committal?

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20 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating someone for 2 years. we see each other all summer and when he is home for holidays, etc. (im in high school, he is in college) we work together in the summers and get along great. we have the same morals and values and we love each other, but we have ... (170 words)