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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need help to understand my jealousy, or i'll lose the best man I've ever had.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in denial of my problem. I am very jealous with my bf and its wrong.. I have had problems with him in the past and i don't trust him. I'm tired of being like this and i want to change. I question him about everything, like where is he going, who he is with, an when... (158 words)

Is this his way of telling me he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age - Recently I asked the man who i am currently seeing (it's been more than a year)if he loved me and his response was "I always have". Is this his way of saying that he does love me without saying those ohhhh so hard three little words most guys have a hard time saying?... (56 words)

I've received an offer to work in the porn industry. What are the advantages and disadvantages?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

24 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - i worked as a shot girl in a club. i basically wear a g string, a micro skirt and a crop top. for those who dont know a shot girl goes around dressed like i described handing out shots. anyway, i got chatting to a guy one work night. i finished early aand went to talk with him.... (188 words)

He says he's too lazy to love me any more. Is this real or is it his depression talking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when you get dumped by your depressed boyfriend because he doesnt want love or relationships anymore because he's too lazy? Is that even possible? Can someone seriously be too lazy to want love and relationships?... (43 words)

Our relationship is boring for me, not for him. Is it fair than I try harder than him?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I get bored in our relationship from time to time. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Of course, everything was exciting and amazing at the beginning. We also had a distance relationship for a year. This year, however, I transferred to his school (not for him, for my stud... (224 words)

My father has Alzheimers, my mother is unsupportive. Should I go overseas as I wish? They want me to stay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my father. I am 33. I have been living with my parents for 6 months because I had to do paperwork to go abroad. I have lived during 7 years independently. My parents are in their 70s. My father has Alzheimer's disease. He does not see me as his daug... (264 words)

Can I win him back? Or should I not try? My ex flirts more with me than his Gf

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is also my ex boyfriend and we are still in love with each other. He has a girlfriend, but he sees, talks, and flirts with me more than her. As a matter of fact, they NEVER see each other... well, today I told her that I think I may want him back, and she went... (157 words)

Should I try to reconnect? first he was going to propose then he dumped me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were together for almost a year. It seemed perfect. We were always appreciative and affectionate. He told me over Christmas that he already knew how and where he wanted to propose. And that he wanted to stare at my face for the rest of his life. We never even ... (330 words)

Should I go back to my country? What other options are there to pay my tuition fees?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am an indian who came to Australia for higher studies. i don't have money to pay my next year's tuition fee as i didn't get a job. i can't ask my family for help as their business went bankrupt. so, i asked my boyfriend for help (just to lend; i would pay back). he show... (199 words)

Is kissing another guy in front of your Bf redeemable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so a couple nights ago, my boyfriend invited me to stay with him and visit a university together. We are actually a relatively new couple but we are dating exclusively. We partied both nights we were down there, and I have not had that much experience with alcohol, or ... (224 words)

He will not pay child support, but does not want me to move. What should I do? I still care about him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) age 36-40 - my long term boyfriend broke it off with me ten months ago when i told him i was pregnant. i was desvasted. i had a melt down really coping with the fact i was dumped, later to find out he had been cheating, and that i was pregnant. well anyways my pregnancy wasn't easy and... (248 words)

How,when,where do I ask her out? She's very popular and I'm not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and I've started doing volunteer work at a railway. There's this girl who I fancy, we keep smiling at each other and she is single. Academically we are pretty similar, we come from similar backgrounds as well. You're probably thinking I should ask her o... (147 words)

How do I get over and out of this? I'm 16. He's 30 and I fancy him, but I don't want to.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i know you may think i'm a kid but all the same i need help with this all the same. last week i stayed with my boss for the week to do this training/boot camp thing. he offered that i stay with him so that i can do it. in fact he was very eager for me to do the boot ... (214 words)

Having a Professional Page is ruining my relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I am a Paul Mitchell Focus Hairstylist, and I was trained to network with people to help myself build my cliental and or just get my name out there, one day I hope to become well known or even famous for what I do, I made my professional facebook page, and I have it ... (331 words)

Date ideas?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - There is a girl who I have fancied for ages who I have finally had the guts to ask out on a date. it has been ages since I last went on a date so I am in desperate need of ideas! Please Help (am aged 15)... (54 words)

Caught in the middle when two friends broke up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend(becca) and her boyfriend(nick) just broke up after a year and a half. Over that time i have become close with both of them. Including nick. Right when they broke up Becca called me. and a few mins later nick called to and told me about it. They broke up because ... (369 words)

I am good at online rapport, but struggle at flirting in person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quickie... I have met a woman I *really* like but I am rubbish at face-to-face flirting! We met eac hother in person, but live about an hour on the train away from one another so although I see her at least three times a month, the majority of our communication is ... (132 words)

When I spend time with my mother, I end up feeling badly about myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like when I spend time with my mother, I end up feeling bad about myself. I can't work out if this is justified of me or if I have the problem and are too sensitive. In conversations with her, she always talks and taalks about her life and the lives of other people i... (827 words)

Girlfriend cannot talk but would not say why

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend says she's at home, but she's busy, and can't talk to me, yet she does not want to tell me why. She says she'll call me back when she's done, but she will not give me a time. I called her back saying it really bothers her that she would do this and it make me ... (146 words)

Is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I became friends with this guy recently. We were getting on really well, texting all the time and he called me loads. There was no getting rid of him. But then, we made out a few times and I couldn't meet up as often and we started to fall out. He has been up at mines loads th... (98 words)

I have been dumped. No explanation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dumped. No explanation. I am alright as I didnt want the relationship anymore that much. Maybe he knew that but what I think about alot is has he lied? When he said I was someone he cared alot about. When he would look at me like he liked me very much. When he would ... (167 words)

I don't like the idea of being married or having children anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i just wanna an advice , I'm married with a woman in another country now she is gonna have a baby and i don't like the idea neither being married any more i'm so depressed about having a baby and continuing being married , no sex no fun but i still try to be nice . Please help... (73 words)

He as done a terrible thing to me so why can't I just hate him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had an affair with my best friend and is now in a relationship with her. I am absolutely devastated not only for myself but for my baby boy who as only been seeing his daddy for an hour or so a week. He say's he wasn't happy and he couldn't cope with family life or ... (378 words)

I'm a virgin, but I want to know what I can do to take things a little farther

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months. i am still a virgin and so is he. i kinda want to take things to the next level. every time we're alone in his car we always end up on the backseat making out and dry humping with me straddled over him. i know ... (93 words)

My wife had a one night stand

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi my wife had a one night stand when we where enganged six yrs ago, but has being faithfull so far now i feel like cheating on her because am hurt. am just thinking about it. am not talking to her how can i forget she did it with our family friend... (54 words)

How can my best friend who is extremely beautiful, be so insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never really used this website, but i have a majour confusion with my best friend. I don't see her in the way other males do, she is more like a sister. But many, many! guys are always telling me that they are very jealous that i know her or that i have a close ... (250 words)

We never fought until she starting dating her boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately my friend and I have been fighting. We never fought until she starting dating her boyfriend. I dated this boy before and I think I want him back. Well, when I told her this we had a very big argument and are no longer friends. This all happened today and I've told the ... (98 words)

How do I become more interactive with this girl and get her to text me back?

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24 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i really like this girl who i frequently play around with on facebook...we comment alot on each other and i like everything she posts...face to face in school we are not exactly the same but we are kind of friends....fortunately one day she came up took my phone number and gave ... (123 words)

I used to be so secure, now I'm a jealous mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22-years old. I've been with my fiance for two years and four months. I've never been so happy in my entire life, and never even imagined I could be. We are talking of getting married later this year, and are looking into buying a houses at the starts of next year if we ... (893 words)

Should she weigh more at this age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I need to know what you guys think, My 9 month old baby girl weighs 13 lbs, should she weigh more at this age?... (25 words)

Married man cares about me or does he only want some action?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey all. Me and this married man have become friends. We are both married and we both know we are sexually attracted to each other. He seems to want to talk to me and be around me all the time and we have connected emotionally. We are both encouraging this friendship to ... (143 words)

My ex never gives me the answer that I want!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he always do this? am really hurt:(? ? ? Whenever I speak to my ex boyfriend and I ask him why he cheated on me, lied to me and dumped me, he gets defensive and angry and never give me the answer that I want. He gets angry and makes me feel like am the one in the wron... (169 words)

Solciting memorable date ideas

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. I'm moving away for uni in September (although we'll still see each other at least once a week) and I'm looking for date ideas to make the time between now and then (we both finish for Summer soon) really memorable and ... (55 words)

One of my friends has fallen away and says it's my fault

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This situation is tearing me up inside, and I can't stop grieving. Please help me. I'm originally from USA but recently moved to another country, and I've been feeling profoundly sad because one of my friends has fallen away from me, and he's said things that imply that I'm t... (817 words)

My boyfriend's friends treat me as if I'm diseased!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my bf for almost a year and a half now most of the time things are pretty good between us, however there is always something thats going to cause a massive rift between us, his odious friends they treat me like im a diseased whenever im out with my bf and his ... (217 words)

Partner says she just can't love me! Should I just put up and shut up for the children's sake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. My partner and I have been together for 8 years and have 2 children together (aged 5-7), yet a couple of days ago she admitted to me that she doesn't love or trust me and will never be able to. She has had a difficult childhood though I have never given her any reason to ... (158 words)

Please help with stubborn, indecisive boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Warning this is going to be a looong post as this is a long story. Basically, me and my boyfriend (both mid-20s) have been together for nearly three years now. At first, our relationship was quite hard as his best friend is a girl and their relationship is ... (1455 words)

LDR b/f broke up with me yet wants to keep me as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My LDR of 4 years broke up with me last night ='( He got depressed over the past month about how his life is because his friends all seem to know what their doing and where their going and he doesnt. He got totally lost in life, lately he has not been himself and he d... (174 words)

In love with a priest...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old girl. I'm not a typical teenager. I have no true friends. I'm not invited to parties and I don't drink or smoke. Guys don't seem to be interested in me at all. Maybe this will explain what I'm about to tell you and why I feel the way I do about this man. ... (481 words)

I need to end things with my LD b/f but I don't want to come across as being a jerk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Happy Easter everyone. I’m in a bit of a fix and struggling to comprehend it myself. Will try and vocalise it the best I can. Right theres this guy I’ve known for two years now, we went out for a while and then I broke it off (because it was long distance and my family were ... (248 words)

Why can my fiance invite his ex wife to our wedding but I cant invite my ex husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, Aunts and Uncles. I'm currently in the process of planning a second wedding for myself (this will be my fiance's third). We both have children from our previous marriages and have successfully included them all in the festivities. We have reached a problem, however. ... (286 words)

I still have sex with my wife even though she is having an affair. Is this letting go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Is this what letting go means? My 42 year old wife is about a month into an affair with a man 25 years older than her. I have seen their email correspondence and the level of emotional attachment is unbelievable. This whole thing hit me out of the blue, or rather was dumpe... (641 words)

Sometimes my boyfriend just makes me feel so invisible..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend dearly.. but sometimes he just makes me feel so invisible. Like he'll invite me over every day we are able to see one another just about, but almost every time I visit him he will just completely ignore me for hours playing his Xbox. I'll hug him and tell ... (246 words)

How can I tell online if he likes me or not?

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so confused. I met a guy on mxit. Im 20. Hes 30. He seemed to really like me. He does still tell me that he likes me but i want to be sure. Any ideas on how to know? Exept for asking him? ... (44 words)

If he knows I like him, why doesn't he do something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this guy i have liked for coming up 2 a year. I ve never told him i like him but well he said to a mate of mine he knows i like him, They only thing thats getting on my nerves is now that he knows why hasnt he said anything to me about it He always posts on ... (211 words)

How does a guy break up with a girl, but do so in a kind way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys This is a question that one of my friends asked me but I didnt know the answer so can you try and answer it. Thanks He has been going out with this girl for about 2 months now and he feels the spark has gone and he is going to break up with her, his question is how ... (76 words)

Husband left me for another woman even though he knows shes no good!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is an SOS call, I feel like my heart has been smashed into a thousand pieces. My husband has left me and now I feel I have lost my best friend, my sole mate and my lover :o( We've been together 6 years and married 2 years on 3rd May! Summer time last year we started ... (479 words)

Men: What were the first signs that you were losing interest in a woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

- To Men Only: If you have ever been with a woman you loved, lost interest in her what were the first signs of your disinterest?.,,,Thank you.... (26 words)

I'm gay and a virgin. how do I answer their intrusive questions on lesbian sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - For a long time now I've known I am a lesbian and I came out about it a couple of years ago. Ever since coming out I've had some of my friends asking me what I've done with a girl, but I haven't done anything with anyone. And that doesn't bother me, it's my choice not to do ... (280 words)

My friends have made me anxious to have sex. But how? Is this a good idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm almost 18 and a virgin :) i have been in a relationship since i was 15. my boyfriend is a nice guy and i trust him a lot but still i never let him have any kind of sexual intercourse with me. but now i am thinking to move into a physical relationship. i heard abou... (145 words)

How can I get this persistent other guy to leave me alone? I like a different guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - right so theres this guy who likes me, and pretty much every weekend since decemeber we have hooked up, nothing serious just like made out anyway i told him in feb i don't like him, and that i like one of his mates, who i've got with quite a few times and also slept with,... (345 words)

Would you want a future with a girl who keeps in contact with everyone she's had sex with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend of 11months.. stilll close friends with her past flings and guy friend who she had a drunk one night stand with.. Disgusts me.. To know that she is still friends with people who have seen her nude.. who she has blown or been humped by.. I want a future with her.... (329 words)

I cannot stand the constant stream of husband's family in our home!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age - I am an only child and have been married to my second husband for nearly 2 years - my first husband died. My parents are both dead and I come from a very small family unit. The man I have married comes from a very large family and he has children from previous relationships. I ... (308 words)

Why do women lie that they're virgins?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do women get angry if a virgin man wants to marry a virgin woman? And why do most of them lie about there sexual past to the virgin guy?... (31 words)

What are the effects of shea butter on stretch marks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi every one, pls does any one knows the effects of shear butter on the skin? I am battling with stretch marks and i was told that shear butter works, but i want to know more about it. Pls help me, i'll be grateful if u do.... (47 words)

Could he like me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for I can't stop thinking about him .. Hes even giving me butterflys and I get really nervous when I see him .. I haven't felt like this before , not even with my exs, having him around gives me the beat feeling , even if my ... (300 words)

DId he just use me to have someone to sext with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey ok so i have this family friend his name is dan. we are both the same age but he is in college and i`m in school. we have known each other since we were little and both familys used to meet up a lot of the time. But then the visits stopped. After a year i had to meet up w... (334 words)

Is Vaginal Contraceptive Gel a good and effective option?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I don't like condoms, I can not afford to go to the gynecologist, and I tried going to the health department to get birth control but they said I make too much money for them to help me... Has any one on here tried Ortho Options Conceptrol Vaginal Contraceptive ... (57 words)

I wanna prove to my ex that Iv changed but how can I when I don't know how to reach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really down in the dumps. I feel like I have no one to talk to and people who im there for arent there for me. Ive tried talking to people but its like they dont want to deal with any of my problems. And lately I been thinking about my ex boyfriend and that led me to miss ... (251 words)

Help ! My orgasms are not normal !! why do I release so much sperm ?!?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 yrs. bi male from Czech Republic living in Canada I don't know if I should call this a problem. but it's definitely causing some serious distraction lately I have these really intense orgasms. Most people can't wait to orgasm and reach the peek of that feeling eve... (164 words)

My girlfriend keeps promising to try harder in the relationship, but she doesn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year and a half now. Before her I had another girlfriend for nearly 2 years and It was a bad breakup. I almost did not date my current girlfriend because my ex ruined it for me. But I decided to give her a chance. I fell in ... (134 words)

I'm 17 and my BF is 47!! Scared for the future...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and my boyfriend is 47. Thats a 30 year age difference...now, I don't have a problem with that, by it makes me so depressed when I think about the future. He will die so early, and I don't want to be alone..I love him and he is the only man I want to be with, but I am ... (76 words)

I had a very weird dream after breaking up with boyfriend .Is it related?

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had the weirdest Dream. In my dream i broke up with my Boyfriend which in reality i did 2 days ago. I procede to carry a Baby horse to my room to feed him his formula.But he couldnt fit in my room so i decided to go back downstair. while walking downstairs the Horse turned ... (142 words)

Written up after 3 weeks on my job and I think I'm being treated unfairly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I work in a convenience store and was written up today after only being there for three weeks. One report was written because the register I was working on had been short, the other was due to a customer complaint that involved me forgetting to put through a coupon. They ... (256 words)

HELP!!! Unhealthy Obsession with my Former Lecturer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have very deep feelings for my former lecturer, I think about her all the time and can't get her out of my mind, I miss her when I haven't seen her for a long time and continuously read information on her just to know more about her. I know that it is immoral but I can't help ... (238 words)

Is it fair of my older brother to lecture me about life lessons when he's never bothered to involve himself in MY life and MY choices until they're already made?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I come here not to be judged, so please bear with me and listen to my story. Btw, I'm 17 1/2 with a birthday in 48 days. I live at home with three older siblings, my elderly mom, and my nephew. My older siblings are 29, 27, and 24. They all live at home. The 29 year o... (472 words)

He broke up last sunday, yet he has a new gf? how do I get over my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend broke up with me last Sunday. I was having a hard time getting over it, since he's my first love. I thought I was going to be able to get him back. He didn't talk to me for a few days, and suddenly I was getting some strength. But then today he texted me again and ... (156 words)

Does anyone else get turned on by older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys i was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Im 24 and i just go out of a bad five year relationship with someone that was 29, but lately i have been very attracted to men who are older like mid thirties or forties. People say im a very pretty girl, like petite b... (172 words)

Does he not find me attractive now? He loses his erection as he gets the condom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i, are ready for sex, he's 21 and im 20, but the problem is... he loses his erection when he reaches for the condoms. i still play with him but that doesn't keep him hard enough to place the condom on. he blames exam stress for it, im starting to think he... (131 words)

Why does he treat me like this? Why does he act like this? What does it mean?

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have an FwB, but we act like we are bf/gf (just that there is no strings). He knows I like him a little, and he said he is starting to like me (not sure if that has changed or not, i asked over a week ago). He calls me 'cutie' all the time (its pretty much his nickna... (472 words)

I want to know what is acceptable before we do anything!

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24 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Age. Im 19 in the army and this girl im talking to is 17 turning 18 in 2 months. Im in GA shes in CT I have to follow local laws and the UCMJ. UCMJ keeps bringing up the age of under 16 and in GA and CT it seems like our relationship would be fine even if it became sexual... (123 words)

My bf refuses to change his fb status, what can I do

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months won't change his FB status and I am angry!! Right now it doesn't say he is single, he has it blank on that line. I sent him a request to change his status on FB from nothing to "in a relationship" and link it to my page. He refused !!! Says he wants to... (171 words)

Why did he let me get away with this? (FwB question)

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Long story short, I've got a friend with benefits and I made a huge mistake. He took to long to respond to a text, and then told me he was busy. And I got pissy at him and told him to talk to me when he decided I was worth talking to. I pretty much took a 'tantrum' and t... (293 words)

How do I confirm when a really quiet guy is trying to get my attention?

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I wanted to know how you can tell if a quiet guy is trying to get your attention. The guy I like is pretty quiet. He has sat behind me a couple times in class and makes tons of noise rattling things around. Whenever I turn around to look at him, he'll totally freeze in lace a... (96 words)

My parents made us break up. When is the age when my parents can't stop me seeing him?

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I really need some help! I'm 15 and the guy I was seeing before is 18. We started talking about a month and a half ago and then we dated for about 2 weeks which it ended about a week ago. Well, my parents were perfectly fine with it at first then some things happened (we ... (198 words)

We argue. She never has time for me. Should we break up?

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24 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend never has time for me. She tells me she cant be without me and when we got into argument she begged me to stay with her. Yet whenever I wanna talk shes busy or shes out with friends. Its spring break and we haven't even done anything together. I know shes busy ... (137 words)

Is he genuine? can I still trust him? he keeps cancelling at the last minute.

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i recently got back together after a short break apart.I dont see him very much as he goes to boarding school so we try and meet at weekends. Although he has started avoiding meeting up with me,he always has an excuse,when we do arrange to go out together he ... (80 words)

Is he truly seeking a relationship or just a sex buddy?

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a while, not regular contact but we talk and have met often. Only thing is we always end up at each others houses on the evenings - I haven't slept with him and won't until I'm ready too. However we've had the discussion of where its going,... (130 words)

Can someone who was abused never be able to love again.... I miss her

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24 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Recently i went through a bad break up. i was separated for over a year and a half when i met this woman and she knew what my status was. i wasn't looking to date but we kept meeting each other professionally and then it just clicked from there. we became intimate and ... (544 words)

I'm afraid I might be pregnant and I'm scared to tell my parents!

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Im 14 years old and I have a boyfriend that is 16. Me and him had sex about a monto get h ago and I was supossed to get my period a week ago but it hasnt come. Im afraid I might be pregnant. We used a condom, but it broke. I dont know how to tell my parents that Im pregnant... (70 words)

He has cheated on me at least 6 times but still I am with him!

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so stuck. I feel lost and heartbroken. And im really uncertain of what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. I have always been faithful to him. Completely stopped talking to other boys infact to make him feel better. Although he has not always been the ... (286 words)

Can the right person come along when you are already married?

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24 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have one simple question: Can the right person come along when you are already married?... (16 words)

Why does my girlfriend laugh when I do something sexual?

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24 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is 18 and whenever we do something sexual, she laughs. I mean we're kissing and I sneak my hand up her skirt and she'll giggle. Is it that she's immature? I've had sex with other girls and they didn't laugh. ... (42 words)

Sexually inexperienced--should I just tell him to grab a condom?

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure what I'm asking here...advice I guess... I recently started to fool around with a friend (we haven't had intercourse- only oral sex, and a lot of dry humping with nothing but our underwear on). Anyhow, thing is I had only ever been with another guy before, ... (196 words)

Questions about 1st time sex

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24 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old, I've been with my boyfriend for 9months. He's 16. We don't have an overly sexual relationship. We're both not ready for sex. Far to many things to worry about at the moment. But my question is, well not a question as such, I was wondering what were your f... (118 words)