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anonymous
writes:Well here it goes ... I have been seeing this man for 4 years .. We never talked about our relationship other than 95% non verbal negotiations and 5 % verbal negotiations. he has been honest so far even though he screws up almost but never hides anything ...vice versa ... Well recently last year I had his keys for his home, driven his car, ran his errands, and the sex has gotten more intimate even the way we kiss seems different inside or i can't explain. anyhow I have Grown feelings and I kept quiet because I was unsure and kept asking myself to rule out the impossible until I had no choice but to love myself enough to overcome to let go of him because I do care but it's weird how the world is " you always want what you can't have" so I had to rely on my own convictions boy is it hard ! My questions is, is it true if you set them free and they come back it was meant to be? Or what? I don't have a prayer or hope for him but only my confidence and faith in myself will capture his heart. Is this correct? Thank you all for your time to give me your opinions I would really appreciate as much input thank you all
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really appreciate your opinions Thank you In fact I took control over the situation and backed off 3 months ago when I wrote the question. It's been hell , but in a way I feel relieved and in control with my outcome, he has been calling, texting looking for any excuse he can to talk he even calls me at random time to see what am up to I told him he should not tease me and respect my values, morals, principles, and if he wanted another chance he would have to live uP to my standards and start by having courtesy for me Well it worked but I told him I am not convinced yet he always makes me laugh . In the phone calls keeps telling me I am special and gets all into it by bring up my past relationships. When I want to end the conversations he keeps talking ! Am so confused and frustrated Is he sending me mixed messages ? I told him I could not see him until I think I feel comfortable with him again he insists to offer me his snuggling even to the point he calls at random times of the night Like 3:30 am . Wow It seems he now is getting his act together now that I am unobtainable to him. What would you guys opinion on this update i would appreciate all of your help please and thank you I am so desperate to make a crucial decision.
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