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My husband isolates me and treats me poorly. What can I do?

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Question - (6 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2011)
A female Kenya age 51-59, *uddie writes:

My husband does not want me to work. He wants me to stay in the house. He does not want me to have any friends. He does not even want me to have any money.

When i complain of something or when a problem arises he blames all on me. He tries all he can to make himself right. He never listens to me, my ideas or suggestions. He wants to control me completely. He does not care if i am happy or not.

All he cares is himself. After buying food and paying school fees for our kids, he has done his duties as a husband and as a father. There is more, but with this please help me. What can i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

Nothing about what you have written indicates any desire on your part to stay with this man. Seek legal counsel over the phone or over the internet if you can't leave the house to look at your legal options for serpatation. You deserve to have a life that is lived for you and your children rather than just your husband.

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