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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he like me? Please give opinions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, okay, so I think that this guy might like me, but I really like him, so I'm worried that maybe my mind is playing tricks on me. I need other, third-party opinions on the matter please :) Here's why I think he likes me: -He stares at me A LOT. -He fixes his clothes/ha... (699 words)

My girlfriend threatens to kill herself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in highschool and just about to go to college and I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and I really love her. But over the year of us dating she began to get really clingy and pretty much abandoned all of her friends for me. Also at her home she has a really ... (249 words)

I'm meeting my girlfriend's parents for the first time next week...Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys, im going to meet my girlfriends parents some time next week, i just wanted to know, what are the things i should do to make them like me ? and what are the things i shouldnt do or be like ?... (47 words)

How do I make my boyfriend practice better hygiene?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a real guys guy, and plays a lot of sport. I don't think he showers properly all the time. He barely washes his hair and it smells!!! and he doesn't cleanse his face and you can see the build up of dirt sometimes where it just looks rough. It's gotten to t... (260 words)

He has said I need to get my act together or we have no future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have together for 5 years and we've felt great about eachother. recently he has told me he's buying a house, we don't live together. he has said i need to get my act together or we have no future. i felt insecure and looked at his cell, lots of back and ... (106 words)

If he was not inestrested in me why flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age - can you read someone wrong ? we have know each other for a few months . we have flirt an he has come over an jst stared at me . at first i thought he was just being nice . then he keep flirting with me he winks came over a hugged me put his hands on my shoulder an squeeze them ... (205 words)

Feelings for a taken girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, so i don't know what's going on. there is this girl, she is a lot older than me... she has a boyfriend but i seem to be having feelings for her? i'm 16, and she's like in her 20's... but yeah something seems to be developing, but i think she thinks that i hate her b... (105 words)

Is this just being nice or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I know this guy for a couple months now. I usually see him in class, and we are getting very close. We used to talk just in class, For the last week we've been talking online for hours. Just recently he asked me to go to lunch with him and his friend so we went. When I ... (120 words)

Confusion after Blind date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

- The other night i had a great blind date. There was lots of laughter and chatting, the body language good, her pupils dilated and lots of hair touching.She even talked about what to do ' Next Time' and stayed longer than she planned, as we was heading off to a meal with ... (203 words)

Can you be fingered with trousers on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants to finger me, and i want him too but i hate the look of my vagina, i get spots on it and marks when i shave, i hate it, can you be fingered with trousers on?!! ... (39 words)

Does my girlfriend have genitals herpes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She told me that she got 3 "cold sores" on her bottom, she said that she got it because of chemical of pool that cause her cold sores appears on her bottom. Its one of STDs group? Its called cold sores or genitals herpes? We're planned to have sexual activity until I found ... (90 words)

I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man? I have had three significant relationships in my life. One isn't a great example because it happened over the internet, but the two others happened whenever I was approached in a club. As a man, it is a c... (188 words)

Do relationships after high school ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So...I'm a senior in high school and a boyfriend was the last thing on my mind. When I first started dating my current boyfriend about three months ago I thought it was just a fling that would be over after graduation. The truth is our feelings for eachother are very serious, ... (137 words)

Everytime I try to break up, he threatens suicide...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Well I'm a 22 year old female and I've been in a relationship now for two years, but finding problems with the relationship. He isn't violent or a bad person which is why it's difficult to break up with him, but I feel trapped and want to be free. I've tried to brea... (230 words)

He said I was tight. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Basically my problem is that I'm seeing this guy, we're not properly together, but we're very close and we've told each other that we love one another. I'm in my last year of school, I finish all together for study leave in a weeks time, I'm not very liked there because ... (280 words)

Girlfriend doesn't want sex because of bad sex she had in the past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been getting really intimate for just over 6 months. When we were talking I brought up sex and she said that she didn't want to. I totally respect her and wouldn't want her to do anything she didn't want to do. But it was something she said when I ... (164 words)

Boyfriend said I was really tight, will this be a problem the first time we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend who is 19 have been dating for about 7 months. We have talked it over and feel that we are both ready for sex. I'm a virgin while my bf is not so we thought starting with oral sex etc would ease me into it and bring us closer. The other week ... (150 words)

I'm going to have to see my ex again and I still have feelings for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - After getting out of pretty destructive relationship with a guy last June, I face the prospect of having to see him pretty soon again. I thought I had gone far enough away, but I'm returning to where we met ( and he still is) in the next few months. We haven't spoken since the ... (104 words)

Is she acting like this because she knows something about me and her brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I want help about my crush's little sister's behavior.I was part of a program to welcome incoming 6th graders and she was part of that group. Now, about 8 months later, I have started seeing her around school. Yesterday, she saw me and just stared at me, kind of smiling. I was ... (152 words)

What clothes would suit me? I want clothes that would make me look attractive to girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone i want to change my appearance because all of my clothes are too small and the ones that fit me, i think i don't look good in them. the only out fit i like that i can make is converse sneakers, baggy jeans (that don't go below the backside), plain ... (158 words)

I have a spark with another guy...my boyfriend who despite what I pretend is really just a good friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im going out with this really nice sweet guy and i really like him but i also like this other boy and i think i like him more because we have a kind of spark rather than my boyfriend who despite what i pretend is really just a good friend. I dont know what to do, i really like ... (86 words)

I don't think this LDR of ours is going to work out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated my guy in a LDR for a year now... and now I dont think he is convenient for me, not only financially, but he has a brighter future on his country and me in mine country. So on top of all we only get to see each other once a year... in about 2 years or 3 we willbe ... (269 words)

My boyfriend allows me to pursue women, but now he calls me a "lesbian"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. He treats me amazing and makes me feel even better. The sex is really good too. Before i met him i was a bit promicious but really settled down now. I had also been with a few girls and this is something that i cont... (120 words)

Fingering really hurts...Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend fingers me it's so painful I always have to make him stop! I'm a virgin, and I don't use tampons, so I always thought it would hurt alot the first few times, but we've tried it at least 10 times now, and it isn't getting any easier. I normally have a very high ... (438 words)

How do I get this guilt to go away? Should I be 'just friends'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry, this is kind of a long story. So I broke up with my ex of two years, and he was my first for pretty much everything. A couple weeks after, I met my best friend up at his college and we had fun to take my mind off of my first big break up. While there, I met my friend'... (530 words)

He Likes Me But I'm Scared... Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so 2 nights ago i went to a house party and there was this guy there that i have met a couple times and he is a friend of my friend. He really likes me and everyone is trying to get us together. I do quite like him but he's not really my type so have never really thought ... (278 words)

My girlfriend is confused and wants her space. Its tearing me up inside

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of almost ayear told me she wants time and space to be on her own for a while. She has been very stressed at work, her 4 year old son gets sick often and her divorce is almost finalised. She has told me that nothing is wrong in our relationship that it is her a... (569 words)

BF is uncomfortable about physical scenes in the play. Should I not do them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year and we really trust each other. I do drama and as part of a role I have some pretty intimate scenes with another guy. My bf is really happy for me that I got the role but says he is really uncomfortable with some of ... (122 words)

Unhappily married, and emotional affair partner wants to take it to the next level. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I am afraid I will cave under pressure. I have been in an emotional affair with a married man for many months. I am also married. Neither of us are happy in our marriages but we both have children and stay because of them. I have not felt attracted to my husband for a ve... (193 words)

I heard she liked me, so I told her I liked her and she got mad. What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - ok , heres the deal . Im 13 and in middle school . This girl likes me and i like her alot. I feel so attracted to her. 3 of her friends told me she likes me. one of her friends said "She likes you, she didn't want me to tell you". I told her ( the girl I like ) that i knew she... (175 words)

I think it missed her, but I am still worried that it could have gotten her pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend had sex last night, we wore a condom but I decided to pull out just in case. I eventually ejaculated 5 mins later from a handjob. Most of my semen landed on me or the bed whilst my girlfriend said none of it landed on her. She was in her side and I ... (156 words)

I think he said it was enough because I'm so inexperienced. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Im 15 and I've never really had a proper boyfriend so I'm quite inexperienced. Recently I've been on a couple of dates with this guy who is also 15 but a lot more experienced than me. So last night I was meeting this guy at his house before we went out. We started cuddling... (159 words)

Parents don't approve. Should we continue to sneak around, or just wait until she is older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 we've been friends for 2 and half years and just recently started going out. Even before we started dating her parents didn't know I existed (they don't want her to have any communication with the opposite sex). And i know it's too early to be ... (143 words)

I'm in love but he hasn't noticed. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey!!! Am 18 and i'm in luv wit a 20 yr old guy, i told him but he seems like he never love me. What should i do?... (28 words)

GF is now dating my ex. I'm hurt and don't know how to handle it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was going out with a guy for 8 months and we were very happy together, we had ups and downs but we always managed to work through them and i loved him and he had told me the same. we broke up a month ago but now hes going out with one of my best friends. she knew i was real... (221 words)

BF took money from daughter's room. I am not sure what to do about this relationship. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - here is my dilema...my boyfriend of 5 years is lazy , has lied a lot in the past, I found out last year that he got oral from another man when he was in his teens .. i have been thru a lot with this guy.. but i am the kind of person that sees the good in everyone despite there ... (402 words)

Depressed because of age. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age - I am getting terribly depressed and although not suicidal. I keep getting very depressed because I am coming up to 60 years of age. No man will want me now I know that and cant help wondering what a bleak future. I know one doesnt have to have a man to be happy BUT the ... (99 words)

BF is upset because I won't pick him up at the airport. Is he being unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My boyfriend is flying into town to close on his house on Monday at night, and will be here until Friday. I have class Monday until 9pm and he expects me to pick him up at the airport after class even though his flight gets in at 7pm and i have work the next day. I told him i ... (229 words)

I told her I wanted to get to know her better and she said the same to me, but she has a BF. Is she playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know. I think she likes me. Well long story short, she's been in my class for years before we got different classes. I changed a lot, physically and mentally and I really wasn't talking to her till near exams. We both are in the same college. She said I look good... (270 words)

Did I correctly do a hand job if he had precum, even though we ran out of time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i gave my boyfriend a handjob for the first time the other day. he never actually ejaculated as we ran out of time, but there was precum. does this mean that i did it right and he enjoyed it? thanks x... (41 words)

He got his ex pregnant and it hurts to think about it. Not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay , me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 4 months, 1 year ago (on our 4 months) he cheated on me with his ex :( and got her pregnant......... At first he was denying that it was his like crazy and after the baby was born we got a DNA test... and its his ... (88 words)

Are my dark "bits" as pretty as a white girl's to my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am black and my partner is white. I have seen some of the porn he uses and they have white women in them, and they all have very...pink, light skinned vagina's. Of course, as I am black, I am much darker down there and I feel insecure. Are white vagina's nicer looking?... (93 words)

Can two people be friends if they are both married to others? If not, why not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is this: Can a man and woman who are both married to others also be friends with each other, if they are attracted to each other? Why or why not?... (32 words)

Warcraft relationship. Is it just distance that keeps us apart or do I have other issues to consider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know a lot of people would laugh but I figured this was a good place to ask about my problem. I met a guy while playing World of Warcraft about 7 months ago. We are in the same guild. We started talking, I mean REALLY started talking, and I developed feelings but I shru... (192 words)

Does my boyfriend still maintain an interest in his ex, or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. We've been through a lot of drama with his ex. at the start of our relationship because it was a messy break up for them, but we got through it. Now, there's this other girl who he was friends with before h... (221 words)

Does my ex have amnesia? Or has he been playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just really confused right now. Here's the thing, my ex-bf of 7 months broke up with me through email 2 years ago since we have had a long-distance relationship, he told me he faded his feelings for me but wanted to stay friends even after the break-up. I never tolerated ... (467 words)

Sex starved by wife. Is it ok for me to find a similarly sex starved lady available for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Been married for 11 years. hardly have sex with my wife because she is hardly ever in the mood or want me to have sex with her. Have to content with secret masturbation many many times. Have never had sex with another person except my wife since marriage. We have not had sex ... (91 words)

What is the best way to heal problems with my acne before the prom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Maybe this is the wrong place to ask a question like this,but here it goes anyway. I get your typical teenage acne, sometimes usual small whiteheads, sometimes cystic ones that are ridiculous. When the acne subsides, it leaves behind a reddish scab of sorts on the affected area... (133 words)

How do I pick up the pieces? friends destroyed our relationship before it had a chance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I just don't know who to talk to... I'm feeling horrendous right now... A year... a whole 12-14 months of waiting for the right person... we dated a fortnight... the best fortnight of my life... I've only ever had two girlfriends so I was waiting for something like this to ... (264 words)

He got angry over it. But how do I get him to realize it was his mistake?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i got a fight with my boy friend,it was his mistake, he got angry on me, right now he is not feeling well, now what should i do? How do i get him to realize it was his mistake?... (39 words)

We have never met, but get on well. would it be OK to stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We have spent a lot of time getting to know each other. There's a good friendship, we've chatted on the phone, I've written to her. We have learned to trust each other. There was a time when we flirted mindlessly, but then we went through a phase where we talked less, and ... (180 words)

My Bf got a stripper pregnant on a one night stand. How do I deal with it? He's sorry.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend of 8 yrs had a one nite stand and now a female is carrying a baby from him. She was a stripper. he says he is sorry I want to still be with him try work things out for us we have kids together,but how do I deal with this sex I may have dealt with it different... (85 words)

How can I get the friction I need during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always had trouble reaching orgasm through intercourse but can do so by using sex toys (whether vibrating or not). I have found that I need the friction that toys provide in order to achieve orgasm where with an actual penis, it seems that the foreskin is only creating ... (96 words)

Should I go to the game with him tommorow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21. He is 20. We have been on 3 dates. He plays soccer,for a big team's younger category. I am a university student. I didnt know he was a soccer player when we first talked,and truth is i am a little prejudiced against them,since i went out with one before.... (465 words)

How do I stop urges to like other men when my boy friend is unavailable? Even though I do love my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i am 24 and I have a boyfriend... he is studying in a different state and hence we are maintaining a long distance relationship from last 2 years our relationship is really good in all respects. but i have a problem of getting attracted towards any guy who seems fine and i... (222 words)

Should I go for this older divorced guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (?) age 30-35 - i have feelings for this older guy. he is 27 i am 18 in the uk i don't know weather to make my feeling known we are close and talk all th4e time. i am very flirty towards him but i don't know if he notices? he is recently divorced because his wife cheated on him (affair) ... (101 words)

Is my low self esteem coming from the way my family treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been wondering for a while about how my childhood may have affected how I feel about myself today. I have a lot of difficulties of social anxiety, and I always feel that I am inferior to everyone else. Even though I firmly believe in equality myself and that every person ... (1118 words)

My boyfriend belongs to his ex, not to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel as if my bf is not MINE, rather he belongs to his ex. I have been with him for five years and they have been apart for almost ten so its certainly been a while, but I still do not feel like he is my partner. When we do stuff together (go out or shopping) I feel... (184 words)

Three months of our marriage and no sex yet..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im 28 yrs old..my husband liked me very much before marriage and used to talk a lot about sex on the phone.. he even tried to take me out but i never allowed.. he used to get al excitd on the phone nd use to tell me what hes going to do when ill be finally there.. but when ... (154 words)

I want her back and need advice how to do it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to make this short. I dated this girl for a short period of time i played the whole chase game with her. I cared about her always went out of my way for her never abused her or made her feel bad about herself. I treated her the best i have ever treated a girl cuz i cared ... (276 words)

If he loved me, he'd spend money on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have being in a relationship for good one year and during this year my guy has never a day giving me gift or money to take care of myself. I want to quit because he don't love me and if at all he did he would have spend for me a little. Please readers advise me should i quit ... (62 words)

I'm just not happy and feel like a failure in relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - In the past 6 years I couldn't sense too much happiness in my life but a lot of amusement instead. In academic, I am absolutely on the edge since I got a scholarship and accepted by the best state school in england. A lot of people at my age envy my success and told me I sh... (372 words)

What can I do? I can't stop thinking of him, yet I thought I was over him.

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex at the end of last november after two and a half years together, it had been going hill for a few months and he had done badly in his exams which made him basically initiate the split. I was hurt and distraught as to the fact that it had ended as he was my ... (623 words)

I feel I broke up for no reason. How can I keep a relationship going longer than 12 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please advise me on this... I love a guy and i moved into a relationship with him,but before you know it i began to hate him. This made me to break up without no reason. Please why is this so? It is really affecting me because i have not been able to keep a relationship for ... (75 words)

Will my strange body movements during an orgasm turn off a guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of an embarrassing question for me. I haven't had sex in my relationships yet, but when I'm on my own (meaning masturbating) I feel that when I orgasm I squirm too much up until when I arch my back becoming stiff, and my lower body muscles (pelvic muscles?) ... (78 words)

Does this guy I love only like me as a friend or as something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how will i interpret someone's action or how does he really feels for me...?? there are times that i can feel he cares for me more than other girls...(we are best buds...) i know that he already know i feel special towards him.. but he never showed a sign that he knows.. he... (136 words)

Many random hookups have spoiled my interest in sex and my faith in true love.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't think i can ever love a guy. I have hooked up so many times that i dont even enjoy romance or a simple kiss. Kissing doesnt turn me on like it used to, b/c im not doing it with guys i even like....I feel lost, confused and impatient because i havent found the one so i ... (301 words)

The love of my life said he would marry me...but that he's not the marrying kind! How do I deal with this?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts Me again the ''he said he would only marry me if he was to get married but isn't sure if he's the marrying type'' girl. I'm completely heartbroken. I love him so much and I know we can make each other happy. I just need to know what to do. Help! To look at my question... (73 words)

His work and our living situation are draining our relationship. How can I get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I’m a 26 year old female. Just got married to the love of my life whom i dated for 8 long years. Everything was fine, I would feel the love and warmth in the relationship before we got married. We would even be romantic whenever we met while now we hardly get anytime for ... (191 words)

Girl from work giving me mixed messages! What does she want??

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help, there is a girl at work that I really like, I have worked with her for a few years now but over the past month or so we have been texting like everyday. I eventually asked her out and she basically said that it would be nice but she doesn't want things to get ... (199 words)

I have a wife and a girlfriend, who knew about each other. Now, each of them just wants me for herself! What do I do?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys i have a question. i have a wife and as well as a girl friend. so the thing is they both know about me and i even i told them before getting in the relationship. so the thing is they both are now not agreed. so what can i do. u guys can help me in this situation. ... (70 words)

I want to date her, but she is always making excuses even though she says she likes me! What to do??

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am a 20 year old female and recently came out as bi. My best friend is a lesbian and we have only known each other for a few months. My problem is I have just gotten out of a relationship with a man that lasted 4 years and have fallen for her. We text constantly every... (187 words)

I'm having loads of trouble finding an attractive, intelligent girlfriend!

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9 April 2011 (M)

- I need some advice on how to find a decent girlfriend. I'm a really good looking, athletic guy. I'm a combat veteran, university graduate, and have a well paying corporate job for someone my age (23.) I will be a homeowner in less than 2 years. I was pretty spoilt all t... (202 words)

Is it always a bad idea to date your supervisor at work??

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am in a weird situation here. I work as a nurse aide and my supervisor and I have been seeing each other for two weeks now. He is so sweet to me. He always tells me how pretty I am and brings me flowers. When we are at work we keep it professional and we are good about ... (207 words)

Are we too physically intimate too fast?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, and we have been together for about two months. We live in NYC. We started kissing and making out a while ago and now its almost the only thing we do. I spend a lot of time in his room, especially at night, and while we would never ever ever ... (119 words)

Does my friend's father like me? Should I tell my friend?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so I have been friends with this girl now for about a couple of months. I have been over her house a couple of times, and the first time I went over there her father was really cool nothing weird, until I got ready for a party at her house, I looked really cute, ... (421 words)

Should I be upset that my gf keeps giving out her phone number to guys who clearly like her?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my new girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I'm 25 and she's 20. Things were going really well or so I thought...we started having problems when she started talking to guys and giving her phone number to them, usually on the bus (as she says). The thing is ... (514 words)

Can I trust my bf again after he's cheated twice before? If so, how?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I have been dating a guy off and on for about 3 years. Hes my absolute best friend and the love of my life. But, I have major trust issues with him when it comes to cheating and such. We've dated 3 times (this time being our third) and the first 2 times he cheated ... (154 words)

I'm being pressurized into marriage because my GF whom I never really loved, got pregnant and had our baby, by lying to me about using birth control..

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am in a spot of bother. I had been going out with a girl long distance for about a year, we moved in together and I was pretty sure then that it wasn't true love. After about 6 months, when she was telling me she was taking contraception she fell pregnant.... (374 words)

Should I break the news to my parents about my having sex with my boyfriend?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - for some backround info: i'm 18 and i have a 26 year old boyfriend. we have been dating since october 5th and on valentines day told me he was in love with me. i have just recently began staying over at his house. my parents have many issues with this. my dad is soon to be or... (209 words)

She made plans to meet with someone from work without me for a drink. Should I be upset?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of two months made plans to drink with a guy from work without me. Do I have a right to be upset? It seems like she's enjoying the fact that it hurts me. I know she loves me, she tells me all the time. I'm not understanding her motives. Help?... (52 words)

I feel my daughter's friends don't include her much into their group and she is getting left out. As a concerned parent, how can I help better the situation?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The problem is that I feel that my daughter is left out with her friends. It is more hurtful for me as a parent than it is for my daughter. She is in sixth grade, and her class is small. There are three other girls who are all very outgoing. They are not mean girls. For... (698 words)

I asked him to wear a condom and he was "offended" that I didnt trust him! Now he doesn't want the relationship anymore!!

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I first met this guy in summer school...i didn't have any classes with him...but from the very beginning he started showing signs of interest...afterwards I think it was in September when he added me on face book...he kept on commenting on my posts and pictures... but i didn't ... (362 words)

How do I get this boy to like me?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, there is this guy I'm in love with, but he doesn't even like me that way. We used to be really close friends until another girl told him I liked him a lot. He told my friend that he liked me a little but not after that. He is really funny and loves making people laugh. I ... (118 words)

I find the thought of hooking up with guys repulsive. Does this mean I am gay or bi?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like somethings missing. I don't know what it is, but I have an idea. It's just that every time I see couples, I wish I could have a girlfriend. I also am confused. I mean, I'm sure I'm Bi Sexual, but the sexual thought of guys is just... repulsing. Not to be rude to ... (116 words)

My BF doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage. Should I stay or leave??

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and he's 19, I'm 18 and he doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage and I don't want him to compromise his morals for me so, what I'm asking is if you guys think I should stay ... (62 words)

Should I continue to wait to tell her I love her, or should I do it now?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So essentially this girl that I've first started talking to about 3 weeks ago and I both realized and admitted that we both like each-other alot, and since we first went out on a date, we've talked till at least 11pm everyday since, we talk about everything, what we love in ... (383 words)

Is there any way I can get through to my ex that my behavior was related to the deaths of my family members?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. So I have a quick question about my recent break up. My ex and I dated for 16 months and had a great relationship but had the occasional big argument. The arguments would get pretty out of control but were mostly caused by my insecurities in how he felt because he ... (495 words)

Is it right to stay in this relationship when I am hurting myself so badly?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont want to love him anymore. For months of our relationship i found out that he had a live in partner and they are living together,ofcourse. Three months when we're together i found out that she was fregnant but i love him so much and i can't go on without him. He ... (216 words)

Did what I say crush my cousin's intentions? I wanted to say something different.

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends brother called my cousin my boyfriend and my cousin blushed. And then i said he was just my cousin. But i wanted to say something different. When said what i said my cousin he looked sad, and now he acts way diffrent. Do you think it is over before it even ... (56 words)

What do I do about my lesbian crush?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, im 15 and recently came out to myself as being a lesbian, ive also came out to a few close friends and one family member, because shes gay too. My dilema is, a couple of months ago, i started talking to this girl at school, she a year above me and is one of the coolest ... (298 words)

Does he like me or just my body? How can I tell?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in high school by the way =] So there's this guy or better yet, player I like but hes been on and off with his girlfriend for a while now ( Me and her are between acquaintances and friends), anyways I've been capable of " lightly" liking him until now where every time... (294 words)

I'm so torn. She flirts 24.7. I really care about her. Is there any way to deal with this instead of breaking up?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - what should i do? i have been with this girl for nearly a year, she's my first everything, and i love her so much. I honestly do care about her. she feels the same way and we always talk about how we want a future together. we never fight or anything. but i just have this... (213 words)

Am I the only person who believes you should give advice if you have experienced a situation?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been a member of this site for a long time and have been reading a lot of the advice that is given. A lot of it varies and not everyone has them same answer which is to be expected. A few aunts or uncles I have been following give quite personal advice. This usu... (203 words)

She only calls me when she needs a shoulder to cry on. What do I do?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She called me crying saying she has doesn't feel like she has many friends and all the girls hate her or think she is a slut. I am there to comfort her and tell her she needs to relax and is welcome to come over any time she wants. I am really trying to be a good friend but ... (353 words)

My fiancé found out he has cancer and left me. How can I go on?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancé found out last winter as part of a physical exam for work that he has aggressive stage 3 cancer. His parents moved him into an apartment near the university hospital for treatment and he has been in chemo and radiation and there is some hope. They were with him for ... (534 words)

Is it possible to fall in love in just 2 meetings including sex?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it fair to tell her I am in love? Our first meeting - We had sex for 2 hours and it was extremely passionate. How we ended up having sex in the first meeting is something which I rather not discuss here. Our 2nd meeting - We ended up chatting for 7 hours face to fac... (202 words)

Why doesn't my ex talk to me?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a year ago and now we have the same class together. He is a really nice guy who made a douche bag move when he broke it off, saying he was too busy for school, work and myself. Even though he had a new girlfriend (at the time), he messaged me months later ... (148 words)

Is it true that guys cannot really control themselves in the heat of the moment?

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9 April 2011 (F) age 30-35 - This question is for guys mainly. Recently I was making out with my bf when suddenly he started seriously touching me up and feeling my butt and boobs and went a little over board. Anyway I told him that he went a bit too far and he was really sorry about it. The thing I find ... (107 words)

How do I convince a guy who's been with a ton of girls that i'd be Good sexually?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I convince this guy, who has been with a ton of girls, think that i'm good sexually? ... (19 words)

I can't talk to girls because I'm shy and intimidated

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey there! I am a 16 year old guy, and I have loads to tell you guys. Ok, so this is about girls! From preschool up until about grade 6, I have never been afraid of girls..As soon as I entered grade 7 up until grade 10...disaster. I have never had a girlfriend in my life before ... (443 words)

Need help making an employment decision...its putting a strain on my partner.

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I have been on the fence regarding this decision for a month now. I've never been so indecisive in my life, its driving me nutty and despite my fiance's best attempts, I can't seem to make a decision at all. I'm just stuck right in the middle. Regarding finan... (416 words)

How can he be kissing other girls and texting and then say I'm the one for him?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So last weekend my boyfriend and I were at his friends house for the week end living it up... The first night I only had a little to drink, and decided to go to bed, my boyfriend told me to take his phone with me and plug it in, and that he'd be down in a litle bit. I took it ... (610 words)

Should I confront him about this?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months and we really like each other. I often go round to his house and we just sit and watch a movie or something like that (we don't do anything sexual) and I usually leave quite late. Sometimes I accidentally fall asleep at ... (175 words)

How to know the one to go for

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Five guys are after me and i don't know the one to go for because it seems they all love me equally. Please tell me How to know the one to go for.... (33 words)

I want to respect his privacy.But it's we share everyting!What should I do??

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend is having issues he has been acting weird lately and i don't know why.And he isn't telling me and really has been bothering me because we tell each other everything.I don't know if i should stay out of it or sould check into it??It is new to me that he's hiding things ... (83 words)

Why do I always panic and think a girl is too good for me?

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9 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - need a bit of feedback. ive posted a couple of times. yeah im still a virgin at 30. i was in the pub tonight. had a few drinks but just could not relax. normally i would wait to sober up before posting but i want to try and get my exact feelings down. i feel like im in work ... (214 words)

How do I get my bf to kiss me

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in the 8th grade and today is my boyfriend and I's 1 month anniversary and all we have done is hugged, held hands, he's put his arm around me, and put our heads on each others' shoulders. I know he really wants to kiss me because he's told me he wants to and there have ... (90 words)

Is it normal for 15 year olds to masturbate?

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9 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I'm 15 and I masturbate. I know it is perfectly naturally but I can't help but feel awful afterwards. I don't want to but I can't help it sometimes. Is it normal I know guys masturbate but is it normal for girls especially 15 year olds ? Also what can I do because ... (87 words)