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*pendy
writes:Why would he do that? or am I overreacting?I rang my ex boyfriend today and he asked if i would sell him my old phone (i got a new one). i told him i'd let him know. he says he wants to get rid of his phone cos is betraying him like he betrayed me.he cheated on me, lied to me and dumped me.when we were together he was so sweet, i loved him so much and i never thought he'd do that.is his birthday next week and i asked what hes doing he told me but he didn't invite me.. am hurt cos he was planning his birthday with me when we were together and now he doesn't even invite me?am so hurt..am I overreacting??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): WTF? He's and ex... more importantly YOU are an EX. Why do you think he's going to invite you to anything? Get on with life, and don't ever expect someone who dumped you to extend any kind of an invitation.
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 I don't mean to be rude, and i am not lying when i say this...you are overreacting, he dumped you, you aren't together, he doesn't view you as a friend... he doesn't want to see you there because it will most likely remind him of everything he did wrong. If i dumped a girl, i certainly would not want her to come to my birthday, especially if the time of breakup was nearing my birthday party... you need to let him go, you are better than he is, and you deserve someone who will love you like you love them, and who will treat you with the respect and loyalty that you deserve and treat them with.you don't need to be hurt, you guys are over with, and you need to start looking for someone else that will be right for you... he cheated on you, he lied to you, he threw you away without realizing what he had... you know the song, "You never know what you got until its gone!", well that comes into play.. soon he will realize what he did to hurt you and he will regret doing those things and losing you, but you need to be the stronger person and not go back to him because he could easily do it again.hope i helpedpartyboy123
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