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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend becoming a control freak!

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30 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - i think my bf is becoming a control freak. we have been seeing each other for 13 months and he has been great, nothing like as controlative as he has been in the last 3 months. he is buying me clothes, telling me what to wear, telling me how to wear my hair. we is telling me ... (119 words)

It's our first meeting, should we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy online about two weeks ago. we are planing to meet in june. we have had phonesex twice. he is 30 and im 20. i know if we do meet we will have sex. and i want to. i just dont want him to think that i am a slut. what would you think if this happened to you? (guys ... (71 words)

He cheated with a coworker, how can I trust him around her every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I am in a relationship of over 7 years with 2 kids, and we went through this situation when he cheated with this girl from his job. i don't know how far it went with her honestly, other than a make out session at work. now i moved on from this but i cant completely when he ... (144 words)

My crush wouldn't share his email. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I was in a group for a project at school with my crush. I needed to send something to my group members over the weekend for the project. When I asked for their email addresses, my crush got really weird and gave an excuse and came up with an alternate solution. Does he like me ... (65 words)

Was he serious about his penis size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To make this short a guy I liked and was fooling around with (making out and a bit of touching) joked about his penis being small. His exact words were "You know my dick is this big right?" and with his thumb and pointer finger made about a three inch gap in between them and ... (116 words)

My Bf is distancing himself from me. He does not include me. Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I (23) have been with my boyfriend (22) for one year and three months. We are both graduating from college this May. We have been fighting a lot lately--always about the same thing: I don't think I see him enough, and he thinks he sees me plenty. We see each other just about ev... (395 words)

My purity ring is not stopping me feel so turned on. What can I do to slow down these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why am I so turned on when I see my boyfriend? I'm 15, but I've never felt like this before! I know one reason is hormones? Anyways... I've never felt like this with anyone else. It's freaking me out. Maybe another reason is that he told me I turn him on too. We haven't ... (105 words)

How do I cope with and incorporate my Voyeurism urges into my life? I am monogomous and Happily married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Recently my wife and I wound up in relationship counselling due to my 'sudden' interest in kink (bondage, some S and M, voyeurism etc). Through the counselling I discovered that there has been a whole host of reasons why this came about going way back to my childhood, and that ... (350 words)

He's ONLY hit me twice recently. But should I end this relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner used to physicaly and mentaly abuse me. it became worse during my pregnancy , and i miscarried. After this he became better for a while and has only hit me twice in serious arguments. i still can't get over how he treated me and even though he is good now, it still... (65 words)

Confused about my sexual orientation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well im not really asking for advice but you can leave messaages bout it if you want im saying all this to vent it out somehow ok... so im 14 and really confused about my sexuality , i know i dont need to know but it runs through my mind 24 /7 bec ause theres a girl i like a... (419 words)

How do I trust him when he's posting these things on Facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do!I just found out that My boyfriend talks flirtatious to other women on Facebook! One if his comments on his wall says "anyone want to talk dirty" wtf? Then he goes and says that they couldn't handle him and these girls are just eating it up and doing ... (211 words)

She wants a break but she is still acting like she loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. Things were going well and everything was working our perfectly in the relationship. Over the past few months we had not gotten to see each other very much, I was starting a very high level/time consuming job and she was finishing ... (419 words)

So depressed since the split

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl friend just split with me recently, now I know that is nothing new, but it was over a year and we where planning to have children and get married. now its almost a month down the line and I find myself becoming more and more depressed and lonely with each day, I have... (153 words)

I don't have any friends!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This may sound a bit pathetic to people reading this but I don't have any friends. I live at home, with my sick mother and so don't have housemates to hang out with. I have tried to go to social events with different interest groups, etc but everyone at these seems to b... (290 words)

Why do I freak out when they get close?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it when sometimes i go on a night out, i want to meet good looking guys and be close with them. But when i do get close, this feeling kicks in for me to get away. Which is odd? Because before when i see that guy or i am just talking to him, i'm fine with the knowing that ... (261 words)

We get along well, the conversation flows, but I can't get past his looks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice and please don't judge me or think I'm being conceited i just have no other way than to put this bluntly. You know how when you are out, you see those couples where they don't suit....Well, this guy who i get along with really great! He's funny and just ... (189 words)

I've lost faith and became bitter towards love and friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Right.. It's been about seven months since my ex broke up with me after a relationship lasting two and a half years. In total, we've known eachother for five years and we're very good friends.. From that stemmed my believe a good relationship; maybe one that'd last a lifetime ... (446 words)

He had thoughts of his ex, and a missed call from her, should I worry??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend just told me that he thought of an ex girlfrend whom he dint talk to for many years this morning,then when he got home today he received a missed call,he called back the person and it was her...he says it was spooky...y is this bothering me??should i be worried?? ... (61 words)

Feel so alone without my best friend, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age - I miss my x best friend(with Bennefits) so much it hurts. He was my best friend. Always there wheather I needed him or not. It was a very different relationship as it started when my boyfriend(x) started to abuse me. Robert was always there.. we fell in love. The saddest part ... (253 words)

Drama in relationship, but should I have broken up with her??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok we started out good first time. The first times were great and stuff but as the relationship went on things started to change. Our first argument was over her telling me I might not be the girl for her because she feels alive around other guys. She wanted me to change myself ... (1148 words)

We broke up, should I keep the promise ring or give it back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf broke up with me 2 days ago in a txt after i had given him space to think if he can b in this relationship bcuz he was havn trust and insecurity issues cuz i have cheated in my past and decided to txt with my sons coach(txts were innocent).... to prove to him that i wuz ... (197 words)

How can you tell if someone actually cares about you??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you know if someone actually cares about you?... (10 words)

How do I remedy this problem??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, I have now been with my boyfriend for two months. I know its not that long. He says he loves me and I say I love him. Im not really sure if I do though. You see we were best friends before we got together! Its bunch of us, its our. "Click". I don't really like him like ... (177 words)

I can't seem to relax my brain, do you have a suggestion please??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I have a lots of anxiety, and my brain never can rest. . they recomandeded meditation to me many times. I was hoping ,it will help.. I really dont why , but meditation never worked for me. It is not effective to me, no matter what I try. I listend many instructions, an... (152 words)

Could you tell me why you think this question was asked??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age - I know this is not your usual type of question on here but I would very much like your opinions on this please. Last year I had a good friend killed in a car accident. A few days after the accident the police called to my friends home and asked which was the last member of the ... (140 words)

He walked out, should I move on or take him back if he returns??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone. . I would be grateful for some advice. . My boyfriend of four years walked out yesterday saying it was over after a strange tense day. We had had a lovely week together the week before but for some reason yesterday we were at each others throats and i felt ... (281 words)

We all live together, he used to be my bf, now he likes her, how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately i'm questioning if I can be friends with this girl and guy that i live with. We met as she was friends with a friend of a guy I was seeing. While seeing him she would sometimes be around, and on one occasion I invited her to sit with us, big mistake as she soon started ... (535 words)

I feel very lost, please help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some real help. I feel so lost. I went through a separation from my wife a while back. During which time I had an affair that was the biggest mistake of my life. I invested all my love into the wrong person. This person broke my heart into a million pieces. My wife and I ... (258 words)

She isn't ready, I don't want to wait around, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my gf split at the end of january, as i said some nasty things about her ability at work etc (i was an idiot) we lived together and i moved out about 6 weeks ago. We've met up a few times to see how things go, but everytime it goes well i start asking about getting back ... (249 words)

He's gone most of the time, I'm ready to leave. Thoughts??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years now, during that time we broke up 3 times cause he had cheated on me, and yet i still took him back cause i love him or so i think i do. Im 31 years old now and we have one child together and another one on the way and iam not happy ... (710 words)

Is distance going to be an issue? Is she even interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) age 30-35 - {Moderator note: two questions from the same source combined} I'm 17 and this weekend it was my little sisters christening so we had a lot of family and friends over. So I get talking to one of my mums old friends and she introduced me to to family but what really caught m... (366 words)

How best to find out why her feelings seemed to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically, I have tried to get with a girl I like, I think I now get the message she isn't as keen as I am, she always says she is bored, I offer to go out and do stuff with her, no response, buy her stuff, no comments. I think to keep wishing is bad news for me, she will hurt ... (140 words)

Still love my ex, but not sure whether to believe that he's falling for me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex split up around 10 months ago as i found out he cheaated on me. I really loved him, so obviously i was heart broken. The problem is, i still love him even though i shouldnt i cant throw the feelings away. We recently started talking again, and he said he doesnt w... (127 words)

Things have been weird with my boyfriend lately so I'm afraid to read my poem in front of him

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30 April 2011 (F)

age - I am in a terrible quandary. Today, there is a Release Party/Reading for a book of poems, and i am invited to the party since one of my poems is in the book. The thing is that the poem is about my first kiss with my bf, but lately things have been painfully weird between us. ... (141 words)

Help with some ice-breakers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's a girl in one of my classes who's really pretty. Shes been telling my friends she thinks im cute more than once. I see her looking at me every once in a while, so im assuming she's interested. I recently went out with a couple of friends and she came too, but we ... (139 words)

Question about wet dreams

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok guys (and girls too) what do you feel would bother you the most.. a. your girlfriend has a wet dream about doing it with someone other than you. or b.your girlfriend has a dream about having sex with you, but it sucked really really bad.. this is the only dream shes ... (87 words)

She said she loved me but then left and never said goodbye!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age - why would a woman of 2 yrs say they love and need you and now wouldnt even talk to me . she never said goodbye. does she feel guilty of something she did and cant face me . i hurt so bad. all i ever did is love her and be loved back.she made me feel the best i ever felt in my ... (84 words)

B/f got another girl pregnant, he keeps contacting me and its driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i found out my boyfriend of over 4 years was sleeping around. i moved out and said i needed some space. in between that time he was still seeing another girl he forgot to mention and she called me to tell me she was his girlfriend when i confronted him he said he was seeing ... (167 words)

Is my husband's relationship with his co-worker appropriate? Or am I over reacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age - I am 61 and my husband is 68. For the past year he has had a close relationship friends he says with a co worker. He lies when she calls because he knows I think it is inappropriate. He hides her number in his cell phone and on one occasion someone made a comment about her ... (181 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to be more honest about his fantasies?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, the backstory to this question is that late last year I found out that my boyfriend had been watching transsexual porn. I was really upset and confronted him in a very aggressive manner and we both got very upset. He insisted he was just curious and that it wouldn't happen ... (239 words)

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to loving. Well, there was drinki... (486 words)

I'm in love with a friend who hates lesbians

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey I'm 15 years old and i think i am a lesbian but i am not realy sure i hevent had a boyfriand or ever liked a boy so i am a bit confused i am from bulgaria so if you find any mistakes sorry so if any of you can help me i would be really thankful last year i start going to a ... (183 words)

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want to spend your life with and... (263 words)

Ex girlfriend with roving eyes wants another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - im in a relation with a very cute n beautiful girl since 1 year. only thing i ever told her is not to lie to me. after 3-4 months being together, one day we were going out and i saw her checking out a guy quite seriously. the guy was like a stud. and i was standing right n... (383 words)

Are there too many red flags that I am blind to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - is my husband gay if he watches shamale porn, and yeah i know the question has been asked a biillion times but my case is a little different. first of all i am bi, so i can understand if he was to, but i didnt find out about the porn until a few weeks before wwe got married. ... (147 words)

Should I move in with my friend that I'm attracted to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I've been attracted to this one guy for a few years now. we're close friends, but every time I break up with a guy (e.g. my two exes in the past 3 years) I find myself drifting back to him. My attraction ranges from indifference when I was dating my ex in ... (336 words)

How do you handle a friend who is deceitful and hurtful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - whats the best way to handle someone that you classed as a close friend but have discovered they have been nothing but deceitful and lied to you and used you for personal gain but when confronting them they act like youre mad and deny everything ? im so hurt... (49 words)

I'm getting with dating this guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok to the point im a girl, im in relationship for about 4months. the question is, sometimes i didnt feel like i love him, sumtimes i think he is a boring guy. i aint like his old joke -.- well im be his cus he is my old pal, and he ever told me that he loves me from the first ... (104 words)

Not sure whether I am right or wrong in this situation...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel really upset right now and don't know whether I am justified in feeling this way. Yesterday (for the royal wedding) my boyfriend and I (been together 15 months) got invited to my cousin's bbq. Meanwhile he also got an invite to attend his friend's bbq. We decided we wo... (953 words)

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anything during the break up and... (881 words)

Was my boyfriend out of line for the hurtful degrading things he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I would like some advice regarding anyone's opinion of my ex-boyfriend's comments to me last night. He has said that he loves me and will support me yet when he came over last night he did nothing but rubbish what I was trying to do in the best interests of my daughter ... (646 words)

I'm shy, but how do I make a good impression on this girl I'm crushing on in class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl in my class that I'm crushing on. Sometimes I notice her looking at me and when she notices that I'm looking at her, she looks somewhere else. I'm shy and till now, I haven't talked to her yet. How do I make a good impression towards her? And I don't know ... (65 words)

She's the best Gf I've ever had. So why do I go soft at the worst moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - O my gosh. Pleas help ... Me and my girlfriend . It's the best relationship I ever had. She knows exactly how to turm me on and everything was fine. Then wen we wanted to do it... The my disobedient willie went soft on me. I know my girlfriend, and she would feel bad, beca... (172 words)

Can anyone help me fix an internet cookie problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. I love this site. It has helped me alot since I registered. My question is I need to speak to someone who can help me fix an internet cookie problem.? This is related to a feeling because I love playing that game. So I am a bit sad because I can't seem to ... (123 words)

Texting is ruining our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid ,ive just broke up with my boyfriend of two years, because these past few months have been rocky and im not getting enough attention in our relationship.he spends no quality time and i feel neglected because all we do is text.we havent had an actual conversation in ... (236 words)

Are we friends? Or friends with benefits? Or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - **It is a little long, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take the time to read it!!! Long story short, I have an FwB, we do not have sex though (I am a virgin - he isn't), and it was MY choice to become friends with benefits, except we didn't really know eachother at all before ... (867 words)

I need a reliable bug repellent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have this big bug problem these senipeds and spiders and ants and pertty much everything i git this new bug spray called raid max bug barrier and so i guess its been working and i just sprayed it all over my room and out side... i would really like it if someone who uses this ... (124 words)

I'm not sure I will pass a drug test!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a job interview this following wednesday coming up i used cocaine about a month and half ago and now i need to make sure i past a hair drug test i only used one time only and like i said it was about a month ago...i am scared i may not past it...is there any advice ... (84 words)

Deviant sexual behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've never had a girlfriend or have much experience in dating or sex. Anyway, I've started dating this girl for a few weeks now. Whenever I think about her, think about talking to her, when I call her, talk to her or sometimes just being with her I get an erection. Wh... (175 words)

What are these places on my skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - m havin problems wth my skin. It ol starts wth an extreme pain t a certain position n after a day or so the pain stops but a small coloured patch starts to develop, it sort f changes from green to black. I once had one on my leg but i used a certain discolouring cream and it ... (75 words)

Why am I feeling so hesitant about a relationship with this younger guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age - I have been chatting with this guy for almost a year. We have seen each other 3 time (he lives out of town). Although, I am still unsure of my feelings for him "I run hot and cold" so does he. We have some sort of connection that brings us together. We text everyday and chat ... (198 words)

Why do so many marriage end in divorce? what can I do to ensure my marriage is as solid as my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, First off let me say that I'm coming at this from a teenage perspective and as such an outsiders perspective. As you may know the divorce rate in the USA is around 50per cent for first marriages. Though my own parents are not divorced (Married since 1985) many of my f... (199 words)

Why can't I form a connection? any tips on how to get past my last relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering if anyone has had a difficult time forming a connection with someone (a significant other) after ending a bad relationship with a first love? My bf and I were together for 2.5 years, all the while he was cheating on me with other women behind my back. Finally... (166 words)

I like this boy. How can I find out if he likes me back, without making it too obvious??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i really like this guy that's in my band class and art club, we talk sometimes and stuff and i really wanna get to know him better and maybe see if he likes me back without being too obvious. i need help!!!!!!!!!!11... (42 words)

How can I make him learn to like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, Im 14 but i really like a 19 year old.... I just need advice on to how to make him to learn to like me? Help?... (27 words)

I always feel people are looking at me like I am weird. Are they? Am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) age - Hey ,I wonder ,if you can relate to my problem. I feel very judged ,and criticized all the time/ ..I also feel people are looking at me weird on the street. And I feel very uncomfortable, to go out and be on public places. Well, it sounds like social phobia, but I don... (212 words)

Help ?? How do I make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best guy friend who I'm in love with is really sweet and nice to me (obviously he's my best friend:) but, ok so there's this really slutty girl he dated and me and my friends got SOOOOOOO mad. So I kicked his ass. Lol. Then we were on the bus and my friend was like why don't ... (153 words)

My boyfriend's bird obssesion is troubling me...along with the bird shop girl who flirts with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My b/f Paul likes collecting birds and I am not sure I can take it any more. He already has one cage of birds. His father collects them too. But I have asthma and i dont like be near the birds and all the feathers and it smells. But when he is away from the birds he is very ... (194 words)

I really like him, he seems to really like me, but he does not seem to want to make our dating status "official". Why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would REALLY appreciate a little dating advice here! It would make the world of a difference. So, to start this off I began talking to a guy who is just a little over a year older then me. He has an apartment, two jobs bar tending, and his own car. While on the other hand I ... (405 words)

What does my dream mean?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had the weirdest dream last night!!! It was about a friend who I really have not thought about in anyway as a potential "partner". Actually, that same night I had hung out with a guy who I am trying to find out whether I like or not. But here is the dream. If you have any ... (220 words)

If he has such deep feelings for me, why hesitant about a relationship? I need to knw-Is he playing with my emotions and using his recent break-up as an excuse?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this might be fairly long, but I'll start from the beginning anyway. I have this guy bestfriend and we've been messing around for 4, almost 5 months now. Last year we were just friends and he was in a relationship, but whenever we got the chance to hug he would always ... (814 words)

Hey, I want to know if this guy likes me.

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so I want to know if this guy likes me. This might get kind of long, but I really have to know. So I will call the guy "Bob" I will call another girl who also has a crush on Bob "Sandra" Part 1: Okay so I always thought that Bob was hot. We sit next to each... (608 words)

How can I put on more weight as I hate being called skinny?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im a 14 year old and i weigh 86lbs. before you call me bulimic,anemic,or anything else let me tell you i do none of those things. i dont know what to do people at school make fun of me and tell me im skinny. it really bugs me cuz i eat but i dont change.i hate it that everyone ... (75 words)

Masturbating for the first time!!!

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a few questions! I am thinking about masturbating for the simple fact that my boyfriend is sometimes away and i get lonely while he is away. Ive never masterbated ever in my life and im not sure how to get it started or the right "tools" to start this? Am i strange ... (120 words)

I was wondering, does anyone on here work as a paid agony aunt?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering, does anyone on here work as a paid agony aunt? And then I guess, come on this site to gain more knowledge/experience? Does anyone know how one would go about gaining paid employment as an agony aunt/advisor? I really love doing this in my spare time and would ... (129 words)

Help!!! How can I get to know him and possibly date him?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey there. so im a freshman in highschool with a scene style. i dont go crazy with the hair and makeup, but its clear im no prep. im not so interested in the jocks or preppy guys, but i noticed one really hot emo boy. he's the definition of "emo" the style, not the cutting. i ... (113 words)

He can't maintain an erection in bed.

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My questions are a bit complicated and probably TMI. I apologize in advance. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months. I love spending time with him, love who he is... but there's an elephant in the room only I seem to bring up... Before we officially st... (247 words)

Why does she not trust me?

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30 April 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly a year now and I really trust her in every way. However she has major trust issues, they are not over anything major but just little things. It gets to the point where she won't leave her phone unattended because she doesn't ... (217 words)

After 6 years my son's father wants to be in his life!

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I got pregnant at 15 to a man that was married, at the time I didn't know, when I found I finished it, well I had my baby when I was 16, father didn't want any contact whatsoever, well 6 years down the line I got a message of him trough facebook asking will he ever get to see ... (212 words)

Why am I only good enough to be the "other woman"?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why am i only ever good enough to be 'The other woman'? A and B are two guys i have met at different stages of my life who have both turned me into the same person - when i am around them the strong confident woman i generally am disappears, and i become a crumbling mess w... (674 words)

I haven't had sex in 20 years and really don't know what to do or expect!

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30 April 2011 (F)

age - I am a 55 year old women that hasn't had sex in 20 years. I have recently started dating again an I am sure he will want to have sex soon and I am horrified I have no idea what to expect. Can anyone give advice of help please... (51 words)

I heard she's dating a married man... but I want her back!

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30 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i had a relationship with a woman older than me 4 years. she is my boss. she helped me get into that job. she is divorced with a kid of 7 years old. i dammed her 8 months ago. we still work together. i made a move on her 3 weeks ago and i took a big no for an answer. i found ... (79 words)

Did I screw up our first kiss?

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm dating my friend's ex, she doesn't care, but I really love him, a lot. She told me he treated her wrong, he would never kiss her or be sweet.. I found that wrong he Wants to kiss me for the first time :) he always hugs me, he is really sweet to me which brings me to ... (130 words)

I want him so badly and know we would work well together...

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30 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago i changed jobs and met a few really amazing people. soon after becoming involved with one of my coworkers (my manager) one of my close friends at work (who i share a desk with)lets call him A, suddenly started showing interest in me,at the beginning he wasnt ... (576 words)