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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are the differences between my bf and me too much for us to work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i've got a real issue and i need as much help as you can give me! Me and my boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up. We love each other loads and used to be head over heels and really happy. But recently we've been arguing all the time and it's come to the point now ... (197 words)

Should I take things further with a friend I slept with one night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I could really use your help. I'll try and explain so please bear with me. A few months ago I flew home from university for a friend's 21st birthday. I started talking to a male friend at the party and he bought me a few drinks. When the party ended a few of us ... (271 words)

Should I continue to date this guy even though his bisexuality turns me off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have a boyfriend and he is bi sexual and i really don't like dating bi sexual guys. But I really do like him. Should I continue to date him??... (31 words)

Should I be upset that my fiance promised to give me $ with my car payment...but then used it to gamble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help to see if i am over reacting. I have lived off and on with my fiance for over three years. We broke up a year ago because he had some anger issues. He got help and three months ago i allowed him to move back in with me. Things have been pretty good. He suggested I ... (312 words)

Was I wrong in asking my bf to stop while we were close to having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem. im 14 and in year 10. my boyfriends 15 and in year 11. we hang out alot and recently i have been going to his house more like in his room.My mum is out of town on a business trip in china and his mum and dad are on their 7th honeymoon so yesterday i went round ... (208 words)

Going away for an overnight with a guy I like...how can I make something happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am going to try and make this as simple as I can because I tend to waffle on. I like someone a lot at the moment and he is part of my reenactment group. Next Saturday, him, me and two other boys from the group are going to Norfolk for a camp. Only one night. The only probl... (142 words)

Girlfriend has been pushing me away because I am "like a puppy"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Goes like this. About 5 months ago I got together with a wonderful lady (shes 26 I am 34). We had known each other for several years and saw each other just as friends on a semi regular basis. She has a 5yr old daughter that loves me to bits and I get along with all her f... (875 words)

Is it okay to ask my teacher a personal problem of mine?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (?) age 26-29 - so i really feel close to my teacher, like i can really trust him.i told him i needed to speak with him about something. we agreed on it. he still doesn't know what it is, its a personal matter and its really bugging me, is it a good idea to speak to him about this problem? or ... (61 words)

Lost virginity equals pain. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently lost my virginity and I'm sore as hell and bleeding. What would be the best products to use for feminine hygiene until the soreness goes down?... (32 words)

How do you make a friend a best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I have been having some trouble making friends. I have friends but I want to know how to make friends my best friends. My sister told me that I act different around all my friends. I just want to know how to not be shy and turn friends into best friends ... (75 words)

Guy I like says he doesn't have feelings for me, but always gets in my business when I talk to other guys. Why does he do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. I've been in love with a guy who is 2 years older than me. And i think the reason why i felt so deeply in love with him, is because of him checking me around. After some few months i was convinced that he felt the same, so i decided to explain all my feelings to him over ... (160 words)

G/f gives me bj's just to make me happy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, i have half a problem. Basically my girlfriend didn't give bj's much because she didnt like them. I wanted to boost this number so i read tips on how to make your girlfriend feel more good about giving bj's, and not pressuring her and stuff. So i did that, and now i have ... (125 words)

Am I gay? Or is it a fetish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a young lad an iv always believed i am straight ive slept with quite a few girls an never really questioned my sexuality until the last year or so. it started when i was told by a friend about his girlfriend slipping a finger up his bum during foreplay an ... (207 words)

Married lover says he can't move because of his kids. Do I walk?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - l have being seing a married guy for nearly a year who lives 400 miles away and who still sleeps with his wife but they dont have sex we talk every day and text all the time . We have met up four times and slept together on two occasions x he says he is in love with me but cant ... (78 words)

When receiving oral sex it feels like I have to pee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having a problem with oral sex. When my girlfriend gives me fellatio it feels very sensitive and i feel like i need a wee? this has happend to me in the past on a one night stand. but never with anyone else. It is starting to cause problems because my partner can't do ... (64 words)

How do I keep routineness from taking over in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We have a really great relationship, with so many fun times. We even went through a year of long distance relationship, when I was at another school far away. We went through a lot. Good times, bad times, you n... (168 words)

G/f has intimate scenes in drama show, should I go to see it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is in a drama group and they are putting on a show. I really want to see her in action and be there for support but she has told me that she has a couple of intimate scenes with a guy. She said she would love to have me there but would understand If I didn't want ... (121 words)

Should I consider having anal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - in the last year i have had twins. i love them to pieces, but being a single mother is hard. in the last 2 weeks i have had sex with 2 people. now, for the 1st time un my life, i wasnt tight downstairs. they litterally just slid it up and there was no pleasure. so i have ... (95 words)

I want to spend my life with b/f but don't want to lose my youth as a consequence of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but we come from different backgrounds and have many differences. He is European and I am American; he is 27 and I am 19. We get somewhat jealous (e.g. when an old acquaintance stops to chat with him at work), and sometimes we joke ... (585 words)

My dad hasn't worked in 3 months and my family is falling apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like my family is falling apart. My dad hasn't worked in over 3 months I feel like this is a big part of the problem. This has been putting a lot of stress on the family my mom is starting and organization for women in need who are abuse and with that you need money to ... (223 words)

Guy I fooled around with from work has not responded. How do I act now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I fooled around with a guy from work one night that I like, I waited a week to see if he'd text me but he didn't. I saw him at work again and we barely talked but had some small talk. Earlier I texted him casually but he hasn't replied. He seemed in to me when we got together ... (109 words)

My wife admitted she cheated on me when we were engaged!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, my wife of 6 years just confessed to me that she cheated on me while we where engaged, she said it was a one time mistake and has being faithfull since then. Am hurt and am thinking of divorce. How can i trust her again?... (46 words)

Is he scared or uninterested??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a gorgeous guy on Friday night and we got chatting. I found that we had so much in common and after a few hours, he kissed me and it was wonderful. We found out that we both play music, speak French, love animals, love travelling etc etc. - the list was endless. At 2am, ... (729 words)

My friend "loves" a guy that likes me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so one of my friends has a huge crush on a guy that likes me. She's not my best friend or anything like that, just a friend. She (lets call her H) has liked this guy, L, since the beginning of the year. She talks about him all the time and how cute and nice he is. He likes ... (222 words)

Ex and I would have been together 4 years. should I acknowledge it to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my name is julissa, me and my ex boyfriend recently broke up about a 1mth agao. Today (04-21-2011) would've been our 4yr anniversary. I dnt know if its a good idea for me to call or text him? or what to say? I wanted to write him something nice to let him know I am thinking ... (74 words)

Girlfriend's family finds ways to keep us from seeing one another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing lelationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does something no matter how small they... (234 words)

Should I give an ex gf gifts from my parents from Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. The situation is that I dated a girl from Oct to just after valentines day. I've gotten over the anger, humiliation, and frustration of that. I was a wreck but I did not show any of that insecurity. I did contact her once, then ran into her once on St. Patty's Day. It was ... (225 words)

I keep having dreams about dating this guy but in reality I don't like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently I've been having really strange dreams and I'm not sure what they mean. Over the last two weeks I've had about 3 or 4 similar dreams all about this guy I know. In all if them im on a date with this guy, nothing physical ever happens an it only ever goes as far as ... (184 words)

Girlfriend asks me out to lunch but expects ME to pay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have problem. My gf of 18 months, pregnant for 8 months now and we work 2geta she said we have 2 go 4 just lunch on this cuming monday if i m off . Thats excite me very much i said and then she said u will pay and i told her i wont cause i dont have money, by the way its her ... (89 words)

I try to keep my mind off of my ex but nothing is working

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my ex broke up around 7 months ago, he moved on fast and got a girlfriend. he's recently started talking to me which i dont mind as i like talking to him, however i still love him and talking to him isnt helping me get over him. i go out with my girl friends so much to ... (82 words)

Do I tell her the truth about I wear contact lens now or not now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi can you help plz, i really like this girl but i never told her i wear contact lens, do i keep it quite for now or tell her when i see her. shes kind of already mad with me when i told her i liked her and she had a slight disagreement over text about that later. this is ... (109 words)

My mom doesn't like the guy I'm dating so we are hiding it from her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my dad died last january and now its only me and my mom, and now we are having arguments and fight because she wants me to stop my relationship with one guy because we have different race, religion. ive known this guy for 4 months only, and dated for couple of times, but we ... (127 words)

I can't make friends! My abroad teaching experience has been a failure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm from USA originally, but I'm living abroad right now, and I have become extremely depressed about something. I feel that I can't go to my parents because it would torture them... they're far away and can't be with me to comfort me. I'm beginning to think that ... (971 words)

Why would she want to friend me if she hates me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So hey all, I was involved in a almost threesome with two older women which were my friends I do say attempted because they were both intoxicated on alcohol and I'm a gentleman and won't have sex with a woman in that state But I did make out with one and fingered her, T... (239 words)

Husband spending honeymoon with his family. I feel selfish but want some time with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice!! I got married at the weekend. My husband hasn't seen his family in over a year (they live abroad) and they are only in the UK for 2 weeks. So I said that I didn't mind if we didnt have a honeymoon so he could spend time with his family as he probably w... (135 words)

Need help trusting my girlfriend....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my girlfriend that i have been dating for about 7 months are having trust problems. It all started about 3 months into our relationship everything was great up till then we had never had a fight or argument in the world. she is the very nice girl who never ever wanted ... (769 words)

I don't know how to help him be the person I know he wishes he could be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend who i grew up with has had so many problems that effect his daily life, the main being when he was younger he had to have ear ventilation tubes and this has effected his speech a lot. He has a stutter and takes a while to get his words out, which has really ... (309 words)

His ex knows things about me only my boyfriend knows, is he still seeing her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Recently I've been gone through a lot of dumb stuff with my boyfriend.. we broke up 3 times already but next day we just get together 'cause there is something in the relationship that just keeps us together.. But recently his ex(they was together around December) ha... (185 words)

Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i have rumors that this hottie vwith the body likes me all his best friends saying that he does. I really like him, but he's a total player. We barely talk and yeah. Is their a chance ? Apparently he has a thing with this girl, but his friends are telling me ... (64 words)

Should I tell him he still has to wait for one more year? Or should I just cut all communications to him just like what my friends want me to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy, about 4 months ago at this university and I actually like him. We hang up for a day but sadly that day has to end. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. and I have to leave the city, I have to get back home. like him. But we didn't lose communication and ... (480 words)

Should I call him and ask him to be my long-distance boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on this guy named zach but my friend likes him too. She is always talking about how they do the same things, which they don't! But he moved to new York but I have his phone number and Facebook but my friend has his phone number too. No offence to her but she is a ... (126 words)

Do I explain the past misunderstanding and see what he says, or what else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted before about a situation with a guy who was my professor. He initiated a flirtation with me and seemed interested but I think I accidentally insulted him and he thought I was blowing him off but I wasn't. When I was in his class again it sort of seemed like he was ... (253 words)

I have a crush on her, what should I do?

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - New semester just started, and I’m crushing on a girl. Even though we’re in the same class, we’ve not talked to each other yet and I’m quite shy to talk to her. I think she likes me too because when she looks at and when I notice she's looking, she quickly looks somewhere else ... (102 words)

I've been having hot dreams about my ex! How can I deal with the guilt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so i've not been on here in ages but im in SERIOUS need of some advice! So ive been with my boyfriend now for over a year (lets call him J), though we've been on and off for over 3 years. Lately though, things have been kind of rocky and we've been arguing a lot. He keeps... (161 words)

Should I contact her to see how she is doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, I have written a goodbye letter to a girl whom I love due to various reasons. Btw here is the letter:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-written-a-goodbye-letter-to-a.html I saw her she was really upset because of that and I was heartbroken due to I love her. ... (81 words)

Is it wrong to like another guy while you have a bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf and I started dating a few days ago.....I've dated him 2 other times this school year, and he knows I like someone else too, but is that wrong?... (30 words)

Boyfriend was on a dating site and he wanted to meet "me"!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I receently had a tip off that my boyfriend has a profile on a dating site. The profile had pictures on it taken a few months ago and we've been together for nearly a year. I pretended to be someone else and got in contact. He replied and agreeed to meet up sometime. I ... (114 words)

My family are prejudiced towards Chinese people and China in general, but I am marrying a Chinese girl! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've being thinking A LOT about this over the last few months, and it is a painful one. I am from Europe, but living in China, Beijing, and have had a girl friend here for 3 years now. I do plan to stay here and do business here, and it is also time to start thinking of m... (532 words)

What did this message mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My new Bf and I started dating a few days ago and then I got this message from him over facebook: (slightly edited so names aren't shown) "hey babe, you know the same day that you asked me out that my best friend did the same but after we started and idk what to do, and the r... (102 words)

I want this creep to stop lurking around my social circle... What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Last week my boyfriend was at a party with his friends. At this party for some reason was a 29 year old man. This was a party hosted for teenagers by teenagers. This man had added a few of my friends on Facebook and he seemed to only interact with the males. He would comment on ... (358 words)

Do girls really enjoy one night stands as much as men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age - One of the answers to a question I asked has prompted me to ask another question: Do girls really enjoy one night stands as much as men? If that is the case, what advise would you give men (ie most, no doubt) who are also in the same frame of mind? ie dress, personalit... (90 words)

Does water make for a good lubricant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I heard before that if you're a female and your trying to play with yourself in the shower that water would not make a good lubricant, Question is..is that true and why not i would think it would??... (38 words)

Do fertility tests bought online actually work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone Does anyone know if these fertility test kits that you can buy online work? I know the dna tests work but do the fertility ones do the job My man wants to know if he is fertile but wont go see a doctor Thanks ppl... (51 words)

How can I make my hair thicker again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear agony aunts...... i really badly need your help....i am loosing my hair drastically.... my hair use to br really thick before....but its being months now that it went so badly... if it goes like this i feel im surely gonna be bald soon ... im crying for my hair.... and ... (117 words)

I thought my life was finally settled, now it feels like it never will be...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles, I really need some advice, my life is in turmoil right now!!!!! Yet again. I'm 32 and have always had bad luck with men, homes and jobs. I could have just become one of those benefit ladies and got council house which in hindsight I wished I'd done. ... (310 words)

How can I be more comfortable talking to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age - I have always been uncomfortable when talking to the opposite sex, especially when I am attracted to them. Once I get to know them better and have talked a few times, i become way more relaxed. This often makes me hestitant to start a conversation with any woman (esp... (95 words)

We cant agree on when to have a baby.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm nearly 26 and my partner is 28. I have a 9 year old daughter from a previous relationship but she rarely sees her dad so it's my partner who helps her with homework, takes her on days out and comforts her when she's unwell etc. He's such a lovely guy and I know he's going ... (480 words)

I'm afraid our relationship will fall apart one day! What can I do to prevent this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

I cant stand my girlfriend's friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i really cannot stand my girlfriends friends. and it's not because they gossip or stir up drama, etc. it's because they're all extremely unfaithful and really genuinely not good people. and what i've learned through my experiences in life is that your friends generally depict ... (199 words)

I don't think I can do long distance, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and a half will be going away for the summer, and be living thousands of miles away for a summer job. I told him last summer that if he did that, I wouldn't be able to uphold a long distance relationship, and i got upset about it often. Well, he still... (171 words)

No money, no sex....can we survive on just love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age - My partner (50) and I have been together for 2 years now and he relocated to my town and moved in a year ago. We started a business not long after we met and as I have a good paying job it was assumed he would work in the business which I funded and paid him a wage of $25,000 ... (478 words)

I am scared to start a life with my BF, because he doesn't have that financial security which I need. Am I being too picky and analytical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half. He's an amazing person and I love him, he's my best friend. We don't live together and for a while now he's been asking me when we're going to move in together. We've talked about our future and I kno... (361 words)

I know he likes me, I just don't understand whats going on.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, well this is kind of long, first of all, I feel ashamed to be this confused because i am 27 years old and should not be feeling like this. truth is up until a year a go, i was doing very good when it came to men. my two most relationships, was one for 3 years, where we ... (798 words)

Should I be worried about these dreams and the subsequent pains?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

21 April 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I'm always dreaming as if i'm eating, when i wake up my chest hurts and i feel the pain goin down to my lower stomach. Wat's really happening to me? Should i be worried?... (36 words)

I hate to end a relationship over texting but I dont' know what to do anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a really random question, but I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years now, and I'm not a big cell phone person. I believe that when you're in the company of other people, be it friends or especially your significant other, the phone should be put away out of ... (262 words)

Should we go through with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have an excellent relationship and are very open with each other. We are both 19 and have been together since we were 15. We were talking a few weeks ago and she told me that the idea of letting guys lose their virginity to her has always turned her on a ... (148 words)

I'm not happy in this relationship, and it's getting worse and worse every day.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm not getting what i need out of the relationship i'm in. i feel like i'm putting in full time effort, and only receiving part time at best in return. my girlfriend works hard and long hours, and has a son from a previous relationship to worry about, and i understand it's ... (608 words)

When it comes to intimacy, I'm turned off by my BF who weighs over 300 pounds!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is over 300 pounds. I don't love him any less because of his weight (I am also 130 pounds), but when it comes to intimacy I am turned off. I feel terrible to think this way but I can't help it. He is trying to lose weight but I am afraid he isn't making progress. ... (58 words)

Is my BF a racist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I have a issue with my man, he is half Hispanic and half white He is great and funny and sweet but there's this problem A few days ago.. He told me this racist joke Like what 3 things scares a black man away and then he said a education, a job application and ... (126 words)

Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I had oral sex for the first time and we both really enjoyed it, but my question is if is normal for me fo feel discomfort and little pain everytime I pee on the clitoris part??? Like I said when we were having sex iit didn't hurt or anything but afterwards and today ... (65 words)

I'm 43, he is 23......can it work?

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 43 and started seeing someone who was 23. When i met him he was sharing a house with 2 other guys and was basically "single." To be honest, I didnt really care if or who he was dating, because I never intended to get involved with him. We started out having sex here and ... (230 words)

She doesn't want to have sex unless we're married, and I don't want to get married unless I know the sex will be good!

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about a year. She's in her early 30s, and she was married for about 4 years when she was in her early 20s. She had quite a few boyfriends between her divorce and when we started seeing each other. She told me she loved having sex with all of ... (843 words)

What can I do to keep my Bf? His parents want him to marry a richer higher status girl than me,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all I have being going out with my bf for 5 years now.His parents were quite happy with our relationship and gave permission to continue it how about two years back his parents changed all of a sudden.. turned out to be rude and asked my bf stop this affair for good Th... (195 words)

Was I too "innocent" for him?

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to the club the other night with some friends and got pretty drunk and started dancing with this guy I thought was extremely attractive. I ended up going back to his place. I am a virgin and 21 years old, by the way, and did NOT have sex with him because I am not... (336 words)

Boyfriend says he has fallen out of love with me

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello my boyfreind of six and a half years told me that he has fallen out of love with me a bit cause of the way i am but we had sex and he said he is back in love with me if i change will we be ok please help important ... (52 words)

What is the mind of a woman like?

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - if a woman suggests sexual activity to most any man, he's willing, probably eager, and more than likely thrilled. If most any man suggests the same to a woman, she'll say no, probably be offended, and very likely will decide that he's a shallow jerk, regardless of whatever ... (232 words)

Marry former porn actress?

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - There is an organisation for former porn actresses called Pink Cross. These women now won´t have sex any more before married. The question is: Would you have married a former porn actress if you knew she had quit porn and now take distance from this industry and tries to help ... (73 words)

Should I go back to my ex, despite my friend's opinions?

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, so I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and we were really in love but there were just reasons that it couldn't continue. I have been hanging out with my other ex a lot lately, almost every day. He has told me that he really likes me again. I am starting to like him too ... (112 words)

Seeing photo of my ex with a new girl really hurt me!

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I splited up with my ex 6 months ago now he live far away from here But I still miss him in everyday seem like I still love him and last night was so hurt that I saw his photo with someone else on facebook ( we broke up because he need to moved to somewhere for work) So I used ... (96 words)

Why is my boyfriend suggesting all these sex improvement operations for me?

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with boyfriend for 10 years, have always been there for him in every way. I take care of myself financially, stay fit, work out four days a week, dress sexy, do what I can to keep things exciting. The other night he brought up me having a labiaplasty? and even mentioned ... (95 words)

How much is too much when it comes to honesty?

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Currently i'm in a relationship for 4 months with this girl i met...the thing is when she asked about my past, i only told her that i broke up with a girl once before about 2 yrs back..i never told her that a year after that i got rejected by another girl, or... (162 words)

Does this boy like me or not? Is he just being friendly? What does his behavior mean?

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so I want to know if this guy likes me. This might get kind of long, but I really have to know. So I will call the guy "Bob" I will call another girl who also has a crush on Bob "Sandra" Part 1: Okay so I always thought that Bob was hot. We sit next to each ot... (601 words)

Should texting really be an issue in our relationship?

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a question, but I dont know if I am being silly or if I genuinely do have a point. Ive been going out with my bf now for almost 10 months and I really do love him and he tells me all the time when he sees me and he is ever so sweet and is completely honest too. Bu... (451 words)

How to handle the question about previous relationships?

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i was on a date a few days ago, and the conversation was going well untill the girl asked me when my last relationship was. im a 26 year old guy, and i was honest i said that i had never had a girlfriend before. she seemed horrified by this and asked why, and the ... (178 words)

Husband has erectile dysfunction, wont see a doctor, we have sex once a month and I'm not satisfied. I know its wrong, but I think about having an affair...

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 35 my husband in 52 he has Ed so we only have sex once a month. I masturbate often so he calls me a pervert i have tried to make him understand once a month is not enough. He won't go see a doctor and thinks I should be happy with things the way they are I talk to him about ... (92 words)

I just don't know how to move on from a relationship with a married woman that was all lust (for her).

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I just don't know how to move on from a relationship with a married woman that was all lust (for her). Before I carry on I know I was in the wrong but I will not make excuses for why I did it, but I had a relationship with a married woman who at the time had a baby and n... (536 words)

How should I handle confused/confusing bi guy

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So theres this guy I know because his girlfriend goes to my school and he hangs out there waiting for her so we've talked more than a few times then. He later told me he's bi and a little confused, and tn he texted me. Idk what to make of this, because I mean, I dont know wha... (168 words)

LDR girlfriend had sex with 2 other guys and I just don't know how I can deal with it

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, me and my girl have been going out for 11 months now. We are in a long-distance relationship (6 hours) we care for and respect each other greatly. And we both love each other, and how we manage to bring out the best in each other. We rarely get to see each other. Last ... (421 words)

How do I talk to my unresponsive gay online friend ?

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So this guy I 'used to' like is giving me some doubts, making me nervous. So we "met" online, we go to school together and I found him, and now we're friends on facebook. Anyways, I guessed he was gay, hit the nail on the head, he's openly gay, like me. Anyway I decided since ... (166 words)

Will this poem help me get my wife back ?

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21 April 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I wrote a poem for my wife ... is it too much? Will this poem help me get my wife back? She said she does not want space but to talk My Love, My Heart The woman who defines me The person who most inspires me The lady who completed me I did you wrong My Beauty, My Dreams You... (249 words)

I love my cousin but don't know what to say to him

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with my cousin and we've been bffs since we could talk. When I was 7 I developed feelings for him which grew stronger. For the past 4 years we've been flirting with eachother almost constantly. I'm in love with him now and really need to tell him but can somebody ... (69 words)

I get so very jealous even if he is just talking to this girl who is just his friend. How do I contain my jealousy?

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21 April 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so i have this problem. my problem is the one and only jealousy. i cant control it! i trust my boyfriend with my life, but its the other girls i dont trust. we have had a problem once before concerning another girl who was supposed to be my best friend, but after that incident... (237 words)