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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Husband "stalks" his sisters, neices. I find his behaviour creepy, embarrassing and weird. Brief background, no they are not overly close. They have been in and out of each others lives every few years or so. We are all in our late 30's (with exception of neices (early adulthood). By "stalking" I mean he will show up at their place of work and sit there almost all day until they get off, he will be overly concerned with who they are dating and become angered by whichever male it is, if they are on a group activity, he find out where (sneakily) and then "just happen" to drive by, stop by, run into, etc. His behaviour embarrasses me because more often than not, I am dragged along to these little stalking excursions (in which I am clueless until we pop up on them)and then we are all just standing around,with all these weird vibes and tension. When I call him out on it, he adamantly denies that he even knew they were there, and that it was just a coincidence that they happened to be there too. I am disturbed by this. Should I be?
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reader, JenL  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 oh yes, you should be totally disturbed, i don't blame you ~ that is pretty creepy ~
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): Yes it's disturbing! He's like the alpha gorilla who has marked his territory and vehemently defends it, driving off all other virile males. I would keep calling him out on it and you be the one to drive telling him you don't trust it's just a coincidence.
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